Sachcha Saathi

[devdahiya]

Dear members,i am starting this topic with a hope that very nice and meaningful inputs will get delivered out here for the benefit of all who want to continue learning in life about numorous things,we don't find time for but they have immense significance in towards shaping our life in a meaningful way and are directly proportional to the overall happiness we derive out of our existence called LIFE.


I am sure that we all have some experience of dealing with blood relations,friends,well wishers,Strangers[good doers] and people who come forward to do good to us from no where.Ofcourse it depends on one's attitude directly[how demanding/selfless/accomodating we are] as to what kinda treatment one gets/is metted out in the hands of various people but my experience suggests that blood relations put too many questions and remind you of why a wrong was done, before they actually think of helping you[conditions apply] and most of the time the help rendered is inadequate with so many conditions attached or not offered at all.In that respect i found friends and God sent people more kind and forthcoming without asking any question and without any pre-conditions.


Then what is the truth? Is this Khoon ka rista a myth/Nattak? Have we gone beyond repairs?Please share your experience with us all.Thanks!

[skarmveer]

Dev Saheb, Bahut sunder thread shuru kee hai aapney,

Sathi tab sachcha milta hai jab hum sachchey hote hain. Aapney dekha hoga Sharabi ko sharabi bahut mil jatey hai, Juari ko juari or Bhajan karney waley ko bhajan karney waaley. Aaj bhee sachchey sathi miltey hai parantoo
humarey dil mey kahin na kahin eak soch hoti hai mujhey is-say kaya fayada ho sakta hai, agar hum niswarth hokar sathi kee talash karengey to hamey sachcha sathi jarur milega.

Jahan tak khoon key restey kee baat woo bhee high expectation,s key karn hee aachchey nahi chaltey. If we do our duty without expecting anything then these relations are much beter.

Regards

[devdahiya]

Dev Saheb, Bahut sunder thread shuru kee hai aapney,

Sathi tab sachcha milta hai jab hum sachchey hote hain. Aapney dekha hoga Sharabi ko sharabi bahut mil jatey hai, Juari ko juari or Bhajan karney waley ko bhajan karney waaley. Aaj bhee sachchey sathi miltey hai parantoo
humarey dil mey kahin na kahin eak soch hoti hai mujhey is-say kaya fayada ho sakta hai, agar hum niswarth hokar sathi kee talash karengey to hamey sachcha sathi jarur milega.

Jahan tak khoon key restey kee baat woo bhee high expectation,s key karn hee aachchey nahi chaltey. If we do our duty without expecting anything then these relations are much beter.

Regards



Very well articulated and balance thought this...liked it immensly.Thanks Karam bhai.

[ritu]

sachhe saathi ko hi sachha saathi milta hai.its kind of give and take.vaise aajk ke jamane me to aapka sachha sathi aapka spouse hi hota.

[dahiyars]

Dear Dev ji

Well said. A very thaught provoking situation you have described. I want to Share two three points here.
1 Commercialisation has creeped in our families and the blood relationship is also getting commercialised in one way or the other.

2. Well thought and well planned package of Violence , Drugs( Nasha) and Sex is being percolated in Indian society in a very calculated manner. Who is doing and in whoose interest can be discussed.

3 The impact of this package is that the traditional family frame work is under stress becouse of very obvious reasons, but we have not been able to make a concept of new democratic family in Indian context.

You have given the title Sachcha Saathi.I have written a folk song around this please go through and comment.

R.S.Dahiya

[devdahiya]

Dear Dev ji

Well said. A very thaught provoking situation you have described. I want to Share two three points here.
1 Commercialisation has creeped in our families and the blood relationship is also getting commercialised in one way or the other.

2. Well thought and well planned package of Violence , Drugs( Nasha) and Sex is being percolated in Indian society in a very calculated manner. Who is doing and in whoose interest can be discussed.

3 The impact of this package is that the traditional family frame work is under stress becouse of very obvious reasons, but we have not been able to make a concept of new democratic family in Indian context.

You have given the title Sachcha Saathi.I have written a folk song around this please go through and comment.

R.S.Dahiya




Great poem Doctor saheb.......Very timely and apt.Thanks.We will discuss the points raised by you for sure.