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devdahiya
September 2nd, 2005, 10:03 PM
LOOK FOR THE POSITIVES IN PEOPLE

Whenever we see people doing something, let us focus our mind on the positivity of the activity.It is next to impossible that we don't find anything good in whatever we hear, feel, touch,taste and smell [that pleases us].We must look for that one positive, which gives us a chance to appreciate and not those many things which easily allows us to criticize.Any fool can criticize but it takes character to appreciate things.Let us become ENCOURAGER and motivater than to be a leg puller.ENCOURAGEMENT means to inspire with courage, spirit or hope. You are the chooser of your concepts in life and no body can force you to choose anything which you don't wish to undertake.I will apprecite and encourage people at every step and at every corner of life because God has not sent me out here as JUDGE. In that case i must perform only good deeds always and i will for sure.

spdeshwal
September 5th, 2005, 05:40 AM
Much appreciated Dahiyaji!

This morming, I watching an interview on BBC involving a star spinter from USA, Laurine William. In replying to the question, When you perform best on the track? The sprinter replied, " I perform best when feel free on the track".She explained when pressure of winning and stress of criticism is not there.

I would like to add to the wonderfull thoughts narrated by you. Most of these points I have adapted from a book ''How to win friends and influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It is wonderful book and I would advise my young friends on this site to read this.

Whenever we discuss a topic on or off the site, we must remember that a healthy debate is different than an argument and to get best out of an argument is, avoid it.

We must show respect for other person's opinion and never say,"you are wrong"

If you are wrong , admit quickly and emphatically.

Begin debating with your Point of view in a friendly way.

Try honestly to see things from the other persons point of view.

Be sympathetic with other persons ideas and opinions.

Most importent: let the other person save face

Finally, analyse before you post. ....Always keep in mind, People on this site are wonderful. Learn to appreciate them.



Caution: Keep Handy, Sumit Dahiya bhai wali Thandi Goli ( chill pill)

positivelook
September 5th, 2005, 07:34 AM
Yes if u r not positive enough u can't take even a single step towards ur success. Nothing to say at this moment.

Abhimanyu Phougat