U Turn

[mamtadg]

I place this perspective of mine to all my friends to give a thought on it and yes, opinion is welcome.
Here the title reflects that moment of life when it takes a U turn and everything in life is changed. This change might be for good or bad but fact is we are not prepared for it coz we never know at which stage of life this turning point will come .after that whole life will be transformed to bright glowing lights or to pitch darkness.
For e.g. Bomb blast at Mumbai brought U turn to lives for many people.
Wining a lottery ticket brought a U turn to life of a gatekeeper and a sweeper.
Similarly we all have such U turn I wish that the turning should be for betterment but if not enough strength and vision should come to cope up the adversity.
To conclude:
We need to invest in our own self in form of best education, financial security, mental growth, physical healthy,and spiritually high. If we are secure from within then only we can further it for others.

[rohit62]

ya u r right mamta one has to invest in ones self to be secure in life . u never know when ur u turn will come

[nmalik121]

hmmmmmmmm....

[nmalik121]

Hi Mamta,

Don't mind but I find it strange enough that on one hand you take "Love" as most fake concept on earth and in the same breath, you want to be secure from within, invest within to grow further. It is quite contradictory stuff. Only Love can generate the positive energy inside a human mind/body. This love can be for anything: for a person, a materialistic thing, or for one's dream, hopes etc...but one has to have love within to grow on all fronts. I don't mean to demean your thought in anyway...just felt so..so asked you.

If we are secure from within then only we can further it for others.

[bls31]

Life is a one way street, there may be turns and twists, sudden highs and Lows, but one can't take a U turn and back out from the street. It has to end some day some time,when and how one does not know.
Title of my new book is also 'One Way Street', If one happens to read it some time in future if and when it is published, one would find that though my life changed many times, giving Love, Pain and Guilt in the process, guilt of living a productive life even when I have lost my only love, Pain of living now alone traveling on a one way street, with the peep in future easy to visualize, Possibly such thought are not for young people , with still to traves the long distance in the One way street. Bls

[mamtadg]

Hi Mamta,

Don't mind but I find it strange enough that on one hand you take "Love" as most fake concept on earth and in the same breath, you want to be secure from within, invest within to grow further. It is quite contradictory stuff. Only Love can generate the positive energy inside a human mind/body. This love can be for anything: for a person, a materialistic thing, or for one's dream, hopes etc...but one has to have love within to grow on all fronts. I don't mean to demean your thought in anyway...just felt so..so asked you.
Dear friend,
At first point its about perspective and we are all open to form our own and respect others opinion.
secondly ,people develope opinion based on there personal experience or by learning from some one .so i believe in feasibility of things, in life all love ends day u dont get meal and fear for further survival begins.
believe me more than love pain can make you work more harder.
And in this world of cut throat competition love is not a great word to attain heights.
And definately your words cant effect me at all so deameaning is far off thing . i give due respect to your individual opinion.:)

[nmalik121]

No Comment:)

[mamtadg]

Life is a one way street, there may be turns and twists, sudden highs and Lows, but one can't take a U turn and back out from the street. It has to end some day some time,when and how one does not know.
Title of my new book is also 'One Way Street', If one happens to read it some time in future if and when it is published, one would find that though my life changed many times, giving Love, Pain and Guilt in the process, guilt of living a productive life even when I have lost my only love, Pain of living now alone traveling on a one way street, with the peep in future easy to visualize, Possibly such thought are not for young people , with still to traves the long distance in the One way street. Bls
Dear sir ,
I wish Your book get published soon and we get blessed to read it .sir before i started answering your msg i read it 4 times to get the real essence of it coz each words of your's have profound meaning so wasnt willing to miss any .
But unfortunately i feel you didnt not get what i meant. i would like to place an eg. to explain my content.
-it is about any other girl next door who lived life on terms and conditions of her father .He wanted to get her married as soon as possible and she too wished to windoff her studies and live a happy family life .man she got married to was slave to drinking and it demanded him his life .she was widow before she could realize it.
Definately you must be wondering what big deal about it we often hear such things but it get miserable when we see it from close.she is rejected and dejected from all fronts . if she had thought of U turns in life and invested in herself and self developement she might be in better position then what she is today .
YES I WISH LIFE BE ONE WAY WITHOUT ANY PERTURBATION...............:)

[mamtadg]

ya u r right mamta one has to invest in ones self to be secure in life . u never know when ur u turn will come
Ya dear we are unaware from ways of life.:)

[neels]

Surely life doesn't move accordingly as one expects,,, its totally uncertain,,,anything can happen.. !!! Ups and downs... lows and highs, good times-bad times, are part of life; some more some less. But as Brigadier Sir has suggested, life is a continuous journey,,, it cant take a U turn......!!!! You can never go back to the same place where you started, lots n lots of experiences and changes might ve occured in the course of time. The example you(Mamta) cited is also an uncertain occurance of events totally different from the expected. Making oneself worth and capable is always good. One does work or not, thats the different story, but yea if wud ve trained , certainly it wud nt ve been that difficult to live the life wid dignity. Parasitic life may be very easy and comfortable, but may leave one with a total blank if the adverse thing happens.

[nmalik121]

Mamta......May I ask you Who was that girl?

[shwetadhaka]

Dear friend,
At first point its about perspective and we are all open to form our own and respect others opinion.
secondly ,people develope opinion based on there personal experience or by learning from some one .so i believe in feasibility of things, in life all love ends day u dont get meal and fear for further survival begins.
believe me more than love pain can make you work more harder.
And in this world of cut throat competition love is not a great word to attain heights.
And definately your words cant effect me at all so deameaning is far off thing . i give due respect to your individual opinion.:)

Dear Mamta:) Good Morning :) ya we all r open to form our perspective!!.... even Dr. Manmohan Singh ji has his..... even Dawood Ibrahim had his own ..... but the thing is whts the right opinion !! & ya surely we tend to develop opinions from the day we r born......... based on our personal experiences & learnings & circumstances etc............ Well I am no one to comment whose perspective is right, whose is a bit wrong etc........ !! But I would like to say that at times we tend to form sme opinions that r biased owing to some bitter experiences we hv had....... or may be anything we observed.........so at times we must tend to look beyond our spectrum of thinking I suppose!!

So, coming back to the topic I wld just say that....... life has U turns...... sometimes too many....sometimes may be not even a single one!! ........ U turns........ need to be faced........ of course with courage & determination that a bright lovely morning is ahead.......... as it had been before:).... & this can be done more patiently & with ease if we have our loved ones nearby....... & we have an implied assurance that........someone is there at this point of time too......... this gives lots of strength.......... Many a problems can be solved by just a pinch of positive attitude...... and positive attitude comes when we have such positive people around whom we can trust & love....... my perpective says this!!........... may be I am wrong...... dont know dear.........

[nmalik121]

Bole to....Shweta to chhhaaa gayeeeeeeee hai bhiduu...:)..apun bhi shweta ki bat se soo fisdi ittaefaq rakhta hai...

[mamtadg]

Mamta......May I ask you Who was that girl?
My Dear friend sometimes certain things need not be disclosed .
but trust me it is not just an eg/story .she still lives,still survivesand still here.
But focus of the writing was to invest on oneself coz that is what will pay the most.........:)

[mamtadg]

have our loved ones nearby.......
Many a problems can be solved by just a pinch of positive attitude...... and positive attitude comes when we have such positive people around whom we can trust & love....... my perpective says this!!........... may be I am wrong...... dont know dear.........[/quote]
MY dear shweta ,
you are 101% right .
moral of the words are cultivate in one ownself coz it help not to be dependent on anyone( u get loved ones nothing better than that but if not) self investment is best investment.
yes, positive attitude makes wonders in pitch of darkness it can show path .:)

[nmalik121]

:)I Got my answer!:)

My Dear friend sometimes certain things need not be disclosed .

[ritu]

mamta u r rt ,one should always be ready for the worst especially girls.most of us including myself r always dependent on either parents or husband.u never know what can happen .u should be self sufficient to support urself and ur dear ones.never take anything granted be it parents huband friends or.............life.very good message dear.

[bls31]

Life has failures , successes s, heartbreaks, joys and sorrows,
there are road-blocks and diversions,life is 10 % and what one makes of it is 90%, it is the attitude -positive or negative that important, but we are talking about U Turn.Unfortunately life moves on at its own pace though it may appear to move, the time, crawling at others distressingly too fast depending upon the mood and circumstances.

The train would ,apparently, crawl at a snail pace, with the time hanging heavy, during the journey when ever I came on two month's annual or a week's casual leave to my wife and little girl,with the two months or the week would soon come to an end with the time now flying, fast, with the journey back in real time.
BLS

[mamtadg]

Life has failures , successes s, heartbreaks, joys and sorrows,
there are road-blocks and diversions,life is 10 % and what one makes of it is 90%, it is the attitude -positive or negative that important, but we are talking about U Turn.Unfortunately life moves on at its own pace though it may appear to move, the time, crawling at others distressingly too fast depending upon the mood and circumstances.

The train would ,apparently, crawl at a snail pace, with the time hanging heavy, during the journey when ever I came on two month's annual or a week's casual leave to my wife and little girl,with the two months or the week would soon come to an end with the time now flying, fast, with the journey back in real time.
BLS
Sir ,
moral of the story is lost .track is changed i mentioned on something and it is understood in some other way..............................:confused:

[bls31]

sorry if I am the culprit, however it does prove the point 'life can and does change track BLS

[shailendra]

To conclude:
We need to invest in our own self in form of best education, financial security, mental growth, physical healthy,and spiritually high. If we are secure from within then only we can further it for others.

...That there should be the aim of every person immaterial of U-turns or not!...

[rakeshdahiya]

Life has U turns........I dont know how relevent is this to the discussion going on here but even our dear WI cricketing great Lara is planning to come back to Cricket after announcing his retirement from it recently....Those intrested to find out more may want the check the link below:)

Lara set for cricket u-turn: Report -http://cricket.indiatimes.com/articleshow/2119482.cms

[shwetadhaka]

Life has U turns........I dont know how relevent is this to the discussion going on here but even our dear WI cricketing great Lara is planning to come back to Cricket after announcing his retirement from it recently....Those intrested to find out more may want the check the link below:)

Lara set for cricket u-turn: Report -http://cricket.indiatimes.com/articleshow/2119482.cms

Soooooooo ....... here is the U Turn for this Post :):p:cool: Lara ji is coming ........ is a great U Turn for the post I suppose!!!

[nmalik121]

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Soooooooo ....... here is the U Turn for this Post :p:cool: Lara ji is coming ........ is a great U Turn for the post I suppose!!!

[shwetadhaka]

:D:DHahahahhaaihihihihihihihihohohohoohohohoohahah ahhaha

AAAgain a U Turn!!
Mamta ur thread is a big hit :p
See here landed the biggest laughter challenge ki laughing equation!! :confused::rolleyes::cool::D:eek::p:)

[mamtadg]

AAAgain a U Turn!!
Mamta ur thread is a big hit :p
See here landed the biggest laughter challenge ki laughing equation!! :confused::rolleyes::cool::D:eek::p:)
ya dear m seeing people are taking real U turns

[nmalik121]

Khush raho Na Yaar...'U' turn ho ya 'I' turn ho...:)

[mamtadg]

...That there should be the aim of every person immaterial of U-turns or not!...
ya u are right it should be rather that way only but there are innumerable example where we leave things coz we feel everything around us is fine so whats the use of caring it further .

[mamtadg]

Khush raho Na Yaar...'U' turn ho ya 'I' turn ho...:)
yaaaa i know that's irony people want to showcase and focus on themselves and laugh over others ......................... ya it doesnt not matterrrrrrrr uuuuu turn or iiiiiiiiiiiiii turn

[mamtadg]

Life has U turns........I dont know how relevent is this to the discussion going on here but even our dear WI cricketing great Lara is planning to come back to Cricket after announcing his retirement from it recently....Those intrested to find out more may want the check the link below:)

Lara set for cricket u-turn: Report -http://cricket.indiatimes.com/articleshow/2119482.cms
flight landed somewhere else ?????????????????:confused:

[dreamer]

flight landed somewhere else ?????????????????:confused:
:D:rolleyes:

[sarikadg07]

I place this perspective of mine to all my friends to give a thought on it and yes, opinion is welcome.
Here the title reflects that moment of life when it takes a U turn and everything in life is changed. This change might be for good or bad but fact is we are not prepared for it coz we never know at which stage of life this turning point will come .after that whole life will be transformed to bright glowing lights or to pitch darkness.
For e.g. Bomb blast at Mumbai brought U turn to lives for many people.
Wining a lottery ticket brought a U turn to life of a gatekeeper and a sweeper.
Similarly we all have such U turn I wish that the turning should be for betterment but if not enough strength and vision should come to cope up the adversity.
To conclude:
We need to invest in our own self in form of best education, financial security, mental growth, physical healthy,and spiritually high. If we are secure from within then only we can further it for others.


Mamta dear,
Love what you've said.
I just want to add that change is a way of life. Change is uncertain but it is always good. It helps you grow. You can only be as secure and as prepared in life. Because its the uncertain things of life that makes it interesting. Its only when you can dig deeper within youself can you find what strengths and weekeness you have.
Cheers
Sarika

[mamtadg]

Mamta dear,
Love what you've said.
I just want to add that change is a way of life. Change is uncertain but it is always good. It helps you grow. You can only be as secure and as prepared in life. Because its the uncertain things of life that makes it interesting. Its only when you can dig deeper within youself can you find what strengths and weekeness you have.
Cheers
Sarika
True that is wht i too meant but sometimes in luxary of life we takes thing easy and for granted which should not be that manner .Be alert and be ready to take chance and risk which requires ample amount of courage and dedication.for that have to do self investment .
KEEP SMILING:)