"Save NRI marriages"

[dolly2003]

There has been a growing number of disputes in NRI marriages,the national commission for women has asked the centre to take diplomatic measures to ensure legal protection to women marrying overseas and also indian embassies to play a pro active role in the matter.

The majority of complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada.
Since last year,1,820 cases hv been registered.
Noting that majority of the complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada,there has been a difficulities in helping womens overseas due to international legal barriers.

SO REGARDINGTHIS I WANNA ASK EVERYONE OUT HERE THAT HOW FAR THESE DISPUTES ARE TRUE N WAT CAN BE THE SOLUTION TO IT...........ITS AN OPEN DISCUSSION SO I WANT EVERY ONE TO GIVE THERE VIEWS ON THIS HIGHLIGHTING ISSUE.

[anupam]

There has been a growing number of disputes in NRI marriages,the national commission for women has asked the centre to take diplomatic measures to ensure legal protection to women marrying overseas and also indian embassies to play a pro active role in the matter.

The majority of complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada.
Since last year,1,820 cases hv been registered.
Noting that majority of the complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada,there has been a difficulities in helping womens overseas due to international legal barriers.

SO REGARDINGTHIS I WANNA ASK EVERYONE OUT HERE THAT HOW FAR THESE DISPUTES ARE TRUE N WAT CAN BE THE SOLUTION TO IT...........ITS AN OPEN DISCUSSION SO I WANT EVERY ONE TO GIVE THERE VIEWS ON THIS HIGHLIGHTING ISSUE.

NRI Community is in better position to comment on this issue.

[dolly2003]

well i think even u can give your views on this issue...y u wanna put it up on NRI community only......

[rkumar]

Marriage in today's world has become almost like a contract, particular so when these are supposed to be registered in court. NRI marriage has become almost an endemic problem in Punjab where innocent girls are being exploited. Government has made a law that Grooms cannot take divorce outside country if marriage is registered in Indian court. In my view this is correct and will deter all those who used to trap innocent girls.

RK^2

[prashantacmet]

Well......i have not listened about this issue before..... But as par as the datas of dolly , situation is going to be really complicated........ Such indians staying overseas are following the traditions of westerns. ...........strongly impressed by Western Culture..have a impression to change wives like clothes...............as u know Divorce is a common thing in west....... In most of the cases the boy gets married to an Indian girl to make glad his family........ But cann't continue the life......... & the poor girl suffer...................

[fool4love]

Marriage in today's world has become almost like a contract, particular so when these are supposed to be registered in court. NRI marriage has become almost an endemic problem in Punjab where innocent girls are being exploited. Government has made a law that Grooms cannot take divorce outside country if marriage is registered in Indian court. In my view this is correct and will deter all those who used to trap innocent girls.

RK^2

i was listening to radio...the other day.. n i heard that..punjabi community.. specially ladies.... in vancouver.... were arguing about having some sort of law that could protect women. This issue.. unfortunately is very true... i hear some story.. full of sadness.. every.. now n then. i think they have extended the .. time period for requesting divorce... n efforts r being made to make life harder for ppl.. who r faking it.



Well......i have not listened about this issue before..... But as par as the datas of dolly , situation is going to be really complicated........ Such indians staying overseas are following the traditions of westerns. ...........strongly impressed by Western Culture..have a impression to change wives like clothes...............as u know Divorce is a common thing in west....... In most of the cases the boy gets married to an Indian girl to make glad his family........ But cann't continue the life......... & the poor girl suffer...................

well... i don think.. it has anything to do with western culture thing.

[chhillar]

Well......i have not listened about this issue before..... But as par as the datas of dolly , situation is going to be really complicated........ Such indians staying overseas are following the traditions of westerns. ...........strongly impressed by Western Culture..have a impression to change wives like clothes...............as u know Divorce is a common thing in west....... In most of the cases the boy gets married to an Indian girl to make glad his family........ But cann't continue the life......... & the poor girl suffer...................

Dude! The problem is greed here, lot of these Punjabi boys 'get' girls from Punjab every year, most of the Punjabi parents have heard the alarm too but greed, greed my friend! Sochte hein ladki bahar chali jaygi, raaj karegi. Yahan halaat kuchh aur hein. Most of the Punjabis here (90%+) jhaadoo marte hein. Then these parents and the girl don't like it and start making all kinds of he said she said stories. These are not real marriages mostly anyways. There are people with all kinds of problems like immigration status, paper marriages or may even just helping somebody in India get to these countries.

In my opinion this problem if at all it is a problem would not stop as long as NRI's are making far more money than average greedy Indian parents of (I would not say innocent) beautiful girls. Western culture has nothing to do with it. Western people are much more trust worthy than us. I see it all the time that an Indian doesn't even want to deal with Indians for the same reasons. We can go ahead and debate on this but all NRI's know this for a fact. I have dealt with Indian attorneys, accountants, construction etc, people most of them are chor for sure. There are few good people too but like I said very few. I am not trying to put down our people here but thats the real truth of the fact.

Interesting fact is that our Jat families are doing much better than all these people.

This problem doesn't exist more or less for our Jats, its mostly with Punjabis and Gujratis only.

[ritu]

prashant i try not to comment on your post but u keep writing this kind of stuff.how many people u know who r staying abroad and how many of them have broken marriages.keep ur mouth shut 4 the things u do not know.



Well......i have not listened about this issue before..... But as par as the datas of dolly , situation is going to be really complicated........ Such indians staying overseas are following the traditions of westerns. ...........strongly impressed by Western Culture..have a impression to change wives like clothes...............as u know Divorce is a common thing in west....... In most of the cases the boy gets married to an Indian girl to make glad his family........ But cann't continue the life......... & the poor girl suffer...................

[dhayal]

Most of people like contract only not marriage but still if you see in village, you really see the marriage. aaj kal shahar ke logon ke pass time hai nai marriage ka who sirf contract kar sakte




“ agar karna hai kis ko shadi toh chaloo gaoun mein”:D ;) :eek:

[prashantacmet]

Ritu, are u here only to give comments on my posts???? without observing my post everytime u try to degrade my views. I always respected u as my elder sis & never kept any hard feelings for u. ....But i really shocked as i see ur remarks..... Ok........ U are staying in abroad that does n't mean u will take down whatever u like.
Be cool & before throwing mud on me, see the first line of my post...... i have commented only on those Indians about whom Dolly has given the datas....U are asking about my overseas link?????..Better u would have asked this question from Dolly instead of me..... Have a look on
ur post what impact it give??......it really reflects ur haughty attitude..... what a superiority complex u are having in ur mind. I have been driven to convince that age is not a factor for being a person mature.
.......... Some elders really need to
grow up........................

prashant i try not to comment on your post but u keep writing this kind of stuff.how many people u know who r staying abroad and how many of them have broken marriages.keep ur mouth shut 4 the things u do not know.

[sampuran]

Dude! The problem is greed here, lot of these Punjabi boys 'get' girls from Punjab every year, most of the Punjabi parents have heard the alarm too but greed, greed my friend! Sochte hein ladki bahar chali jaygi, raaj karegi. Yahan halaat kuchh aur hein. Most of the Punjabis here (90%+) jhaadoo marte hein. Then these parents and the girl don't like it and start making all kinds of he said she said stories. These are not real marriages mostly anyways. There are people with all kinds of problems like immigration status, paper marriages or may even just helping somebody in India get to these countries.

In my opinion this problem if at all it is a problem would not stop as long as NRI's are making far more money than average greedy Indian parents of (I would not say innocent) beautiful girls. Western culture has nothing to do with it. Western people are much more trust worthy than us. I see it all the time that an Indian doesn't even want to deal with Indians for the same reasons. We can go ahead and debate on this but all NRI's know this for a fact. I have dealt with Indian attorneys, accountants, construction etc, people most of them are chor for sure. There are few good people too but like I said very few. I am not trying to put down our people here but thats the real truth of the fact.

Interesting fact is that our Jat families are doing much better than all these people.

This problem doesn't exist more or less for our Jats, its mostly with Punjabis and Gujratis only.

Dear Amit
You are right. Greed is a problem, by far the biggest one.
Of course others are cultural difference between the boy and the girl, and also between the boy/girl (born and brought up in Kandda) and their parents who still cherish Indian culture.

The second point about people being "chor for sure" . I have also experienced the same many times or seen it happening. Then the same people very devotedly go to temples and wear a big tilak. Perhaps the problem is more with gujjus and punjabis because they have been out for many generations, and prime aim for migration was to make money.
Unfortunately, they spoil not only Asian image, as the whites and blacks say, but breed corruption within government machinary of the host counrtryt.

[dhayal]

click here http://www.tribuneindia.com/2006/20060622/chd.htm

[visheshn]

But its not always true that its a problem in abroad. Most of our comunities are living in abroad. Its depend upon their values and culture only. They can do the same thing in India also and very easily. In our india most of the people dont like to saty in joint family but some one want its depend on the ourself.


There has been a growing number of disputes in NRI marriages,the national commission for women has asked the centre to take diplomatic measures to ensure legal protection to women marrying overseas and also indian embassies to play a pro active role in the matter.

The majority of complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada.
Since last year,1,820 cases hv been registered.
Noting that majority of the complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada,there has been a difficulities in helping womens overseas due to international legal barriers.

SO REGARDINGTHIS I WANNA ASK EVERYONE OUT HERE THAT HOW FAR THESE DISPUTES ARE TRUE N WAT CAN BE THE SOLUTION TO IT...........ITS AN OPEN DISCUSSION SO I WANT EVERY ONE TO GIVE THERE VIEWS ON THIS HIGHLIGHTING ISSUE.

[ritu]

yes prashant i am not here to give comments on your postsonly.but if yo will blame people living abroad by calling them westernized .i would not sit quiet.and i do not have to take certificate from u for my maturity level.
and coming to the topic i know this problem very well.its mostly in punjabi families and girls from the villages of punjab r victim of it.now indian government is taking steps to protect those girls.there is a organization here in USA also who helps those girls.
the only step which indian government can also take is to make people in punjab more aware of this problem and discourage marriages like this.








Ritu, are u here only to give comments on my posts???? without observing my post everytime u try to degrade my views. I always respected u as my elder sis & never kept any hard feelings for u. ....But i really shocked as i see ur remarks..... Ok........ U are staying in abroad that does n't mean u will take down whatever u like.
Be cool & before throwing mud on me, see the first line of my post...... i have commented only on those Indians about whom Dolly has given the datas....U are asking about my overseas link?????..Better u would have asked this question from Dolly instead of me..... Have a look on
ur post what impact it give??......it really reflects ur haughty attitude..... what a superiority complex u are having in ur mind. I have been driven to convince that age is not a factor for being a person mature.
.......... Some elders really need to
grow up........................

[monikadahiya]

bhaiyaa jitne westernized aajkal india mein rehne waale ho re hain, utne te abraod mein rehan aale kati na ho sakte..!!! people here comment just for the heck of it.. and while doing so prove how sensible ( oops..insensible) they are. The data is blown out of proportion. Has anyone looked at the number of divorces happening in india?? if you define westernization as increasing number of divorces, i guess Indians in india, if not top will atleast be among the top in being westernized. Kam se kam western countries mein reh kar culture barkaraar rehta hai to a great extent. India mein bhi sab prevalent hai... be it divorce , a live in relation or extra marital affairs. You name it and india has it. logon ko NRIs par kuch kehne se pehle statistics check kar lene chahiye and then only should they blurt out...

[chhillar]

There has been a growing number of disputes in NRI marriages,the national commission for women has asked the centre to take diplomatic measures to ensure legal protection to women marrying overseas and also indian embassies to play a pro active role in the matter.

The majority of complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada.
Since last year,1,820 cases hv been registered.
Noting that majority of the complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada,there has been a difficulities in helping womens overseas due to international legal barriers.

SO REGARDINGTHIS I WANNA ASK EVERYONE OUT HERE THAT HOW FAR THESE DISPUTES ARE TRUE N WAT CAN BE THE SOLUTION TO IT...........ITS AN OPEN DISCUSSION SO I WANT EVERY ONE TO GIVE THERE VIEWS ON THIS HIGHLIGHTING ISSUE.

Haven't heard your take on this yet Dolly!

[ritu]

amit ya bat bahut sahi kahi tune
Haven't heard your take on this yet Dolly!

[drjatin]

Well......i have not listened about this issue before..... But as par as the datas of dolly , situation is going to be really complicated........ Such indians staying overseas are following the traditions of westerns. ...........strongly impressed by Western Culture..have a impression to change wives like clothes...............as u know Divorce is a common thing in west....... In most of the cases the boy gets married to an Indian girl to make glad his family........ But cann't continue the life......... & the poor girl suffer...................


bhai ee baat kisne batayi tere tahi! KITNE DESHAN MEIN GHOOM KE YO NISHKARSH NIKALA!
EK NU E SUNI SUNAI BAAT MARRE SAI!
NRI S FOLLOW THEIR TRADITIONS MORE THAN INDIANS AND IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON NOT THE COUNTRY

[chhillar]

I don't know about her other threads but there is nothing wrong with this one, it’s a worthy topic I think and needs attention too.

As far as 911 or 100 helpline go they never save marriages. These kinds of help for sure can help in domestic violence and such but not divorce. You can't call 911 in US/Canada and ask them to keep family from divorce situation. In these situations when it get out of hand one needs parents, relatives and friends which normally NRI's don't have, at least not all of us.

But interestingly this problem exists more so in Punjabis and Gujratis who have most of their families here.

[ritu]

i might be wrong amit.but what i wanted to convey is disputes in marriage r every where.and i do not see it differently than a arranged married in india.there is always a risk involved in arranged marriage. ur right in india family is there to support.but sometimes family interference makes the matter worse only.i have seen girls willing to compromise but there parents do not let them do so.

[rkumar]

..... ur right in india family is there to support.but sometimes family interference makes the matter worse only.i have seen girls willing to compromise but there parents do not let them do so.

Exactly. This is what I said in another thread on the same thing. Marriages are spoiled in most cases by parents and other relatives. I know how my grandmother constantly created for my mother and tried to brain washes everyone. If I have quote a figure, I will say that at least 90% marriages are spoiled by mother in laws of the girls. Father in law is usually supportive but surrenders to the whims of his wife (mother in law of girl). Intelligent smart boys usually strike a balance and learn how to manage things. No wonder many girls hate combined families.

RK^2

[prashantacmet]

Ritu madam Ji..... as i have already mentioned that my comments were for those 1872 NRIs
whose marriage disputes cases have been registered in the court in last year & these facts were not given by me that was Dolly collection !!!!! So it might be one of the possible cause that these NRIs(1872:eek::eek:)
are influenced with western culture & do n't consider marraige a life time- relationship........ i never quoted for each & everone NRI.
Apart from this, I am not doing any thesis on NRI & not being supposed to do in the fothcoming time. As Dolly has invited for an open discussion & she was curious
to know the views of Jatlanders So i pendown two words ....... that's it. why do u make it a prestige issue? Don't be frustrate & not say some one to shutdown his mouth...... Afterall everone here is having equal right whether any NRI like u ......... or ek GHAAS KHODDA........ GHUNTATEK .........hehhehhe.........Like me..................................

yes prashant i am not here to give comments on your postsonly.but if yo will blame people living abroad by calling them westernized .i would not sit quiet.and i do not have to take certificate from u for my maturity level.
and coming to the topic i know this problem very well.its mostly in punjabi families and girls from the villages of punjab r victim of it.now indian government is taking steps to protect those girls.there is a organization here in USA also who helps those girls.
the only step which indian government can also take is to make people in punjab more aware of this problem and discourage marriages like this.





Jatin saahab ,,One question from u "Do u only believe whatever u have seen??" kya aapne apni Jindgi main kabhi suni sunayi baat pe yakeen nahi kiya.............................................: D:D:D
bhai ee baat kisne batayi tere tahi! KITNE DESHAN MEIN GHOOM KE YO NISHKARSH NIKALA!
EK NU E SUNI SUNAI BAAT MARRE SAI!
NRI S FOLLOW THEIR TRADITIONS MORE THAN INDIANS AND IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON NOT THE COUNTRY

[drjatin]

Jatin saahab ,,One question from u "Do u only believe whatever u have seen??" kya aapne apni Jindgi main kabhi suni sunayi baat pe yakeen nahi kiya.............................................: D:D:D

BHAI MEIN BINA CHEEZ TO JANE COMMENT NAHIN KARTA
kissi JAGAH KE LOOGON KE BAARE MEN KOI JABBE KAWAH GA NA JAB USNE BERA HO! WO UT GAYA HO!
EB MAIN BAROUT KE BAARE MEIN KUCH NAHIN KEH SAKTA KYONKI MAIN WAHAN KABHI GAYA HE NAHI! US JAGAH KE BAARE MEIN TO WAHI AADMI APNI OPINION DEGA NA JO WAHAN GAYA HO !

Bhai kisse baat ke baare mein jabhi apni opinion deni chahiye jab uska poora gyan ho! Chanankya ne kaha hai ki alpgyan sabse ghatak hota hai!

[raj2rif]

The majority of complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada.
Since last year,1,820 cases hv been registered.
Noting that majority of the complaints came from countries like US,UK and canada,there has been a difficulities in helping womens overseas due to international legal barriers.

SO REGARDINGTHIS I WANNA ASK EVERYONE OUT HERE THAT HOW FAR THESE DISPUTES ARE TRUE N WAT CAN BE THE SOLUTION TO IT...........ITS AN OPEN DISCUSSION SO I WANT EVERY ONE TO GIVE THERE VIEWS ON THIS HIGHLIGHTING ISSUE.

The problem in solving any issue is "truth" itself. I believe that is the issue, as to how to get to the truth. I feel, each case is different for reasons and outcome. I being in the business where people do share with me some very personal information which some times is sensitive as well as painful, feel that we can't generalize the issue.
I have seen a girl having some mental disorder getting married to a very healthy young man here. They are not divorced yet, but the girl is already in hospital. In another case a very hard working girl getting married to a mentally retarded person here. One case is from Punjab and another from Gujarat. While we might say that it is these two communities who are involved in this kind of trade, but the truth is that we have more cases from these communities only because there are more people abroad from these two states. If we take the % factor, I feel that all states and communities will be relatively in the same category.
The question is why this problem? Is it unique to the marriages with NRI's? I don't think the problem is unique to the marriages with NRI's. I had seen back home various marriages taking place where one of the spouse was either mentally retarded or had some problem that was not brought out to the notice of other party before the wedding.
The problem of the Marriages involving NRI's may be coming to the media's attention more than the similar cases at the regional basis, for it makes a more sensational news and draws more public attention. People may be getting tired to go to Magistrate, or Registrar of marriages, it is much more fashionable to get it to the Embassy.
Here in US I have seen some cases from different communities where the boy or the girl was drug addict, and the parents knew about it and did not tell the other party about it. Such marriage does have very bright chances of landing up in divorce.
I personally feel in a modern world like ours, let the boy and girl make their choices. As parents, let us be open to children and treat them like friends. Advise them about good and bad points of a relationships and the manner in which one can find out more about other person. I feel every one should have the right to choose his/her partner with whom he or she has to spend rest of his/her life. We as parents should advise them and help them in making decisions.
Marriage itself is a separate subject. In many cases it may be the money factor that could be the reason. Who knows, the bride's parents may themselves be involved in extracting money from the groom's parents, since it is the woman's voice that will draw more favorable attention with the law.

[anupam]

well i think even u can give your views on this issue...y u wanna put it up on NRI community only......

Dolly,

I’m sorry to hurt you… I didn’t mean to transfer all the responsibilities to the NRIs. Regarding the matter, I thought that they must have a better idea about the prevailing lifestyle among the NRIs in the western part of the world.

Anyways, it’s just a perception… I believe the western world is too much materialistic, which they call it being practical, and the NRIs living in the western part have got some induction effect… I mean, they somewhat adapt the western lifestyle, knowingly or unknowingly, becoming somewhat materialistic… and I believe that marriage is not just a relationship, it an institution in itself… both the partners should be likeminded to work out together in the various phases of life…

One more problem which persist with the Indian Society is that our culture not so open in respect of girls and the girl who is going abroad after marriage are not used to that culture and doesn’t get of time to adjust in that kind of lifestyle… moreover, marrying the daughter to an NRI is the status symbol for most of the families living in India and this is like a dream come true but fact remains that they have not exposed their progeny to that kind of environment which leads complication while adjusting outside.

Furthermore, the independence among the children brought up under Indian Culture is little less in… which in turn affect the decision making of the person… Also, the decisions made by the parents in their account of life are not always right… the imposed decisions left the person in a situation of conflict and these conflicts if not resolved with a placid mind lead to disasters… And the child who has moved to a foreign land doesn’t have their family with them to support in positive way to come out of the situation…

I suppose, the abovementioned points are the reasons for the breakage / failures of marriages among the girls, who got married to NRIs…

Regards,

Anupam

[msingh]

what do u think only NRI people have prob in there marriages,,,,,,,,,if u have a look at the statistics the marriages in india r more in trouble rather than outside india...............
and that too..... Talli ek haath see nahin Bajati
if two people r commited,,,then nothing goes wrong .......
and i think humm log jo bahar rehate hai ---we r still tryiing to presevre what we have inherited from our culture,,,,but people who r in india (nt offending anybody)but i think they r too fast ,,,,,,,,,i think the indian who move out of there country r better indians than those who r there in india



i totally agree with monika bebe

[rkumar]

Bhaiyon simple si baat hai.. Znidgi ki raftaar bahut tej hotee jaa rahee hai.. fast vehicles need better controls and faster reflexes of the people who drive them.. same applies to the institution of marriage... If not steered and controlled properly, any relationship will crash land... It needs constant monitoring with more and more number of indicator lights on the panel... How about conducting a Jatland crash course on marriage managemnt in modren times???????????? Any takers???????????????/ I am serious...

RK^2

[dolly2003]

Haven't heard your take on this yet Dolly!

Well!!!!! i am not here to blame the NRI Community but its a general discussion and we all know the incidences of fraudulent NRI MARRIAGES is on the rise.

Lemme tell u its not only punjabis or Gujaratis but i have seen some of the JAT FAMILIES suffering. Maybe, the number is less than Punjabi's and Gujarati's.

There are so many cases being reported but crime goes largely unpunished. Lying, cheating, false promises, unreasonable dowry demands are just some of the things unfortunate NRI brides have to put up with, not to mention divorce n desertion.

When things don't work in cross country marriages, women are especially vunerable, stranded, in a foreign country often without any financial support, they have no one to turn on.

With globalisation, the number of NRI indian marriages is on the rise so there is a need for some institutional mechanism of getting authentic information before these long distance marriages are finanilised bcos dubious marriage bureaus make things worse.

What i think is the indian missions abroad could help out with a task in conjunction with local NGO and even come to rescue of victims and more than that the indian law enforcing agencies need to be more sympathetic in dealing with them.

[roopak]

well 2 me .apart 4 wht doly has stated...........i think the parents who want their daughter to get married 2 a NRI just 4 the sake of money or green card(even the gals 4 tht matter)....must first check up and get done all enqiries....like all parent do here in our society......dekh parakh ke rishta karna chahiye...............so the parents also have to be more concern abt the groom and not his NRI status.............

[nakul]

Well this is my first message on this topic....And the message is
keep posting your views, any comments on "Pheer Hera Pheri" and "Da Vinci Code"...I believe Hera-Pheri-I was better.


any comments?????

[speedcrazy]

:D Nakul...what about MI-3???? Tom looks superb in that:D Well this is my first message on this topic....And the message is
keep posting your views, any comments on "Pheer Hera Pheri" and "Da Vinci Code"...I believe Hera-Pheri-I was better.


any comments?????

[prashantacmet]

ooooooo Nakul........ errr Gauri..............Thaamne to topic ki direction hi divert kar di............hehhehehhe.....hahahah.............. .nu kaam na challe....... Dolly lath leke sudharegi thaamne........uske thraed ki maatti peet di thaamne..........comment on hair style of Tom Cruise.................................hehehhehe.. ........... ROOKKA@ HAIR STYLE of TOM CRUISE.............................

[dolly2003]

Well this is my first message on this topic....And the message is
keep posting your views, any comments on "Pheer Hera Pheri" and "Da Vinci Code"...I believe Hera-Pheri-I was better.


any comments?????nakul...i believe you have not read the thread before posting the message. The topic was regarding NRI MARRIAGES and you are looking for views on "Pheer Hera Pheri" and "Da Vinci Code"..... Don't know how to react but .....Small suggestion....read the topic before you post the messages.......

[maneesh_singh]

:D arrrey naaraz na hooo......ye thooda khel masti to chalti rahti hain.......ab ye batao france jeetega ya portugal :D

[deepshi]

PORTUGAL
portugal guys rock!
like strght desecended frm heaven;) ,,well chiselled faces n bodies!

[ssiwach]

I am not sure why this thread is targeting only NRI's? This problem is everywhere, even in India. So the solution should not be to save only NRI marriages but to save marriages in general.

I have seen lots of NRI boys getting married to someone in India but (mostly) NRI girls wants to marry someone locally.

I think, no experience though and don't want to have one, the problem comes when NRI boy ( married to girl from India) plans to back to India (if at all) and better half becomes bitter half. I have seen this in many cases.

There are some other reasons too but being westernized, high speed, doesn't look true.:confused:

[prashantacmet]

hhehehhe..........Ghani hassi ki baat kah di Bhai sanjebbe..issne humour section main ger de.........:)...............................
I am not sure why this thread is targeting only NRI's? This problem is everywhere, even in India. So the solution should not be to save only NRI marriages but to save marriages in general.

I have seen lots of NRI boys getting married to someone in India but (mostly) NRI girls wants to marry someone locally.

I think, no experience though and don't want to have one, the problem comes when NRI boy ( married to girl from India) plans to back to India (if at all) and better half becomes bitter half. I have seen this in many cases.

There are some other reasons too but being westernized, high speed, doesn't look true.:confused:

[dolly2003]

:D arrrey naaraz na hooo......ye thooda khel masti to chalti rahti hain.......ab ye batao france jeetega ya portugal :D

PORTUGAL
portugal guys rock!
like strght desecended frm heaven;) ,,well chiselled faces n bodies!

kindly stick to the topic..dont try to deviate from it!!!!!!!!

[choudhary_tapan]

This issue was vry hot few years back n still its happening...as lots of married women committed suicide from mostly Punjab when their husband never came back to take them, to thr country n later found out that these were already got married for 3-4 times just for greed only..and this happened on large amount...to handle this kind of issues govt (deir sey) have got some marriage bureau kind of things now a days which helps to get profile and information of the person from UK n US embassies ....like person is married or not n like these kind of basic things.
http://www.nriinternet.com/Marriages/0_India/2004/2_NRIprince.htm
http://www.tribuneindia.com/2005/20050508/ldh1.htm

[choudhary_tapan]

http://www.sulekha.com/groups/postdisplay.aspx?cid=697069&forumid=756919