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lucky
August 31st, 2005, 12:33 PM
hello
to every one. ths may be my last post if i donot get good replys and i want yr attention.
WHY ARE GIRLS LEAVING THS SITE. THIS IS SECOND TIME I AM SEEING MY FRIENDS LEAVING THS WEBSITE. BECOZ OF BAD REAMARKS.
i want to ask members tht if u disagree with some thing thn pleaz be gental and talk in eduacted manner y to be roud ?
yr opinion is yrs but u can cheak yr language
tell me if i am wrong! :rolleyes:
rkumar
August 31st, 2005, 12:40 PM
hello
to every one. ths may be my last post if i donot get good replys and i want yr attention.
WHY ARE GIRLS LEAVING THS SITE. THIS IS SECOND TIME I AM SEEING MY FRIENDS LEAVING THS WEBSITE. BECOZ OF BAD REAMARKS.
i want to ask members tht if u disagree with some thing thn pleaz be gental and talk in eduacted manner y to be roud ?
yr opinion is yrs but u can cheak yr language
tell me if i am wrong! :rolleyes:
Leaving is not an answer. har jagah life me problems hain. Kahan kahan se choroge? I thought at last we got some jatnies here who have some guts..But now I see them cracking...What is this ? Agar jato ke en do chal chokron ko nahi deal kar sakte to duniya ko kaise jheloge ? bang them with big hammer...expose them all who send bad remarks...Lead the way...
Rajendra
gaurav_malik
August 31st, 2005, 12:41 PM
i agree shagun.
i myself always talks
in a manner the other side
talks.i know u r a intelligent
girl & u should take initiative
& lead all girls on jat land .
Have there contact no's
with u.keep them motivated
best of luck
lucky
August 31st, 2005, 12:55 PM
Leaving is not an answer. har jagah life me problems hain. Kahan kahan se choroge? I thought at last we got some jatnies here who have some guts..But now I see them cracking...What is this ? Agar jato ke en do chal chokron ko nahi deal kar sakte to duniya ko kaise jheloge ? bang them with big hammer...expose them all who send bad remarks...Lead the way...
Rajendra
sir GUNS AND GUTTS ARE MADE FOR JATS THAT IS TRUE. PER KHTAI HAI NA
"KICHAR MAI PATHAR DALOGAI TU KICHAR APNAI PER AI GA"bass
hum log kichar mai stone nahi dalsuktai. i know my self i cannot go so low wht some of these people.
kuldeep79
August 31st, 2005, 01:25 PM
sir GUNS AND GUTTS ARE MADE FOR JATS THAT IS TRUE. PER KHTAI HAI NA
"KICHAR MAI PATHAR DALOGAI TU KICHAR APNAI PER AI GA"bass
hum log kichar mai stone nahi dalsuktai. i know my self i cannot go so low wht some of these people.
Yes, we should not through stones in the mud. I dnt agree with the veiws of Mr Rajender uncle. We respect Mr Rajender. But here i am not with him. Why he is saying like a protector of these kind of bad langauge boys. Is this the way to write to the girls in a valgurity sense. Mr Rajender uncle must think and take this point seriously to ban these kind of misbehave in the sie, ask the site administrator rather then saying --- Kaha kaha se bhagoge. This should not be the answer from a respectable senior Mr Ranjender.
Kuldeep
kuldeep79
August 31st, 2005, 01:32 PM
Leaving is not an answer. har jagah life me problems hain. Kahan kahan se choroge? I thought at last we got some jatnies here who have some guts..But now I see them cracking...What is this ? Agar jato ke en do chal chokron ko nahi deal kar sakte to duniya ko kaise jheloge ? bang them with big hammer...expose them all who send bad remarks...Lead the way...
Rajendra
Yes, we should not through stones in the mud. I dnt agree with the veiws of Mr Rajender uncle. We respect Mr Rajender. But here i am not with him. Why he is saying like a protector of these kind of bad langauge boys. Is this the way to write to the girls in a valgurity sense. Mr Rajender uncle must think and take this point seriously to ban these kind of misbehave in the sie, ask the site administrator rather then saying --- Kaha kaha se bhagoge. This should not be the answer from a respectable senior Mr Ranjender.
Kuldeep
rkumar
August 31st, 2005, 01:35 PM
sir GUNS AND GUTTS ARE MADE FOR JATS THAT IS TRUE. PER KHTAI HAI NA
"KICHAR MAI PATHAR DALOGAI TU KICHAR APNAI PER AI GA"bass
hum log kichar mai stone nahi dalsuktai. i know my self i cannot go so low wht some of these people.
Kichar me kamal bhi khilte hain aur gudree me Lal bhi chipe hote hai...date rahiye...aisa kuch nahi nahi...koi kichar nahi hai...Kisan ki beti aur kichar se darr...naa...never...If we can not handle Kichar, who else will handle it ?
RK^2
rkumar
August 31st, 2005, 01:43 PM
Yes, we should not through stones in the mud. I dnt agree with the veiws of Mr Rajender uncle. We respect Mr Rajender. But here i am not with him. Why he is saying like a protector of these kind of bad langauge boys. Is this the way to write to the girls in a valgurity sense. Mr Rajender uncle must think and take this point seriously to ban these kind of misbehave in the sie, ask the site administrator rather then saying --- Kaha kaha se bhagoge. This should not be the answer from a respectable senior Mr Ranjender.
Kuldeep
Bhai Kuldeep yahan Jatland par mai bhi galiyaan khaa chuka hoon..ek baar nahi kai baar..People have different view points..I never support such people...Most of the time they get filtered themselves and no one need to bother.....With time you come to know about each member and how to respond to his/ her posts... This is also part of education...
RK^2
kuldeep79
August 31st, 2005, 01:45 PM
Kichar me kamal bhi khilte hain aur gudree me Lal bhi chipe hote hai...date rahiye...aisa kuch nahi nahi...koi kichar nahi hai...Kisan ki beti aur kichar se darr...naa...never...If we can not handle Kichar, who else will handle it ?
RK^2
Dear Mr. Rajender Uncle,
Please, leave all these kind of topics of meaningless, post something usefull and some new to learn for we jat people, u r in abroad, u may give some good view in some new topics rather going on silly points.
Sorry to say, please write in english cz all dnt understand these your haryanavi Khadi boli.
Your experience in there, the way procedure to make the future in career etc.
Kuldeep
rkumar
August 31st, 2005, 01:50 PM
Dear Mr. Rajender Uncle,
Please, leave all these kind of topics of meaningless, post something usefull and some new to learn for we jat people, u r in abroad, u may give some good view in some new topics rather going on silly points.
Sorry to say, please write in english cz all dnt understand these your haryanavi Khadi boli.
Your experience in there, the way procedure to make the future in career etc.
Kuldeep
hey mere bhagwaan.. I was writing in pure Hindi and not in Haryanvi Khadi Bolli. If you notice, I joined these two threads just to request and guide these two youg lady members not to resign. I have initiated many other threads which I suppose in all my wisdom are useful enough...
RK^2
kuldeep79
August 31st, 2005, 02:07 PM
Bhai Kuldeep yahan Jatland par mai bhi galiyaan khaa chuka hoon..ek baar nahi kai baar..People have different view points..I never support such people...Most of the time they get filtered themselves and no one need to bother.....With time you come to know about each member and how to respond to his/ her posts... This is also part of education...
RK^2
Dear Mr Rajender Uncle,
I respect you very much. Again sorry to say, it is very clear that here are not the maximum number of persons who show the literary behaviour. We should write in a literate manner of educated society rather then writing rough tounge passing joke and at last creating the Jat community as a satire on a laugh at the society. See other society which are more cultured, more educated, more having the way of communication. When our jat people cnt talk with a respectable manner with in each other how they will talk to other. When first impression of the rough talk is presented to the othe how thees jat people will be liked in the society of the world. Fact is it is the senoirs who never tried or thought to teach them to be sweeat tounge with proper respectable words even to the juniors.
And you say, uncle, kaha se bhago ge, is this the way to make us understand. It is not only Praveen who left the site, also Lucky is to go, myself also will chat to any body in Jatland and also will not post any thread if this kind of attitude will be of the seniors in the site.
We expect good views from your honourship my dear uncle.
Thanks, regards.
Kuldeep.
dahiyarules
August 31st, 2005, 03:00 PM
hor kitni attention chahiye, yahan pehele hee itni tension ho gayi hai, attention de dekar.
As Rathee said, you cannot expect people to agree with you. I have been bombarded with disagreemnt, everytime I have posted something. And I took it sincerely. Inspite of all that, I love all my fellow Jatlandians.
Dhillon cracks me up. He has the best sense of humor.
Kundu is my yaar. Havent seen him in a long time though.
Raj rathee, direct dil se.
Tau Kalkhande, I thought he was a serious character, untill I saw him balancing a glass on his head.
on and on and on.
This is a great site, with great members.
lucky
August 31st, 2005, 03:32 PM
hor kitni attention chahiye, yahan pehele hee itni tension ho gayi hai, attention de dekar.
As Rathee said, you cannot expect people to agree with you. I have been bombarded with disagreemnt, everytime I have posted something. And I took it sincerely. Inspite of all that, I love all my fellow Jatlandians.
Dhillon cracks me up. He has the best sense of humor.
Kundu is my yaar. Havent seen him in a long time though.
Raj rathee, direct dil se.
Tau Kalkhande, I thought he was a serious character, untill I saw him balancing a glass on his head.
on and on and on.
This is a great site, with great members.
well sir i did say every one has its own view but how to present them is yr oen chose and manners. y cannot be people say their opinion in a gentle way or with joke.like u did for ramlila. it was a good sence of hummar but ya some people should know how to write on a post in right way.and u have to agree with it. and for case of attsntion. i am to consurn that girls are leaving jatland. which is wrong. :cool: :rolleyes:
rkumar
August 31st, 2005, 03:57 PM
...Tau Kalkhande, I thought he was a serious character, untill I saw him balancing a glass on his head.
.....
arrey janab It takes lots of seriousness to balance that glass after three pegs...LOL... Dost upan to wo Ramlila ke extra hain...kabhi hanuman ka role to kabhi Vashishta ka... Ramlila band nahi honee chahiyee...Show must go on...come what may...
RK^2
radhikachhillar
August 31st, 2005, 04:19 PM
Site is indeed good and we cn mk it stil bttr by pyng rspct 2 ladies.
sejwaldeepak
August 31st, 2005, 04:26 PM
hi all,
yar lucky now what happen to u? yar ek ko jhel nahi pa rahe hain hum tum bhi shuru ho gayi.
dekho mujhe to praveen ne rok liya hai main to usko friend manta hun tumne bhi kaha ki praveen se tumhari baat hui hai aur wo mujhse naraj nahi hai.
lekin ye main bhi janta hun ki praveen to ab wapis nahi aayegi.. she is a "khudar" girl.
but for godsake yar ab tum to kahin maat jao.
""""""""bhai kuldeep yar thik hai galti sab se hoti hai insaan bada wohi hota hai jo galti ko maaf kar de""""""""
hamare Rajendra Uncle bhi unhi logon mein se hain jo sabki galtiyan maaf kar dete hain. he is not taking side of any bad viewer/writer.
try to understand his language. because this time u r misbehaving with him.
yar ye sab khatam karo ab bahut ho gaya plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
gaurav_malik
August 31st, 2005, 04:38 PM
kuldeep singh tau kalkande is
guiding these girls,telling them
good things.i think tau is a man who
writes after deep thinking & u are
opposing him just for the shake
of opposing.find out his posts &
u will learn 4 sure
mukeshkumar007
August 31st, 2005, 04:39 PM
hello
to every one. ths may be my last post if i donot get good replys and i want yr attention.
WHY ARE GIRLS LEAVING THS SITE. THIS IS SECOND TIME I AM SEEING MY FRIENDS LEAVING THS WEBSITE. BECOZ OF BAD REAMARKS.
i want to ask members tht if u disagree with some thing thn pleaz be gental and talk in eduacted manner y to be roud ?
yr opinion is yrs but u can cheak yr language
tell me if i am wrong! :rolleyes:
If some one is passing bad remarks on u then ignoring him is the best solution than resigning. Hath ki pancho unguliya saman nahi hoti hai lakin phir bi sath rehti hai. In our family there may be a bad guy but we have to live with him/her, we can’t neglect him/her.
So jatland is also a family and have many members with different type of ideology. Isliye kalesh hona koi barhi baat nahi hai……. Agar is yuh jatland chorke bagoge to yeh to achi baat nahi……….yeh to maidan chod ke bagne wali baat ho gai…..jo ki ek educated personality ki identity nahi hai….. jat ki to bilkul hi nahi..
So date reho apne vicharo ke sath, chae apse koi agree ho ya nahi …… that is only one way by which you can win the race of life.
We should not except that every member will get agree with us,
Again i am requesting you that don't leve jatland because we must need female members for the health and valuable discussion....... rest all depend on you.
itsnavin
August 31st, 2005, 04:46 PM
If some one is passing bad remarks on u then ignoring him is the best solution than resigning. Hath ki pancho unguliya saman nahi hoti hai lakin phir bi sath rehti hai. In our family there may be a bad guy but we have to live with him/her, we can’t neglect him/her.
So jatland is also a family and have many members with different type of ideology. Isliye kalesh hona koi barhi baat nahi hai……. Agar is yuh jatland chorke bagoge to yeh to achi baat nahi……….yeh to maidan chod ke bagne wali baat ho gai…..jo ki ek educated personality ki identity nahi hai….. jat ki to bilkul hi nahi..
So date reho apne vicharo ke sath, chae apse koi agree ho ya nahi …… that is only one way by which you can win the race of life.
We should not except that every member will get agree with us,
Again i am requesting you that don't leve jatland because we must need female members for the health and valuable discussion....... rest all depend on you.
Mukesh brother....Shuddh English mein likha karo...kuch members ki samajh mein nahin aati aapki language.:)
mukeshkumar007
August 31st, 2005, 04:51 PM
Mukesh brother....Shuddh English mein likha karo...kuch members ki samajh mein nahin aati aapki language.
ha ha ha......... ab bhi agar samaj maie nahi aye to na aye..........
hum to bhi jaise hai wese rehenge, ab koi khoosh ho yaa koi kaffa, hum nahi badlenge apni ada,,,,,,,, samje bachaaaaaaa.....
Hum to bhi jaise........... :) :)
itsnavin
August 31st, 2005, 04:59 PM
ha ha ha......... ab bhi agar samaj maie nahi aye to na aye..........
hum to bhi jaise hai wese rehenge, ab koi khoosh ho yaa koi kaffa, hum nahi badlenge apni ada,,,,,,,, samje bachaaaaaaa.....
Hum to bhi jaise........... :) :)
Bhai, main apni baat nahin kar raha thaa...meri taraf se to tum chahey Shekhawati ya Hadoti mein likh do...main to woh bhee samajh loongaa...
kuch aur members ko dikkat hai...shayad tumne sara thread nahin padha :)
mukeshkumar007
August 31st, 2005, 05:04 PM
Bhai, main apni baat nahin kar raha thaa...meri taraf se to tum chahey Shekhawati ya Hadoti mein likh do...main to woh bhee samajh loongaa...
kuch aur members ko dikkat hai...shayad tumne sara thread nahin padha :)
Are bhai maie samaj gaya tha, :)
kuldeep79
August 31st, 2005, 05:11 PM
arrey janab It takes lots of seriousness to balance that glass after three pegs...LOL... Dost upan to wo Ramlila ke extra hain...kabhi hanuman ka role to kabhi Vashishta ka... Ramlila band nahi honee chahiyee...Show must go on...come what may...
RK^2
Dear Uncle Rajender,
Yours is no good reply. Talking always unhealthy and meeningless. Sory, sir. Please, dnt make the Jats a object of a fun or point of joke of every where. We must go further in cultural way.
Your say like "hey Bhagwan -- ---- " is not good address. It is like dominating ang rough address, sir.
We have to grow, come out of of this kind of legency of foolishness of Jat thinking. We jat are not the people to be laughed at like Sadars every where.
Why not we be litterate enough to be mix up with the good conversation even, sir.
Kuldeep.
Thanks, regards.
Kuldeep.
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kuldeep79
August 31st, 2005, 05:21 PM
hi all,
yar lucky now what happen to u? yar ek ko jhel nahi pa rahe hain hum tum bhi shuru ho gayi.
dekho mujhe to praveen ne rok liya hai main to usko friend manta hun tumne bhi kaha ki praveen se tumhari baat hui hai aur wo mujhse naraj nahi hai.
lekin ye main bhi janta hun ki praveen to ab wapis nahi aayegi.. she is a "khudar" girl.
but for godsake yar ab tum to kahin maat jao.
""""""""bhai kuldeep yar thik hai galti sab se hoti hai insaan bada wohi hota hai jo galti ko maaf kar de""""""""
hamare Rajendra Uncle bhi unhi logon mein se hain jo sabki galtiyan maaf kar dete hain. he is not taking side of any bad viewer/writer.
try to understand his language. because this time u r misbehaving with him.
yar ye sab khatam karo ab bahut ho gaya plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Dear Deepak,
Thanks to quote my name in the thread.
I like your views, I know u from the Chopal. You are very good person, u r very humruos.
Please, see, I behave always good to any one, never misbehave, never.
But expect good talks from Rejender uncle. I respect him. But when he says Hey, Bhagwan etc ----- I dnt like. This is not the good way of writing.
""""""""bhai kuldeep yar thik hai galti sab se hoti hai insaan bada wohi hota hai jo galti ko maaf kar de"""""""" I like your feeling.
Kuldeep
gaurav_malik
August 31st, 2005, 05:24 PM
yaar tau is domiting
he is not trying to dominate
coz he has knowledge &
experience far better than u
priti
August 31st, 2005, 05:36 PM
Yeh ladkiyon ke naam pe kya tamasha ho raha hai.....Shagun my dear, why are you so sensitive....koi respect karta hai to theek hai...nahin karta ...to how does it matter to you.....
I always thought respect is commanded not requested :confused:
aur yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyon ka koi copyright nahin hai respect pe( i am saying this because too much emphasis has been put on girls and respect stuff)....should be for everyone...
aur rahi baat bad language ki....you always have the option to ignore it...you find all types of people everywhere...RK uncle is right....
i dont have any stats on girls leaving or dont even know what kind of bad language is used on this site (somehow has escaped my notice)...had no intention of writing here actually.....just wrote in the name of girls :rolleyes:
jakhar77
August 31st, 2005, 07:18 PM
Again a big fight started......
Dear all,
Please dont make Jatland a "Akhada".
If anyone using harsh language best to ignore him otherwise you refer this to moderator.do not leave Jatland b'coz of some ill-minded peoples and carry on contributing to the site and community upliftment.
One more point here is respect, specially for girls,as Priti said dont make it a big issue.Now you are in modern society and male and female are considered equal.Dont feel that girls are weak in any sense and remove the abla,bechari nari thought and face the open world and make your own place in it.
And to the moderators! Please take necessary action on abusive and harrasive comments on the Jatland posts and PM's which are refered to you.
Hey Praveen,
Please do'nt leave Jatland ,stay here and stay firm on your views.
Jab yahan tak aa gaye hain to mukabala karo ya aisi baaton ko ignore karo.
Come on! you are grand daughter of Shri Anandsingh Dangi.
Rest upon you.Do as you wish but we wish to you to stay here.
Regards.
shailendra
August 31st, 2005, 07:34 PM
Yeh ladkiyon ke naam pe kya tamasha ho raha hai.....
I always thought respect is commanded not requested :confused:
aur yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyon ka koi copyright nahin hai respect pe( i am saying this because too much emphasis has been put on girls and respect stuff)....should be for everyone...
i dont have any stats on girls leaving or dont even know what kind of bad language is used on this site (somehow has escaped my notice)...had no intention of writing here actually.....just wrote in the name of girls :rolleyes:
...Priti, You go girl! (no, not as in 'leave'! :D Just kidding!)...
But appreciate your bringing a semblance to the proceedings from a woman's point of view...
You know, I hardly think that we need to 'explain' or stop anyone who is hell bent on leaving. It should be their personal choice and it is kind of becoming ridiculous to see the few individuals needing to have to 'proclaim' and 'declare' this as an 'event' here, as if it is some kind of a national disaster!
Cause; news flash...this is not a disaster relief site!
Was anyone abused here or was ever any verbally (written) bad language used against anyone on the site? Well if not, and if we are talking about some personal messages and emails....then I am sorry that is really the two respondents matter to resolve and not to be used as an excuse to gain sympathy from us members who have no clue what is really going on in the fist place...
And so is the same for some who are readily jumping into the bandwagon now without having any clue in the first place to start a completely fresh duel with any other members (a senior one in this case) who was actually just trying to resolve the matter!...
Anyways, I had basically responded here at first to give kudos to Priti for the straight-backed/non-cloaked words, but unfortunately went off on a tangent... :rolleyes:
I guess it is time to say a collective Best of luck to anyone and everyone whose concern it may be, in all their future endeavors on learning how to command respect.....
jtsagi
August 31st, 2005, 08:46 PM
hello
to every one. ths may be my last post if i donot get good replys and i want yr attention.
WHY ARE GIRLS LEAVING THS SITE. THIS IS SECOND TIME I AM SEEING MY FRIENDS LEAVING THS WEBSITE. BECOZ OF BAD REAMARKS.
i want to ask members tht if u disagree with some thing thn pleaz be gental and talk in eduacted manner y to be roud ?
yr opinion is yrs but u can cheak yr language
tell me if i am wrong! :rolleyes:
I definitely have no clue what the issue is over here but after reading your post I am sure half of Jatland is going to get "dyslexic" very soon. ;)
jitendershooda
August 31st, 2005, 09:49 PM
Yeh ladkiyon ke naam pe kya tamasha ho raha hai.....Shagun my dear, why are you so sensitive....koi respect karta hai to theek hai...nahin karta ...to how does it matter to you.....
I always thought respect is commanded not requested :confused:
aur yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyon ka koi copyright nahin hai respect pe( i am saying this because too much emphasis has been put on girls and respect stuff)....should be for everyone...
aur rahi baat bad language ki....you always have the option to ignore it...you find all types of people everywhere...RK uncle is right....
i dont have any stats on girls leaving or dont even know what kind of bad language is used on this site (somehow has escaped my notice)...had no intention of writing here actually.....just wrote in the name of girls :rolleyes:
Can't be better words than these, on this thread ... very well explained - Priti
suvigya
August 31st, 2005, 10:33 PM
Hell din expect such a sob message frm you Girl !!! Respect is sumthing which has to be earned not begged,,if you feel someone is acting funny for no reason MOW him/her down,,be audacious enough to take a stand rader then talking about leaving the battlefield..n it applies to everyone be it a man or woman..its certainly not gona work considering ourselves weaker sex and pleading for RESPECT,,duno abt gurls leaving this site but if sumone is being unreasonable he/she should be ready for d muck too..
hello
to every one. ths may be my last post if i donot get good replys and i want yr attention.
WHY ARE GIRLS LEAVING THS SITE. THIS IS SECOND TIME I AM SEEING MY FRIENDS LEAVING THS WEBSITE. BECOZ OF BAD REAMARKS.
i want to ask members tht if u disagree with some thing thn pleaz be gental and talk in eduacted manner y to be roud ?
yr opinion is yrs but u can cheak yr language
tell me if i am wrong! :rolleyes:
shailendra
August 31st, 2005, 10:41 PM
Hell din expect such a sob message frm you Girl !!! Respect is sumthing which has to be earned not begged,,if you feel someone is acting funny for no reason MOW him/her down,,be audacious enough to take a stand rader then talking about leaving the battlefield..n it applies to everyone be it a man or woman..its certainly not gona work considering ourselves weaker sex and pleading for RESPECT,,duno abt gurls leaving this site but if sumone is being unreasonable he/she should be ready for d muck too..
...Attagirl Suvigya!
So spoke another Jaatni... that's even much better attitude! :cool:
(I liked the last line!)
lucky
September 1st, 2005, 01:03 AM
now guys thanks for replying. wellsome of u are with my opinion and some not. but have u seen tht people who are not have wrote in very nice way and explained me y they are not. i just wanted ths. u can tell yr opinion by using right words. it is yr choice.
and one more things the option of ingoring them i want to tell poeple how do u feel whn u open yr post in middle of night to read some thing and u relize that not one but 3 or 4 times a person is writing utter non sence and it is not first time.
well i cannot ignore it boils my blood that how can an educated person talk so non sence.
and for member who wrote tht respect is not only for girls. thn i want to tell u. i have asked respect for every one male or female. my post is tht
Y CANNOT PEOPLE REPSOND IN HEALTHY WAY.
it is not that i didnot get negt remarks and now also i got but thy are realy good in manner and they have explained me y thy are against. but i got upset whn people try to be too smart and use haryanvi as a mood for insulting and humalating some one.
and i am not tht sort of person that can tolerate ths i cannot ignore all ths after some extended.
and i like to post things for every one to enjoy and to think also not to boil my own blood. and wht find of nature i have u can see it from my signature it is funny :D
thanks again to every one to give me yr time :D
poonam
September 1st, 2005, 03:31 AM
but after reading your post I am sure half of Jatland is going to get "dyslexic" very soon. ;)
What a breather! I was getting perplexed if its only me whos getting some kind of 'cyho..deesordar'....I mean psycho. disorder.... ;) :)
ashokkhatri
September 1st, 2005, 05:03 AM
What a breather! I was getting perplexed if its only me whos getting some kind of 'cyho..deesordar'....I mean psycho. disorder.... ;) :)
I am wondering whether I am reading SMS or wblg (weblog) :D , or people are so addicted to this site that they are using their blackberries to post ... :confused:
Anyway I have found a way, paste the post in word and let it suggest you the words (microsoft products are not that bad afterall... :D )
brad
September 1st, 2005, 05:40 AM
its not only females are leaving. there are 3700 members and how many post or visit, my guess is not more than 100. so 3600 have already left. some u r sure have "resigned", bcos u see 100s and 1000ds of posts by them but none in past 6 mons or a yr or even 2 yrs.
so if someone wants to leave, leave dont blame others. this is a public forum, u will find every type of creatures here. Handle them, avoid them or just eat them up. the choice is urs.
ajaysinghbamel
September 1st, 2005, 05:58 PM
hello
to every one. ths may be my last post if i donot get good replys and i want yr attention.
WHY ARE GIRLS LEAVING THS SITE. THIS IS SECOND TIME I AM SEEING MY FRIENDS LEAVING THS WEBSITE. BECOZ OF BAD REAMARKS.
i want to ask members tht if u disagree with some thing thn pleaz be gental and talk in eduacted manner y to be roud ?
yr opinion is yrs but u can cheak yr language
tell me if i am wrong! :rolleyes:
LETS BE CLEAR WHAT WE WANT FROM THIS FORUM AND HOW AS AN INDIVIDUAL WE CAN CONTRIBUTE. IF WE HAVE NO CONFUSION THEN NO BODY CAN STOP . THEREFORE DON'T GET INTO TRAP OF PEOPLE WHO DON'T WANT THIS FORUM TO DEVELOP INTO A PLATFORM WHERE WE CAN BE TOGETHER AND SHARE A COMMON GOAL OF DOING SOMETHING FOR OUR SOCIETY . IT TAKE TIME BUT RESULTS ARE ALWAYS THERE.
navingulia
September 1st, 2005, 07:41 PM
Ye dunia aani jaani hai, log aate hain jaate hain, milte hain khote hain...
1. People coming or going on the site is absolutely fine. Part of life. There is only one thing stable in life that is change.
2. People come here to meet and interact. Everybody has a right to be stupid/wise as per choice. :) We should just interact and not confront each other.
3. Vulgarity? Out of question. If some one does it he should be kicked out. I have said from the very begining. This site is not a yahoo chatroom and it shouldnot become one.
4. I dont understand this resigning business at all. This is not a job. This is a place- you like it you come here, you dont like you dont.
ajaynehra
September 1st, 2005, 08:00 PM
Hi All and Shagun ji
Yes, I too agree with you on the same, I used to be regular on this site some time back then I started seeing some useless threads and I restricted my regularity. We all need to act as responsible individuals of this respactable JAT community.
Thanks for bringing this in the notice of memvers of this site.
Thanks
AJAY NEHRA
ganeshjat
September 1st, 2005, 08:12 PM
Yeh ladkiyon ke naam pe kya tamasha ho raha hai.....Shagun my dear, why are you so sensitive....koi respect karta hai to theek hai...nahin karta ...to how does it matter to you.....
I always thought respect is commanded not requested
aur yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyon ka koi copyright nahin hai respect pe
GRT PRITI ...respect mangane se nahi milati hain , dil se nikalati hain, chahe wo girls ho ya koi aur.i like ur view...
dudi ji bhi sahi hain .. its a puplic forum , aur public ka koi chehra nahi hota hain,
so if someone wants to leave, leave dont blame others. this is a public forum, u will find every type of creatures here. Handle them, avoid them or just eat them up. the choice is urs.
ganeshjat
September 1st, 2005, 08:18 PM
Yeh ladkiyon ke naam pe kya tamasha ho raha hai.....Shagun my dear, why are you so sensitive....koi respect karta hai to theek hai...nahin karta ...to how does it matter to you.....
I always thought respect is commanded not requested
aur yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyon ka koi copyright nahin hai respect pe
GRT PRITI ...respect mangane se nahi milati hain , dil se nikalati hain, chahe wo girls ho ya koi aur.i like ur view...
dudi ji bhi sahi hain .. its a puplic forum , aur public ka koi chehra nahi hota hain,
so if someone wants to leave, leave dont blame others. this is a public forum, u will find every type of creatures here. Handle them, avoid them or just eat them up. the choice is urs.
devdahiya
September 1st, 2005, 09:05 PM
LETS BE CLEAR WHAT WE WANT FROM THIS FORUM AND HOW AS AN INDIVIDUAL WE CAN CONTRIBUTE. IF WE HAVE NO CONFUSION THEN NO BODY CAN STOP . THEREFORE DON'T GET INTO TRAP OF PEOPLE WHO DON'T WANT THIS FORUM TO DEVELOP INTO A PLATFORM WHERE WE CAN BE TOGETHER AND SHARE A COMMON GOAL OF DOING SOMETHING FOR OUR SOCIETY . IT TAKE TIME BUT RESULTS ARE ALWAYS THERE.
My dear Ajay bhai,
Well said. Honest and correct thoughts. Keep up the good job!
arunshamli
September 2nd, 2005, 06:02 AM
aap logon ne yoh yar hamare RK^2 uncle ko hee bhaga diya... :) kuch bhee bole toh log nasihat dene lagte hain ki being a senior membor you should not do this or should not say that... blah blah... But I hope woh maidan chodkar nahi ja rahe hain. :)
I fully agree with him....he is right in saying ke kahan kahan se bhagoge....
Shagun, if you have a problem .....deal with it...or leave it... if you have been ill-treated by some one, toh kanoon me raha ke uska mukabla karo...agar mukabla nahi kar sakthe toh leave it for now and wait for the right moment...
lekin sab jahaga aisa hee hai...aap jana chahti hai toh aap pahale hee decision le chuki hai...and I am not stopping you....but I would suggest that...
do not think about this for a couple of days...forget about everything. ..uske bad sochna...perhaps you will notice some changes with-in yourself ...and the world might be a beautiful place once again...
try to look at the positive side of what has happened to you...perhaps this may be a good opportuinity for you to learn how to deal with difficult situations. I dont know how old are you/working/studying, but life me bahoot compitition hai......forget about the jatland...this is not the end of the world ...aise aise jhatke roj jhelne padte hain...
so be brave and think positive( like Priti Shokin)....gussa is not going to help you in any way.........