Ai Waqt Rukja......

[neels]

Ai Waqt rukja , Tham ja , Thehar ja,,, Waapis zara daud peeche..........

DDLJ (Dilwale Dulhaiyan Le Jaayenge) ke ek gaane ki ye line main jab bhi sunti hun to mann mein ek khayal aata hai.....Kaash vakai waqt thehar sakta,,, kaash wakai main kisi beete waqt mein fir se ja sakti.....!!!

We think very often that if gone times can come back, and we can live it in a different way. I ve found myself brooding many times,,,, IF I wud ve done that way at that particular time,,,,If I wud ve not taken that decision that time,,, If I wud ve chosen differently than what i did at a certain time in life.

Sometimes I wish,,,, Kaash Waqt ruk sakta, peeche laut sakta.... haalanki jeevan aage chalne ka naam hai.. and we all know whatever is gone, is gone, time never comes back..... still the desire to go back to old times never ends.
It's not that I regret any of my decisions in life, but as it always seems that perhaps The Road not Taken had been more attractive, uselful, and appropriate than the one we took on the paths of life.

Aap sab ke mann mein bhi kabhi aisa khayal aata hai kya......?? kabhi kisi pal ko fir se jeene ka mann kerta hai kya...??
Is there any intersting incidence yu like to share... the way it happened.. n yu wud ve liked it to happen otherwise.

Any Intersting Memory... You like to share with all.

[ritu]

pal jo beet jaye aut rah gaye jo bahut peeche
gar ja saku me kabhi daud ke onme pichhe
kitne hi lamhe hai jinko me ultta kar daalu
jindagi ko gar aaj se beete kal me badal daalu
par unn lamho me jo thi kya me vo fir se ho pauugi
on lamho se judde os ehsas ko me kya fir se jee paaugi
fir socha kal ko kal hi me rahane dena behatar hai
beete lamho se sabak leke yaado me sajona hi behtar hai

[shashiverma]

Eh waqt wapis jara dhod peche........Kash I could have all my dear friends back in my life .....I tell you they were real gem...........we shared so many good moments.......but then time and situations do not leave things same forever...In this worldy race lost many of them with bitterness and pain....Koi jadoo kei jhadee hotee to i could have taken out that bitterness from past just to retain some of those good old dear buddies as my good friends forever.......with no khatte yaadee.

[VirenderNarwal]

Ai Waqt rukja , Tham ja , Thehar ja,,, Waapis zara daud peeche..........

जो वक़्त चला जाता है उससे हमे एक सीख मिलती है के हमने क्या अच्छा किया और क्या बुरा किया....जो वक़्त गुजर जाता है वो अच्छा ही होता है......क्युन्के उसमें प्रेरणा के सरोत्र छुपे हुए होते हैं....गुजरे वक़्त की खट्टी-मीठी यादें भर रह जाती हैं.....जो हमे पुराने अनुभवों से आगे ओर अच्छा करने की सीख देते हैं |

पीछे मुड़ कर देखते हैं तो बचपन से आनंदमई कोए काल नज़र नही आता .....कोए फिकर नही ...कोए जयादा खवाब नही ..बस मासूम से....कुछ ग़लत हुआ तो भी माफ़ी.....सब का प्यार.....निश्छल जीवन.....।

जवानी.......हर कदम फूंक-फूंक कर रखना.....सही करोगे तो तार्रिफ करने वाला कोए बिरला ही मिले आप ने....और जाने या अनजाने मे किमे ग़लत हो गया ते कई पिढियां तक पछताना पड़े ......|

जवानी के बाद जिम्मेवारी काल.......यो ते घणा खतरनाक काल सै जी.......कुछ भी घाटा-बाधा सीधे आप के नाम ते जुड़े सै जी......इसमे ते ना कौवा में न हंसा में ......माफ़ी का ते याहा कोए खाता ही ना है जी.....|

वैसे जो भी वक़्त आज तक जिया है या गुजरा है.....वो बहुत ही बढ़िया.....सुखदाई...आनन्द और गर्व से भरा हुआ ही बिता है....मैं तो बस इतना ही कहूँगा जी........

*******ये दिन जाईयो ना ओर दिन आइयो ना *******

इससे आगे का मेरे अनुभव ना है जी .........|

[deepakchoudhry]

Ai Waqt rukja , Tham ja , Thehar ja,,, Waapis zara daud peeche..........

DDLJ (Dilwale Dulhaiyan Le Jaayenge) ke ek gaane ki ye line main jab bhi sunti hun to mann mein ek khayal aata hai.....Kaash vakai waqt thehar sakta,,, kaash wakai main kisi beete waqt mein fir se ja sakti.....!!!

We think very often that if gone times can come back, and we can live it in a different way. I ve found myself brooding many times,,,, IF I wud ve done that way at that particular time,,,,If I wud ve not taken that decision that time,,, If I wud ve chosen differently than what i did at a certain time in life.

Sometimes I wish,,,, Kaash Waqt ruk sakta, peeche laut sakta.... haalanki jeevan aage chalne ka naam hai.. and we all know whatever is gone, is gone, time never comes back..... still the desire to go back to old times never ends.
It's not that I regret any of my decisions in life, but as it always seems that perhaps The Road not Taken had been more attractive, uselful, and appropriate than the one we took on the paths of life.

Aap sab ke mann mein bhi kabhi aisa khayal aata hai kya......?? kabhi kisi pal ko fir se jeene ka mann kerta hai kya...??
Is there any intersting incidence yu like to share... the way it happened.. n yu wud ve liked it to happen otherwise.

Any Intersting Memory... You like to share with all.

Hindsight is always a wonderful thing..isnt it.:)

Guzara hua waqt bilkul yaad aata hai....per ab kum aata hai.

Will I change anything? ... yes but only that part where I have hurt the other .

[neels]

Hindsight is always a wonderful thing..isnt it.:)

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Absolutely....!!!

[devdahiya]

God blessed us with every thing at the time of birth to explore,to think,to struggle,to feel pains and happiness,to observe and see,to learn and forget,to live and exist but he did not give the over all control to live on our terms and that is the beauty of his creation.To control this world he set the time clock rolling in a very fair manner...with a precondition that it will not stop[come what may...not even by the GOD if he wished it to stop]



If it was possible to stop/reverse the time then repercussions would have been severe for the living beings as millions of people/creatures are in a different stages of grief/happiness in a given moment and if i want to increase my happiness duration by stopping/rewinding the clock.......the many who are suffering during those moments will find their ordeal also extended and that would not have been fair by any standards and hence God did not keep that choice even with himself to prove the point that IT IS A FAIR...ABSOLUTE FAIR GAME OF LIVING.



Hence we ought to cherish our memories of past happy moments,learn from our silly mistakes committed in past,develop greater wisdom and equip our selves better to advance into an uncertain future unfolding unto us second by second as there is nothing permanent on this earth and around.



'Manttra' of life thus should be: Live life the way it comes as action is inherent in us and time ticks in a fair manner...same for all.

[kabir]

In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?

[neels]

In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?


Hmmmm...... to aap Dinkar bhi padhte hain.....!!!!

[devdahiya]

In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?



Bhai Kabir Singh ya Rashmi kuun sei....hadde te koe na..........? Yo tei mann mei bassya oodd naam deekhkhei se...?Hey-2.

[kabir]

Bhai Kabir Singh ya Rashmi kuun sei....hadde te koe na..........? Yo tei mann mei bassya oodd naam deekhkhei se...?Hey-2.
...........Mujhhe gyan ki tlash hei..........


Dev Saab:p, Ya Rashmi us Gyan ki gharwali hai jiske chakkar mein aap phir re;). See I can't help you find 'em but adhik jaankari ke liye, neeche like pate par sampark karein:

Gumshuda Talash Kendra,
Nai Kotwali, Daryaganj,
Nai Dilli - ek ek shoonya shoonya shoonya ek.

Doorbhash hai: teen dau saat cheh teen shoonya.:D:D:D

[kabir]

Hmmmm...... to aap Dinkar bhi padhte hain.....!!!!

Ji haan, yada kada.:)

[neels]

In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?


Rashmirathi (रश्मिरथी) (1952), meaning 'the Sun's charioteer', is one of the most popular works of the great Hindi poet, Ramdhari Singh 'Dinkar'.

[poonam]

Hmmmm...... to aap Dinkar bhi padhte hain.....!!!!

Dinkar hee nahi ye to "Raatkar" bhee padhte hai...heheh:p;):D..Kyon Kabir....

[devdahiya]

Dinkar hee nahi ye to "Raatkar" bhee padhte hai...heheh:p;):D..Kyon Kabir....



Arr saanjhhkar bi arr dophharrakar bi arr taddkeheinkar bi......Yo sab off topik chal rhya se...ye mods kddei obbre mein badd ge ibb saare..hey-2.

[neels]

Dinkar hee nahi ye to "Raatkar" bhee padhte hai...heheh:p;):D..Kyon Kabir....


Right Poonam, as he's out mostly in night with his valuable posts....:D:p;)

[neels]

Okay, I come back to point.

Well when I had this thought in my mind,,,, it wasnt just for the sake that I wish that gud times shud carry on... n bad times shud be shortened.
There are many small n big incidences in life,,, when something happens, which you cant overturn, and as an afterthought on such instances, you tend to keep thinking if only you wud ve acted otherwise.
I share a very intense n sad incidence of my life here,,, which still keep haunting me with an if only.... but what we are left with is "kaash"....

I lost my brother to illness. n due to certain reasons I cudnt meet him in the last time. Till date this memory haunts me,,, Had I gone few hrs earlier, wud ve met him last time. But who had thought this ll happen...!!!!

Well when I started this thread,, didn't intend to bring any sad aspect upfront,,,,,But the message's clear... sometimes nothing is left in your hand except this "kaash........". Time wudnt ve stopped at tht moment, the one who had to leave us, could nt ve been stopped,,, but yea at least this cud ve been possible if only.............!!!

.................................................. ..........................................

Anyways.... coming back to simpler aspects.... many times we regret later that,,,,, why we said so,, why we acted on impulse,,, why we cudnt maintain our calm when someone instigated us,,,as well many other such feelings.
If only we think for a while before reacting,,,, we may avoid many such minor but regrettable situations in life.

Yea we want that time may stop n go back to the times where we can make the things happen in a different way... but as we all know... time can not be stopped, the gone times never come bak,,, so we can work only on our present to make it better n worth memorable.

[poonam]

[If only we think for a while before reacting,,,, we may avoid many such minor but regrettable situations in life.

Nope, I disagree with ya here. In retrospect, its easy to analyze a given situation and its easy to come up with a perfect plan of action which could have been done at that given point.

But, the truth is we do our best at that point, among those circumstances. You will realise the truth of this truth in your future life as well even after you are prepared now and have been pondering over being more "rational" before acting...:)

[neels]

Nope, I disagree with ya here. In retrospect, its easy to analyze a given situation and its easy to come up with a perfect plan of action which could have been done at that given point.

But, the truth is we do our best at that point, among those circumstances. You will realise the truth of this truth in your future life as well even after you are prepared now and have been pondering over being more "rational" before acting...:)

I agree that retrospection always provides with a much fair analysis. And in no way, I mean to say that we can be perfect with too much ponderin' before implementing.
This was just for a very minor reactive state,,, when we react(not act) out of impulse without giving any thought.
The real big situations of life can never be manipulated by working out on the best possible options. They are most uncertain n unexpected. I ve already realized things doesnt go ur ways at times,,, how so ever you may plan for them.
Here the reference was for very minor things,,,, n li'lle bit out of frame from this big context....but I tried to relate it having some other issues in mind.


And the incidence I mentioned was just a case when we just keep thinking ki ye hua hota.. ya aise hua hota.... kinda kaash... situations.... wher we can do nothing except pondering that if time can come bak ever....!!!

[dkumars]

Nope, I disagree with ya here. In retrospect, its easy to analyze a given situation and its easy to come up with a perfect plan of action which could have been done at that given point.

But, the truth is we do our best at that point, among those circumstances. You will realise the truth of this truth in your future life as well even after you are prepared now and have been pondering over being more "rational" before acting...:)



Agreeeeeeeedddddddddddd

[dkumars]

I agree that retrospection always provides with a much fair analysis. And in no way, I mean to say that we can be perfect with too much ponderin' before implementing.
This was just for a very minor reactive state,,, when we react(not act) out of impulse without giving any thought.
The real big situations of life can never be manipulated by working out on the best possible options. They are most uncertain n unexpected. I ve already realized things doesnt go ur ways at times,,, how so ever you may plan for them.
Here the reference was for very minor things,,,, n li'lle bit out of frame from this big context....but I tried to realte it having some other issues in mind.


And the incidence I mentioned was just a case when we just keep thinking ki ye hua hota.. ya aise hua hota.... kinda kaash... situations.... wher we can do nothing except pondering that if time can come bak ever....!!!



More than Agreeeeeeeeeedddddddddddddddddd

[subhashbalhara]

neel ji
if u will celeberate ur each & every day
if u will enjoy ur each & every day
think positively
got satisfaction after delivering ur lecture
face every situation boldly & happily
u will see that
waqt ruk sa jayega, thahar jayega
life khushhaal ho jayegi

:)SB
GJU

[kabir]

neel ji
if u will celeberate ur each & every day
if u will enjoy ur each & every day
think positively
got satisfaction after delivering ur lecture
face every situation boldly & happily
u will see that
waqt ruk sa jayega, thahar jayega
life khushhaal ho jayegi

:)SB
GJU

Subhas bhai ne to katee neel de diya latton mein:p

[neels]

Subhas bhai ne to katee neel de diya latton mein:p

Hmmmmm.... I m blued completely........;)


SB ji ki itni saari salaah maan ne ke baad to waqt bilkoool hi thehar gaya hai ..........

i wanna moov it yaar...........:p:D:)


P.S. baaki subhash ji.... aisa kuch nahin hai.. it was just a thought...a hind sight yu may say.... rest i m pretty khushhal in my life.. by God's grace m v Happy n content.

[kabir]

Watching for the nth time the movie Golmaal, I stumbled on these two lines which are even more philosophical and put an end to all ifs and butts ;):

Ek baar waqt se lamha gira kahin,
wahan daastan mili, lamha kahin nahi..:)

Thoda sa hasa ke, thoda sa rula ke, pal se bhi jaane wala hai.

In Hindi grammar, there's a tense (kal) kalled (oops called) as Hetuhetumad Kal which deals with all the agar-mager stuff like agar ye hota to ye hota.

Most of the time either we are living in our past or future on the expense of our present and all we are left with is an overwhelming feeling of repentance.

[cooljat]

Well, This beautiful n inspirin' song lyrics says it all!! :) ~



Do you see the way that tree bends?
Does it inspire?
Leanin' out to catch the sun's ray
A lesson to be applied
Are you getting something out of this?
All encompassing trip

You can spend your time alone
Redigesting past regrets, Oh
Or you can, come to terms and realize
You're the only one who cannot forgive yourself, Oh
Makes much more sense to live in the present tense

Have you ideas on how this life ends?
Checked your hands and studied the lines?
Have you the belief that the road ahead
Ascends off into the light?

Seems that needlessly it's gettin' harder
To find an approach and a way to live
Are we gettin' something out of this
All encompassing trip

You can spend your time alone
Redigesting past regrets, Oh
Or you can come to terms and realize
You're the only one who cannot forgive yourself, Oh
Ah, makes much more sense to live in the present tense

:- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUAfxmt905I


Sorry to bein' kinda offtopic...but its very much easy for me to express myself thro' Music :):):)



Rock on
Jit

[poonam]

Watching for the nth time the movie Golmaal, I stumbled on these two lines which are even more philosophical and put an end to all ifs and butts ;):

Ek baar waqt se lamha gira kahin,
wahan daastan mili, lamha kahin nahi..:)

Thoda sa hasa ke, thoda sa rula ke, pal se bhi jaane wala hai.

In Hindi grammar, there's a tense (kal) kalled (oops called) as Hetuhetumad Kal which deals with all the agar-mager stuff like agar ye hota to ye hota.

Most of the time either we are living in our past or future on the expense of our present and all we are left with is an overwhelming feeling of repentance.


Right!! Each n every word is true (including butts and kalled..)..:)

[neels]

Watching for the nth time the movie Golmaal, I stumbled on these two lines which are even more philosophical and put an end to all ifs and butts ;):

Ek baar waqt se lamha gira kahin,
wahan daastan mili, lamha kahin nahi..:)

Thoda sa hasa ke, thoda sa rula ke, pal se bhi jaane wala hai.

In Hindi grammar, there's a tense (kal) kalled (oops called) as Hetuhetumad Kal which deals with all the agar-mager stuff like agar ye hota to ye hota.

Most of the time either we are living in our past or future on the expense of our present and all we are left with is an overwhelming feeling of repentance.

Very well said Kabir.

Wow Golmaal was hillarious movie...simply superb.. n the song,,, each n every line... so realistic n true to life.

This reminds me of one more similar mood song...

Aage bhi jane na tu, peeche bhi jaane na tu,,
Jo bhi hai bas yahi ek pal hai,, kerle poori aarzoo.

from Old Multi Starrer 'WAQT'

[devdahiya]

Very well said Kabir.

Wow Golmaal was hillarious movie...simply superb.. n the song,,, each n ever line... so realistic n true to life.

This reminds me of one more similar mood song...

Aage bhi jane na tu, peeche bhi jaane na tu,,
Jo bhi hai bas yahi ek pal hai,, kerle poori aarzoo.

from Old Multi Starrer 'WAQT'



Waqt na thhehra hei,Waqt na thhehre ga..........................


Live in the passing moments and feel the life in every thing...sorrow,happiness,miseries,complications,he lplessness,sadness and sufferings......feel the each episode deep inside you.Even sufferings can bring the best in us.Jo hona hei wo ho ga is the real broader principle of living as far as i am concerned and only door which opens towards true happiness is in DOING GOOD TO EVERY BODY ALWAYS....Am i right bebey Neelam?

[dkumars]

Waqt na thhehra hei,Waqt na thhehre ga..........................


Live in the passing moments and feel the life in every thing...sorrow,happiness,miseries,complications,he lplessness,sadness and sufferings......feel the each episode deep inside you.Even sufferings can bring the best in us.Jo hona hei wo ho ga is the real broader principle of living as far as i am concerned and only door which opens towards true happiness is in DOING GOOD TO EVERY BODY ALWAYS....Am i right bebey Neelam?


Dr Neelam ka toh pata nahi par mere hisaab se u r perfectly right sir... :)
Sorry for interference... Bahan bhai ke beech aane ke liye gustaakhi ki maafi :) hehe

[deepakchoudhry]

Waqt na thhehra hei,Waqt na thhehre ga..........................


Live in the passing moments and feel the life in every thing...sorrow,happiness,miseries,complications,he lplessness,sadness and sufferings......feel the each episode deep inside you.Even sufferings can bring the best in us.Jo hona hei wo ho ga is the real broader principle of living as far as i am concerned and only door which opens towards true happiness is in DOING GOOD TO EVERY BODY ALWAYS....Am i right bebey Neelam?

Bahut Gehri baat keh di hai aapnay.....Wonderful thoughts.

[shashiverma]

Very true Kaka ji.

You have rightly said..that even sufferings bring the best out of u....Thats very true to a good extent. I think suffering and pain are even more deep rooted in heart than joy.....so they ofcourse are capable of bringing much better out of u.....They teach you a lot..... So no harm taking risks even if they bring pain and suffering......u will be more rich in many senses......
Tabhi to kisi ne sach hei kaha hai......Khusi ko to har koi jee leta hai.....jo gham ko bhee use hosalie aur dum se jee lai ......wahin jindagi ko poore tarah jee sakta hai....
Its true that past can never be a part of today or future.....Jo beet gaya so beet gaya ..but i guess there is no harm sometimes in looking behind in past and give them the moment the memory of past deserve........they have every right on some of my tears.....every right on some of my smiles....every right to be in my present...
Anyways, lets now keep moving forward.....

[neels]

Waqt na thhehra hei,Waqt na thhehre ga..........................


Live in the passing moments and feel the life in every thing...sorrow,happiness,miseries,complications,he lplessness,sadness and sufferings......feel the each episode deep inside you.Even sufferings can bring the best in us.Jo hona hei wo ho ga is the real broader principle of living as far as i am concerned and only door which opens towards true happiness is in DOING GOOD TO EVERY BODY ALWAYS....Am i right bebey Neelam?

Very much Right Sir.
The gone times can never be be brought back n changed, thou retrospection mostly helps you emerge as a stronger n better person. And the coming times are so uncertain... u think of 100 options/way out.... the outcome will be the 101st,,, which you never imagined !!! So better let it be the way its,, rather than pondering n wasting energies of mind n body n time in assumptions.

[devdahiya]

At the time of birth i didn't know as to where and who i am.
When i was growing i didn't know as to what for i am growing
I lived most of my life planning,tailoring and diversifying
But even today i am as uncertain and clueless as i was at the time of my first breath.

I wish i could have done better learnings and lesser cribbings which i try do now for rest of the left over seconds.

[kdeshwal]

"Its true that past can never be a part of today or future.....Jo beet gaya so beet gaya ..but i guess there is no harm sometimes in looking behind in past and give them the moment the memory of past deserve........they have every right on some of my tears.....every right on some of my smiles....every right to be in my present...
Anyways, lets now keep moving forward.....[/quote]"

Very well said, Shashi Ji!