deepakdahiya
September 21st, 2005, 03:17 PM
A nice article from ~Swami Vivekananda~
I would like to share something on the 'nature of love'. I once had a
friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at
the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with a
little water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this
water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love." ! This was
how I saw it : "As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow
it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt
to close your fingers around it and try to posses it, it will spill
through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that
people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand,
they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand,
Love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you can
not change it's nature. If there are people you love, allow them to
be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask,
but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may
take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To
truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those
who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."
Passing Thought :
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the
moments that take our breath away
cheers
____Deepak Dahiya____
*****Jai Mata Di*****
I would like to share something on the 'nature of love'. I once had a
friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at
the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with a
little water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this
water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love." ! This was
how I saw it : "As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow
it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt
to close your fingers around it and try to posses it, it will spill
through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that
people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand,
they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand,
Love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you can
not change it's nature. If there are people you love, allow them to
be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask,
but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may
take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To
truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those
who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."
Passing Thought :
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the
moments that take our breath away
cheers
____Deepak Dahiya____
*****Jai Mata Di*****