Misconception About Nri's

[drjatin]

Ram Ram Jat Bhaio,

I am living in New Zealand for last 7 months and whenever i am calling to my friends in India they will ask "Bhai kitni angrz chori dost ban gayi". When i call my parents or some elderly person he will always advice "Bhai kissi chori ke chakkar mein mat pard jaio"

Now as all other people living in western countries know that here also the environment is no different from india. People in India think that all the girls in europe are waiting for The Indians to befriend and they are crazy about them and they will rape every indian coming there. THe situation is entirely different. It depends on the Individual and not the country or the culture. There are people here who have never touched alcohol and non veg food forget about anything else. A person who has no moral values will do all morally incorrect things if he is in Nigeria or Afganistan while a true jat who has got the basic qualities of a jat namely
HONESTY, LOYALITY,TRUETH AND SELF RESPECT will never change even if he is put in Las Vegas.
There are two types of rocks by the sea
1. First who are made up of saline and loose their identity with every Tide.
2. The second ones are made up of steel and they retain their identity.

CERTAINLY A TRUE JAT IS MADE UP OF STEEL

[sukhda]

I appreciate every single word written here.........well said!!!!!

Ram Ram Jat Bhaio,

I am living in New Zealand for last 7 months and whenever i am calling to my friends in India they will ask "Bhai kitni angrz chori dost ban gayi". When i call my parents or some elderly person he will always advice "Bhai kissi chori ke chakkar mein mat pard jaio"

Now as all other people living in western countries know that here also the environment is no different from india. People in India think that all the girls in europe are waiting for The Indians to befriend and they are crazy about them and they will rape every indian coming there. THe situation is entirely different. It depends on the Individual and not the country or the culture. There are people here who have never touched alcohol and non veg food forget about anything else. A person who has no moral values will do all morally incorrect things if he is in Nigeria or Afganistan while a true jat who has got the basic qualities of a jat namely
HONESTY, LOYALITY,TRUETH AND SELF RESPECT will never change even if he is put in Las Vegas.
There are two types of rocks by the sea
1. First who are made up of saline and loose their identity with every Tide.
2. The second ones are made up of steel and they retain their identity.

CERTAINLY A TRUE JAT IS MADE UP OF STEEL

[cooljat]

bhai Jatin, aapne 24k khari baat kahi Jats ke baare mein no doubt about that as A Jat is A Jat is A Jat :) :) :)
Jat will always be Jat chaahe use america ka president bana do, he'll stay pure n desi like GHEE :)

btw, what do u do in NZ n where...u know NZ is my all time fav country n so planning to migrate over there :)

tell us more about u

rock on
Jit

[dahiyarules]

Very good points Jatin. Even my maa is like that. Let me be honest. I never got lucky here. ;) And I know I am far from luck. But I know a few who got lucky quite a few times. hehehe

[rkumar]

Very good points Jatin. Even my maa is like that. Let me be honest. I never got lucky here. ;) And I know I am far from luck. But I know a few who got lucky quite a few times. hehehe

hahahhaaa.... looks like, we will have to start a thread on Jatland to help guys like you Sumit...hehehehee...

RK^2

[nikitadhaiya]

well i do agree with wat jatin says people do have misconceptions abt NRIs. had we been at there place ...may be we would have also thought in tht manner. but yes its not abt jats or any particular community..wat matters is ur ethics..values passed on to u by ur family..ur own morals...tht make u where ever u r.
one has to be strong enough and confident ..wat ever the circumstances r

[sanjay22dahiya]

The second ones are made up of steel and they retain their identity.

CERTAINLY A TRUE JAT IS MADE UP OF STEEL


very well said jatin!!!!

[rkumar]

I am still not clear about jats being made of steel or salty rocks. If I understood correctly, do you all consider Jats marrying white girls as salty rocks and those marrying Jat girls as Steel rocks?

RK^2

[dahiyarules]

RK Sir !

I simply suck at this department. This is evident from the fact that all my friends are single. None ever had a girlfrined. We all are very intellectually active. We are just good at everything that make women run away from us. hehehe..

I have full faith in my maa. I have entrusted her with this department. So nothing to worry.


hahahhaaa.... looks like, we will have to start a thread on Jatland to help guys like you Sumit...hehehehee...

RK^2

[positivelook]

Morality Depends on individual to individual so we cant say only Jats in this section. There are few Jats who are doin worse things in here but can we say tht they are not jats. Wht Jatin has said is true and There are two kind of stones.
Rk Uncle there are some jats here in Aust. who have gori gfs and some are married to goris but i think these guys are still jat(we cant say them salty).

Abhimanyu phougat

[betaal]

angoor khatee haeen for older and jealous jats who are ordinary looking.
I have seen that many older jats including women are specially jealous of young jats who are handsome. These older jats are unable to get women because they are short/ugly/ordinary looking/yes seen even married looking for sex/bald/just jerks. Some jat women who are ugly to the core will try to manipulate a handsome young jat so as to sabotage him. Shame on them. They know who they are.
It is not only jats but in general these negative hostile feelings is a hallmark of foreigners - indians, pakistanis, arabs, orientals.
Jawano jo tumse tumara hak chineee, tumare liye khai khodeee useee confront karo chayee woh umar mein bada ho, barabaar ho, chotta ho, chayee woh auratjaat ho. Chaye e woh koi bhi hoo. :D

[deepshi]

angoor khatee haeen for older and jealous jats who are ordinary looking.
I have seen that many older jats including women are specially jealous of young jats who are handsome. These older jats are unable to get women because they are short/ugly/ordinary looking/yes seen even married looking for sex/bald/just jerks. Some jat women who are ugly to the core will try to manipulate a handsome young jat so as to sabotage him. Shame on them. They know who they are.
It is not only jats but in general these negative hostile feelings is a hallmark of foreigners - indians, pakistanis, arabs, orientals.
Jawano jo tumse tumara hak chineee, tumare liye khai khodeee useee confront karo chayee woh umar mein bada ho, barabaar ho, chotta ho, chayee woh auratjaat ho. Chaye e woh koi bhi hoo. :D
o....my gawd!! soo much of negativity,u r a bharotta of anions!!n whom r u chargin at?? do looks only matter? ur post is shriekin wid plasticity n comlacency:rolleyes:
there had been Lots n lots of examples gals maryyin intellectual n bright men, irrespective of their ages or looks...n vice versa
aint it quite bizarre- a guy bein so damn concerned by d outward appearances!! n no 1 is ugly in dis world... evrything beautiful-its ur sense of perception!
N Y D HELL IS ANY1 GONNA B JEALOUS OF SUM1, DAT TOO- JATS. THEY R TOO BUSY IN THEIR OWN WORLD FULL OF CHEERFULNESS, CONCERN, LAUGHTER,GENEROSITY N HARD WORK

[dahiyarules]

You know something Deepshikha? I wont comment on most of your points. But I would love to dispute that looks dont matter.

I will use my own example.

When I was a big bloat, I never had any women interested in me. Now that I have lost all the "charbee" and am worknig out, I get a few women walk upto me. But when the ball comes to my court, meri bolti bandh ho jaati hai aur main paani paani ho jaaa hun. I am just too bad with all this dating b/s.

I have asked nearly all my "women" friends. And they have all said the same thing. You have to be decent looking and presentable to friends and family. Girls have this big ego problem. They want their guy to be better looking and more well to do than any of their other friend's guy.

I am just being honest. Looks do matter.

As for Bhairav. I agree with him to some extent. I am sure that men from older generations had a high testosterone in their "glory days. They must have tried their luck once in a while, too. I completely reject the notion that men from last generation were "model moralists." My mother tells me of the buys who tried to hook up with girls, on their way back from college.

Courting women is as old as man himself.

[deepshi]

yeah, bt i NEVER mentioned dat luks dont matter.. they do,, bt shud never b a criteria of judgin ppl.
n wot about SALMAN RUSHDIE n d gorgeous PADMALAKSHMI, to list jst a single example.
wotever.... different people, different opinionsYou know something Deepshikha? I wont comment on most of your points. But I would love to dispute that looks dont matter.

I will use my own example.

When I was a big bloat, I never had any women interested in me. Now that I have lost all the "charbee" and am worknig out, I get a few women walk upto me. But when the ball comes to my court, meri bolti bandh ho jaati hai aur main paani paani ho jaaa hun. I am just too bad with all this dating b/s.

I have asked nearly all my "women" friends. And they have all said the same thing. You have to be decent looking and presentable to friends and family. Girls have this big ego problem. They want their guy to be better looking and more well to do than any of their other friend's guy.

I am just being honest. Looks do matter.

As for Bhairav. I agree with him to some extent. I am sure that men from older generations had a high testosterone in their "glory days. They must have tried their luck once in a while, too. I completely reject the notion that men from last generation were "model moralists." My mother tells me of the buys who tried to hook up with girls, on their way back from college.

Courting women is as old as man himself.

[dahiyarules]

Damn ! you must become a lawyer. its unfair to keep both ends of the argument open for your personal exploitation.

Anyways! Salman Rushdie is Salman Rushdie. Thats why he has Padmalakshmi to be his wife. You think she would have married him if he was Mr Baldy Notebookwala from nowhere.

Looks mater the most. Everything comes after that. Atleast for everyday common people like me and probably most jatlanders.


yeah, bt i NEVER mentioned dat luks dont matter.. they do,, bt shud never b a criteria of judgin ppl.
n wot about SALMAN RUSHDIE n d gorgeous PADMALAKSHMI, to list jst a single example.
wotever.... different people, different opinions

[rkumar]

yeah, bt i NEVER mentioned dat luks dont matter.. they do,, bt shud never b a criteria of judgin ppl.
n wot about SALMAN RUSHDIE n d gorgeous PADMALAKSHMI, to list jst a single example.
wotever.... different people, different opinions

Correct. There are 100s of such cases like Dalip Kumar-Saira Banu, Jailalitha, MG Rama Chandran... ..

RK^2

[rkumar]

angoor khatee haeen for older and jealous jats who are ordinary looking.
I have seen that many older jats including women are specially jealous of young jats who are handsome. These older jats are unable to get women ...............

Arrey Bhai generalise mat karo....Yahan bade bade khalifa baithe hain...

RK^2

[rkumar]

.......
Looks mater the most. Everything comes after that. Atleast for everyday common people like me and probably most jatlanders.

Bill of $ 100 remain $ 100 my friend, old or new...LOL...

RK^2

[arunshamli]

if one has talent then looks and other things do not matter....

but for normal people it does.....

let me give one real example....this was told by my younger brother...
12we kee class me ek din teacher bhasan den lag raha thaa... ke sab ko achche kapde pahanne chahiye...it improves your personality....one should comb the hair and dress properly....isse confidence badhta hai.......

toh yu khada ho ke bolaya...master ji what do you say about the personality of Mahatma Gandhi..na kapde pahanta thaa....and sar pe bal bhee nahi the....dekhne me bhee sundar nahi thaa.....teacher ne dhamka ke baitha diya....

but the truth is....for a personality like Gandhi nothing else matters...because he was Gandhi....

but for majority, looks matters a lot....

[betaal]

yeah, bt i NEVER mentioned dat luks dont matter.. they do,, bt shud never b a criteria of judgin ppl.
n wot about SALMAN RUSHDIE n d gorgeous PADMALAKSHMI, to list jst a single example.
wotever.... different people, different opinions
Padmalakshmi is ugly. If that is your standard for beauty then.....it is pretty low or nonexistent.

[betaal]

o....my gawd!! soo much of negativity,u r a bharotta of anions!!n whom r u chargin at?? do looks only matter? ur post is shriekin wid plasticity n comlacency:rolleyes:
there had been Lots n lots of examples gals maryyin intellectual n bright men, irrespective of their ages or looks...n vice versa
aint it quite bizarre- a guy bein so damn concerned by d outward appearances!! n no 1 is ugly in dis world... evrything beautiful-its ur sense of perception!
N Y D HELL IS ANY1 GONNA B JEALOUS OF SUM1, DAT TOO- JATS. THEY R TOO BUSY IN THEIR OWN WORLD FULL OF CHEERFULNESS, CONCERN, LAUGHTER,GENEROSITY N HARD WORK
Truth hurts. Ugly people are ugly..when you tell them they are ugly they cover it up with psychological/philosophical mumojumbo. There is no perception...Most girls are gold diggers.

[betaal]

if one has talent then looks and other things do not matter....

but for normal people it does.....

let me give one real example....this was told by my younger brother...
12we kee class me ek din teacher bhasan den lag raha thaa... ke sab ko achche kapde pahanne chahiye...it improves your personality....one should comb the hair and dress properly....isse confidence badhta hai.......

toh yu khada ho ke bolaya...master ji what do you say about the personality of Mahatma Gandhi..na kapde pahanta thaa....and sar pe bal bhee nahi the....dekhne me bhee sundar nahi thaa.....teacher ne dhamka ke baitha diya....

but the truth is....for a personality like Gandhi nothing else matters...because he was Gandhi....

but for majority, looks matters a lot....
Angoor khatee hain.
Everyone has some talent. Those who say looks don't matter don't have it.

[drjatin]

Ram Ram Jat Bhaio,

In India if you are from a middle class family you have only two options
1. Either remain in your home enjoy make lot of girlfriends during your teenage years spend your fathers money .
Then tell me what is the difference between you and an Animal. The Animal also sleeps ,Eats, have sex and dies who remembers them.
Well the most Important thing in your life in my opinion is that one should be able to control his sensations till appropriate time and enjoy life full at appropriate time.

That is what a true Jat is Made up of. He Fights till he gets his aim and relaxes only after achievivg his Goal

[fool4love]

Ram Ram Jat Bhaio,

In India if you are from a middle class family you have only two options
1. Either remain in your home enjoy make lot of girlfriends during your teenage years spend your fathers money .
Then tell me what is the difference between you and an Animal. The Animal also sleeps ,Eats, have sex and dies who remembers them.
Well the most Important thing in your life in my opinion is that one should be able to control his sensations till appropriate time and enjoy life full at appropriate time.

That is what a true Jat is Made up of. He Fights till he gets his aim and relaxes only after achievivg his Goal
bhai Jatin.. aapki last line padh ke to laga.. kahin angrezz Bhaarat mai fir se to nahi aa gaye!!(n.. we r preparing for another freedom fyt) :D
take it easy yaar... no doubt jatland.com jaat bhaio ko close laane ke liye banai hai... but aisa bhi close nahi.. ki baaki communities se door ho jaye!!
i understand that ur a proud jaat.. but so is everyone else here on this site!!
arr yaar.. jisnai angoor khaate konya laagde.. vo angoor khaa loo.. jisnai laage sain.. vo papita khaa loo!
ikai jindagi saii.. kukre ji lo... chee tai multiple choice bana lo...ar che true/false!! baas un nai na bhooliyo.. jin nai thaam is dharti pe aavan diye so!!

[downtoearth]

[quote=drjatin]Ram Ram Jat Bhaio,

I am living in New Zealand for last 7 months and whenever i am calling to my friends in India they will ask "Bhai kitni angrz chori dost ban gayi". When i call my parents or some elderly person he will always advice "Bhai kissi chori ke chakkar mein mat pard jaio"

ram ram bhai jatin,, bhai yu kaam to agar tu ambala se delhi ya kahin south mein rehan jata to bhi honna thaa,,,terey ambala key friends pherr bhi puchdey "bhai kitni ak dost bangi urrey" aur parents bhi advice detey "bhai fallaney ka chorra d.u mein karwaya thaa ,,waarey ek north eastern chorri ke chakkar mein pard key nass kar liya ,, ibbey padhai puri kar le en kamaan khatter puri jindgi padi sey etc,,etc,,
bhai saab jatin,,,issmey n.r.i honney ka koi ghana laamba chorda pharak na sey....
dude ,,first of all ,thats the duty of our parents to guide us the best way.,,they care for us n they r concerned about
. they`ll do their duty whether ur goin abroad or out of state or distt.
secondly.... they remember their own time that they were also asked to do the same ,when they were coming out of their places for higher studies...dude,,u`ll b a child for ur parents even when ur 45......too bhai merey ya baat na sey key tu n.r.i ho gaya to ib terey lath aa gaya......baki its 4.30 morning,, baaki fursaat mein likhuga.... take care

[rkumar]

Padmalakshmi is ugly. If that is your standard for beauty then.....it is pretty low or nonexistent.

Whom will you call beautiful?

1. Hema malini ?
2. Vaijanthi Mala?
3. Shri Devi ?
4. Krishma Kapoor ?

By the way all these most beautiful ladies ended up marrying the guys who were all already married.... and all of them did not have money as consideration for the marriage...

RK^2

[spdeshwal]

Bhai Jatin,

Aapka sawagat karte hue bahoot khushi ho rahi hai, kyonki aapne achhi post se suruwaat ki hai. Aur bhi jyada khushi ki baat ye hai ki aap bhi New Zealand mein hi rahte ho.

Hammare dost, miter, ristedaar jo ye sawal karte hein uske pichhe hai varsho purani dharna. Western countries mein logono ka unmukt vayvahaar hi iss tarah ki soch ko baddawa deta hai. Aur phir jis ko jaise sanskaar mile hein vaisa hi aacharan wo jane anjaane mein karate hein.

Bachpan se jawaani tak jo sanskaar hamaare jeevan par padte hein vo kewal hamaare maata pita se dekh sun kar hi nahi balki hamare pariwaar, ristedaar, samaaj, desh mein vidhmaan riti-riwaj, sanskritik manaytaon aur paramparaon ka kul total hota hai. jo itna jaldi nahi chhoota. Khass kar first generation immigrants. You would agree with me that second or third gneration jats or non jats act and behave in an entirely different manner.

Aapne theek kaha RK Ji, Pyar ke riston mein 'dil ki sundarata' ka sthan sabse upar hai. Ye baat hamare miter Bhairav ki samajh mein nahi aa sakti.

Aap inki har post ko dhyan se padiye. Kitani ghrina, har sabad mein bhari kuntha jhalakti hai. Khas kar jaton ke liye itna tiriskar aur apmaan bhari bhasha, mujhe sochne par majboor karta hai ki kya ye mahshya wakai mai Jat hein.

Bhairav bhai mujhe poora vishwaas hi nahi yakin hai ki aapki ID genuine nahi hai. Pardeep Hooda ke naam se bhi aap hi aate the. Meri aapse ek veenti hai,

kya aap aapna sahi parichay dena chahoge?

Kya aap ek bhi active member, jo india mein rahte hein ka ref. de sakte ho?

Agar aap meri kisi bhi baat se sahmat nahi to kam se kam ek vintee jaroor maan lijiye, ki jaton ke liye hi kyno kisi ke liye bhi ghrinit apmaan janak sabdon ka istemaal naa karne.

Mun ki sundarta ko ubhariye, saayad koi jaatni aapko pasand karle, otherwise koi chance nahi.


cheers!

[downtoearth]

Bill of $ 100 remain $ 100 my friend, old or new...LOL...

RK^2
rk sir yo sey saari battan ka ek illaz..hehe
aur deswal bhai sahi kahi jama....

[antara]

I have just read the thread n wud like to add my opinion to it.

Looks do matter to all of us!
Although, I do agree that it is not the only criteria to get impressed by a person But it certainly is big one.

Infact, I would say if u have looks but no other exceptional qualities u can still manage to make an impression.
Looks are a big advantage in almost all fields.

ppl who don't agree, just answer this who among doesn't give a second glance to a good looking person irrespective of gender.

[betaal]

Whom will you call beautiful?

1. Hema malini ?
2. Vaijanthi Mala?
3. Shri Devi ?
4. Krishma Kapoor ?

By the way all these most beautiful ladies ended up marrying the guys who were all already married.... and all of them did not have money as consideration for the marriage...

RK^2
None. hema malini is short, stocky, dark. lured by dharmendra.
vaiyantimala- has big nose. close examination is needed. dont know.
sri devi got nose surgery and some undisclosed ones. was lured by anil kapoors brother when mother died. he got her money.
krishma kapoor is light skin with randhir kapoor face.:eek: lured by rich man.
This phenomenon is more to good deception skills of the married men.

[shailendra]

Oh man! ... and to think I imagined it was something to do with the NRI's!!! :rolleyes:
Works for me eitherway as long as you are NOT discussing specifically the NRI looks itself!!!;)

Alright people; first off the 'Mr. Baldy Notebook walah' would have very slim chances to come in contact with let's say the high profile Padmalaxmi in the first place! Plus rather than writing off every woman who has married a brainy rich older guy as 'gold-diggers' it is more likely that who and where you marry or hang out actually simply boils down to where and whom you meet or the society you play in at the end of the day!...

Having said that Looks DO matter big times, BUT that only counts as much to the point where you can say one starts off with a slightly good edge in most kinda situations, but then if you can't keep up with the looks in your talks (walk the walk and talk the talk) like within maximum five minutes later.....(I am sorry I don't care if you look like a 'JLo' or 'Brad Pitt') it is all downhill after that!!!

[drjatin]

I have just read the thread n wud like to add my opinion to it.

Looks do matter to all of us!
Although, I do agree that it is not the only criteria to get impressed by a person But it certainly is big one.

Infact, I would say if u have looks but no other exceptional qualities u can still manage to make an impression.
Looks are a big advantage in almost all fields.

ppl who don't agree, just answer this who among doesn't give a second glance to a good looking person irrespective of gender.

ANTARA MALIK JI KI BAAT PE EK SHER HAZIR HAI

HUSNE SURAT CHAND ROZAN, HUSNE SEERAT MUSTAKIL
IS SE KHUSH HOTI HAIN AANKHEN, US SE KHUSH HOTA HAI DIL,
iska saaransh hai ke
Beautiful body provides pleasure to eyes, While beautiful mind provides pleasure deep in heart which is ever lasting

[antara]

ANTARA MALIK JI KI BAAT PE EK SHER HAZIR HAI

HUSNE SURAT CHAND ROZAN, HUSNE SEERAT MUSTAKIL
IS SE KHUSH HOTI HAIN AANKHEN, US SE KHUSH HOTA HAI DIL,
iska saaransh hai ke
Beautiful body provides pleasure to eyes, While beautiful mind provides pleasure deep in heart which is ever lasting


Agreed!

I wud like to add to this that eyes opens a door towards heart atleast.

Reaching it certainly depends on other factors.

[rkumar]

None. hema malini is short, stocky, dark. lured by dharmendra.
vaiyantimala- has big nose. close examination is needed. dont know.
sri devi got nose surgery and some undisclosed ones. was lured by anil kapoors brother when mother died. he got her money.
krishma kapoor is light skin with randhir kapoor face.:eek: lured by rich man.
This phenomenon is more to good deception skills of the married men.

There is nothing left now to say Mr Handsome... If you can call Hema Malini short and dark, better get your eye sight checked...

RK^2

[mukeshkumar007]

There is nothing left now to say Mr Handsome... If you can call Hema Malini short and dark, better get your eye sight checked...

RK^2

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha :D
are baap re mar gaya hans hans ke.. :D ho ho ho ho......

I think this could be the better sumup of this thread....:)

[dahiyarules]

hahaha

Rk Sir! ek dum sahi.

I want to add something to it. Not very long ago, one of my cousins met Hema Malini at Hyderabad airport. And his only raction was, she is prettier in real life. And that too after touching her old age. I was amazed.

There is nothing left now to say Mr Handsome... If you can call Hema Malini short and dark, better get your eye sight checked...

RK^2

[betaal]

There is nothing left now to say Mr Handsome... If you can call Hema Malini short and dark, better get your eye sight checked...

RK^2
ha ha... she is not only that but stocky also(fat). May be you didn't get the opportunity to see her without makeup..ha ha Mister whatever.:D

[rkumar]

ha ha... she is not only that but stocky also(fat). May be you didn't get the opportunity to see her without makeup..ha ha Mister whatever.:D

Only few people can have access to her without make up;

1. Dharmendra
2. Her daughters
3. Her make-up man/ woman

You are certainly not the first two. Are you claiming to be the third one in the list?

RK^2/ Mr Whatever...LOL

[rahulkharb]

Bhairav bhai hema malni nay kuch ni kah dayga... na bhai na .... kuch galat nahi suna jayega.. :D bhai saari choriya mein koi na koi khot to zarur pavega ... kay to compromise karna sheeak lo.. na to rahiyo saari umar randya ki dhal handtay. :p

[nikitadhaiya]

well sorry to say but everybody is deviating frm the original topic....it was to discuss abt misconceptions abt NRI not abt looks, actors, actresses...........
thats a general topic.
one more thing why is such a fuss abt marrying a gori or a gora...if a NRI loves a gori or a gora and is giving a commitment ...getting married...wats wrong in tht .........indians r known for there commitments in relationships. they r not th ones who run away frm promises.
again i dont mean to say tht dont listen to ur parents or dont follw family norms..but yes either dont go for a commitment else keep it.

[deepshi]

wah....... deshwal ji
main nyu sochhu, ak eeb tak kisse k dimaag mai yo vichaar kyukkar naah aaya...
kudos! u deserve 2 b in intelligence beaurau:cool: :cool: :cool:
ye apmaan bhare shabd nahi sahege - nahi sahege
n how d other jats hv been bearing dis crap???????
Bhai Jatin,

Aapka sawagat karte hue bahoot khushi ho rahi hai, kyonki aapne achhi post se suruwaat ki hai. Aur bhi jyada khushi ki baat ye hai ki aap bhi New Zealand mein hi rahte ho.

Hammare dost, miter, ristedaar jo ye sawal karte hein uske pichhe hai varsho purani dharna. Western countries mein logono ka unmukt vayvahaar hi iss tarah ki soch ko baddawa deta hai. Aur phir jis ko jaise sanskaar mile hein vaisa hi aacharan wo jane anjaane mein karate hein.

Bachpan se jawaani tak jo sanskaar hamaare jeevan par padte hein vo kewal hamaare maata pita se dekh sun kar hi nahi balki hamare pariwaar, ristedaar, samaaj, desh mein vidhmaan riti-riwaj, sanskritik manaytaon aur paramparaon ka kul total hota hai. jo itna jaldi nahi chhoota. Khass kar first generation immigrants. You would agree with me that second or third gneration jats or non jats act and behave in an entirely different manner.

Aapne theek kaha RK Ji, Pyar ke riston mein 'dil ki sundarata' ka sthan sabse upar hai. Ye baat hamare miter Bhairav ki samajh mein nahi aa sakti.

Aap inki har post ko dhyan se padiye. Kitani ghrina, har sabad mein bhari kuntha jhalakti hai. Khas kar jaton ke liye itna tiriskar aur apmaan bhari bhasha, mujhe sochne par majboor karta hai ki kya ye mahshya wakai mai Jat hein.

Bhairav bhai mujhe poora vishwaas hi nahi yakin hai ki aapki ID genuine nahi hai. Pardeep Hooda ke naam se bhi aap hi aate the. Meri aapse ek veenti hai,

kya aap aapna sahi parichay dena chahoge?

Kya aap ek bhi active member, jo india mein rahte hein ka ref. de sakte ho?

Agar aap meri kisi bhi baat se sahmat nahi to kam se kam ek vintee jaroor maan lijiye, ki jaton ke liye hi kyno kisi ke liye bhi ghrinit apmaan janak sabdon ka istemaal naa karne.

Mun ki sundarta ko ubhariye, saayad koi jaatni aapko pasand karle, otherwise koi chance nahi.


cheers!

[sumitisharwal]

i think sumit dahiya is still a kid . if he is totally dependent on maa! then he don't have his own mind to apply. how can a man call himself intelligent? then probably he have delusion.
pinks believe that girls look intelligence in man more than look . even i don't agree with this. girls goes behind money behavior look then think about intelligence of men. no girl probably marry a man if he is poor but intelligent. she gave an example for her point but in that case padma wed salman because of his money and status not because of intelligence

[deepshi]

yeah DOC! hehe- delusions.... better prescribe d doses:D
well, seriously speakin, n honestly- according to a big survey, wot gals go after is PROTECTORS n PROVIDERS..
n dis sense of humor,caren concern, gentle attitude is all a crap.it had been during d primitive times, wen men used 2 go hunting n protected d females
- n proven now.
n well, d guys ALWAZ go for luks, rather attractive appearance..n nthin else.[infact successful ladies intimidate them]:D i think sumit dahiya is still a kid . if he is totally dependent on maa! then he don't have his own mind to apply. how can a man call himself intelligent? then probably he have delusion.
pinks believe that girls look intelligence in man more than look . even i don't agree with this. girls goes behind money behavior look then think about intelligence of men. no girl probably marry a man if he is poor but intelligent. she gave an example for her point but in that case padma wed salman because of his money and status not because of intelligence

[downtoearth]

None. hema malini is short, stocky, dark. lured by dharmendra.
vaiyantimala- has big nose. close examination is needed. dont know.
sri devi got nose surgery and some undisclosed ones. was lured by anil kapoors brother when mother died. he got her money.
krishma kapoor is light skin with randhir kapoor face.:eek: lured by rich man.
This phenomenon is more to good deception skills of the married men.
bhai bhairav ,, yu saari roog ki jadd tera 12 inchi black and white t.v se...ismmey to aishwarya bhi tanney lalita pawar bargi dikhegi:D :D ..

isney beach key ,,thodeey aur paissey ralla key {add} koi murphy ka badhiya RADIO leya:D gaaney suthrey sun key apna dimaag fresh kar lya kariyey:D

[devdahiya]

May i know as to how many ladies are successful and perfactly independent in India? For the heck of writing is ok but the fact of the matter is that....majority of women in India are still largly dependent on Men and are uneducated and hence talking liberation of a few without taking the whole group of women along will be a lie,which is obvious to any sensible human being.

[devdahiya]

bhai bhairav ,, yu saari roog ki jadd tera 12 inchi black and white t.v se...ismmey to aishwarya bhi tanney lalita pawar bargi dikhegi:D :D ..

isney beach key ,,thodeey aur paissey ralla key {add} koi murphy ka badhiya RADIO leya:D gaaney suthrey sun key apna dimaag fresh kar lya kariyey:D


Ha...ha..ha..ha..ha. Humor at it's best Rupi.

[downtoearth]

Surgeries, makeups will make lalita pawar look like aishwarya rai.;)[/quote]

:D wot du think dude ? surgeries ,makeups can make Johny lever look like Martin henderson;) :D :D ,, im sending ur mail id to j.lever ,, plz suggest him the name of surgeon:D ;)

arey merey bhai amit,,makeup is just to make a beautiful woman more beautiful ,, not to make an ugly woman beautiful...

bhai agar saag mein ghee ghall rahya hoga to andherey mein bhi dikh je ga:p

[fool4love]

Surgeries, makeups will make lalita pawar look like aishwarya rai.;)

:D wot du think dude ? surgeries ,makeups can make Johny lever look like Martin henderson;) :D ,, im sending ur mail id to j.lever ,, plz suggest him the name of surgeon:D

arey merey bhai amit,,makeup is just to make a beautiful woman more beautiful ,, not to make an ugly woman beautiful...

bhai agar saag mein ghee ghall rahya hoga to andherey mein bhi dikh je ga:p

re rupendera bhai.. ib baass bhi kaar... haas haas ke peet patan nai ho raha see.. chahe to ik goli maar diye.. ar chahe ik or reply kar diye... haam to Raam ne pyaree ho ee javan ge... ha ha hi hi ho ho :D !! post ne to aare ee rehen do.. arr replies nai beshak humor section mai post kar doo... aar rating tahin.. chor doo :D :D !!

[dahiyarules]

Dear Isharwal Sahab!

Here is a list of things I love to do.

1. I love ice cream. Its even better with "melted pecan caramel pie."

2. I love toys. I collect action figures and other little gadgets.

3. I love reading comics.

4. I love riding a bicycle on weekends or whenever I can get time.

5. My favorite channel is cartoon network.

If these innocent pleasures categorize me as a "kid" it really doesnt upset me. Infact these are somethings I will do till I will breathe my rest.

Coming to the main point. I have seen my mother struggle so much to riase me and my brother. The least I can do is that I let her choose the match for me. I can do a lot of things to make myself happy, but I dont know of anything that could make my mother happier.

I consider this maturity on my part. I still dont get the logic that you applied to conclude that I am still a "kid."

i think sumit dahiya is still a kid . if he is totally dependent on maa! then he don't have his own mind to apply. how can a man call himself intelligent? then probably he have delusion.
pinks believe that girls look intelligence in man more than look . even i don't agree with this. girls goes behind money behavior look then think about intelligence of men. no girl probably marry a man if he is poor but intelligent. she gave an example for her point but in that case padma wed salman because of his money and status not because of intelligence

[drjatin]

yeah DOC! hehe- delusions.... better prescribe d doses:D
well, seriously speakin, n honestly- according to a big survey, wot gals go after is PROTECTORS n PROVIDERS..
n dis sense of humor,caren concern, gentle attitude is all a crap.it had been during d primitive times, wen men used 2 go hunting n protected d females
- n proven now.
n well, d guys ALWAZ go for luks, rather attractive appearance..n nthin else.[infact successful ladies intimidate them]:D

Totally Correct

[drjatin]

bhai bhairav ,, yu saari roog ki jadd tera 12 inchi black and white t.v se...ismmey to aishwarya bhi tanney lalita pawar bargi dikhegi:D :D ..

isney beach key ,,thodeey aur paissey ralla key {add} koi murphy ka badhiya RADIO leya:D gaaney suthrey sun key apna dimaag fresh kar lya kariyey:D


Totally correct Sheoranji