arranged marriages----the search for beauty

[palsaniya]

Now i hv deleted my post, so just Shut up the craped discussion!

[cooljat]

Are! RC Bhai,
Tension nahi lene ka, thanda paani peene ka aur bas!
Yaar, jub hamsfar hi hum hein to phir kahe ka gam hai!
So my dear dost stay single & stay free! No worries then!

But if u seriously thinking about marriage, don’t go for physical beauty it’s just momentary, all that remains eternal is the real beauty which is always skin deep try to find a innocent skin deep beauty with a 24k golden heart then ur life will be heaven.

Yaar, gorgeous beauty with toned well maintained body should be taken as added advantage.
But yaar, I strongly support ur one thing that every man or woman rather every person should work out daily & it should be taken in to habit. A very gorgeous girl with a lazy body language can’t be attractive whereas a less beautiful athletic girl can do wonders.

So try to find a innocent, bold, athletic match rather then a extremely beautiful like Barbie doll.

And in last plz! don’t post sucha crap bullshit post yaar, it contains some abusing language & cheap attitude unlike a genuine Jat, mind it!!

Btw, lookin’ forward to meet u in Jaipur!

Rock on yet take care,

Affectionately,
Jitendra.
Jat~ distinctive since 1979

[palsaniya]

Dear jithendra.,,, This is not craped topic..

Where r u...Improve man...just need to think in + way...

This topic was discussed in IIML group discussion on 6th march.....described by IIM ppl.....so

cool n think as man of thoughts...:)..

soon will meet in jaipur......

rc


Jitendra Mehta (May 02, 2004 01:46 p.m.):
Are! RC Bhai,
Affectionately,
Jitendra.
Jat~ distinctive since 1979

[rahul_malik23]

Just becoz it was discussed in IIML GD on 6th March doesn't makes this topic any better.
Or may be i'm missing something, either discussed at 'IIML' is the USP of the topic or may be 6th March is the holy date on which if a topic is discussed, makes it cool and positive.

I'm not against whatever u have posted in original post (as i have read that in bits-n- pieces, so no comments on that). But it was the 'Cool' phrases u used in your second post which doesn't goes well with me-

"Where r u...Improve man...just need to think in + way..."
"cool n think as man of thoughts...:).."

So please enlighten people like me about the ways to "Think like as man of thoughts'. May be you can start a crash course on this or write a book 'Think like as man of thoughts in 21 days / 7 days".

Regards,
Rahul

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[quote]R.C. Palsaniya (May 03, 2004 04:47 a.m.):
Dear jithendra.,,, This is not craped topic..

Where r u...Improve man...just need to think in + way...

This topic was discussed in IIML group discussion on 6th march.....described by IIM ppl.....so

cool n think as man of thoughts...:)..

soon will meet in jaipur......

rc
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[manish_tomer]

good one

[artikundu]

it is a not the topic to be posted at all.
it is a mere a piece of **** and nothing else.
sorry to say that...........................
beauty lies in the eyes of beholder and have ever any girl has discussed the guys beauty or like that then how can u compare girls simply from their assessts?
u have to think a lot and just a topic of discussion in IILM does not make any sense to be posted here.
please make use of this site for the welfare of jat community and not for this crap.
thanks.

[mbamal]

Could'nt agree more...these kind or articles are usually forwarded as junk mails..i remember reading it an year ago...

[nitiz]

hello!!...

This fellow R C Palsaniya ....is final year at IIT kgp having whole lot of time at his disposal....He make a point to POST one message after every meal.....!!...
Any way he keep jatland active !!!

regards
nit'z

[brainspeak]

yes R C is keeping the site alive...but Mrs Niti and bhai mandeep u didnt answer the question-- the search for beauty in arranged marriages??... since in an arranged marriage the gurl and boy have little interaction.....so beauty of the the gurl becomes a major criterion for the boy.....i dunno abt the gurls!.... wht do u guys say????

[palsaniya]

OH MY GOD.......CHAOS CHAOS.....

I DON'T WANT CHAOS UNNECESSARILY...SO..

I M SORRY PPL IF U GOTTA HURT.......keep smiling..:)...
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n thanks Mrs NITI for Introducing me!!!!

RC

[aakanksha]

This section of the members forum has been described as "Talk about anything under the sun". So when RC posted this topic I dont feel anyone should have a problem with it. A person should give their opinion about a certain topic instead of unnecessarily criticising it. after all the golden rule does say "if you dont have anything nice to say about something - then dont say anything"!!
Please do consider this point!

[rahul_malik23]

As the golden rule says "if you dont have anything nice to say about something - then dont say anything"!!

Then why this original post is there. Can't find anything NICE in it.

And as far as 'Anything under the sun" is concerned, then please don't go by literal meaning. It's a public forum and we are supposed to follow certain code of conduct and show concern towards everyone.
Anything and everything rule doesn't allows someone to post something just for the sake of posting.

regards,
Rahul


Aakanksha (May 06, 2004 07:04 p.m.):
.............. after all the golden rule does say "if you dont have anything nice to say about something - then dont say anything"!!
Please do consider this point!

[neha_grewal]

What CRAP.
First of all this kind of content should never have been allowed on this site. I hope Nitin does something about this. As adults are not the only ones who read articles in thi site, but children too.
Secondly, Is this the standard of our IIM graduates??? God help those who get into IIm,s, and come out with this mentality.

[artikundu]

well said !!!

[palsaniya]

Now whats ur problem?? do u not hv bit brain to think???

Arti Kundu (May 08, 2004 05:03 a.m.):
well said !!!

[artikundu]

what's ur problem?????
i am supporting my follow member's view so what is the prob with u?
Regarding brain,i guess u better know ur's first rather then looking at other's.
Keep my suggestion ,it will help u.
Arti Kundu
R.C. Palsaniya (May 08, 2004 04:27 p.m.):
Now whats ur problem?? do u not hv bit brain to think???

Arti Kundu (May 08, 2004 05:03 a.m.):
well said !!!

[naveen_chaudhary]

Guys with due regards to everyone's feelings and thoughts. Can we please maintain the dignity and harmony of this site? Using demeaning and outrageous words for each other or for anyone for that matter is not going to help any cause.

Right to express freely also gives us the responsibility to be decent.

Thanks for reading and anticipating co-operation.

[dsmolurd]

Oh boy !
Sorry man RC! You got trashed. Didn't read the original content but I guess the responses here say it all.

Main tunae bacchaan auntae, lekin jab Jatni maugra ley kae pacchae pad ja sae tae bhai bacchaan-bacchoon ki kum-e goonjaaessh rahe ja sae....

Our Jat bunch is a bit on the sensitive side, I would say.

And I thought I was bad ! Ha!

[neha_grewal]

Well said Arti.
keep it up, he deserved that.


Arti Kundu (May 08, 2004 05:03 a.m.):
what's ur problem??
i am supporting my follow member's view so what is the prob with u?
Regarding brain,i guess u better know ur's first rather then looking at other's.
Keep my suggestion ,it will help u.
Arti Kundu

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R.C. Palsaniya (May 08, 2004 04:27 p.m.):
Now whats ur problem?? do u not hv bit brain to think???

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Arti Kundu (May 08, 2004 05:03 a.m.):
well said !!!
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