is affair the only thing comes under true self

[ritu]

while I was going through dahiya jis thread should one reveal..........to their spouse.Is affair the only thing comes under true self.to me lying comes before that.would u be able to live with a person who tells lies all the time even for small things.will u be able to live with a person who takes bribe.will u be able to live with a person who has forged documents to get someones property.atleat these things being a married person are also important to me.aur jo log shadi shuda hokar bhi extramarital affair me involve hote unke bare me me sochkar marriage jaise strong bond ki dignity khona nahi chahti.

[suneet_rana]

I thinks "Trust" is must for any relationship.

[dndeswal]

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रीतू जी,

मुझे नहीं पता कि आप अपने कंप्यूटर पर हिन्दी पढ पा रहीं हैं या नहीं । मुझे इस विषय में कुछ नहीं कहना । सिर्फ यही कहने के लिए लिख रहा हूं कि आपके इस धागे पर बहुत से मेम्बर comments लिखेंगे - और यह धागा खूब धमाके उठावैगा - विषय ही ऐसा है ! बधाई हो पहले ही । मैने एक जगह पर और लिखा था कि कुछ दाने डाल दो तो दो-चार चिड़िया-कबूतर ही आते हैं और कुछ मांस के टुकड़े फेंक दो तो हजारों चील-कव्वे इकट्ठे हो जाते हैं - मनुष्य का मनोविज्ञान ही ऐसा है ! तो इन्तजार करो comments ka - तेल देखो और तेल की धार देखो !
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[ritu]

good sahi ja raha apna bhai future husband on training.keep it up.I like it




I thinks "Trust" is must for any relationship.

[ritu]

apne kya likha me pad nahi saki shayad mera computer ki wajah se aap please english me summarize kar dege



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रीतू जी,

मुझे नहीं पता कि आप अपने कंप्यूटर पर हिन्दी पढ पा रहीं हैं या नहीं । मुझे इस विषय में कुछ नहीं कहना । सिर्फ यही कहने के लिए लिख रहा हूं कि आपके इस धागे पर बहुत से मेम्बर comments लिखेंगे - और यह धागा खूब धमाके उठावैगा - विषय ही ऐसा है ! बधाई हो पहले ही । मैने एक जगह पर और लिखा था कि कुछ दाने डाल दो तो दो-चार चिड़िया-कबूतर ही आते हैं और कुछ मांस के टुकड़े फेंक दो तो हजारों चील-कव्वे इकट्ठे हो जाते हैं - मनुष्य का मनोविज्ञान ही ऐसा है ! तो इन्तजार करो comments ka - तेल देखो और तेल की धार देखो !
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[dndeswal]

apne kya likha me pad nahi saki shayad mera computer ki wajah se aap please english me summarize kar dege


Please read my thread Tips for use of Hindi on your computer (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13233) . It is due to non-installation of 'Mangal' font on your computer. It is pre-installed in WindowsXP. Others have to install it - it is very simple. See my last post under the thread mentioned above. Otherwise, send me an e-mail through the site and tell me your personal e-mail ID. I can send the file to you as an attachment. After that, you can view all Hindi posts on this site. .
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[prashantacmet]

Ritu Ji, everyon is having his own perception. The person who seems u bad can be too much good for any other person. yes.. U are right that extramarital affair is bad if someone trust u blindly & u are not commimited with full faith. But all persons are not so lucky as u..... The girls who changes boyfriend like clothes, they also tie in knot. & u can imagine what will be life of husband of such girls. One more point which u raised here "will u able to live with a person who takes bribe "..... Bribe has become a common thing in INDIA. Almost 50 % goverenment employess are involved in thius illegal act. All they are married..... Someone is staying with them........... One last thing .... Noone is complete....Everyone is having some good & some bad qualities... Make a way
according to ur circumstances............

while I was going through dahiya jis thread should one reveal..........to their spouse.Is affair the only thing comes under true self.to me lying comes before that.would u be able to live with a person who tells lies all the time even for small things.will u be able to live with a person who takes bribe.will u be able to live with a person who has forged documents to get someones property.atleat these things being a married person are also important to me.aur jo log shadi shuda hokar bhi extramarital affair me involve hote unke bare me me sochkar marriage jaise strong bond ki dignity khona nahi chahti.

[pilania]

Hi ritu each n every word you said is right..

[ritu]

I agree with your point of view too. these days some girls r doing these kind of things and so r the boys.and talking about the bribe factor whatever u said is 100% right.par mera manana he ke ya bribe jo lete unke balako me se bhagwan ulti le lata ya bat meri ma ne sikhai thi er mera man me bath gaye.I am thankful to god mere husband ki job me bribe ka scope hi nahi he.




Ritu Ji, everyon is having his own perception. The person who seems u bad can be too much good for any other person. yes.. U are right that extramarital affair is bad if someone trust u blindly & u are not commimited with full faith. But all persons are not so lucky as u..... The girls who changes boyfriend like clothes, they also tie in knot. & u can imagine what will be life of husband of such girls. One more point which u raised here "will u able to live with a person who takes bribe "..... Bribe has become a common thing in INDIA. Almost 50 % goverenment employess are involved in thius illegal act. All they are married..... Someone is staying with them........... One last thing .... Noone is complete....Everyone is having some good & some bad qualities... Make a way
according to ur circumstances............

[prashantacmet]

Ritu ji, ya baat to taamne bilkul theek kahi,,,, inke balak ghane hi haram hoowe.... , police waaloien ke balak ghanne hi bigdail hoja......... unka BAPU barra ni kis kis ki aatma ne dookha ke pisse kathhe kare. ar wo sarra mamla matiyamet kar de.. ar RITU ji aapke husband to bribe le hi nahi sakte..... per jo Bribe lene aali situataion aa jaati to aap to sarri umar ghani hi dookhi rehti... , Bhagwan ne aapki pehle hi sunn li...........

I agree with your point of view too. these days some girls r doing these kind of things and so r the boys.and talking about the bribe factor whatever u said is 100% right.par mera manana he ke ya bribe jo lete unke balako me se bhagwan ulti le lata ya bat meri ma ne sikhai thi er mera man me bath gaye.I am thankful to god mere husband ki job me bribe ka scope hi nahi he.

[mukeshkumar007]

Bribe has become a common thing in INDIA. Almost 50 % goverenment employess are involved in thius illegal act. ............

Why u accused only government employees for corruption every time. Does not it happen in corporate sector? We all are corrupt; no one is honest here (exceptions are everywhere). As far as we are out of the system we criticize those are involved in this but when our time comes we also accept it after little bit hesitation.... har koi is behti ganga maie hath dhona chahta hai bhai...

[rockingguy]

We all are having our own defination of GOOD and BAD..RIGHT or WRONG..99% ppl are engaged in saving taxes...but producing fake bills.. and different ways.. These shops of CA run on the corruption only because they give u legal way to save taxes from the loop hole of system. Adovate finds loops whole from the system to save his client from doing wrong.. Truth is truth if it is complete truth.... We can't modify the truth..we have different ways of lookin things for ourselves..and different persepective for other ppl Y.. this is sort of corruption that we ppl are holdin in our ownselves....every person is having a reason if they do anything wrong..i should say excuses..if a guy say i smoked because of this reason(thats an excuse..he smoked because in his inner consious he wanted to smoke)... everybody is corrupt wat matters is degree and defination... anything which deviates from a truth, is a lie....White is white if it is having a mix of a bit of black..then its not white we can call it offwhite..but white is always white and truth is like white colour..

[prashantacmet]

Cool Broooo , try to understand the sense of my post. What u have described here, I have already pen down that. See the last two lin eof my post..... u will trace my point... . Apart from this I am not blaming to only Gov. employee. That was only an example to approve my point. We all know that we have born in one of the most corrupted country of world.... No one is white-washed here. But It seems ridiculous when some person tries to prove himself/herself as 100% true & honest.............................
Why u accused only government employees for corruption every time. Does not it happen in corporate sector? We all are corrupt; no one is honest here (exceptions are everywhere). As far as we are out of the system we criticize those are involved in this but when our time comes we also accept it after little bit hesitation.... har koi is behti ganga maie hath dhona chahta hai bhai...

[prashantacmet]

Bilkul theek....... ya bhi dhokka thadi hi hai...... ek haam aapne TAX bachan laag re, gov. ki aankhein main dhool jhok ke... Are ye Software aale to pakke chor hai iss mamle main..........
We all are having our own defination of GOOD and BAD..RIGHT or WRONG..99% ppl are engaged in saving taxes...but producing fake bills.. and different ways.. These shops of CA run on the corruption only because they give u legal way to save taxes from the loop hole of system. Adovate finds loops whole from the system to save his client from doing wrong.. Truth is truth if it is complete truth.... We can't modify the truth..we have different ways of lookin things for ourselves..and different persepective for other ppl Y.. this is sort of corruption that we ppl are holdin in our ownselves....every person is having a reason if they do anything wrong..i should say excuses..if a guy say i smoked because of this reason(thats an excuse..he smoked because in his inner consious he wanted to smoke)... everybody is corrupt wat matters is degree and defination... anything which deviates from a truth, is a lie....White is white if it is having a mix of a bit of black..then its not white we can call it offwhite..but white is always white and truth is like white colour..

[rockingguy]

kehte kabir is duniya mein bhat bhat ke log kuch thode chor kuch zayda chor

[yashmalik]

while I was going through dahiya jis thread should one reveal..........to their spouse.Is affair the only thing comes under true self.to me lying comes before that.would u be able to live with a person who tells lies all the time even for small things.will u be able to live with a person who takes bribe.will u be able to live with a person who has forged documents to get someones property.atleat these things being a married person are also important to me.aur jo log shadi shuda hokar bhi extramarital affair me involve hote unke bare me me sochkar marriage jaise strong bond ki dignity khona nahi chahti.

Everyone who is going to marry will certainly hunt for these evil things in his/her fiancee, blind faith is not in anybody's card. No matter how he/she loves her/him.
Nobody wants to spend his/her life with a 'hidden' monster.

Infact i think the person with above mentioned qualities can never fall in love. Love requires honesty and truth which is missing.