Didi kisko bola ?

[mukeshkumar007]

didi kisko bola..

Today in the morning while coming to the office I met an accident..raste maie thodi bheed the..4-5 ladkiya khadi thi..maine ek se bola "Didi thoda side maie hona "..

gusse maie palat ke boli " Didi kisko bola..tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya ".. mere to sare dimag ke fuse udh gaye..sare log meri taraf dekhne lag gaye... I was shocked..maine usse keha ki " to didi nai bolu too aur kye yeh kehu ki Choori side maie huwi "...

lakin baat age badati ek uncle ne mujhe keha ki beta jane de..leave it..

lakin dimag maie abi bi yehi accident ghoom reha hai.. still unable to find the answer " whad wrong i did if I called her sister " :confused:

[dreamer]

didi kisko bola..

Today in the morning while coming to the office I met an accident..raste maie thodi bheed the..4-5 ladkiya khadi thi..maine ek se bola "Didi thoda side maie hona "..

gusse maie palat ke boli " Didi kisko bola..tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya ".. mere to sare dimag ke fuse udh gaye..sare log meri taraf dekhne lag gaye... I was shocked..maine usse keha ki " to didi nai bolu too aur kye yeh kehu ki Choori side maie huwi "...

lakin baat age badati ek uncle ne mujhe keha ki beta jane de..leave it..

lakin dimag maie abi bi yehi accident ghoom reha hai.. still unable to find the answer " whad wrong i did if I called her sister " :confused:


jib rishta banana jaroori tha ke !!

ek sabd hoya karai .. Excuse Me ...

aar Hindi main .. Thora side hona ... (politely ... waa aapai samjh jaagi ..)

[rathee.sandeep]

jib rishta banana jaroori tha ke !!

ek sabd hoya karai .. Excuse Me ...

aar Hindi main .. Thora side hona ... (politely ... waa aapai samjh jaagi ..)
naa te nyu keh deve he madam maada saa raasta diyo

[dreamer]

[quote=rathee.sandeep;150545]naa te nyu keh deve he madam maada saa raasta diyo[/quote



Bhai katti 2 foot parai khadi ho jaati

[cooljat]

Bhaiyon free mein gyaan mat dholo, ;):p
Bhai ki mano-istiti samjo!! :);):)

I strongly feel koi JL ki Jatni hi iska appropriate answer de sakti hai :cool:

Pehle hi Bhai shock mein aur tum use faltu mein aur advice de ke tension de rehe ho :p;) mind u...

I'll appreciate if some female members come forward n have their say :)


Rock on
Jit

[sunitahooda]

Mukesh....dil pe mat le bhai....tune to apni taraf se usko acha sambhodit kiya na? Fir kyu dukhi hota hai....apna-apna nazariya hai...Bhai-Bahan ke rishtey se pavitra rishta kya hoga? Shayad usko friends ki jyada talaash hogi...iss me teri kya galti? Par uss laddki ko sochna chahiye tha ki GF to koyi bhi bana lega par Bahan bananey ke liye Rishtey ki Respect ki jarurat hoti hai jo har kissi mein nahi hoti....jinkey sanskaar achchey hote hain wohi aurat ki izzat kar saktey hain....N Mukesh i salways respect the regard you give me:) GOD BLESS YOU BHAIdidi kisko bola..

Today in the morning while coming to the office I met an accident..raste maie thodi bheed the..4-5 ladkiya khadi thi..maine ek se bola "Didi thoda side maie hona "..

gusse maie palat ke boli " Didi kisko bola..tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya ".. mere to sare dimag ke fuse udh gaye..sare log meri taraf dekhne lag gaye... I was shocked..maine usse keha ki " to didi nai bolu too aur kye yeh kehu ki Choori side maie huwi "...

lakin baat age badati ek uncle ne mujhe keha ki beta jane de..leave it..

lakin dimag maie abi bi yehi accident ghoom reha hai.. still unable to find the answer " whad wrong i did if I called her sister " :confused:

[vivekdh]

keh de hai

Bagwan madda sa maskoda mariyo manne likdan do fer chahe adde baith ke geet gaa liyo:D

yaa fir

ladki- didi kisko bola?
Mukesh-ji maine bhi apko didi ki nazar se nahi dekha bheed dekh ke mhu se likad gaya :p:D

[dreamer]

Mukesh....dil pe mat le bhai....tune to apni taraf se usko acha sambhodit kiya na? Fir kyu dukhi hota hai....apna-apna nazariya hai...Bhai-Bahan ke rishtey se pavitra rishta kya hoga? Shayad usko friends ki jyada talaash hogi...iss me teri kya galti? Par uss laddki ko sochna chahiye tha ki GF to koyi bhi bana lega par Bahan bananey ke liye Rishtey ki Respect ki jarurat hoti hai jo har kissi mein nahi hoti....jinkey sanskaar achchey hote hain wohi aurat ki izzat kar saktey hain....N Mukesh i salways respect the regard you give me:) GOD BLESS YOU BHAI


Sun Le Bhai Raathee aar Chasme aale ... :p

[neerajrana]

ha bhai mukesh --Insaan vahi joo Thokar khakar sabhal jayeee.....too jo hua so to galat hii hua tere saath...par ab se Ravii aur sandeep kii baat koo samagh lenaaa................aur follow .........

[rathee.sandeep]

keh de hai

Bagwan madda sa maskoda mariyo manne likdan do fer chahe adde baith ke geet gaa liyo:D

yaa fir

ladki- didi kisko bola?
Mukesh-ji maine bhi apko didi ki nazar se nahi dekha bheed dekh ke mhu se likad gaya :p:D
ek baat yaad aagi
school me the bahdargarh aale chhoraa aale me
11vi me
te baalak bhujjya karte madddam ji paaaaaaani peeeeeeaaun
ek delhi ki nayi teacher aayi thi
nyu boli ab tum sab badde ho gaye ho
puchne ki jarurat nhi h
jisne bhi tiss laagge chup chaap chale jaaya karo

[rathee.sandeep]

Mukesh....dil pe mat le bhai....tune to apni taraf se usko acha sambhodit kiya na? Fir kyu dukhi hota hai....apna-apna nazariya hai...Bhai-Bahan ke rishtey se pavitra rishta kya hoga? Shayad usko friends ki jyada talaash hogi...iss me teri kya galti? Par uss laddki ko sochna chahiye tha ki GF to koyi bhi bana lega par Bahan bananey ke liye Rishtey ki Respect ki jarurat hoti hai jo har kissi mein nahi hoti....jinkey sanskaar achchey hote hain wohi aurat ki izzat kar saktey hain....N Mukesh i salways respect the regard you give me:) GOD BLESS YOU BHAI
ise kehte hai
achhe insaano aur achhe vichaaro ki kadr karnaa

[sunitahooda]

Arr mere nyu bhaddak laag jaya kare kayi bai Bahadurgarh bus-addey pai akk maadi si padhi-likhi deekhi tai futt Maddumm Jee....bebe kahan mai ke jeebh mai ball padein sain:p:onaa te nyu keh deve he madam maada saa raasta diyo

[Maniisha]

didi kisko bola..

Today in the morning while coming to the office I met an accident..raste maie thodi bheed the..4-5 ladkiya khadi thi..maine ek se bola "Didi thoda side maie hona "..

gusse maie palat ke boli " Didi kisko bola..tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya ".. mere to sare dimag ke fuse udh gaye..sare log meri taraf dekhne lag gaye... I was shocked..maine usse keha ki " to didi nai bolu too aur kye yeh kehu ki Choori side maie huwi "...

lakin baat age badati ek uncle ne mujhe keha ki beta jane de..leave it..

lakin dimag maie abi bi yehi accident ghoom reha hai.. still unable to find the answer " whad wrong i did if I called her sister " :confused:

Hello Mukesh,

There can be many options what upset that female when she was referred to as Didi:

1. May be she is younger to you, so your calling Didi may irritate her.

2. May be you had used some rude or mischeivous tone while referring her as Didi.

3. May be she is thinking that by referring her as Didi you are teasing her.

4. May be she is thinking that u r unnecessarily creating a crack in their friend circle by taunting her as Didi.

5. May be she is conscious about her being called Didi bcoz once you have left the place her other friends may taunt her being called Didi that might have caused her to say Didi kisko bola.....tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya.

Well Apart frm this My view over the whole affair is whatever that girl might be thinking but she was wrong in reacting like that because generally we use such words as didi, behn, bhaiya while referring to any new person if v dont happen to know them before... :)

[sunitahooda]

Thanks Rathee...Mukesh has always been an unbiased younger brother to me and despite one past bitter happening he never forgets to wish me on My Birthday and all special days and his unbiased behavior has always kept the flame of Bhai-bahan's love lighted in my heart:)May God grant him what he wishes!ise kehte hai
achhe insaano aur achhe vichaaro ki kadr karnaa

[rathee.sandeep]

Thanks Rathee...Mukesh has always been an unbiased younger brother to me and despite one past bitter happening he never forgets to wish me on My Birthday and all special days and his unbiased behavior has always kept the flame of Bhai-bahan's love lighted in my heart:)May God grant him what he wishes!
aaj ke khaa ke aaye ho tadke
kimme aachhi aachi baat karo so
shyaani shyaani

[vivekdh]

4th pnt mast hai 4 me se 1 ko didi bol ke bakiyon pe dore daal raha tha mukesh
hahahahaha
baad me khabi milti unme se koi to bol deta ki aap meri didi ki saheli ho naa :D

ladkiyo ko hemesha ye kyon lagta hai ki ladke hemesha bahut soch ke planning ke sath bolte hain :D

Hello Mukesh,

4. May be she is thinking that u r unnecessarily creating a crack in their friend circle by taunting her as Didi.



:)

[sunitahooda]

Manisha point no-1....How can she know that she's is younger than Mukesh if they are unknown and Point No-2... Mukesh has a very kind and polite tone which being a Rajasthani always sound SWEET for sure 3. I dont think that no matter how modern are boys nowadays that they can tease a girl by calling DIDI and what i strongly feel is that the girl was suffering some kind of COMPLEX thats why she over reacted and took the rage out on Mukesh:) and now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN:)Hello Mukesh,

There can be many options what upset that female when she was referred to as Didi:

1. May be she is younger to you, so your calling Didi may irritate her.

2. May be you had used some rude or mischeivous tone while referring her as Didi.

3. May be she is thinking that by referring her as Didi you are teasing her.

4. May be she is thinking that u r unnecessarily creating a crack in their friend circle by taunting her as Didi.

5. May be she is conscious about her being called Didi bcoz once you have left the place her other friends may taunt her being called Didi that might have caused her to say Didi kisko bola.....tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya.

Well Apart frm this My view over the whole affair is whatever that girl might be thinking but she was wrong in reacting like that because generally we use such words as didi, behn, bhaiya while referring to any new person if v dont happen to know them before... :)

[sunitahooda]

Tu na manne bhoonde muh aaley....mai madda deth sa kar-ri thi akk suthri-suthri batlaani sain....killkiiiiiiiiiiiiii par tere bedann hogi karddi:D;) sunnli ibb :)aaj ke khaa ke aaye ho tadke
kimme aachhi aachi baat karo so
shyaani shyaani

[vivekdh]

Sunita ji apki last wali baat se thoda saa asehmat hu main
e.g.
rikshwa wala bhaiya
dhud wala bhaiya
kisi bhi dukan pe chale jao bhaiya wo wala suit dhikana
bhaiya ye wali nahi wo wale chips chaiye
bhaiya tamter kaise diye nahi bhaiya mhange de rahe ho

issi terha 1 din me shahar ki ladki hazaron bhaiya banati hai per koi ladka didi bol de to galat baat ho jatti hai :D





Manisha point no-1....How can she know that she's is younger than Mukesh if they are unknown and Point No-2... Mukesh has a very kind and polite tone which being a Rajasthani always sound SWEET for sure 3. I dont think that no matter how modern are boys nowadays that they can tease a girl by calling DIDI and what i strongly feel is that the girl was suffering some kind of COMPLEX thats why she over reacted and took the rage out on Mukesh:) and now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN:)

[vivekdh]

ibb bera pat gaya ke aap katti sahi ho aaj naa to apki baatan te lagge tha ke sunita ke naam te koi badiya chori login ker rahi hai :D:D


Tu na manne bhoonde muh aaley....mai madda deth sa kar-ri thi akk suthri-suthri batlaani sain....killkiiiiiiiiiiiiii par tere bedann hogi karddi:D;) sunnli ibb :)

[sunitahooda]

Well Vivek this is my real self....people trying hard to crash....coming to the point its a matter of percetion how that girl looked at it and may be that girl was dwindling between good n bad Old n Modern and for her being modern means only FRIENDSHIP :)ibb bera pat gaya ke aap katti sahi ho aaj naa to apki baatan te lagge tha ke sunita ke naam te koi badiya chori login ker rahi hai :D:D

[devdahiya]

Kah ley-kah ley....mera sayyam itni tawli na tuttya kare....arr dhakossley mere bass ke konya....jit suthri jaruri ho udde suthri karya karu arr jiss baat pai khoon khollna ho udde bhoondi bi karya karu....nakli meethas tapkaani manne na aata....arr Kameen tu ibb Rohtak aave tai jarur batayiye....tere tattey chimttey laane sain;):p



Bebey ye sab off topic chal rhya se...battanna merra farraz se...bakki thhari marjji.

[vivekdh]

hahahahahaha
main to ji aaye sat-sun aaya karu hu rohtak per nu to bata do tattey chimttey kyu lane hain mere me ke sunita bad rahi hai :p:D


Kah ley-kah ley....mera sayyam itni tawli na tuttya kare....arr dhakossley mere bass ke konya....jit suthri jaruri ho udde suthri karya karu arr jiss baat pai khoon khollna ho udde bhoondi bi karya karu....nakli meethas tapkaani manne na aata....arr Kameen tu ibb Rohtak aave tai jarur batayiye....tere tattey chimttey laane sain;):p

[Maniisha]

Manisha point no-1....How can she know that she's is younger than Mukesh if they are unknown and Point No-2... Mukesh has a very kind and polite tone which being a Rajasthani always sound SWEET for sure 3. I dont think that no matter how modern are boys nowadays that they can tease a girl by calling DIDI and what i strongly feel is that the girl was suffering some kind of COMPLEX thats why she over reacted and took the rage out on Mukesh:) and now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN:)

Yes Di..:) You know him well but not necessarily that girl might have known him. But i dont know wat might have transpired between the girl and Mukesh becoz neither I nor you were present thats y ive used may be or might be while talking these are just my assumptions . Even I happen to travel a lot daily to my work place and encounter lots of guys and girls during my journey so i have reached up.
As you have said "now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN" we respect others then only we call them bhaiya, didi aur behan be it a stranger or persons known to us that was the point even i have tried to convey at the end...:)

[sunitahooda]

Lekin Vivek chahe din mein kitney bhi bhai banayein par galat bhawna to nahi hoti hogi aur rahi uss ladki ki baat to jawab mai pehley de chuki hoon ki uss laddki mein aur bohot si laddkiyon aur aurton mein sada jawan ban-ney ki laalsa itni strong hoti hai ki biffar uthti hain...Mai tumhey Didi lagti hoon kya? ya fir Haye-Haye mujhe Auntie matt bolo....:D:p pata nahi inn shabdon se itna dar kyu lagta hai:o Mujhe college ki ak ghatna yaad hai Meri badi bahan ki classmate jisko mai Didi kehti thi....2 saal ke gap ke baad B.Ed me Jat college me classmate ban gayi to maine puraney tareekey se Didi bolna shuru kiya 2-3 ke baad bolli Haye Hooda please tu manne naam le kai bolya kar chhorey ke kahaeingey akk mai tere tai baddi su:D arr manne mushkila si Anju kahan ki aadat gerri:oSunita ji apki last wali baat se thoda saa asehmat hu main
e.g.
rikshwa wala bhaiya
dhud wala bhaiya
kisi bhi dukan pe chale jao bhaiya wo wala suit dhikana
bhaiya ye wali nahi wo wale chips chaiye
bhaiya tamter kaise diye nahi bhaiya mhange de rahe ho

issi terha 1 din me shahar ki ladki hazaron bhaiya banati hai per koi ladka didi bol de to galat baat ho jatti hai :D

[vivekdh]

guruDev sunita ji jabbe baka ke le jya hain offtopic

haan to hum baat ker rahe the ki mukesh ke sath jo anhoni gatna hui uss se kaise bacha jaa sakta hai....

mera sujav hai khabi kisi ladki ko didi nahi kehna chahiye agar hum usse naa jante ho to.

hum mukesh ki baat ko alag terha se keh sakte hain

"suniye, aap thoda rasta de dijiye muje aage jana hai"

no "didi" no "madam" no "bhagwan" no "e chori" no "aunti" :)


Bebey ye sab off topic chal rhya se...battanna merra farraz se...bakki thhari marjji.

[sunitahooda]

I strongly disagree atleast LET MUKESH BE WHAT AND HOW HE WANTS TO BE.... sirf ek ladki ke galat expression ki wajah se Mukesh ko apni Prakriti kyu tyagni chahiye? May be that girl will later realize that she was wrong. Why should we get swayed just BY 1 BAD INCIDENT AND CHANGE OUR YEARS OLD HIGH MORALS....we need More and more guys like Mukesh:) A BEST MAN IS WHO CAN RESPECT AN UNKNOWN LADY....APNI MAA-BAHAN KI IZZAT TO SABHI KARTEY HAIN:)guruDev sunita ji jabbe baka ke le jya hain offtopic

haan to hum baat ker rahe the ki mukesh ke sath jo anhoni gatna hui uss se kaise bacha jaa sakta hai....

mera sujav hai khabi kisi ladki ko didi nahi kehna chahiye agar hum usse naa jante ho to.

hum mukesh ki baat ko alag terha se keh sakte hain

"suniye, aap thoda rasta de dijiye muje aage jana hai"

no "didi" no "madam" no "bhagwan" no "e chori" no "aunti" :)

[mukeshkumar007]

ha bhai mukesh --Insaan vahi joo Thokar khakar sabhal jayeee.....too jo hua so to galat hii hua tere saath...par ab se Ravii aur sandeep kii baat koo samagh lenaaa................aur follow .........

bhai maie yo thread majak karne ke liye nai dala tha..na hi suggestions ke liye..i'm enough capable to decide the right way for me... here I just wanted some serious discussion on this topic that where we went wrong in our learning process that the level of social behaviour coming down to its lowest point day to day.. why we can't take things in their positive way..

[rathee.sandeep]

guruDev sunita ji jabbe baka ke le jya hain offtopic

haan to hum baat ker rahe the ki mukesh ke sath jo anhoni gatna hui uss se kaise bacha jaa sakta hai....

mera sujav hai khabi kisi ladki ko didi nahi kehna chahiye agar hum usse naa jante ho to.

hum mukesh ki baat ko alag terha se keh sakte hain

"suniye, aap thoda rasta de dijiye muje aage jana hai"

no "didi" no "madam" no "bhagwan" no "e chori" no "aunti" :)
mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye

[Maniisha]

mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye

Well Rathee ji :)
Not a Bad Idea..Aap jho bi kehte ho acha hi kehte ho..:p:p:D

[mukeshkumar007]

1. May be she is younger to you, so your calling Didi may irritate her...

ab yeh pata to nai chal sakta lakin this was the case then she should have corrected me instead of launching a rocket

2. May be you had used some rude or mischeivous tone while referring her as Didi.

jeha tak mujhe yaad hai maine koi rude tone use nai kari..lakin is case maie bi yeh reply odd hi lagta hai kyoki jab bi koi hamse rude tone maie baat karte hai to generally ek hi reply hota hai... ki bhaishaab dang se bi to bol sakte hooo

3. May be she is thinking that by referring her as Didi you are teasing her.

ab jab soch hi itni low hai to phir to kuch ilaj bi nai hai..ya to gharwalo ne sehi siksha nai di yaa phir sangat hi aisi rehi ki isse jyada kuch sochne ko mila bi nai... lakin aise soch wali ladkiyo ke wrong representation se kai sarif ladkiya faltu maie preshani maie padh jati hai..

5. May be she is conscious about her being called Didi bcoz once you have left the place her other friends may taunt her being called Didi that might have caused her to say Didi kisko bola.....tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya.


ab jab aisa hi friend circle hai to isme to kya kiya ja sakta hai..

[devdahiya]

mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye



Wei na hattein saanjhh tahin bi...fer ke kreigga?

[mukeshkumar007]

M I dont think that no matter how modern are boys nowadays that they can tease a girl by calling DIDI and what i strongly feel is that the girl was suffering some kind of COMPLEX thats why she over reacted and took the rage out on Mukesh:) and now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN:)

thanx did.. here i got the answer..

[Maniisha]

1. May be she is younger to you, so your calling Didi may irritate her...

ab yeh pata to nai chal sakta lakin this was the case then she should have corrected me instead of launching a rocket

2. May be you had used some rude or mischeivous tone while referring her as Didi.

jeha tak mujhe yaad hai maine koi rude tone use nai kari..lakin is case maie bi yeh reply odd hi lagta hai kyoki jab bi koi hamse rude tone maie baat karte hai to generally ek hi reply hota hai... ki bhaishaab dang se bi to bol sakte hooo

3. May be she is thinking that by referring her as Didi you are teasing her.

ab jab soch hi itni low hai to phir to kuch ilaj bi nai hai..ya to gharwalo ne sehi siksha nai di yaa phir sangat hi aisi rehi ki isse jyada kuch sochne ko mila bi nai... lakin aise soch wali ladkiyo ke wrong representation se kai sarif ladkiya faltu maie preshani maie padh jati hai..

5. May be she is conscious about her being called Didi bcoz once you have left the place her other friends may taunt her being called Didi that might have caused her to say Didi kisko bola.....tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya.


ab jab aisa hi friend circle hai to isme to kya kiya ja sakta hai..

Hey Mukesh..:)
Jst leave it Dear.. Aap jante hai ki aapne kuch galat nahi kaha so Y are u getting agitated by thinking abt the same. Jaisa Sunita Di ne kaha jst be the Best :)
God bless U ..!!:)

[dkumars]

mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye


unfortunately Rathee I don agree with u... why we consider gals special or weak or so different... they are just like boys... this is our stupid society who creates these differences... Politely asking for anything is no wrong and applicable for both the genders....
Even in busses i don appreciate vacating a seat for a girl(m not mentioning needy, like oldies, pregnant, lady with kids)... treat them just like boys... she can travel standing also if boys can... if equality is concerned keep space for it everywhere.

And abouth that didi... i wud like to say... it depends... upon the mood, individual behaviour, background etc etc... so no point to judge...

i have seen lotta ppl become furious if u call them uncle although they are elder to ur father even... and some gaon ke dehati log feel it a matter of proud when u call them kaka or tau or dada...:)
So the best thing... address a stranger as a stranger only... sir or madam or just excuse... dats all i can suggest... call them didi, bhaiya or something after gaining his/her confidence...

[shwetadhaka]

unfortunately Rathee I don agree with u... why we consider gals special or weak or so different... they are just like boys... this is our stupid society who creates these differences... Politely asking for anything is no wrong and applicable for both the genders....
Even in busses i don appreciate vacating a seat for a girl(m not mentioning needy, like oldies, pregnant, lady with kids)... treat them just like boys... she can travel standing also if boys can... if equality is concerned keep space for it everywhere.

And abouth that didi... i wud like to say... it depends... upon the mood, individual behaviour, background etc etc... so no point to judge...

i have seen lotta ppl become furious if u call them uncle although they are elder to ur father even... and some gaon ke dehati log feel it a matter of proud when u call them kaka or tau or dada...:)
So the best thing... address a stranger as a stranger only... sir or madam or just excuse... dats all i can suggest... call them didi, bhaiya or something after gaining his/her confidence...

Girls r like boys ! Well, Devendra ji, here I must say that girls & boys are totally different & are meant to be different, but when it comes to be regarded as a human, they are and should be at par!

Girls & boys, or for that matter males & females are very different as regards to their physical capacities, psycological frame of maind, attitude etc !Society also differentiates between the two sexes, but that differentiation is usually on an unhealthy note, but a healthy differentiation between the two is necessary in my opinion because of numerous reasons which u will understand the more, as u will travel more on the path of your life ! Will continue........

[pahalji]

Te Bhaiyo ebb te hospital me bhi jange to nurse ko bhi dhyan se bolna padeg sister.............. bol na de, oa sister kisko bola be ??????????


Rathee dyan rakhiye. kade vahi admit karwa de.:D:D:D


All the best.

To all.............Just a joke, please don,t take seriously.

[dreamer]

Girls r like boys ! Well, Devendra ji, here I must say that girls & boys are totally different & are meant to be different, but when it comes to be regarded as a human, they are and should be at par!

Girls & boys, or for that matter males & females are very different as regards to their physical capacities, psycological frame of maind, attitude etc !Society also differentiates between the two sexes, but that differentiation is usually on an unhealthy note, but a healthy differentiation between the two is necessary in my opinion because of numerous reasons which u will understand the more, as u will travel more on the path of your life ! Will continue........


hmm.. :rolleyes:

[dkumars]

Girls r like boys ! Well, Devendra ji, here I must say that girls & boys are totally different & are meant to be different, but when it comes to be regarded as a human, they are and should be at par!

Girls & boys, or for that matter males & females are very different as regards to their physical capacities, psycological frame of maind, attitude etc !Society also differentiates between the two sexes, but that differentiation is usually on an unhealthy note, but a healthy differentiation between the two is necessary in my opinion because of numerous reasons which u will understand the more, as u will travel more on the path of your life ! Will continue........



well Shweta... i didn mean that differences physically or something... i do understand that differences... i just wanted to highlight their capabilities and our day to day behaviour...
More over that differences are not or being boy or gal ... those differences are coommon in all species... thats y we call one male and other female... hehe...

And mentallity, attitude, psychology they are all gifted by our society... if u r told u r weak and u r a gal... u shoud behave like a gal ... one day u will also feel awkward if u will not behave like a gal... coz thats not ur style... u r not used to with that behavior...

Like we say "Mard ki Jubaan" --- words/principle of a man... why cant a gal keep her words... coz somewhere our society in the background is pressurizing males to keep their words and giving liberty not keep to gals... so all these doubts r in kopadi... but their is nothing that both the genders cant do ... mee to running short of time... so will continue later

[ruchika]

arre mainne te neu laage se ke wa tadke tadke pit k aayee hogi.........
na te koi hamne didi kahwe te hum te rakhi ki baat dekhaaaaaaaaaa(hahahaha)

[shwetadhaka]

well Shweta... i didn mean that differences physically or something... i do understand that differences... i just wanted to highlight their capabilities and our day to day behaviour...
More over that differences are not or being boy or gal ... those differences are coommon in all species... thats y we call one male and other female... hehe...

And mentallity, attitude, psychology they are all gifted by our society... if u r told u r weak and u r a gal... u shoud behave like a gal ... one day u will also feel awkward if u will not behave like a gal... coz thats not ur style... u r not used to with that behavior...

Like we say "Mard ki Jubaan" --- words/principle of a man... why cant a gal keep her words... coz somewhere our society in the background is pressurizing males to keep their words and giving liberty not keep to gals... so all these doubts r in kopadi... but their is nothing that both the genders cant do ... mee to running short of time... so will continue later

Well, i wanted to say over ur point that you dont prefer vacating seats for women except in emergency cases, But can u tell me the way out how u make out emergency cases ? She can travel standing also, rightly said, but there is a reason behind such reservations being made. For example, there are males who just want to unnecessarily bump into the females & can there be ways to check them out in all cases everytime!

Well, as regards to believing, I am also of the same opinion that both girls & boys must be treated at par as regards to the capabilities & responsibilty handling capacity, but a due regard must be given to the inherent difference that may have an impact on these aspects at times !

[rathee.sandeep]

hmm.. :rolleyes:
ravi gannna boln laagya se tu
pittegaa kisse din

[dkumars]

Well, i wanted to say over ur point that you dont prefer vacating seats for women except in emergency cases, But can u tell me the way out how u make out emergency cases ? She can travel standing also, rightly said, but there is a reason behind such reservations being made. For example, there are males who just want to unnecessarily bump into the females & can there be ways to check them out in all cases everytime!

Well, as regards to believing, I am also of the same opinion that both girls & boys must be treated at par as regards to the capabilities & responsibilty handling capacity, but a due regard must be given to the inherent difference that may have an impact on these aspects at times !


Well Shweta u r not getting my point... "For example, there are males who just want to unnecessarily bump into the females & can there be ways to check them out in all cases everytime" --- I do know all this and for the same i m appealing not to do that... if w'll keep on doing such craps then we r not giving equal place... this bus journey is just a small example... i just want to convey that dont treat them different... neither favor them nor against them...

And Madam ji... leave it ... this is an endless debate which will conclude nowhere... so cheers!!! enjoy:p

[shwetadhaka]

Well Shweta u r not getting my point... "For example, there are males who just want to unnecessarily bump into the females & can there be ways to check them out in all cases everytime" --- I do know all this and for the same i m appealing not to do that... if w'll keep on doing such craps then we r not giving equal place... this bus journey is just a small example... i just want to convey that dont treat them different... neither favor them nor against them...

And Madam ji... leave it ... this is an endless debate which will conclude nowhere... so cheers!!! enjoy:p

Oh ! I got ur point, but I was not talking about you, was just commenting on the picture at large !

And Sir ji, left it ! I know u were not talking about be, no doubts as regards to that!

[dkumars]

Oh ! I got ur point, but I was not talking about you, was just commenting on the picture at large !

And Sir ji, left it ! I know u were not talking about be, no doubts as regards to that!


One more thing Shweta, Jawaab bahut badhiya deti ho... ek ek line ka... huh

I addressed u madam so u called me sir ... and earlier also i noticed ur point to point ans... reading all and then replying all... good habit... keep it up ... all the best :)

[shwetadhaka]

One more thing Shweta, Jawaab bahut badhiya deti ho... ek ek line ka... huh

I addressed u madam so u called me sir ... and earlier also i noticed ur point to point ans... reading all and then replying all... good habit... keep it up ... all the best :)

Oh Really! & u seem to notice a lot! Good habit..... keep it up.... all the best ! hahhahaaaaaa ! Thanx !

[nrmalik]

Rohtak power house per ek Photo Studio hai " Jagat Photo Studio" to jagat ji ne ek board taangaa hua hai studio mein..aur jaise he koe ladki enter karti hai usse eshara karta hai ke uss board ko padho. Uss board per leekha hai:
Kripya karke rishtevaachak shabd jaise ke bhai, uncle, chacha, tau etc ka pryog na kare. Aur agar koe ladki galti se usse bhai etyadi bol de to vo baddi mushkill se photo click karta hai.

Mukesh bhai aapki koe galti nahi hai..enhe respect do to mushkill na do to mushkill...eseleye enn se jitna bach sakte ho utna bach lo.Apne bilkul sahi kaha tha...Behan Bhai ka rishta koe samjhe to sabse bada hota hai..aur aapne uss rishte ko samjha. So don't get upset.:):)

[kdeshwal]

I came to the thread a bit late, but mere khayal se Vivek D. ki baaton mein bhalay hi mazakiya twist hon, lekin gaharrayee hain, aur practicality bhi.
The so called philosophy, "treat others the way you want to be treated" doesn't always work. What seems to work better is; "treat others the way they would like to be treated". Well, question then would arise; how do we know what a stranger would like to be treated as????? I suggest: PLAY SAFE, ALWAYS.
(apnee gaam ki mei bi toh kahen "Jussa muh; wassa thappudd" - joke apart, but it's a very judgemental way of dealing thus highly unadvisable).

DK said it well here: QUOTE " i have seen lotta ppl become furious if u call them uncle although they are elder to ur father even... and some gaon ke dehati log feel it a matter of proud when u call them kaka or tau or dada...:)
So the best thing... address a stranger as a stranger only... sir or madam or just excuse... dats all i can suggest... call them didi, bhaiya or something after gaining his/her confidence...

Well, that was my 2 cents' worth.
Mukesh (ji????!!!), good incident to share. No matter how wise we are, there's always room to learn more.......

[neels]

I came to the thread a bit late, but mere khayal se Vivek D. ki baaton mein bhalay hi mazakiya twist hon, lekin gaharrayee hain, aur practicality bhi.
The so called philosophy, "treat others the way you want to be treated" doesn't always work. What seems to work better is; "treat others the way they would like to be treated". Well, question then would arise; how do we know what a stranger would like to be treated as????? I suggest: PLAY SAFE, ALWAYS.
(apnee gaam ki mei bi toh kahen "Jussa muh; wassa thappudd" - joke apart, but it's a very judgemental way of dealing thus highly unadvisable).

DK said it well here: QUOTE " i have seen lotta ppl become furious if u call them uncle although they are elder to ur father even... and some gaon ke dehati log feel it a matter of proud when u call them kaka or tau or dada...:)
So the best thing... address a stranger as a stranger only... sir or madam or just excuse... dats all i can suggest... call them didi, bhaiya or something after gaining his/her confidence...

Well, that was my 2 cents' worth.
Mukesh (ji????!!!), good incident to share. No matter how wise we are, there's always room to learn more....... Ofcourse Life's a throughout Learning process.

Good analysis of the posts done here by kdeshwal.
Its very individual how one ll react, so one shud play practically safe... n i noticed in the posts that addressing as madam is considered as one of safer n respectable address.... But What to do...When someone get offended by madam also....:confused:???

I alws remember one incidence -when I was doing Ph.D., I went to American Centre Library, ND,,, there to get some information, I asked the lady attendant who was on duty, Madam,.............? And I got the reply...I am not Madam. (I felt very much same like now Mukesh felt,,, then what I shud ve said...I didnt know her name..!!!
And don guess that she was an American, she was Indian.
So after that I to realized the best addressing is Excuse Me..... No sir, no madam,, no didi, no bhaiya,,,, no uncle, no aunty,,,nothing yaar... just the 2 words..Excuse me.
Sometimes senior people too dont even like to be called as Sir, You shud call them as Mr......./Dr. ...... People like us who call them Sir/Madam out of respect are considered backward n fools.

Well what I feel is, its one more aspect of our society getting Westernized, adopting their ways of communication.

[raj_rathee]

Mukesh, mere yaar...Tu tension na le!!!!

I am always humbled by seeing your innocent and clean hearted
way of looking at things. I think some of us rather twisted, demented and
mentally corrupt folks can really learn a few things from you.

Tu point toh na banan laag rhya? Just kidding...See..yahan par bhi
suhdhi dhaala na socchna aanta....:D

Well I think most likely issue was that the girl equates "Didi" with
"Behanji"...and that ticked her off. Now don't say "what's wrong
with Behanji"...He he he he he...Phir tae even we can't help you buddy.

Aur kucch na sae.
Its a big world out there. Different strokes for different folks. Just
take it in your stride. Key thing is to quickly try to adapt to people
and practices around you. You ain't right and they aren't wrong.
Kitte "Madam" theek koni...err kitte "Madddummmmm" bhi theek.

Personaly I agree with that photo sudio waala.... :D:cool:

[amanjaat]

haha..pawned...jks
bhai seedhe aadmi ka zamana nahi hai aajkal...
TU JAAT HAI BHAI MERE....kohni maar raasta le leta ..or janda-janda rudely bolta SORRY RAYEE:D

[poonam]

TU JAAT HAI BHAI MERE....kohni maar raasta le leta ..or janda-janda rudely bolta SORRY RAYEE:D

hahaha..rahn de nae, kyun chhore nae biggadde sae..:D:D

Na bhai Mukesh theek sae, jissa tera jee kare nue-ae bolya kar...:)

[ritu]

bhai isme discussion wali to koi baat si na dikhti.eb oss chori ne na accha laaga to kah di.oski apni koi thinking hogi oske paache.eb ya to wahe chori jaane.kahi logo ko nahi pasand hota ki anjaan log onhe kisse rishte se sambhodhit kare.ha os ladki ne tumhe jawab rudely jarur diya.aajkal macchni choria ki kami na se aur tu shakal se osse suddha sa laga hoga to ossne bol diya ye soch ki kya bigad lega ye mera.aage to tu khud hi bahut samjhdar hai.bhinn bhinn log bhinn bhinn soch.bhai maie yo thread majak karne ke liye nai dala tha..na hi suggestions ke liye..i'm enough capable to decide the right way for me... here I just wanted some serious discussion on this topic that where we went wrong in our learning process that the level of social behaviour coming down to its lowest point day to day.. why we can't take things in their positive way..

[ritu]

bilkul sahi kahi raj bhai:p.heheheMukesh, mere yaar...Tu tension na le!!!!

I am always humbled by seeing your innocent and clean hearted
way of looking at things. I think some of us rather twisted, demented and
mentally corrupt folks can really learn a few things from you.

Tu point toh na banan laag rhya? Just kidding...See..yahan par bhi
suhdhi dhaala na socchna aanta....:D

Well I think most likely issue was that the girl equates "Didi" with
"Behanji"...and that ticked her off. Now don't say "what's wrong
with Behanji"...He he he he he...Phir tae even we can't help you buddy.

Aur kucch na sae.
Its a big world out there. Different strokes for different folks. Just
take it in your stride. Key thing is to quickly try to adapt to people
and practices around you. You ain't right and they aren't wrong.
Kitte "Madam" theek koni...err kitte "Madddummmmm" bhi theek.

Personaly I agree with that photo sudio waala.... :D:cool:

[raj_rathee]

bilkul sahi kahi raj bhai:p.hehehe

Mujhe khushi hai apko sahi laga, Ritu Behanji:p ;):D

[rathee.sandeep]

Mujhe khushi hai apko sahi laga, Ritu Behanji:p ;):D
behnji kisko bola?

[sunitahooda]

You MUST thank GOD n Raj ki tumhey nahi bola:p;):D:obehnji kisko bola?

[cooljat]

Bhai Mukesh,

Pay heeds to Rathi Bhai's sincere advice, seriously! :):):)

I guess its the best answer n advice so far :cool:

Kudos to u Rathi bro for the Gyaan!! ;)


Rock on
Jit

Mukesh, mere yaar...Tu tension na le!!!!

I am always humbled by seeing your innocent and clean hearted
way of looking at things. I think some of us rather twisted, demented and
mentally corrupt folks can really learn a few things from you.


Its a big world out there. Different strokes for different folks. Just
take it in your stride. Key thing is to quickly try to adapt to people
and practices around you. You ain't right and they aren't wrong.
Kitte "Madam" theek koni...err kitte "Madddummmmm" bhi theek.

[amanjaat]

hahaha..rahn de nae, kyun chhore nae biggadde sae..:D:D

Na bhai Mukesh theek sae, jissa tera jee kare nue-ae bolya kar...:)
main kitt bigaadu su?
je jattan ke ho gaya ..to paidayshi bigda-bagda hai yo to :D

[amanjaat]

behnji kisko bola?
woh kaat diya rog bhai ....eeb aaya kyam gyaan saa
lolzzzz

[siddharthpunia]

Bhai Logo mannai tou Mukesh bhai ki bhali laagi nu hi kah detta ak bhagwan mada sa maskoda maar de.. are bheed wali baat bhi ghani suthri thee

[pgrewal]

Us ladki ko nahi pata ki yoh mukesh Jatland per pura rola padwah dega es baat ne lekar. Nahi to voh ladki kabhi kuch nahi bolte.

[bsiwach]

bhai maie yo thread majak karne ke liye nai dala tha..na hi suggestions ke liye..i'm enough capable to decide the right way for me... here I just wanted some serious discussion on this topic that where we went wrong in our learning process that the level of social behaviour coming down to its lowest point day to day.. why we can't take things in their positive way..

Bhai Mukesh!

Yo ke bhigan chidwa diya tan!

-Is main discussion karan n kuch nahi sai. ar j galati t us chori ya thread pad li n t tan roj tere ghara ja k kah k awagi "ak aag t didi mat bol diye".:p

-Arr jai tu serious sai to pher is n time pass m kyun suru kar tha, ar u to time pass bhi kati phaltoo alla sai.:p

-Ar man liya tan 2-4 isi isi or phet gi ar tu roj yo jikar aad ched de ga to soch mere bhai is Jat land p charo taraf ke discussion hoga.

-Ar yaar 100 crore Janta hai is desh main, k bera kisi chori thi, ib har ek k pach to learning process review nahi kara Jata na bhai.

-Ar tan khud bhi dekh liya hoga jyada tar tan suggestion den lag re sain ak agli bar k karna sai. Kyonki is m discussion aali koi baat nahi hai ar learning process review karan khatir or bhatere issue pajange.

[raj_rathee]

You MUST thank GOD n Raj ki tumhey nahi bola:p;):D:o

:D:D:D
Ya bahot bhundi banti!!!
Ek tae Rathee-err-Rathee, Upar te Bahan!!
Rupiya den aala kaam ho jaanta! :eek::p

[pgrewal]

Tanulkar Satak lagaveh yah na, lekin yoh taga to pakka satak banavehga.

[amanjaat]

:D:D:D
Ya bahot bhundi banti!!!
Ek tae Rathee-err-Rathee, Upar te Bahan!!
Rupiya den aala kaam ho jaanta! :eek::p
lyo bhai ...yhaade toh baniye bhi baithe hain..
rapiya be kaadh ke rajji konya :eek:
:D

[vickyshokeen]

I am Surprised and ..............
people and that to {"The JATs" }? have this much of time

[ssindhu]

mukesh tu bhi kyon chori ki bejti karwawe hai hadde. tanne bhi kahi te galat e thi. bhawna te samjhta kona tu. ke bera tu pasan aaga ho chori ke...

er dusra tanne kehi bhi te didi. didi te umar ka complex sa aa ja hai. aaj pache jiji besak keh diye per didi te bhool ke bhi nahi. tanne chori ki dookhti rag pe haath dhar diya

[rajkharb]

bhai mukesh ..tu nyu kar bichle matna...tu mane thoda sa sensitive sa balak lagya...tere te kise n pher kuchh kah di to tera pher ji dukhega.....tu nyu kar kise dukan pe ja ke ek rubbad ki chhipkali leya...us rubbad ki chhipkali n aapni gojh m rakhya kar..24 ghante er jit bhi tane in chhoreyan pe rasta mangna ho ude us rabbad ki chhipkali ne phank diye ..fer ude itna rasta ban ja gya chaye tu tractar -treli le ke likad liye....

[rathee.sandeep]

bhai mukesh ..tu nyu kar bichle matna...tu mane thoda sa sensitive sa balak lagya...tere te kise n pher kuchh kah di to tera pher ji dukhega.....tu nyu kar kise dukan pe ja ke ek rubbad ki chhipkali leya...us rubbad ki chhipkali n aapni gojh m rakhya kar..24 ghante er jit bhi tane in chhoreyan pe rasta mangna ho ude us rabbad ki chhipkali ne phank diye ..fer ude itna rasta ban ja gya chaye tu tractar -treli le ke likad liye....
er chhori ne nyu bhooj li ke
ek chhipakalli kispe fainki?

[ssindhu]

yo aman ahlawat ki pic dekh ke main te kuch likhna e bhool gi...kilkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

[rohit62]

aaj subah jab mein bus stop pe khada tha toh ek ladki ne pucchaa ki bahiya yeh bus kahan jayegi, kya mujhe usko bolna chaiye tha bhai kisko bol rahi hai, kya mein aap ko bhai dekhta hoon.

[cooljat]

LOL :D :D :D yehi to.....Question ye hai ki when Mukesh asked that gal to give way so humble addressing as didi.....kya ladki ko aise jawab dena chaiye tha ya nahi????!!!!! :rolleyes::eek:

Bro, dont take it sarcastic....guy in question asked this question here with geniune concern.....uska yahan ye bhakeda karne ka koi irada nahi tha n u ppl here makin fuss of that poor boy :(

He is one gud friend of mine, I know him very well....he just wanted to get some sincere input from fellow memebers...but as usual thread derailed :rolleyes:

so intead of making fun of this thread n passing satire remarks....c the other way round....what was the crux of this thread?!:)

Rock on
Jit

aaj subah jab mein bus stop pe khada tha toh ek ladki ne pucchaa ki bahiya yeh bus kahan jayegi, kya mujhe usko bolna chaiye tha bhai kisko bol rahi hai, kya mein aap ko bhai dekhta hoon.

[pgrewal]

LOL :D :D :D yehi to.....Question ye hai ki when Mukesh asked that gal to give way so humble addressing as didi.....kya ladki ko aise jawab dena chaiye tha ya nahi????!!!!! :rolleyes::eek:

Bro, dont take it sarcastic....guy in question asked this question here with geniune concern.....uska yahan ye bhakeda karne ka koi irada nahi tha n u ppl here makin fuss of that poor boy :(

He is one gud friend of mine, I know him very well....he just wanted to get some sincere input from fellow memebers...but as usual thread derailed :rolleyes:

so intead of making fun of this thread n passing satire remarks....c the other way round....what was the crux of this thread?!:)

Rock on
Jit

hahaha
Mukesh Rola padvah ke bhaj ga kite lage se.

[rajkharb]

er chhori ne nyu bhooj li ke
ek chhipakalli kispe fainki?

lagta h va chhori tere jesi h...va konya deve rasta kati bhi...ulte aage or ad sake s...he he he

[ssindhu]

aaj subah jab mein bus stop pe khada tha toh ek ladki ne pucchaa ki bahiya yeh bus kahan jayegi, kya mujhe usko bolna chaiye tha bhai kisko bol rahi hai, kya mein aap ko bhai dekhta hoon.
of course bolna chahiye tha buddy. why the hell we indians seek relationships everywhere...a person unknown and people just adress as bhaiya/didi. silly. can't we be lil modest in manners. though i dnt react if one calls me didi/sister like the girl in mukesh's case. but inside i consider that person to be rustic

[ssindhu]

Originally Posted by cooljat http://www.jatland.com/forums/images/kirsch/buttons/viewpost.gif (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?p=151042#post151042)
LOL :D :D :D yehi to.....Question ye hai ki when Mukesh asked that gal to give way so humble addressing as didi.....kya ladki ko aise jawab dena chaiye tha ya nahi????!!!!! :rolleyes::eek:

Bro, dont take it sarcastic....guy in question asked this question here with geniune concern.....uska yahan ye bhakeda karne ka koi irada nahi tha n u ppl here makin fuss of that poor boy :(

He is one gud friend of mine, I know him very well....he just wanted to get some sincere input from fellow memebers...but as usual thread derailed :rolleyes:

so intead of making fun of this thread n passing satire remarks....c the other way round....what was the crux of this thread?!:)

Rock on
Jit


didi/bhaiya kehna humble adressing na hai...dehati pana hai

[rajkharb]

aaj subah jab mein bus stop pe khada tha toh ek ladki ne pucchaa ki bahiya yeh bus kahan jayegi, kya mujhe usko bolna chaiye tha bhai kisko bol rahi hai, kya mein aap ko bhai dekhta hoon.


he he he..is chhori er .is mukesh ki kati ek jisi aadat s..:D.ha ha ha

[rajkharb]

lyo bhai ...yhaade toh baniye bhi baithe hain..
rapiya be kaadh ke rajji konya :eek:
:D

hummm....jab ye baniye...????? rapiya na kadte to tu kyon kadhe betha s kudte n.. pahar le apne kudte n....:D

[cooljat]

Hum to ji Dehati hi hein !!:rolleyes:
gaon ke bhole bhale Jat hein :)
hame itne 88 kahan angrejon aale :rolleyes::p

Rock on
Jit



didi/bhaiya kehna humble adressing na hai...dehati pana hai

[pgrewal]

Originally Posted by cooljat http://www.jatland.com/forums/images/kirsch/buttons/viewpost.gif (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?p=151042#post151042)
LOL :D :D :D yehi to.....Question ye hai ki when Mukesh asked that gal to give way so humble addressing as didi.....kya ladki ko aise jawab dena chaiye tha ya nahi????!!!!! :rolleyes::eek:

Bro, dont take it sarcastic....guy in question asked this question here with geniune concern.....uska yahan ye bhakeda karne ka koi irada nahi tha n u ppl here makin fuss of that poor boy :(

He is one gud friend of mine, I know him very well....he just wanted to get some sincere input from fellow memebers...but as usual thread derailed :rolleyes:

so intead of making fun of this thread n passing satire remarks....c the other way round....what was the crux of this thread?!:)

Rock on
Jit


didi/bhaiya kehna humble adressing na hai...dehati pana hai
Seema Didi
Ke baat ajj kaal baat hi nahi karte mere se
koi narajgi??? kaise ho app. me apko didi bolta hun aur ese didi word ke upper pura rola pad diyah mukesh ne hahahhaa.

[ssindhu]

Seema Didi
Ke baat ajj kaal baat hi nahi karte mere se
koi narajgi??? kaise ho app. me apko didi bolta hun aur ese didi word ke upper pura rola pad diyah mukesh ne hahahhaa.
i am good bro. you?

there is difference in you calling me didi and mukesh calling her didi. you kno me, you must have felt those respecting feelings for me. but how about calling strangers didi/bhaiya?

[pgrewal]

i am good bro. you?

there is difference in you calling me didi and mukesh calling her didi. you kno me, you must have felt those respecting feelings for me. but how about calling strangers didi/bhaiya?


I am doing great didi.
Yes my calling u didi is based on my respecting feelings can not be compared with mukesh DIDI (Lol). People should not call any stranger by Didi/ Bhaiya etc etc. There are many ways to call them with respect i.e. sir/ madam/ ji/ just excuse me/ App etc etc.

[dkumars]

i am good bro. you?

there is difference in you calling me didi and mukesh calling her didi. you kno me, you must have felt those respecting feelings for me. but how about calling strangers didi/bhaiya?



Jaise mein aapko aunty bolta hoon... haina ???
Mujhe lagta hai abb meri pitne ki baaari aa gayi hai... kuch jyada hi ho gaya joke aunty ke saath... is it aunty ???

[amanjaat]

hummm....jab ye baniye...????? rapiya na kadte to tu kyon kadhe betha s kudte n.. pahar le apne kudte n....:D
katti dukhti pe maar diya tenne te bhai...
to te manne antaryami babba deekhe se bhai :D

[yashbeniwal]

Aapki Nek salah ka intezaar tha sabhi ko,,,:D

mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye

Ek baat bata yaa chori k truck sai yaa rail sai ek uske hatne ka intezaar karna padai,,,
par ek baat pata nahi ki yaa situation bani tai bani kyukar,,,,,,:confused::confused:

[mukeshkumar007]

reply karna to nai chahta tha is thread par kyoki reply karunga to pher upar ajyago yo lakin last baar kar reha hoo...

sorry bhai logo.. galti ho gai jo ya thread saru kar diya..ib kaiya maaf bi karo..arr bhai jin yo time waste lag reha tha to kyo waste kar riye the..peele chawal to diye nai the ki awo aur padho.. na hi thare vicharo ka besabri se intjaar tha.. Anyway I got to learn many things out of this thread (which probably i couldn't have without it.) . I must thank all of you for this. And from now onwards will try to send a copy of the thread (which I will have to post) to u people for your clearness before posting it on jatland finally... ok khush ib.. aur aap logo ke dawara diye ghyan ke liye bi dhynewaad..

[mukeshkumar007]

didi/bhaiya kehna humble adressing na hai...dehati pana hai

wo to maie hoo..and I'm happy to be like this only...because the kind of modernity is visible in our so called modern society is neither modern nor rural.. Moreover a rational personality doesn’t fit in today frame and to posses a split personality is not my cup of tea... any thanx

[ssindhu]

reply karna to nai chahta tha is thread par kyoki reply karunga to pher upar ajyago yo lakin last baar kar reha hoo...

sorry bhai logo.. galti ho gai jo ya thread saru kar diya..ib kaiya maaf bi karo..arr bhai jin yo time waste lag reha tha to kyo waste kar riye the..peele chawal to diye nai the ki awo aur padho.. na hi thare vicharo ka besabri se intjaar tha.. Anyway I got to learn many things out of this thread (which probably i couldn't have without it.) . I must thank all of you for this. And from now onwards will try to send a copy of the thread (which I will have to post) to u people for your clearness before posting it on jatland finally... ok khush ib.. aur aap logo ke dawara diye ghyan ke liye bi dhynewaad..

dukhi kya te ho ra hai? ek te has bol ke tera dukh kam kare hai...er tu te chhidd gya...kilkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. ek te bechari chori ki bhawna na samjhi tanne uppar te hadde post karn aala ki bhi na samajhta

[rohit62]

katti dukhti pe maar diya tenne te bhai...
to te manne antaryami babba deekhe se bhai :D


bhai aman ,tu te kimme xray machine ke aagge khada dekhe se tabyet to thik se na,

[rajkharb]

bhai aman ,tu te kimme xray machine ke aagge khada dekhe se tabyet to thik se na,
HE HE HE HEEEE ..KATI THIK PECHHANA TANE TO BHAI ROHIT...DEKH ISKA XRAY BHI AAGYA S ER YO GHANAE CHODA THOBDA PAAD RYA S.. JARUR KUCHH NA KUCHH DUKHE S ISKA...HA HA HA :D:D

[amanjaat]

bhai aman ,tu te kimme xray machine ke aagge khada dekhe se tabyet to thik se na,
naa bhai
NAZLA sa ban rhya se,
daktarni boli kurta kaad check-up karna hai:eek:
na mera jaisa sudha-sadha maanas ke kade kaddhe ee :D

[amanjaat]

HE HE HE HEEEE ..KATI THIK PECHHANA TANE TO BHAI ROHIT...DEKH ISKA XRAY BHI AAGYA S ER YO GHANAE CHODA THOBDA PAAD RYA S.. JARUR KUCHH NA KUCHH DUKHE S ISKA...HA HA HA :D:D
jyab 2-3 din roti na myallengi ne,:mad:
fer tera thobda bhi katti nhu ee pattega..hahaha :D

[rathee.sandeep]

naa bhai
NAZLA sa ban rhya se,
daktarni boli kurta kaad check-up karna hai:eek:
na mera jaisa sudha-sadha maanas ke kade kaddhe ee :D
tere nazla ho rhaa se ke
mannne issa laagya jannu us chhori ke bhi jukaam ho rhaa thaa
jab e te vaa chho me aagi
chho nazle kaa thaa er taar gi seedhe saadhe dehaati mukesh pe

[ssindhu]

tere nazla ho rhaa se ke
mannne issa laagya jannu us chhori ke bhi jukaam ho rhaa thaa
jab e te vaa chho me aagi
chho nazle kaa thaa er taar gi seedhe saadhe dehaati mukesh pe
ha ha tu koi moka chukiye manna taunt maaran ka

[amanjaat]

tere nazla ho rhaa se ke
mannne issa laagya jannu us chhori ke bhi jukaam ho rhaa thaa
jab e te vaa chho me aagi
chho nazle kaa thaa er taar gi seedhe saadhe dehaati mukesh pe
haha...nazle er gusse me bhi connection ho se..yo to ajje bera pattya
par bhai maan gye mukesh ne..bilkul seeda bachha ban ke kuch na bolya..
mere kesha honta te achha jhaloos haa kadde he bebbe ka bheed me ar fer patte he :D

[rajkharb]

mere kesha honta te achha jhaloos haa kadde he bebbe ka bheed me :D

bhot bhunda rakas s re tu to...canada ja ke aapne saare sanskar bhul gya...
naam dabove ga kati .....bebbe kah er fer uska jhalus bhi kaddta dekhe h bheed m......tane ya baat kahti haan saram nahi aayi....daandre or pade s ya smily(:D) bana ke ........kati dub gya r ...

naam aman le rya s er visvas jhalus me rakhta h...

[ssindhu]

mere kesha honta te achha jhaloos haa kadde he [color="DarkRed"]bebbe ka bheed me :D
bhot bhunda rakas s re tu to...canada ja ke aapne saare sanskar bhul gya...

naam dabove ga kati .....bebbe kah er fer uska jhalus bhi kaddta dekhe h bheed m......tane ya baat kahti haan saram nahi aayi....daandre or pade s ya smily(:D) bana ke ........kati dub gya r ...


ohwawahawhaha. er canada ja ke aapne saare sanskar bhul gya... nahi tanne nu likhi chahiye thi ek canada jake bhi apne sanskar chode nahi....kilkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

[rathee.sandeep]

haha...nazle er gusse me bhi connection ho se..yo to ajje bera pattya
par bhai maan gye mukesh ne..bilkul seeda bachha ban ke kuch na bolya..
mere kesha honta te achha jhaloos haa kadde he bebbe ka bheed me ar fer patte he :D
eeb patta challa glti kiss ki hai
tere jissa ki vajah se hi seedha sa mukesh bachh gyaa

[rajkharb]

jyab 2-3 din roti na myallengi ne,:mad:
fer tera thobda bhi katti nhu ee pattega..hahaha :D

aachhaaa.... to tu daliye khater muh padrya s....HA HA HA HA..... ke din ho liye chuun ke tap chadae...HE HE HE ... je chuun e khana s is ser ne bhi kyun badnam kar rya s .HO HO HO HO..or kyaen
ka photu laale aade....he he he :mad: :D

[ssindhu]

aachhaaa.... to tu daliye khater muh padrya s....HA HA HA HA..... ke din ho liye chuun ke tap chadae...HE HE HE ... je chuun e khana s is ser ne bhi kyun badnam kar rya s .HO HO HO HO..or kyaen
ka photu laale aade....he he he :mad: :D
jukar? ha ha ha ha

[yashbeniwal]

tere nazla ho rhaa se ke
mannne issa laagya jannu us chhori ke bhi jukaam ho rhaa thaa
jab e te vaa chho me aagi
chho nazle kaa thaa er taar gi seedhe saadhe dehaati mukesh pe

ere Rathee choo kyukar taara rai,,

Naak pooch kai haath pooch gayi k iskai...:eek::confused:

[rathee.sandeep]

jukar? ha ha ha ha
jukar? ha ha ha ha

[rathee.sandeep]

ere Rathee choo kyukar taara rai,,

Naak pooch kai haath pooch gayi k iskai...:eek::confused:

vaa te nazle me dukhi ho rhi er yo aur didi didi kehn laagya usne?

[rathee.sandeep]

ha ha tu koi moka chukiye manna taunt maaran ka
mauke ki baat naa se seemaji
kadde aapke jukaam ho rha hoga naa
er jab yo grewal kehvegaa jab dekhiyo

[dkumars]

mauke ki baat naa se seemaji
kadde aapke jukaam ho rha hoga naa
er jab yo grewal kehvegaa jab dekhiyo


errei tu katti bhi mokka na choodiye beirri... kati sahi jagah mare se... sahi hai bhidu... bindass rehneka:p:p