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abhay
July 6th, 2006, 12:12 PM
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Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was

Around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open.







He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep It in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot The matter.



The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by Its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine Meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother Hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She Was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child , He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.


QUESTIONS (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');):


1. What were the five words (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)?






2.What is the implication of this story (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)?




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ANSWER (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');):

The husband just said "I am with you Darling (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)"


The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour. The Child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point In finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to Keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.










No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she Needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would


Be much fewer problems in the world. "

A journey of a thousand miles (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)



Begins with a single step.

(http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)" Take off all your envies, jealousies,



Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are Actually not as difficult as you think.





MORAL OF THE STORY (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)




Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, Whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this Way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

sunitahooda
July 6th, 2006, 01:29 PM
Nice story Abhay....n a practical approach of husband. Keep Posting:)

neeti
July 6th, 2006, 02:36 PM
Hi Abhay,
Nice Story...

"Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, Whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this Way we miss out some warmth in human relationship. "

-- it is not only the sometimes ... most of the time we behave like this...
Its our ego that dont allow us to forgive things easily...
But one thing for sure.. when we read these type of articles, few good things comes to our mind atleast for a day, n on that day alteast we do few good things

hav a good day
neeti

mothsara1st
July 6th, 2006, 07:18 PM
Very good story abhay singh........such story being story teaches us the right approaches towards life and rest in our mind in many more situation if we .............learn the moral...........
really really apreciable story.

choudharyneelam
July 6th, 2006, 07:51 PM
nice story!!

akanksha
July 6th, 2006, 08:38 PM
one wonderful post Abhay. very well written down that made the reading a calm experience. thanks.


keep posting.


Akanksha..


jai kilkii taull..





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Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was

Around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open.







He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep It in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot The matter.



The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by Its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine Meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother Hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She Was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child , He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.



QUESTIONS (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');):



1. What were the five words (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)?









2.
What is the implication of this story (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)?





Scroll down (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)...







Down (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)...





Down (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)...



Down (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)...







Down (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)...










ANSWER (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');):

The husband just said "I am with you Darling (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)"


The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour. The Child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point In finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to Keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.














No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she Needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would



Be much fewer problems in the world. "



A journey of a thousand miles (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)




Begins with a single step.


(http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)" Take off all your envies, jealousies,




Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are Actually not as difficult as you think.





MORAL OF THE STORY (http://javascript<b></b>:ol('http://www.funlok.com/modules.php?name%3dNews%26amp;file%3darticle%26amp ;sid%3d556%26amp;mode%3d%26amp;order%3d0%26amp;tho ld%3d0');)




Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, Whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this Way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

vijay
July 8th, 2006, 10:52 PM
Nice touching story, Abhay.

Thanks !

devdahiya
July 10th, 2006, 11:19 PM
We can learn a lot out of this story.......Thanks so much for sharing with us!

monikadahiya
July 10th, 2006, 11:57 PM
such a nice post abhay :).... If only everyone was this mature and practical, the world would have been swarg. We should learn from such stories.. :)

amithooda
July 11th, 2006, 12:07 AM
wow dude thas really an awesome story
really we all need to learn form this and behave the same. no1 will ever be let donw this way
keep on posting such good things
bye
regards
amit hooda

abhay
July 11th, 2006, 12:15 AM
Thanx guys for reading this story....i'll try and share things like that ....i think they can really make a lot of difference in anybody's life...

prolly it can help us change the way we look at life and people around us.......