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ritu
April 23rd, 2006, 11:41 PM
WHO IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE AND WHY?
I would like every body to share their views and I will start with myself.
For me THE most important person in my life is my MOM ,I KNOW EVERY BODY LOVES THEIR MOM.but other than mom factor I have some other reasons which make her the most Important person in life.I learnt all the values from her honesty ,straightforwardness and fearlessness.sometimes she has to fight with my dad and grandmother for me to participate in extra cocurricular activitis and sending me to study away from home.she has complete faith in me that I will never break her faith.I am proud of my mom and she is proud of me.Now I am away from her and miss her every day.

rockingguy
April 23rd, 2006, 11:50 PM
if i say who is most important person for me..then i guess i would be partial to all the ppl who had given their best from there lives to me..
Patience from my brother, i m here because of my mother..strong determination from my father... enthusiasm for studies from my friends...
My mother she had given me a nature...just keep on doing good to everybody watever they bad do to u do good.....and my father says..just keep on doing..don't expect.....my bhabhi as my friend...and feelin of love from my sweet lil' 18 months neice.
i can't say who is most important to me..i don't wanna be partial with anybody.....

kharub
April 24th, 2006, 12:31 AM
Undoubtedly My Dad .....
Ch. Zile Singh Kharub (Dep. Excise and Taxation Comissioner, Govt. Of Haryana, Bahadurgarh).

I am so so so proud to be the seed of a man with such an exceptional intellect, sheer brilliance, perfectionist, simple, honest, proud yet so humble,dashingly handsome, self-made, loving, caring, guiding and trust me the list does not stop there, its just the start .....

He means much more to me than than everything else in this entire creation put together, and he commands and always will, my absolute loyalty, love and respect.

vijay
April 24th, 2006, 01:55 AM
Proudly to say my Grandfather,

He was a freedom fighter. he faught with the British and the Rajput supermacy in Rajasthan.

He was really a man to admire. He didn't even accepcted a blank cheque from Mr. K K Birla in 1967 Election for not supporting the congress candidate in Churu District (Rajasthan). I think you people can understand what was K K Birla at that time and how much value his blank cheque meant.

He were elected MLA after independence from Nohar and then from Bhadra ( Distt : Hanumangarh Rajasthan). The people in that area still remember him fror his honesty and welfare deeds for the community.

He was a man of principles.

There is a lot more to write about him.

mansi1218
April 24th, 2006, 02:02 AM
The most important person in my life is my mom.She's one person I cant live widout.Though I do argue wid her sometimes,I do become arrogant on petty things and then I dont even say sorry to her.But even wen she's angry wid me & wont talk to me...she's d only one who'd care d most.My mom is a perfect balance of kindness and boldness.She's d strongest woman I've ever come across in life.From my mom only I've learnt how to face difficult situations/people.I always admire her courage to speak the truth widout fearing from anybody/anything.Also she's a v charming person...who can bring smile on anyone's face easily....Well I never told my mom abt how special she is to me but I can write pages on her.....she's d ideal & d most important person of my life.

spdeshwal
April 24th, 2006, 02:22 AM
OH! it is really hard to say that this one person is most important in my life.

My Grandfather, a staunch Aryasamaji, had been a guiding force in my character building. I get inspired from him even after 35 years of his death.

Meri maa, i owe this very life to Her. How she cared for me, before and after my birth. Although not educated but had gread regard for education. Above all a rare combination of Kindness and Truthfullness.

Mere Pitaji, I haven't seen a more gentle and justly thinking person. He had been a Primary school teacher. He is 75 now. One of his 60 years old student 'touching his feet' says it all.

Meri bebe( elder sister), in a nutshell, she has tried to be in Maa's shoes on every occasion after her death 30 years ago.

My wife, a little orthodox but most lovable person in my life. It may sound a bit poetic to say that i don't imagine life without her. The bond gets stronger after every little fight.

My Brothers, any one should feel proud to have such brothers. they are allways with me for any physical and emotional support.

My youngest Brother, who is no more in this world. But if i get a chance to make a last wish, that would be asking God to have him as a son in my next incarnation. As my wife also feels same gives me a wonderfull feeling. He was such a adorable personality.

My adopted daughter and my son, i visualise all my unfullfilled dreams to be fullfilled through them.

All my Nieces and nephews, i miss them on every occasion. Some of them married and some them of marriagable ages but such a funtastic bunch. I love them all.

devdahiya
April 24th, 2006, 06:39 AM
My maa....without a doubt. Nothing on earth can match her contribution and unlimited love.

sunitahooda
April 24th, 2006, 10:38 AM
Most Important person for me will be WHO WILL STAND BY MY SIDE....NO MATTER WHAT....whether i am right or wrong. My mother/father/brother/sister/friends all are an undivided part of my life and have played a Vital role in making me what i am and how i am and i feel proud the way i am. Those techings and prechings that my Maa gave to me when i stepped at teen age, those caring thing my Father did to fullfill our demands that we put infront of him and he always gave us a date when they'll be fulfilled but actually he always DID it before that give date which i always cherish. My elder Sister who despite being a homemaker has a very modern outlook that even so called Modern ladies lack. My Dada Ji....who gave us a strength to be EDUCATED/MODERN/BOLD/CHEERFUL/HUMOROUS/COURAGEOUS/POSITIVE/POLITE/FORGIVING/INDEPENDANT AND MOST OF ALL HARDWORKING

yashmalik
April 24th, 2006, 02:35 PM
For me its my family

jagmohan
April 24th, 2006, 04:11 PM
Now a days JATLANDERS have started asking very personal but difficult questions. These are very difficult to answer. As I look back, it is very difficult indeed to point out the one most important person. There are different stages and phases of life and there is someone most important for each such phase. However, some remain important throughout life. Let me see how I can describe them.

My Father: Didn't get much time to spent with him though. Probably when I realised what a father meant, went to a boarding school. He was great and did a lot for a very large joint family. He offered me the first beer when I was in Eighth Std. And as destined, he died as soon as I returned from the boarding school after completing Hr Sec. I was just over 16 years.

My Mother: Nearing 90 years and still going strong. Even now she says "Re choore, maada ho rya se". And I weigh 90 kgs or even more.

My Wife: A real gem. Sarv Gun Sammpann. Na na, dartaa na likhtaa, saacchi baat se. Has undergone few major surgeries including brain tumor. The tumor is still there and I keep joking with her that they couldn't remove it because the doctors couldn't locate the brain!!! Keeps bashing up our car, every now and then.

My Late Sister: I haven't met anyone so far with a better sense of humor. So full of life yet God took her away... I make it a point to speak to my Bhanjaas every now and then and remember the golden period.

ritu
April 24th, 2006, 06:13 PM
I would like to thank u all for taking time and replying to my thread.the main reason I started this thread was nowadays sometimes we forget the importance of people around us and I wanted myself and u touch ur hearts and see if we r forgeting someone close to us and realize their importance.

ritu
April 24th, 2006, 06:26 PM
Jagmohan ji Its very sad to know that your wife has brain tumor.my best wishes r with her I hope and pray that she will be recovered soon.I would like to THANK u for sharing ur personal feelings .actually especially for youngsters and the people who r not paying attention to their loved ones when they will see responses like urs they will get the opprtunity to realize the importance of relations BEFORE IT GETS TOO LATE.





[quote=jagmohan]Now a days JATLANDERS have started asking very personal but difficult questions. These are very difficult to answer. As I look back, it is very difficult indeed to point out the one most important person. There are different stages and phases of life and there is someone most important for each such phase. However, some remain important throughout life. Let me see how I can describe them

ritu
April 24th, 2006, 06:33 PM
Deswal ji I am sorry for making u emotional.but tell me one thing did not u feel better after telling us about them and I think u might have feel proud for them and yourselves.Its good to know that u have adopted a child.only people with great heart can do that.





[quote=spdeshwal]OH! it is really hard to say that this one person is most important in my l

deepakchoudhry
April 24th, 2006, 09:46 PM
Most Important are my parents. why ??

agar wo na hotay..toh main bhi na hota :)

itsnavin
April 24th, 2006, 09:51 PM
My father for his "never say die" attitude and my mother for her sacrifices & hardwork!

devdahiya
April 24th, 2006, 09:54 PM
Maa ke saamne kuchh bhi nahi ruktta............Any thing can be sacrificed for her.....even the very self.....wife,sisters,brothres come no where near if you have to select only ONE.

ritu
April 24th, 2006, 10:02 PM
ur right.actually my real question was that only.even for myself my son is 2nd most important person in my life then my husband.brother and sister.but when it comes to one person then its my MOM only.





Maa ke saamne kuchh bhi nahi ruktta............Any thing can be sacrificed for her.....even the very self.....wife,sisters,brothres come no where near if you have to select only ONE.

positivelook
April 25th, 2006, 04:22 AM
Hello To all

Oh its very difficult to choose only one and especially at this stage of my life i cant choose only one person here cos if i look back the support i got from my family and frends is really unforgettable. I dont know from where to start but i try to start from my Dadi: She is no more in this world but she was the one who always loved me whether i was wrong or right she was always with me. Mere Papa: A man of principles taught me the lesson of life and always punished me when i was wrong and always supported me when i m right infact my best critics also and always tell me realty of life. Meri maa: College ke time tak bhee dande maar diya kartee but she always supported me, i cant forget when i passed year 12 and i was saying i need a motorcycle to go to college she gave me money for bike without the consent of my father but she said me never misuse my love.
Meri Bahanein: Loves me alot always supported me and now they both are married and back in india i miss there company. Mere Dost: Its hard to find good frends nowdays who are with u in all ups and downs but i m a bit fortunate to have 4-5 frends who i beleive are with me in every circumstances.

Sorry ritu jee ek naam nahi bata sakta kyonki when u have so many people u cant stuck with a name .

Abhimanyu Phougat

ritu
April 25th, 2006, 04:42 AM
koi nahi Abhimanyu bhai thanks for telling us about so many special people in ur life.



Hello To al

Sorry ritu jee ek naam nahi bata sakta kyonki when u have so many people u cant stuck with a name .

Abhimanyu Phougat

jakhar77
April 26th, 2006, 05:34 PM
For me its my 'Maa'.Greatest and best.