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dahiyars
February 13th, 2007, 06:24 AM
Haryana’s missing girls
Changes in policy required
by R.S. Dahiya
THE issue of missing girls and women in Haryana has gone to an alarming stage and needs a serious overview so that some concrete interventions can be thought of
Consumer-oriented economic development, commercialisation of the medical profession and sexist biases in our society together have created a sad scenario of missing girls.
Instead of women the empowerment, we are doing feminisation of labour. Global comparisons of sex ratios show that the sex ratios in Europe, North America, Caribbean, Central Asia and the poorest regions of Sab Saharan Africa are favourable to women as these countries neither kill/neglect girls nor do they use NRTs for the production of sons.
On the other hand, the lowest sex ratio is found in some parts of India and Haryana is one of them. The bottom 10 districts in child sex ratio are Fatehgarh Sahib (754), Patiala (770), Kurukshetra (770), Gurdaspur (775), Bathinda (779), Mansa (779) Amritsar (783), Sonepat (783) and Ambala (784). There are 16 districts in India having a less than 800 sex ratio and 10 of them are in Punjab and Haryana. There are 1852 villages in Haryana where the child sex ratio (0-6) is less than 750. This practice had been earlier also, but now it has taken a new turn with the widespread use of new reproductive technologies in Haryana during the period of the Green Revolution.
The census results of 2001 have revealed that with a sex ratio of 927 girls for 1000 boys, India had a deficit of 60 lakh girls in the age group of 0-6 years, when it entered the new millennium. In Haryana we are short of 3,22,436 girls in the age group of 0-6 years as per the 2001 census.
The NRTs in the context of patriarchal control over women’s fertility and commercial interests are posing a major threat to women’s dignity and bodily integrity. The two-child norm policy is also posing a negative impact.
The supporters of pre-birth elimination of females put forward various arguments like “pay Rs 500 now and save Rs 5,00,000 later”. Also it needs to be clarified that the right to abortion must remain as an essential right of women, a right to determine their life, their body and fertility. In this context the crucial and important question is: can we allow Haryanvi girls to become an endangered species?
Dr Sabu George and myself conducted a study on female foeticide in rural Haryana in a rural population of about 13,000 in Rohtak district and we interviewed more than 1,000 women to know the pregnancy outcomes during 1995 to 2000. We have found that the “sons only and sons must” syndrome has been perpetuated by resorting to female foeticide, using modern technological tools, thus reinforcing the patriarchal values as cultural determinants.
In our survey done in 2004 in 12 villages there were 50 cases of brides purchased from other states. In the last panchayat elections it became an election issue that if they win they would arrange for more purchased brides.
When we discussed the issue with a group of women in villages, they had a misconception that if their number decreases, their worth would increase.
They also told us that they have to have extra care from the birth of the girl child till they are married and later life as well beca use of the increasing, insecurity in society. They revealed that when a girl is born, there is an atmosphere of “mattam” and when a boy is born this is celebrated by beating a “thali” and distributing sweets. The tradition of the 6th day celebration on the birth of a boy “Chhath” is there. A mother who gives birth to a boy is given 10 kg of ghee and the mother giving birth to a girl is given 5 kg in villages. When asked whether they celebrate the “Namkaran Sanskar” of girls, all of them answered in the negative.
Similarly, many traditional discriminatory points came in during the discussion, confirming again the reflex conditioning of women’s psyche and society as a whole.
The PNDT Act amendment rules 2003 have activated the implementation machinery to curb nefarious practices contributing for missing girls. This is true but we have a great task in front of us i.e. to change the mindset of doctors, the people at large and the victim women in particular, to create a socio-cultural milieu that is conducive for the girl child’s survival and monitor the activities of commercial-minded doctor thriving on sexist prejudices.
The following policy-level changes are required and these need to be implemented by the state through both governmental structures and voluntary organisations:
Registering and monitoring of all pregnancies from the 6th week onward and not from the 12th week.
Increase the marriage age of girls from 18 to 21.
Provide compulsory, free, quality education to all girls up to the secondary level.
Extend 50 per cent representation to women in all decision-making bodies of the state to introduce a feministic political culture conducive to women friendly political action.
Eradicate child labour and guarantee employment for adult women.
Bring policy and legal measures to ensure that women have rights and control over productive resources for the economic empowerment of women.
Provide life-sustaining resources such as health, nutrition, water, education to all children without gender bias.
Entrust power to panchayats to maintain a register of the demographic profile with details on vital statistics.
Frame a child policy and a girl child policy to protect the interests of children.
Extend gender sensitisation training to policy makers, planners, administrators and implementers at all levels.
The writer is a Professor of Surgery, PGIMS, Rohtak
The Tribune,17 January2007.

Samarkadian
February 13th, 2007, 11:53 AM
THE issue of missing girls and women in Haryana has gone to an alarming stage and needs a serious overview so that some concrete interventions can be thought of
Consumer-oriented economic development, commercialisation of the medical profession and sexist biases in our society together have created a sad scenario of missing girls.
Instead of women the empowerment, we are doing feminisation of labour. Global comparisons of sex ratios show that the sex ratios in Europe, North America, Caribbean, Central Asia and the poorest regions of Sab Saharan Africa are favourable to women as these countries neither kill/neglect girls nor do they use NRTs for the production of sons.

----->Yesterday,night while swaping channels,a news channel flashed the news of "legalisation" of abortion in Portugal shocked my soul.Making a law which can legaly kill a life, Killing is killing(heinous) wether its a 2-3 months old embryo inside or outside is same.This morning When i logged on here, and saw this very urgent,alarming,serious and genuine article, I couldnt stop myself.On theother side, its sad that people surf (mostly like more than 70%)in fun and humour section,huge imbalance again,.I wish Mr Dahiya you would have posted it there,atleast then only some fun loving creatures must have read its title atleast.

On the other hand, the lowest sex ratio is found in some parts of India and Haryana is one of them. The bottom 10 districts in child sex ratio are Fatehgarh Sahib (754), Patiala (770), Kurukshetra (770), Gurdaspur (775), Bathinda (779), Mansa (779) Amritsar (783), Sonepat (783) and Ambala (784). There are 16 districts in India having a less than 800 sex ratio and 10 of them are in Punjab and Haryana. There are 1852 villages in Haryana where the child sex ratio (0-6) is less than 750. This practice had been earlier also, but now it has taken a new turn with the widespread use of new reproductive technologies in Haryana during the period of the Green Revolution.

--->Some one posted somewhere about Haryana moving rapidly,those guys must read this article for a little bit of introspection and analysis.Dude!! Where are the girls? Economical success wont be a achievement unless a balance and women empowered society.(phew!! Ratios are changing drasticaly)

The census results of 2001 have revealed that with a sex ratio of 927 girls for 1000 boys, India had a deficit of 60 lakh girls in the age group of 0-6 years, when it entered the new millennium. In Haryana we are short of 3,22,436 girls in the age group of 0-6 years as per the 2001 census.
The NRTs in the context of patriarchal control over women’s fertility and commercial interests are posing a major threat to women’s dignity and bodily integrity. The two-child norm policy is also posing a negative impact.
The supporters of pre-birth elimination of females put forward various arguments like “pay Rs 500 now and save Rs 5,00,000 later”. Also it needs to be clarified that the right to abortion must remain as an essential right of women, a right to determine their life, their body and fertility. In this context the crucial and important question is: can we allow Haryanvi girls to become an endangered species?

---->If the madness of economy driven success would have been same, I doubt, females of haryana definatly find their place in a museum.Once there was harynavi girls.............. I guess Sarva Khap and other absurd organisation(if they are hearing,must act, as they claim they represent masses) should rather must issue some social deadlines for it.But they dnt have history of democracy , neither had any Female represenation of women.

---->We have given respect to women as our mothers n sisters but didnt give them freedom to decide their socio-economic freedom(Thaty they get defeated while in womb) Disgusting!! ancestors must be cruising.

Dr Sabu George and myself conducted a study on female foeticide in rural Haryana in a rural population of about 13,000 in Rohtak district and we interviewed more than 1,000 women to know the pregnancy outcomes during 1995 to 2000. We have found that the “sons only and sons must” syndrome has been perpetuated by resorting to female foeticide, using modern technological tools, thus reinforcing the patriarchal values as cultural determinants.
In our survey done in 2004 in 12 villages there were 50 cases of brides purchased from other states. In the last panchayat elections it became an election issue that if they win they would arrange for more purchased brides.
When we discussed the issue with a group of women in villages, they had a misconception that if their number decreases, their worth would increase.
---->Where are strong advocates of same caste marriage?listening haan?

They also told us that they have to have extra care from the birth of the girl child till they are married and later life as well beca use of the increasing, insecurity in society. They revealed that when a girl is born, there is an atmosphere of “mattam” and when a boy is born this is celebrated by beating a “thali” and distributing sweets. The tradition of the 6th day celebration on the birth of a boy “Chhath” is there. A mother who gives birth to a boy is given 10 kg of ghee and the mother giving birth to a girl is given 5 kg in villages. When asked whether they celebrate the “Namkaran Sanskar” of girls, all of them answered in the negative.
Similarly, many traditional discriminatory points came in during the discussion, confirming again the reflex conditioning of women’s psyche and society as a whole.

---->Poigent but true!! What to do.People are having fun..Dahiya Sir,Hatts off to you!!

The PNDT Act amendment rules 2003 have activated the implementation machinery to curb nefarious practices contributing for missing girls. This is true but we have a great task in front of us i.e. to change the mindset of doctors, the people at large and the victim women in particular, to create a socio-cultural milieu that is conducive for the girl child’s survival and monitor the activities of commercial-minded doctor thriving on sexist prejudices.
The following policy-level changes are required and these need to be implemented by the state through both governmental structures and voluntary organisations:
Registering and monitoring of all pregnancies from the 6th week onward and not from the 12th week.
Increase the marriage age of girls from 18 to 21.
Provide compulsory, free, quality education to all girls up to the secondary level.
Extend 50 per cent representation to women in all decision-making bodies of the state to introduce a feministic political culture conducive to women friendly political action.

---->Must,Need of every minute and moment!!

Eradicate child labour and guarantee employment for adult women.
Bring policy and legal measures to ensure that women have rights and control over productive resources for the economic empowerment of women.
Provide life-sustaining resources such as health, nutrition, water, education to all children without gender bias.
Entrust power to panchayats to maintain a register of the demographic profile with details on vital statistics.
Frame a child policy and a girl child policy to protect the interests of children.
Extend gender sensitisation training to policy makers, planners, administrators and implementers at all levels.

Concluding ,Or, As our own Ramdhari Singh 'Dinkar' put it:
Samar shesh hai, nahi kewal paap ka doshi vyagh
Jo tathastha hain, samay likhega unka bhi apraadh

dndeswal
February 13th, 2007, 02:12 PM
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Thanks Dr. Dahiya for this thought-provoking article.

Increase the marriage age of girls from 18 to 21.

Unfortunately, simply by bringing out a legislation on this would not be enough. The educated people are following it even now.



--->Some one posted somewhere about Haryana moving rapidly,those guys must read this article for a little bit of introspection and analysis.Dude!! Where are the girls?


Again, the gender imbalance is more in those areas where education level is good - those who read such articles happen to be the number one culprits. In so-called "backward" areas, the situation is not so bad. Our illiterate villagers are better than educated gentry, at least on this issue. Moreover, our women are more to be blamed for this evil compared to the menfolk.

BTW, this topic has been discussed earlier, notably in following threads. But nevertheless, this discussion should continue till the evil is eradicated.

"India's Lost Daughters" (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11494)

Ek Laddoo, Ek Larki (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11324&highlight=Ek+Ladoo+Ladki)

Female Foeticide :jats Should Be Ashamed (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14730&highlight=Male+female+imbalance+girl-child)

Plight of Girl Child in Haryana Just Take Look (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12592&highlight=shortage+of+girls)

Victimising the Victim (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6961&highlight=male-female+ratio)

pre birth Elemination of female & new paradigm of development in Haryana (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14759&highlight=male-female+ratio)

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Samarkadian
February 13th, 2007, 05:56 PM
Moreover, our women are more to be blamed for this evil compared to the menfolk.


How Sir?

dndeswal
February 13th, 2007, 06:17 PM
Moreover, our women are more to be blamed for this evil compared to the menfolk.


How Sir?

This has been discussed in an earlier thread. Today's mothers want sons, not daughters. First of all why do they get ready for undergoing such sonography tests? And why do they agree so easily for abortion if a girl-child is detected into the womb? Has there been an instance when a lady lodged a complaint against her household members that she is being forced for such an act by her husband/ father-in-law etc.? We are blaming the society for this, we should also pin-point the individual relations who are more responsible for this. To some extent our ladies (and also their mothers-in-law) are responsible - "Mujhe to beta hi chaahiye" attitude is more common in ladies than among the gentlemen of Jat society.
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dahiyars
February 18th, 2007, 06:35 AM
Changing trends
The good news as we ended 2006 is that some laws and policies do seem to be working. In the State with the worse 0-6 years sex ratio, Haryana, recent data suggests that some progress is being made. In the 2001 census, Haryana's 0-6 sex ratio was a shocking 819. Data for 2006 indicates that it has risen to 854, still well below the national average but an improvement on five years ago. In all but three districts, the sex ratio has improved. For instance, in Kurukshetra, it has gone up from 771 in 2001 to 809 in 2006. Similarly in Ambala, it has increased from 782 to 807. But in Gurgaon, it has slipped from 858 to 822, in Mahendragarh from 818 to only 791 and in Rewari, from 811 to 795. Gurgaon is now virtually an extension of New Delhi. So that is certainly not encouraging news.
R.S.Dahiya

dahiyars
February 22nd, 2007, 05:16 AM
Dear All

There is a myth as follows--

Sex Selective Abortions are more humane than dowary murders and sati. Please comment.
R.S.Dahiya

dahiyars
February 28th, 2007, 08:24 PM
How can you oppose selective sex abortion if you are not opposed to abortion?

R.S.Dahiya