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jaideep.phogat
May 1st, 2006, 12:42 PM
Dear all,
Pehlyan to main aapni thodi sii introduction de dyun...Main SDO laag rahya soon bijli board main ar filhaal Hisar main soon.Manne Murthal te Engineering kari thi bhale bakhtaan main.Thode se din nyun-nyun paan bhidaye par akhir main SDO laag gaya.Chalo SO FAR SO GOOD.
Ib ghar kyan kaa lath aa rahya sai ke beta byah karva le.Kuch chori bhi dekhi.Par baat na bani.Kade to got mil jyande ,kade chori chhote se kad ki hondi arr kade dhang sar padhi likhi no hondi and blah blah blah.
So here I am posting a request to all my Jat bothers and all the PHOGAT,HOODA and DAHIYA sisters to suggest a good match for me.
I am 29,5'11" and 79-80 kgs.
I only want a VERY beautiful girl preferably 22-25 years of age,atleast PG(again preferably in Science or related fields,may be MBBS,BDS etc or Arts subjects etc),about 5'3"-5'-6",slim built and from a respectable family too.
Sarre jat bhai arr aforementioned jat sisters are invited to my marriage in anticipation of finding the right match through you people.
Regards.
jagmohan
May 1st, 2006, 12:53 PM
Dear Jaideep,
First of all welcome to JATLAND.
We can only find a suitable girl for you only if you PLEDGE NOT TO TAKE DOWRY, in any form or manner. Na Ring Ceremony mein, Na Sagai ke time, Na byah mein ar na baad mein. Make an announcement here and now, and you would see you would get your life partner earlier than you think.
Jo U Dahiya na ad rya hotaa to bhai rishtaa tyar tha...
With best wishes,
JS Malik
prashantacmet
May 1st, 2006, 01:09 PM
Hahaha........ UNCLE ji.... aapne to katai rog kaat diya...... eib dekhliyo yu sandeep bhajja bhi haath na aawe. Nu kehewega mann hi mann main "Bhunde fasse adde to"........ are kaha hai bhai sandeepeeeeeeeee........
Dear Jaideep,
First of all welcome to JATLAND.
We can only find a suitable girl for you only if you PLEDGE NOT TO TAKE DOWRY, in any form or manner. Na Ring Ceremony mein, Na Sagai ke time, Na byah mein ar na baad mein. Make an announcement here and now, and you would see you would get your life partner earlier than you think.
Jo U Dahiya na ad rya hotaa to bhai rishtaa tyar tha...
With best wishes,
JS Malik
dndeswal
May 1st, 2006, 01:20 PM
I only want a VERY beautiful girl preferably 22-25 years of age,atleast PG(again preferably in Science or related fields,may be MBBS,BDS etc or Arts subjects etc),about 5'3"-5'-6",slim built and from a respectable family too.
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Chhohre ne pahli baar ek thread likhi iss Jatland par aur wo bhi galat subject par - sir mundaate hi olle padde !
I agree with what Prashant Choudhry has written above. Bhai chhohre, ye itni saari condition lagane ki kya zaroorat hai? Koi "Very Beautiful" mil jaayegi to usme doosre gunn nahin milenge - aur koi "MBBS" mil jaayegi to zaroori nahin ki vo "very beautiful" ho (I can guarantee that you might not get an "MBBS"). Jat families mein koi swarag ki pari to milne se rahi ! To laagya rah apni khoj mein - aajkal waise bhi male-female ratio mein gaddbadd hai - suitable girls are hard to find. I advise you to take the advice of what Col. Malik has written above. Old times were different - this job was done by elders and boys were bound to accept the decision of elders. But now it is one's own choice - hence very difficult. Aisi ichchha to Shivji maharaj bhi poori nahin kar sakte !
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greatjat
May 1st, 2006, 01:34 PM
manne bera pat liya deswal...sahab..is bhai ne chahiye...gharelu Aishwarya...
jo ib tak paida e koni hoyi....dekh ki bhai..kade..baat e dekhda reh jya..oon e jaatan main chhoriyan ka toda se.....
aur very beautiful lyaki..ke Mrs. india...pageant main khadi karni..se...
normal looks aali toh le...au rjo kime masterni lag ri ho....
sarkari aadmi ..se bhai..sarkari kaam kar le
Keep smiling
Rakesh Kumar
jaideep.phogat
May 1st, 2006, 02:38 PM
Its really good to have your view.And I think I share the same attitude.So here I say that I shall and will not take dowry in whatsoever way or whatsoever form .
Keep enlightening the youth.
Ar ek baat aur ,meri dadi dahiya sai.I came to know ke jai chore - chori ki dadi ek got ki ho (of course not from the same village) to aajkal us got ne chhod de sain.Enlighten me on this also.
Regards:)
Dear Jaideep,
First of all welcome to JATLAND.
We can only find a suitable girl for you only if you PLEDGE NOT TO TAKE DOWRY, in any form or manner. Na Ring Ceremony mein, Na Sagai ke time, Na byah mein ar na baad mein. Make an announcement here and now, and you would see you would get your life partner earlier than you think.
Jo U Dahiya na ad rya hotaa to bhai rishtaa tyar tha...
With best wishes,
JS Malik
sunitahooda
May 1st, 2006, 02:59 PM
Bhai apni FOTU bi lade aade ek...kade hum ghani suthri chhori toh lyawein arr tu BHOONDA likadey....:D Dear all,
So here I am posting a request to all my Jat bothers and all the PHOGAT,HOODA and DAHIYA sisters to suggest a good match for me.
I am 29,5'11" and 79-80 kgs.
I only want a VERY beautiful girl preferably 22-25 years of age,atleast PG(again preferably in Science or related fields,may be MBBS,BDS etc or Arts subjects etc),about 5'3"-5'-6",slim built and from a respectable family too.
Sarre jat bhai arr aforementioned jat sisters are invited to my marriage in anticipation of finding the right match through you people.
Regards.
jaideep.phogat
May 1st, 2006, 03:13 PM
Bhai apni FOTU bi lade aade ek...kade hum ghani suthri chhori toh lyawein arr tu BHOONDA likadey....:D
Ek baat... har maa ne aapna chora ar har bhaan ne aapna bhai suthra e laagya kare.Jyaan ti behna tane to main suthra laag jyaanga par bakiyyan ka ke.
Doosi baat... manne laage sai yo VERY shabd gadbad kar rahya sai.So here I delete for all intents and purposes ,in my all senses and consience the word VERY from my posted thread.
Teesi baat...Par manne ya photu laani te konya aandi.Help me out on this behna.
Regards:) :) :)
jagmohan
May 1st, 2006, 03:19 PM
Its really good to have your view.And I think I share the same attitude.So here I say that I shall and will not take dowry in whatsoever way or whatsoever form .
Keep enlightening the youth.
Ar ek baat aur ,meri dadi dahiya sai.I came to know ke jai chore - chori ki dadi ek got ki ho (of course not from the same village) to aajkal us got ne chhod de sain.Enlighten me on this also.
Regards:)
Thanks Jaideep. Thank you for declaring openly that you shall not take dowry. Take a bow. Very soon I shall be located near Hisar and if you allow me, I shall like to see you ACTUALLY DO SO. YOU ARE PROBABLY THE FIRST JAT WHO HAS DECLARED SO HERE.
I remember a thread started by Mr Budh Nashier asking young unmarried JATS to declare publically that they shall not accept dowry. Not a single person did so. Therefore, congratulations.
Now comes the question of avoiding Dadi's Gotra. Bhai, it depends. Yes, agar donu taraf se Dadi ka goth ek ho to some families don't mind avoiding it and go for marriage. I don't see any harm in it.
Like other members said, there is an acute shortage of the kind of JATNI you are looking for. But I have no doubt that a bold and forward looking person like you does need a good JATNI to partner you for life. Jo Haryana mein na miley to UP/Rajasthan mein koi achhchi ladki ho to koi problem?
Bhai, aap ke liye jaroor kosish karein ge.
Regards,
JS Malik
greatjat
May 1st, 2006, 03:46 PM
Lt. Col. sahab....kaun de ga hamne dowry....
agar jakra bhi kar diya ne to littar lagange wo nyare aur policiyan ka.."AAN MILO SAJNA" aur "PHIR KAB MILOGE" ka swad nyara reh jyaga...
re chhori ala ne chhori de di..is te phaltu ke dega bhai...yo e bhatera...
ooe chhori leki chhora ala chhota hoya kara...aur sauda mang ki aur chhota hona jaroori se ke......
aur manne bera pat liya se...ya hooda..defaulter is tingar ka byah koni hon de........
Keep smiling,
Rakesh Kumar
sunitahooda
May 1st, 2006, 03:52 PM
JagMohan Sir....personal comment kar diya iss nai dekh lyo ibb aap....:) Hooda Defaulter likhan ka ke matlab hoya....manne tai aaj tayi kissey tai DEFAULTER na kahi....fer bhi kottak horey mere naam pai....:o
aur manne bera pat liya se...ya hooda..defaulter is tingar ka byah koni hon de........
Keep smiling,
Rakesh Kumar[/QUOTE]
jagmohan
May 1st, 2006, 04:20 PM
JagMohan Sir....personal comment kar diya iss nai dekh lyo ibb aap....:) Hooda Defaulter likhan ka ke matlab hoya....manne tai aaj tayi kissey tai DEFAULTER na kahi....fer bhi kottak horey mere naam pai....:o
aur manne bera pat liya se...ya hooda..defaulter is tingar ka byah koni hon de........ Keep smiling, Rakesh Kumar[/QUOTE]
Sunita,
IGNORE and move on.
Be proud that your surname is repeated again & again by members. Hooda Saab jab tahin CM sein, in ne kar len de Hooda - Hooda... Kai aan ke te Hooda ka phobia ho rya se.. hoyaa rahan de ne..
sunitahooda
May 1st, 2006, 04:28 PM
Sir jai mai nuay IGNORE karti rahi to manne lage ke mai MODERATOR bannan khatar qualify kar lyungi....but i have learnt to IGNORE to great extent....also after sometime all TORNADOES SETTLE....:)
greatjat
May 1st, 2006, 05:37 PM
Apologies for my calling you defaulter...
but that was just to add a stint of fun to the topic....
Apologies to deswal sir..and col. sahab...I hope you understand that was not at all intentional or to point out sth. personal....
yo great(me) defaulter ,,,ghani hawa main agya kere....now happy..I call myself defaulter...
yaar sunita....please don't seek for the literal meanings always..and you r mature enough to discern the gyst of the stuff.
Keep smiling
Rakesh Kumar
ritu
May 1st, 2006, 05:44 PM
bhai phogat he isi ek chori mer nigah me 21 yr old exremely beautiful doing mca er jot bhi na miltae.interested ho to bataiye
Dear all,
Pehlyan to main aapni thodi sii introduction de dyun...Main SDO laag rahya soon bijli board main ar filhaal Hisar main soon.Manne Murthal te Engineering kari thi bhale bakhtaan main.Thode se din nyun-nyun paan bhidaye par akhir main SDO laag gaya.Chalo SO FAR SO GOOD.
Ib ghar kyan kaa lath aa rahya sai ke beta byah karva le.Kuch chori bhi dekhi.Par baat na bani.Kade to got mil jyande ,kade chori chhote se kad ki hondi arr kade dhang sar padhi likhi no hondi and blah blah blah.
So here I am posting a request to all my Jat bothers and all the PHOGAT,HOODA and DAHIYA sisters to suggest a good match for me.
I am 29,5'11" and 79-80 kgs.
I only want a VERY beautiful girl preferably 22-25 years of age,atleast PG(again preferably in Science or related fields,may be MBBS,BDS etc or Arts subjects etc),about 5'3"-5'-6",slim built and from a respectable family too.
Sarre jat bhai arr aforementioned jat sisters are invited to my marriage in anticipation of finding the right match through you people.
Regards.
prashantacmet
May 1st, 2006, 05:53 PM
eeee sunita eib to chorre ne fotu bhi chep di..... eib mila de iski JOT. Jaideepe bhai ghani hi taawal horee ke byaah ki..... majhe nu lagge ibhi bhajja bhajja fotu khichwa ke le ke aaya ...... Dekh tajhe ssans bhi na aarha....... kyooker foofoo karan laag ra........ khi khi..................iska kuch na kuch to thammne karna hi padega isse raat main neend aani band holi. na to yu tharre sir howwega...............hahaha............
Bhai apni FOTU bi lade aade ek...kade hum ghani suthri chhori toh lyawein arr tu BHOONDA likadey....:D
jaideep.phogat
May 1st, 2006, 06:11 PM
aan re log...tu to is dhaal kar rahyan sai jaanu tanne tai tawal konya.Chinta na kare mere bhatij ye din to sab main aane sain.aap to tanne kime karna konya ar tu oraan ne bhi na karan diye.......(Kilkiii):D .Rahi sir hon ki baat te main aur kise kai howoon chai no howoon par tere kalil sa jaroor gad jyanga.......(Louder Kilkiiii):D :D :D eeee sunita eib to chorre ne fotu bhi chep di..... eib mila de iski JOT. Jaideepe bhai ghani hi taawal horee ke byaah ki..... majhe nu lagge ibhi bhajja bhajja fotu khichwa ke le ke aaya ...... Dekh tajhe ssans bhi na aarha....... kyooker foofoo karan laag ra........ khi khi..................iska kuch na kuch to thammne karna hi padega isse raat main neend aani band holi. na to yu tharre sir howwega...............hahaha............
prashantacmet
May 1st, 2006, 06:28 PM
ooooo deepe.... pehla tu hi kar le...... haam to tera hi saang dekh lenge.....hahahaaaa...... hoho........ hihi...................arre ko na JAIDEEPEEeeeeee byaah na hua per BARAAT to haamne bhi bohat kar rakhi......... baajan de dhol ne eib to...................
deepshi
May 1st, 2006, 07:21 PM
n wish ya luck too :)
Lt. Col. sahab....kaun de ga hamne dowry....
agar jakra bhi kar diya ne to littar lagange wo nyare aur policiyan ka.."AAN MILO SAJNA" aur "PHIR KAB MILOGE" ka swad nyara reh jyaga...
re chhori ala ne chhori de di..is te phaltu ke dega bhai...yo e bhatera...
ooe chhori leki chhora ala chhota hoya kara...aur sauda mang ki aur chhota hona jaroori se ke......
Keep smiling,
Rakesh Kumar
desijat
May 5th, 2006, 03:13 AM
manne gharelu Aishwarya...
jo
Bhai Jaideep, Gharelu Vivek banga ak Salman
Sir Gharelu Aishwarya pe ghani hassi chutri hai
HAHAHa
desijat
May 5th, 2006, 03:14 AM
Ek baat... har maa ne aapna chora ar har bhaan ne aapna bhai suthra e laagya kare.Jyaan ti behna tane to main suthra laag jyaanga par bakiyyan ka ke.
Regards:) :) :)
Pher ek kaam kar
kisi Lugai te byah kar le Jo Sohni na ho
Ar jukar har mard ne apni Lugai bhadiya lage, aapku bhi laag jayegi, ar yu kissa bhi tham lega
see2ravi
May 5th, 2006, 11:16 AM
Aree Jaideep bhai....Phone number to de de apna.... Waise ek suggestion hai bhai ghani beautiful ke chakkar main kanwaara na rej jaaiyoooo....Sub se badi chiz hai understanding and padi likhi ladki ,,,samjha achi si ladki dekh rrrrrr bajwa le apna band....haan bata jaroorr diyo ...main b hisar ka sooooooooonnnnn ...
ajaynehra
May 5th, 2006, 01:03 PM
Hi All
I found it so weird that what people found to be funny in this post by Jaideep. As per me he has posted a sincere message and we should not crack jokes on any such post like I am seeing in this thread.
This is my personal openion and we have different sections for the discussion of funny sides on this site. We should have positive attitude about our life as well as towards the lives of others as well.
Thanks
AJAY NEHRA
priyasingh
May 5th, 2006, 01:30 PM
Ajay Ji,
Most of us found it weird as matrimonials section is already there on jatland why someone put such thing in General Talk.
If we even leave this part the suggestions given by people here are not weird at all.People want to know wether he is looking for dowry or not and make him to pledge that he wont ask for dowry and I must appreciate Jaideep for that that he wont take dowry in any form.
If someone told him that understanding is more important than the face value then wats wrong in it?
By nature we haryanvi people are known for our humour skills, we tell serious things in lighter mode.
I can't understand what has made you to find it weird.
Thanks
Priya
prashantacmet
May 5th, 2006, 01:49 PM
Bilkul theek kahi Priya ne......daatey ro yahi tu....... kissi tai mat dariye...........http://www.jatland.com/forums/images/icons/icon7.gif.http://www.jatland.com/forums/images/icons/icon10.gif
Jokes apart......Noone is having the intention to hurt JAIDEEP........ no post reflect it I think so...... if Ajay ji found something weird that's his own opinion......no need of clarification.....
Ajay Ji,
Most of us found it weird as matrimonials section is already there on jatland why someone put such thing in General Talk.
If we even leave this part the suggestions given by people here are not weird at all.People want to know wether he is looking for dowry or not and make him to pledge that he wont ask for dowry and I must appreciate Jaideep for that that he wont take dowry in any form.
If someone told him that understanding is more important than the face value then wats wrong in it?
By nature we haryanvi people are known for our humour skills, we tell serious things in lighter mode.
I can't understand what has made you to find it weird.
Thanks
Priya
ajaynehra
May 5th, 2006, 08:14 PM
Priya Ji
I don't know what message you derived from my post ,I am sure that was not my intention. Sometime you understand only what you want to understand, may be I will request you once again to have a look on what people have written in the replies except few sensible suggestions. This might not be the language used and way of conversation/repling to any post without knowing any person. At last I wrote it was my personal openion. Posting a thread on a wrong forum doesnot mean all the way few people have reacted to this thread.
Anyway this was not any clerification to anyone's post.
And I don't expact any replies to my this own message, So you can continue discussing what you want, no replies to my message are required.
Thanks
AJAY NEHRA
desijat
May 5th, 2006, 09:30 PM
:mad: Priya Ji
This might not be the language used and way of conversation/repling to any post without knowing any person.
Posting a thread on a wrong forum doesnot mean all the way few people have reacted to this thread.
Anyway this was not any clerification to anyone's post.
:mad: :mad: :mad:
Jasssa thread hoga assa hi to react karenge, Agar Kalko Sonia Gandhi jake Rally mein nachan lage to hasega ak nahi?
Sahi cheez Sahi jagah pe hi AChi lagti hai, Galat jagah pe nahi.......
Dont Blame any of us for your mistake.
see2ravi
May 6th, 2006, 08:50 PM
sahi baat ..bhai ...agar koi General Section main aisa issue rakhega to sub ko poochne ka right hai ..n i think kisi ne majak ke way main to atleast nahi liya ...yeh to apne personal comments hai ..agar kisi ko ache lage then bahut e badiyaaa nahi to bhai ignore kar de.....
ritu
May 6th, 2006, 09:06 PM
priya well said.every word u wrote is very right. ajay bhai Jagdeep se pooch ke to dekho usne konsa bahut serious hoke ye thread shuru kara he.is thread ki wajah se atleast ek achha message convey hua he not to take dowry.priya wali baat haasi maajak to hum jaato ke khasiyat he aur jagdeep ne bhi I am sure isi feeling se ye thread shuru kiya he.so do not be serious .cheer up:)
Ajay Ji,
Most of us found it weird as matrimonials section is already there on jatland why someone put such thing in General Talk.
If we even leave this part the suggestions given by people here are not weird at all.People want to know wether he is looking for dowry or not and make him to pledge that he wont ask for dowry and I must appreciate Jaideep for that that he wont take dowry in any form.
If someone told him that understanding is more important than the face value then wats wrong in it?
By nature we haryanvi people are known for our humour skills, we tell serious things in lighter mode.
I can't understand what has made you to find it weird.
Thanks
Priya
vijay
May 6th, 2006, 09:30 PM
Ajay Ji,
Most of us found it weird as matrimonials section is already there on jatland why someone put such thing in General Talk.
If we even leave this part the suggestions given by people here are not weird at all.People want to know wether he is looking for dowry or not and make him to pledge that he wont ask for dowry and I must appreciate Jaideep for that that he wont take dowry in any form.
If someone told him that understanding is more important than the face value then wats wrong in it?
By nature we haryanvi people are known for our humour skills, we tell serious things in lighter mode.
I can't understand what has made you to find it weird.
Thanks
Priya
Rightly said Priya,
People who are too serious about marriage don't post here to make it public and people commenting on that. Jagdeep put it here in lighter mood and so the response.
You are right its just for humur.
No other means.
For the people who are thinking that its wired, please take a chill pill and try their intelligence in current affairs section and involve themselves in some serious discussions if they have any thoughts to put up there.