Thare Bina ji lage naa Mahara Meri maa !

[spdeshwal]

Could any of our Lady members complete this Haryanvi geet ?

I was watching an interview with Jaspeender Narula , her sister and her mother. Jaspinder and her sister were sharing all the good things about her mother and step mother. They become very emotional while narrating all the "pyar and dulaar" they all shared at some point of time. All the time Jaspinder and her sister were talking and their mother was staring at them with a look full of love and emotions. She looked all the way the ocean of affection. At last their mother spoke. You know friends what, she sang this beautifull Haryanvi geet:

Thare bina ji laage naa mahara meri maa.....I tried to pen down but failed as i was so imotionlised by listening to that Mom.

Unfortunately,I lost my mother when i was very young but i can feel the essense of mothers love while observing my wife's unconditional love for my son and her Neice (our adopted daughter)

Vaise to hum logo ke liye har deen mother's day hai, Phir bhi, "I would like to congratulate all the mothers a very -2 happy Mother's Day"



Sateypal

[neels]

Sorry Sir, do not know the song mentioned by you... bt here'r my wishes for all the mothers.

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers and the would be mothers.

Thou' all days belong to mothers, and the bond between a mother and child is too strong to restrict itself to merely superficial celebrations on one such day. But I feel this isn't just about the celebrations n gifts etc., but surely this one day gives the opportunity to express our love for our mothers n thanking her for being there always supporting us. No doubt we love our mothers unconditionally but not always be able to say so. Feelings n emotions if expressed rightly are the sweetest, I believe.
As Karan Johar said in Kabhi khushi........, "It's all about loving your parents" And its never too late to say so....so I take this opportunity to say "I love you Mom".. for all the love you showered always,, for complying with my wants n wishes thou they might nt be reasonable alws, for always giving the best of lot, whatever it was, n above all for the delicious food made by you which has no match !

A Jewish proverb says, God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers.

[delhione]

dear sir,
by mother we not only mean the biological mother but also the lady who brought-up us when our mother was not there. you must have listened to this song ` ek ne tujh ko janam diya hai... ek ne tujh koi paala.. kanahiya !! kisko kahega tu maiya !!!` so i think you were lucky enough to get motherly love even after you lost your mother at such a young age so you have two reasons to celebarate today.
also share views of Dr. rathee , she is right in saying that everyday is mother`s day.
antil.

[spdeshwal]

Neelam ji

I believe, till recently, people from our background used to express love and affection for our loved one's very stintingly. I really don't remember me or my siblings uttering the expression "Love you Maa or Pitaji".

Our parents were no different. One of the last occasions i remember when my mother had expressed her unique love for me.
I was a student of Hindu High school Sonepat and used to live in hostel. I didn't like it their but wanted to move to Vaish High School Rohtak where my cousin who was also my best pal that time was a student of 9th standard.
One afternoon, i returned from sonepat with 5kg. container( dhoodhiyon waala 5 kg. ka doll) of ghee in my hand. She didn't expect me that week and that too in the middle of the week.

My mother asked, " Itna taawla kyonkar aagya beta."

I replied," mera udde ji naa lagta"

She didn't waste a second and gave me a hard slap on my chik.

Then she asked feeling the weight of the container, " yo ulta kyon lee-aa-a, Teen Hafte mein teen paw bhee na kha rakhya" and I replied meine achha na laagta.
Than came the second dose of my mother's love on my other chik, maine bera se tera padhai mein dheedha na laagta.( you don't concentrate on your studies)

Aisi thee meri maa aur uska pyar. She knew exactly when and how to treat her childern.

Naa bhai Yashpal , meri koi step mother nahi thee but had like real mothers and that too not one but two.

My two bhabhis were like my mothers. They always treated me and my two younger brothers as their children. We have never addressed them as bhabhi.


With best wishes and prayers for all the Mothers.


Sateypal

[sumeetmalik]

Great Story Deshwal ji. Very well told.

[skarmveer]

Maa ka sthan duniya mean servoochch hai, Maa key payar kee koi barabri nahi hai, Maa hee bina keesi sevarth bachcho ko payar karti hai, Bachchey ketney bhee badey ho jaya maa ko unkey sukh-shanti kee chinta hamesha rehti hai.

"Manva thandiya chhanwa"

Meree Maa sahit sabhi mano ko shardha or aader sahit Pernam.

Karmveer