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ravileo
October 10th, 2007, 05:03 PM
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.
She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.
She told her boyfriend, "If I could only see the world, I will marry you."

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'
The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying:
Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a Gift

Today before you say an unkind word -
Think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today before you complain about life -
Think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and thank GOD you're alive and still around.

ravileo
October 10th, 2007, 09:32 PM
Feel free to put your views here

sunitahooda
October 11th, 2007, 09:54 AM
Ravi, A real person is who stays unchanged after being through various type of situations. The day we'll understand this philosophy of life then everything will be pleasant and mental and soul satisfaction will prevail and this material world will be a better place to live. Our ferocious being deprives us from enjoying the happiness to the core cuz we keep dwindling in ego & self/good & bad/ Respect & disrespect/ Comfort & discomfort and stress our mind/body n soul that tend to ignore great things and beings who might be JUST FOR US and FOREVER:)

vivekdh
October 11th, 2007, 10:02 AM
The magic is in "what I can do".Do whatever you can do before asking somebody to do the same for you or others.then life is gift:).bcs people around you will be happy so you will be happy.

puniaanita
October 11th, 2007, 10:46 AM
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excellent

dkumars
October 11th, 2007, 12:53 PM
Brother cant say much as this is juss a story ... but in real life also we can see similar examples...

Par yeh sab padh kar Mujhe aapne dada ji ki kuch baatein yaad aa jati hai like..

1. Achha/bhaali karo aur uss par mitti daldo... bhalai karke bhool jao, halaki mushkil hai, insaani fidrat hai par aadat ban jaati hai

2. Kush rehna hai toh.... Khushi milne par jyada khush mat hona aur dukh milne par jyada dukhi nahi hona... dono hi circumstances mein ek jaisa react karo same treat karo... agar dukh nahi hai toh sukh kaa mahatav hi khatam ho jaayega... sukh tab hi hai jab dukh hai... confusing... hehe


3. My earlier signature... Do not expect much from others and get disappointed but do not disappoint others who expect a lot from u... khush rehne kaa raj

devdahiya
October 11th, 2007, 12:59 PM
SECRET OF HAPPINESS IS IN GIVING SELFLESSLY......AND PURPOSEFULLY...be it Knowledge,help,love,care....anything under the sun.....There is no other way leading to THE DESTINATION CALLED...............TRUE HAPPINESS AND BLISS.

anuaniljakhar
October 11th, 2007, 01:13 PM
Godara gi,
great idea put here, i m always welcomed. But do gud have gud.
i know u r records in jaipur....
So keep it continue..:)
Best of luck

Anil Jakhar
jaipur
99286 00069

sunitahooda
October 11th, 2007, 01:26 PM
I liked what you Dada Ji said...lekin kaash hum itney strong hotey aur aisa kar patey fir to sarey fasaad hi khatam ho jatey:) Aur kitna bhi decide karu expectations jaati hi nahi:oBrother cant say much as this is juss a story ... but in real life also we can see similar examples...

Par yeh sab padh kar Mujhe aapne dada ji ki kuch baatein yaad aa jati hai like..

1. Achha/bhaali karo aur uss par mitti daldo... bhalai karke bhool jao, halaki mushkil hai, insaani fidrat hai par aadat ban jaati hai

2. Kush rehna hai toh.... Khushi milne par jyada khush mat hona aur dukh milne par jyada dukhi nahi hona... dono hi circumstances mein ek jaisa react karo same treat karo... agar dukh nahi hai toh sukh kaa mahatav hi khatam ho jaayega... sukh tab hi hai jab dukh hai... confusing... hehe


3. My earlier signature... Do not expect much from others and get disappointed but do not disappoint others who expect a lot from u... khush rehne kaa raj

dkumars
October 11th, 2007, 02:15 PM
I liked what you Dada Ji said...lekin kaash hum itney strong hotey aur aisa kar patey fir to sarey fasaad hi khatam ho jatey:) Aur kitna bhi decide karu expectations jaati hi nahi:o


Yupp thiek kaha sunita... its very difficult to implement.

But the purpose of all these is just to get attached with such things... jab aap inhe baar baar sunte hai toh thoda samajh mein aana shuru ho jata hai aur bure time mein jyada ganda nahi feel hota...

Anyways jitna implement ho jaye utna bahut hai... bas koshish karni chahiye... aage dekha jaayega jo hoga... hehe

ravileo
October 11th, 2007, 04:53 PM
offocurs brother Implementation is necessary

deepakchoudhry
October 11th, 2007, 05:25 PM
Life just is ...it is neither a gift or a curse.

It presents itself to us like a blank canvas.

Choice is yours what you paint on it.:)

ravileo
October 11th, 2007, 05:57 PM
Good thinking sir