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shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 01:01 PM
Leave me alone !! are areeeeee aap log kaha jaane lage,:confused: are ye to ek dialouge tha bas !

Well, times have changed & so have changed the living standards & various other attributes related to our lives. I would like to discuss about the causes underlying the fast growing tendency amongst the people of finding pleasure in living alone. Its not that they dont love their parents or family members but still they find themselves more comfortable in living alone. Recently, I also came across a newer philosophy in this regards ! A boy was of the opinion that he doesnt wants to get married because he dont wanna share his house with anyone ! Just an example amongst many others, but the point that lies beneath is that why people now take even an elderly advise or a gesture out of love as a hinderance to their identity or for that matter, an interruption in their lives?

dkumars
September 24th, 2007, 01:10 PM
Leave me alone !! are areeeeee aap log kaha jaane lage,:confused: are ye to ek dialouge tha bas !

Well, times have changed & so have changed the living standards & various other attributes related to our lives. I would like to discuss about the causes underlying the fast growing tendency amongst the people of finding pleasure in living alone. Its not that they dont love their parents or family members but still they find themselves more comfortable in living alone. Recently, I also came across a newer philosophy in this regards ! A boy was of the opinion that he doesnt wants to get married because he dont wanna share his house with anyone ! Just an example amongst many others, but the point that lies beneath is that why people now take even an elderly advise or a gesture out of love as a hinderance to their identity or for that matter, an interruption in their lives?


Deleted.... can come back on topic

mukeshkumar007
September 24th, 2007, 01:13 PM
itna jyada bi nai sochna chaiye..

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 01:16 PM
If don mind juss wanna know whos dat guy ?
Is he from JL?

Areeeee baap re :confused: Pehla reply hi off topic !:o Why u wanna know, will it make any difference:rolleyes: !

Well, JL ke alawa bi duniya bahut badi hai ! Was just a newer kind of approach i got to hear & found it strange, & no one from here pls!

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 01:22 PM
itna jyada bi nai sochna chaiye..

Bilkul thik ! par kya kare dimaag samjhata koni yo gyan ke vachaan ! soch baithe hai !:p

ssindhu
September 24th, 2007, 01:22 PM
This comfort of staying alone is growing just coz relationships are deteriorating dese days. ppl r mor self-centered which leads to bad relations n NO RELATION IS BETTER THN BAD RELATION. secondly, life has bcum so busy tht one cnt just kill time in adjusting wid a wrong person, n right person might nt b just around whn u want...so ppl saty unmarried till late years...I AM SURE IF THE GUY U R TALKING ABUT HAD CUM ACROSS WID 'HIS TYPE' GAL, HE WUD HAV NVR SAID A THING LIKE U MENTIONED. HE WUD HAV JUMPED ON MARRIAGE WITHUT FEARS. so it just tht ppl hav bcum mature to wait 4 d right thing 2 happen

cooljat
September 24th, 2007, 01:34 PM
Well, Shweta marriage is something that must be indviudal choice...if one feel like marryin, should go for it if one is single n happy .... let her/him be!!.....first of all he/she is Indivdual!! ... One shouldnt carried away by social n family pressure, Cuz Marriage is all about mutul understanding & sharin' :)

One should nt take relations like marriage for granted n if u cant carry on ur relations its better not to tie then drag!!

Well, if u ask bout my perception, I'm Single & Happy as far following three very deary things keep fueling my life engine ;)

1) Beer
2) Rock Music+Guitars
3) wanderlust

Beer+Guitars+Solitdue = Nirvana for me!!!


Rock on
Jit

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 01:37 PM
This comfort of staying alone is growing just coz relationships are deteriorating dese days. ppl r mor self-centered which leads to bad relations n NO RELATION IS BETTER THN BAD RELATION. secondly, life has bcum so busy tht one cnt just kill time in adjusting wid a wrong person, n right person might nt b just around whn u want...so ppl saty unmarried till late years...I AM SURE IF THE GUY U R TALKING ABUT HAD CUM ACROSS WID 'HIS TYPE' GAL, HE WUD HAV NVR SAID A THING LIKE U MENTIONED. HE WUD HAV JUMPED ON MARRIAGE WITHUT FEARS. so it just tht ppl hav bcum mature to wait 4 d right thing 2 happen

But is the cause at root is that we expect lot from people? Adjusting is seen as a problem now. "Right person" ....... too tough to decide !

ssindhu
September 24th, 2007, 02:22 PM
But is the cause at root is that we expect lot from people? Adjusting is seen as a problem now. "Right person" ....... too tough to decide !
yup adjusting wid a wrong person is problematic n foolish. bt adjusting wid a right person is prudent n fulfilling

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 02:43 PM
Well, Shweta marriage is something that must be indviudal choice...if one feel like marryin, should go for it if one is single n happy .... let her/him be!!.....first of all he/she is Indivdual!! ... One shouldnt carried away by social n family pressure, Cuz Marriage is all about mutul understanding & sharin' :)

One should nt take relations like marriage for granted n if u cant carry on ur relations its better not to tie then drag!!

Well, if u ask bout my perception, I'm Single & Happy as far following three very deary things keep fueling my life engine ;)

1) Beer
2) Rock Music+Guitars
3) wanderlust

Beer+Guitars+Solitdue = Nirvana for me!!!


Rock on
Jit

Well really?? But lemme tell u one thing, the topic was not at all on marriage:p Hahaaahahaaaa !

Anyways, if u have linked it to marriage, then why u dont want to get married? why u think that ur beer, guitars etc can fill the place of a life partner? Its individual choice of course, but what is the reason for such a choice, not for u, i m asking in general?

vikasgulia
September 24th, 2007, 02:48 PM
There is nothing like that this trend is a recent one, it is there for centruries (don't ask me how I know about so many centuries, being just around for a couple of decades :)) , there were soliloquists before & in equal abundance...only thing is now a days with the advent of whole lot of new technologies, you can be cocooned & enshrined with minimum disturbance from outside (assumed to be unfriendly & unadjusting) world.The modern means help you to stay in your own sphere of influence undisturbed by the world, whereas in old age for every bit of life , one had to bank upon the society, be it a mere square meal.This is a paradox that world has become flatter n because of speeding on information superhighway that it has taken & one the same time, people are drifting from society encircled by electronic gadgets & auxiliaries.But could it be that pasting emoticons in a chat be a substitute of lsitening to ones voice....NO, a flat NOOOOOooo. Could a voice excahnge replace the warmth of a handshake & inter personal interaction..again NO??? but a strange phenomenon has happened wherein people are replacing all physical things with the virtual stuff ...& to an utter surprise, they feel satiated also initially.....I would term it as an abnormal form of sociophobia enhanced by modern tehnology...........contests/counter claims invited!!!!!!!:rolleyes:

skarmveer
September 24th, 2007, 02:57 PM
Its really imposible and unfare also for anybody who say I am stay alone. Anybody who say, I am not interested in anybody is fearing from some thing known to that person only. Why we are feeling that we will not get good relationship or we are unable to adjust with people around. In my view its fear, Negative aproach or some Igo problem. If we think positive we get positive and if we think nagative we get nagative.

cooljat
September 24th, 2007, 02:58 PM
Achaa ji!! fir wat bout ur this example : 'A boy was of the opinion that he doesnt wants to get married because he dont wanna share his house with anyone' ?? ab meri tublight mein to yehi chamak hui ki madamji Shaadi-byaah in today's context ke baare mein batla rehi hai:rolleyes::p;)

Nyways, jaise har kisi sawal ke jawab nahi hota hai waise hi....Reason bhi nahi hota.....I dont wanna do cuz I dont feel like doin :) as simple as that!!

Now dont get me started again :).....Beer is better then woman ny given day....I proved some days before n now shall I start with Guitars too ;) ;) ;)

I guess no particular reason....many kinda ppl many kinda reason....so Matter of Choice, u see :)


Rock on
Jit



Well really?? But lemme tell u one thing, the topic was not at all on marriage:p Hahaaahahaaaa !


Anyways, if u have linked it to marriage, then why u dont want to get married? why u think that ur beer, guitars etc can fill the place of a life partner? Its individual choice of course, but what is the reason for such a choice, not for u, i m asking in general?

ssindhu
September 24th, 2007, 03:12 PM
Its really imposible and unfare also for anybody who say I am stay alone. Anybody who say, I am not interested in anybody is fearing from some thing known to that person only. Why we are feeling that we will not get good relationship or we are unable to adjust with people around. In my view its fear, Negative aproach or some Igo problem. If we think positive we get positive and if we think nagative we get nagative.
sir there is nuthing unfair in it. ppl cn b alone in full-fledge family as well. credit goes to better aware ppl...nw we r mor individual thn just a shadow of relation's as it used 2 b in older times. nw our mental faculties r mor capable n d mor intellectual one is, d mor isolated he will bcum

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 03:23 PM
Achaa ji!! fir wat bout ur this example : 'A boy was of the opinion that he doesnt wants to get married because he dont wanna share his house with anyone' ?? ab meri tublight mein to yehi chamak hui ki madamji Shaadi-byaah in today's context ke baare mein batla rehi hai:rolleyes::p;)

Nyways, jaise har kisi sawal ke jawab nahi hota hai waise hi....Reason bhi nahi hota.....I dont wanna do cuz I dont feel like doin :) as simple as that!!

Now dont get me started again :).....Beer is better then woman ny given day....I proved some days before n now shall I start with Guitars too ;) ;) ;)

I guess no particular reason....many kinda ppl many kinda reason....so Matter of Choice, u see :)


Rock on
Jit

Well, on serious note, no particular remarks, but when anyone says 'there is no reason', it doesnt means there isnt any. Reasons are of 2 kinds as per my understanding, reasons which we know about & the ones which either we dont know or dont wanna know! So, reason is always there is the crux !

& 'beer is better than woman any given day' - Articles or things and living beings cant be compared at an equal platform. A woman has given u life & another one can make ur life, but a beer can do nothing more than providing instant pleasures to ur senses, however hard u may love it. And coming to the matter of proving, can u prove that the woman who gave u birth is not even better than a beer?

When it comes to saying or proving, anyone can say anything or prove anything but it can in no manner change the truth.

vikasgulia
September 24th, 2007, 03:34 PM
Confining a generalist topic to man-woman relation is a best example of myopic thinking. Reasons are numerous, man woman relationships is significant part but not the only one which defines human interaction....issue ko aisa todo ki log chatkhare leke padhen aur jawab dein..a typical phenomenon now a days!!!!

dkumars
September 24th, 2007, 03:37 PM
Well, on serious note, no particular remarks, but when anyone says 'there is no reason', it doesnt means there isnt any. Reasons are of 2 kinds as per my understanding, reasons which we know about & the ones which either we dont know or dont wanna know! So, reason is always there is the crux !

& 'beer is better than woman any given day' - Articles or things and living beings cant be compared at an equal platform. A woman has given u life & another one can make ur life, but a beer can do nothing more than providing instant pleasures to ur senses, however hard u may love it. And coming to the matter of proving, can u prove that the woman who gave u birth is not even better than a beer?

When it comes to saying or proving, anyone can say anything or prove anything but it can in no manner change the truth.




Yoooooooh maraaaaaaaaa ... ibb bol bhai... ya shweta tai tera byah karwakai maanegi lagei sai :D:D:D

cooljat
September 24th, 2007, 03:51 PM
hummmm....no offense to anyone ... just watched Abhay Deol's latest movie Manorma.....movie was so so but one dialogue in the movie was awesome n I really liked it.... Deol's bro-in-law said to him that -

" Ye aurten bhi Azeeb hoti hein.....Shaadi ke baad agar Husband kharab mil jaaye to zindgi bhar khud rotti rehti hai....aur agar kismat se achha husband mil jaaye to usse rulaati rehti hai!!:D:p:D:p:rolleyes:"

As for the very reason ur curious bout ....I dont wanna marry cuz Im free bird just like floatin cloud.....aaj yahan kal wahan!! So simply I dont wanna spoil ny gal's life....so am happy with beer cuz she atleast wont ever complain that u've spoiled my lyf ;);)

n the comparison between Beer n Woman was in a ligther note yaar.....mazak bhi nahi samjti tum!!!:) ;)on a serious note I'm a big time feminist n I respect women a lot but I dont trust them :cool:


over n out!!!



Rock on
Jit


Well, on serious note, no particular remarks, but when anyone says 'there is no reason', it doesnt means there isnt any. Reasons are of 2 kinds as per my understanding, reasons which we know about & the ones which either we dont know or dont wanna know! So, reason is always there is the crux !

& 'beer is better than woman any given day' - Articles or things and living beings cant be compared at an equal platform. A woman has given u life & another one can make ur life, but a beer can do nothing more than providing instant pleasures to ur senses, however hard u may love it. And coming to the matter of proving, can u prove that the woman who gave u birth is not even better than a beer?

When it comes to saying or proving, anyone can say anything or prove anything but it can in no manner change the truth.

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 04:06 PM
Confining a generalist topic to man-woman relation is a best example of myopic thinking. Reasons are numerous, man woman relationships is significant part but not the only one which defines human interaction....issue ko aisa todo ki log chatkhare leke padhen aur jawab dein..a typical phenomenon now a days!!!!

Confining :confused: Well, u r free to ponder ur unconfined, non-chaatkhaara types, non typical views, away from the man-woman relationships! Well, I was very clear with the discussion and it ranged from the people willing to live in nuclear families just for the reason of avoinding 'taka-taaki' to people who think that any kind of relation is a 'janzeer' sort of thing ! It ties their wings of freedom !

They find it tough even to give answers arising out of love & concern and owing to this they try escaping from such relations & find solace in their loneliness or relations without tags or names attached.

vivekdh
September 24th, 2007, 04:14 PM
apke iss andaj pe aarj kiya hai bahisaab......

main toffanoo ki terha raha jindgi bar ,
Bikhar jate wo agar muj se mahobatt kerte ...:)



As for the very reason ur curious bout ....I dont wanna marry cuz Im free bird just like floatin cloud.....aaj yahan kal wahan!! So simply I dont wanna spoil ny gal's life....so am happy with beer cuz she atleast wont ever complain that u've spoiled my lyf ;);)

nJit

deepakchoudhry
September 24th, 2007, 04:16 PM
Maybe some people need their space more than others.

shweta123
September 24th, 2007, 04:22 PM
Yoooooooh maraaaaaaaaa ... ibb bol bhai... ya shweta tai tera byah karwakai maanegi lagei sai

Aaj 20-20 ka fever posts me bi chaa raha hai ! :oYe chauka tha ya chakka ye bi bata dijiye umpire ji ;)

Na na byah na karwa ke maanane ki, ibbe mai yo karungi ki jibbe Jit ji apna Matri add denge to moderators ki help se neeche likhwa dungi ye punya vachan

Wanted a suitable match but lemme tell u : "Beer is better than woman any given day" & " Ye aurten bhi Azeeb hoti hein.....Shaadi ke baad agar Husband kharab mil jaaye to zindgi bhar khud rotti rehti hai....aur agar kismat se achha husband mil jaaye to usse rulaati rehti hai!!:D:p:D:p:rolleyes:" & the likes

:p

Waise bi abhi to kaafi time hai Devendra ji add dene me tab tak kuch ache se quotes aur ikkhate ho jaayenge, Jit ji to 40-45 ke baad hi shaadi karenge & that too when he will get ready to spoil a girls life as told to us by him, or when the freely floating cloud gets tired of floating !!
Daawat gayi hamari to..........

skarmveer
September 24th, 2007, 05:36 PM
Jab tak hamey jarurat hai hum sabhi ka istemaal kartey hai ur jab dusro ko hamari jarurat ho hum keh dey hamey akeley rehna pasand hai kanhan tak sahi hai. Jitna hamney samaj say liya hai utna vapas kery or fir akeley rahain
to kisi ko koi problem nahi hogi.


sir there is nuthing unfair in it. ppl cn b alone in full-fledge family as well. credit goes to better aware ppl...nw we r mor individual thn just a shadow of relation's as it used 2 b in older times. nw our mental faculties r mor capable n d mor intellectual one is, d mor isolated he will bcum

deepakchoudhry
September 24th, 2007, 06:10 PM
Karamveer Ji,

Baat apki bilkul sahi hai :)

Per Bhagwan Jaanay us ladkay kay Ghar ka kya mahol hai that he wants to live alone.

Deepak

vikasgulia
September 24th, 2007, 07:49 PM
Confining :confused: Well, u r free to ponder ur unconfined, non-chaatkhaara types, non typical views, away from the man-woman relationships! Well, I was very clear with the discussion and it ranged from the people willing to live in nuclear families just for the reason of avoinding 'taka-taaki' to people who think that any kind of relation is a 'janzeer' sort of thing ! It ties their wings of freedom !

They find it tough even to give answers arising out of love & concern and owing to this they try escaping from such relations & find solace in their loneliness or relations without tags or names attached.

Firts of all it was not aimed at you & was a general observation over flow of thoughts, at last, the way discussion has matured, looks like the only solution is :

उस छोरे को ढूँढो और पूरी तेह्किकत करो की - बेटा तू शादी के लड्डू को बिना खाए ही क्यों पछताना चाहता है, शादी तो ऐसा लड्डू है की जो खाए वोह पछताये, जो न खाए वो भी, फ़िर अच्छा तो इसी में है की खा लो, और संतुष्टि के साथ पछ्तालो ;)

cooljat
September 24th, 2007, 08:03 PM
Wah Wah Wah!!
kya baat kahi bhai jaan
kudos to u!!

Sahi pehchana bhai tumne!!! ;);):cool::cool:

Rock on
Jit


apke iss andaj pe aarj kiya hai bahisaab......

main toffanoo ki terha raha jindgi bar ,
Bikhar jate wo agar muj se mahobatt kerte ...:)

vikasgulia
September 24th, 2007, 08:06 PM
सब्ताए घना मजा इस बात का जिस बेचारे नि न्यूं कही क कि "Leave me alone" उसी को तंग कराने पे हम सारे उत्तरे हैं :D:eek:

deepakchoudhry
September 24th, 2007, 08:18 PM
सब्ताए घना मजा इस बात का जिस बेचारे नि न्यूं कही क कि "Leave me alone" उसी को तंग कराने पे हम सारे उत्तरे हैं :D:eek:

Begani Shaadi main...Jatlander Deweena...Ha Ha Ha

dkumars
September 24th, 2007, 09:57 PM
Jab tak hamey jarurat hai hum sabhi ka istemaal kartey hai ur jab dusro ko hamari jarurat ho hum keh dey hamey akeley rehna pasand hai kanhan tak sahi hai. Jitna hamney samaj say liya hai utna vapas kery or fir akeley rahain
to kisi ko koi problem nahi hogi.



Coudnt get u sir ... :confused::confused::confused:

dkumars
September 24th, 2007, 10:02 PM
:) ;)on a serious note I'm a big time feminist n I respect women a lot but I dont trust them :cool:






1000 % agreed... katti sahi kahi
Keep it bhai bahut sukhi rahega:D:D:D

prashantacmet
September 26th, 2007, 01:46 PM
"leave me alone........."..hehehe..hahaa...............urbans are too much exhausted by their surroundings..........traffic jam........overcrowded bus.....talkative colleagues....so always cry "leave me alone";)...........It is rare to listen "leave me alone" from rurals.......................

chhavi
September 27th, 2007, 02:51 AM
The chemical science says that single atom is highly unstable and therefore tries to form bond with the similar atom or a differrent of suitable symmtery. This is exactly true for the relationships as well where exist the positive factors (suitable for bonding) and negative factors (unsuitable for bonding).

Everyone has to grow and contribute for any relation to sustain. And if a person is not ready to share his own life and space in any realtion, he is going to end up with no one around at the end of the day.

Physical and materialistic factors are mirages which will eventually end up sooner or later.

So, person in question with the this point of view is ofcourse going to live an unstable life as no relation is perfect one, let it be with the family and friends or any one.

These people can only learn with the time and allow them to have such misconceptions. Pity on them, it will be too late for them to hold on to the any relation in their life as everything and everyone will move on!

Cheers!

mukeshkumar007
September 27th, 2007, 10:45 AM
As for the very reason ur curious bout ....I dont wanna marry cuz Im free bird just like floatin cloud.....aaj yahan kal wahan!! So simply I dont wanna spoil ny gal's life....so am happy with beer cuz she atleast wont ever complain that u've spoiled my lyf ;);)


Jittt... tu yeh seriously keh reha hai yaa majak kar reha hai :confused:

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 10:48 AM
The chemical science says that single atom is highly unstable and therefore tries to form bond with the similar atom or a differrent of suitable symmtery. This is exactly true for the relationships as well where exist the positive factors (suitable for bonding) and negative factors (unsuitable for bonding).

Everyone has to grow and contribute for any relation to sustain. And if a person is not ready to share his own life and space in any realtion, he is going to end up with no one around at the end of the day.

Physical and materialistic factors are mirages which will eventually end up sooner or later.

So, person in question with the this point of view is ofcourse going to live an unstable life as no relation is perfect one, let it be with the family and friends or any one.

These people can only learn with the time and allow them to have such misconceptions. Pity on them, it will be too late for them to hold on to the any relation in their life as everything and everyone will move on!

Cheers!

Nice thoughts, nicely knitted Chhavi ! I agree, one cant expect to get associated with a perfect person and if one wishes to do so then this well thought out association may turn rocking for some time but pastures of life are so vast & full of many a ups & downs that can never be predicted but one has to walk along them and it will be lot easier if there is someone around always. Not necessarily a piece of perfection, but a reliable and an understanding soul.

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 10:50 AM
Jittt... tu yeh seriously keh reha hai yaa majak kar reha hai :confused:

Thode dino me 'Jitte ka byah' Thread me khud jawab mil jaayega!:p

dkumars
September 27th, 2007, 11:07 AM
Nice thoughts, nicely knitted Chhavi ! I agree, one cant expect to get associated with a perfect person and if one wishes to do so then this well thought out association may turn rocking for some time but pastures of life are so vast & full of many a ups & downs that can never be predicted but one has to walk along them and it will be lot easier if there is someone around always. Not necessarily a piece of perfection, but a reliable and an understanding soul.


Well m not denying the fact u need someone to share ur life being a social animal n full of emotions.... but
Is spouse only the person who can give u support in tought time ????
Someone means only one person ... cant u get the same support from ur parent/brothers/sisters/friends ???
I feel i can share everything with my parents n my bro... i don find i will share something extra with that gal if any.
And moreover this is individual choice... its not like ppl r afraid of responsibilities or so... Y do we respect so much for sadhu sanyasi ???
Many of them stay unmarried but it doesn mean they r scared of respo, they have different motto in life ... so i just want to convey its individual choice. Some ppl go for more than 1 marriage dats their choice. As far as they are not hurting anyone they r not wrong iguess.... :)

mukeshkumar007
September 27th, 2007, 11:24 AM
... so i just want to convey its individual choice. )

ek dum sehi..individula choice..koi jiya rehna chave rehn dyo ne bichare ne..

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 12:06 PM
Well m not denying the fact u need someone to share ur life being a social animal n full of emotions.... but
Is spouse only the person who can give u support in tought time ????
Someone means only one person ... cant u get the same support from ur parent/brothers/sisters/friends ???
I feel i can share everything with my parents n my bro... i don find i will share something extra with that gal if any.
And moreover this is individual choice... its not like ppl r afraid of responsibilities or so... Y do we respect so much for sadhu sanyasi ???
Many of them stay unmarried but it doesn mean they r scared of respo, they have different motto in life ... so i just want to convey its individual choice. Some ppl go for more than 1 marriage dats their choice. As far as they are not hurting anyone they r not wrong iguess.... :)

M not denying ur point too ! Nor m an advocator of the view that marriage is essential or anything like that.... but as far as I can perceive or I have observed, I think that this relation is typical of its kind & the most close ! Ur frds, brother, parents, everyone is there & will be there but cant be with u forever & everyday owing to their own inherent issues. Marriage is an institution which gives a common platform to two persons for rest of the life! More so, generally these two ppl are from the same age group, similar background if its an arranged marriage. The intimacy, sacredness, bonding & responsibilty of this relation surpasses all other relations so as to the fact the couple is often looked at by the society even as a single identity, their identity merges..... and a lot more...... Its individual choice thats for sure, u will never be draged to ur shaadi venue I guess!:p

& abt the responsibility thing, is life all about responsibility? Its about loving someone, teasing someone, being possesive about someone, laughing at absolutely nothing, riding along without knowing where to go, holding hands when everyone else is busy, becoming boss for someone & at times a slave too!, missing someone, eating someone's head and lots more........ if u adore a sadhu life, its not bad too ! Individual choice u see!

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 12:11 PM
ek dum sehi..individula choice..koi jiya rehna chave rehn dyo ne bichare ne..

Aap bi na ache se jiyo........... allowed hai aapne :rolleyes: Individual choice ! Agar aap akele rahoge to bi aapko Jatland pe aane ka adhikaar rahega aap chinta na kare!:p

vivekdh
September 27th, 2007, 12:22 PM
NO life without WIfe :D

mukeshkumar007
September 27th, 2007, 12:23 PM
[COLOR=seagreen][B], is life all about responsibility? Its about loving someone, teasing someone, being possesive about someone, laughing at absolutely nothing, riding along without knowing where to go, holding hands when everyone else is busy, becoming boss for someone & at times a slave too!, missing someone, eating someone's head and lots more........!
:confused::confused: haiiiiiii...yeh kaunsi life aa gai..:confused::confused:

sjakhars
September 27th, 2007, 12:25 PM
You have life or NOT :) :D ;) :p


NO life without WIfe :D

mukeshkumar007
September 27th, 2007, 12:25 PM
Aap bi na ache se jiyo........... allowed hai aapne :rolleyes: Individual choice ! Agar aap akele rahoge to bi aapko Jatland pe aane ka adhikaar rahega aap chinta na kare!:p

na na mann to na rehna akela...

chhavi
September 27th, 2007, 12:57 PM
Albert Einstien said that people do not need law of gravity to fall in love with each other.

Forces of attraction and repulsion will remain invisible and it is just the matter of sensing it. The matter of universe exist and move on for years together because of these.

The object / matter which does not follow the law of gravitaion eventually collide and burst forming a big hole and itself exist of piece of hard rock becoming an intersting subject for archeologist / anthropologists.

This is true for any relation as well.

Always look for a better relations in your life and believe me the world is enriched with sensible and reliable selfless people. It is the just the matter of time that we meet them across the world.

Connect always to a positive attitude and believe in making good relations to learn from each other and to grow as humble human beings.

Any thing positive is the hope of life and some time it can also disguise as negativity that can be uncovered or unvieled with sheer patience and a positive attitude.

Open up our arms and minds, this world is for us!!!!!!!!!! Believe me.

Cheers!!!

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 01:01 PM
na na mann to na rehna akela...

To sadhuo waale paale me kyo gaye the !!:o:rolleyes:

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 01:04 PM
You have life or NOT :) :D ;) :p


Ye question aapte bi bujhya ja sake hai!:p:o

prashantacmet
September 27th, 2007, 01:40 PM
NO life without WIfe :D

bhai tu saari baatne khench-taan ke chhorri/wife/woman/love pe kyoun khatam karee..:).........kisse ne suthri dhaalla nichod rakhya deekhe tu..............:p

cooljat
September 27th, 2007, 01:41 PM
Thx a Ton for The Enlightinnnnnnnnng Gyaaan!! :rolleyes:

jokes apart....nice readings n teaching madamji!! :) :)


Rock on
Jit
Albert Einstien said that people do not need law of gravity to fall in love with each other.

Forces of attraction and repulsion will remain invisible and it is just the matter of sensing it. The matter of universe exist and move on for years together because of these.
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Open up our arms and minds, this world is for us!!!!!!!!!! Believe me.

Cheers!!!

vivekdh
September 27th, 2007, 01:42 PM
ye jina bhi koi jina hai sirji :D
main to bewife hu :D



You have life or NOT :) :D ;) :p

vivekdh
September 27th, 2007, 01:44 PM
na bhai main to ganga me 1 balti pani dalne ki kosis karu hu bus :D
je manne koi nichod detti to fer main himayaya keni rukh ker leta urr fer 4-5 saal me aake pravchan ka dhanda khol leta :D



bhai tu saari baatne khench-taan ke chhorri/wife/woman/love pe kyoun khatam karee..:).........kisse ne suthri dhaalla nichod rakhya deekhe tu..............:p

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 02:09 PM
ye jina bhi koi jina hai sirji :D
main to bewife hu :D

Ye baat to aaj tak Jatland ka baccha baccha, kona kona, patta paata jaan gaya hai pehle hi...........aapke nichodo se ........... wo to Jakkhar ji ne aapko chedne ko pucha tha naye style se, aur aap to chidne ko tayar rehte hi ho har style se!:p:D;)

vivekdh
September 27th, 2007, 02:42 PM
or aap bhi tayar raha karo bus kab shikar mile or app apne teer chala do :D:D


Ye baat to aaj tak Jatland ka baccha baccha, kona kona, patta paata jaan gaya hai pehle hi...........aapke nichodo se ........... wo to Jakkhar ji ne aapko chedne ko pucha tha naye style se, aur aap to chidne ko tayar rehte hi ho har style se!:p:D;)

skarmveer
September 27th, 2007, 02:52 PM
Coudnt get u sir ... :confused::confused::confused:

Until we grown up we respect everybody from whom we expect something and when we feel now we have to share something then we say "please leave me alone." Please first fulfil your duties then leave alone who care.

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 03:02 PM
or aap bhi tayar raha karo bus kab shikar mile or app apne teer chala do :D:D

Aur aap bi tayar raha karo ghadi ghadi apna signature badalne ko ! Waise aap khud ko shikaar na maane pls! Aur kisi ne aise bola kya!:p

vivekdh
September 27th, 2007, 03:07 PM
shikar mera ho raha hai to or koi kyu bolega :D:D

i like changes Miss Shweta :p:D



Aur aap bi tayar raha karo ghadi ghadi apna signature badalne ko ! Waise aap khud ko shikaar na maane pls! Aur kisi ne aise bola kya!:p

prashantacmet
September 27th, 2007, 03:23 PM
shikar mera ho raha hai to or koi kyu bolega :D:D

i like changes Miss Shweta :p:D

to aaj haweeiyen fir paschim se bah rahi hai:D:D

shweta123
September 27th, 2007, 04:35 PM
shikar mera ho raha hai to or koi kyu bolega :D:D

i like changes Miss Shweta :p:D

Miss Shweta ! :):o
Aapka aur shikar ! Atishyokti alankar..............:rolleyes:

dkumars
September 27th, 2007, 05:32 PM
Until we grown up we respect everybody from whom we expect something and when we feel now we have to share something then we say "please leave me alone." Please first fulfil your duties then leave alone who care.


Here ... are u talking about parents or wt ?

skarmveer
September 27th, 2007, 05:38 PM
Here ... are u talking about parents or wt ?

Here I am talking about parents, teachers and other who help us achiving the status we have.

anilsinghd
September 27th, 2007, 08:36 PM
as far as I can perceive or I have observed, I think that this relation is typical of its kind & the most close !

True to the core , i do agree with Shweta , this relation and i am talking about marrigae or a companion ( Bf/GF ) is very intimate.




Ur frds, brother, parents, everyone is there & will be there but cant be with u forever & everyday owing to their own inherent issues.

The solace , the peace and the satiation from a husband wife relation is entirely different than other relations :)



Marriage is an institution which gives a common platform to two persons for rest of the life! More so, generally these two ppl are from the same age group, similar background if its an arranged marriage. The intimacy, sacredness, bonding & responsibilty of this relation surpasses all other relations so as to the fact the couple is often looked at by the society even as a single identity, their identity merges..... and a lot more......


Stop defining this pious and potentially divine relation Shweta , it is one to be felt and absorbed ! Words may defy u when talking about its signifance.
:)


& abt the responsibility thing, is life all about responsibility? Its about loving someone, teasing someone, being possesive about someone, laughing at absolutely nothing, riding along without knowing where to go, holding hands when everyone else is busy, becoming boss for someone & at times a slave too!, missing someone, eating someone's head and lots more........!


Awwee... beautiful !! :) Absolute gorgeous words ! :)

anilsinghd
September 27th, 2007, 08:37 PM
NO life without WIfe :D


yo aayaa kimai mere barga :D:p:o:o:o:o

anilsinghd
September 27th, 2007, 08:55 PM
people of finding pleasure in living alone. Its not that they dont love their parents or family members but still they find themselves more comfortable in living alone.



True , not to go too far , i take myself as the example and keep on hearing from my parents that i do not sepnd enough time with them :confused: Although i have scrathced my head a lot on this and never found any particular reason for that and then when i do listen this from every parents mouth , i do get a little solace.

I think there are a lot of reasons for sucha behaviour and i do not find any party guilty for sucha thing ( neither the parents , elderly people , nor the younger generation).

Times have changed and parents do not realize that the same child is spending all the time into studies and the pressure of becoming a doctor , engineer ( coaching + tuitions + schools ) takes all the time !
I myself when was in class 11th and 12th used to spend morning 7 to evening 9 out of home ( coahing + school ) and then sleepinf for the rest of time :D
Weekends were slotted for exams :(
At that time no complaints watsoever from parents becuase they are seeing me doing the hard work.

Now at this stage i am quite free ( just the time before joining the job ) and i hear daily complaints , but they do not realize that it has become a habbit for me to sit on computer for hours , earlier it used to be for work mostly but now a days for orkut , jatland , mails and surfing and all.
Its hard to change overnight !!

Another important point is of the family practices , Earlier it was the joint family concept and friends were madde inside the family ( cousins and all ) but now a days friends are plenty and mostly not from the family. So there is a cut on the family time.

As regards the loneliness part , i personally do not believe at all in living alone , friends , family or life partner has to be around me ! :)
even if i am totally down , i need the caress of hers to give me comfort and for sure u need to have someone to celebrate with when you are elated.

But the growing tendency of being lonely is because of the mishaps that have happened earlier , ( Seema ji hinted on it i guess in her first reply only ) !
18 or 19 , we are in college and due to this immense burrst of communications means , things just happen that much faster , Affair , breakups within months and then everything looks butter.
We really dont have the head to think that we ourselves didnt handle the relationship properly.
WE start blaming other person for all this and that mentality sinks in. Everyone else look to us as the culprit and we satisfy ourselves by saying we are happy alone.

I have thought on this subject quite a few number of times and also discussed it with some of my friends ! :) And also most of the age group 26 + say they dont want to get married and just to take a prediction i guess 90 % + of them have had a relationship earlier ! and hence the bitterness and hence the philosophy of getting alone.

shweta123
September 28th, 2007, 10:56 AM
yo aayaa kimai mere barga :D:p:o:o:o:o

Oh! aap ki wife badi Lucky hain!;) Unka naam lucky hi rakh do......... !! aise log kaha hai aajkal!

shweta123
September 28th, 2007, 11:20 AM
True , not to go too far , i take myself as the example and keep on hearing from my parents that i do not sepnd enough time with them :confused: Although i have scrathced my head a lot on this and never found any particular reason for that and then when i do listen this from every parents mouth , i do get a little solace.

I think there are a lot of reasons for sucha behaviour and i do not find any party guilty for sucha thing ( neither the parents , elderly people , nor the younger generation).

Ya, thats ok ! No one is guilty as such but have some duty too, to not let this get into the relation in a way that a sad strip of silence enters between the warmth of relations ! One must not be contended by just realising that its true and their is no fault too, rather I guess, we must seriously ponder over the issue & come up with solutions to take out this seriousness out from the relation !

Times have changed and parents do not realize that the same child is spending all the time into studies and the pressure of becoming a doctor , engineer ( coaching + tuitions + schools ) takes all the time !
I myself when was in class 11th and 12th used to spend morning 7 to evening 9 out of home ( coahing + school ) and then sleepinf for the rest of time :D
Weekends were slotted for exams :(
At that time no complaints watsoever from parents becuase they are seeing me doing the hard work.

Now at this stage i am quite free ( just the time before joining the job ) and i hear daily complaints , but they do not realize that it has become a habbit for me to sit on computer for hours , earlier it used to be for work mostly but now a days for orkut , jatland , mails and surfing and all.
Its hard to change overnight !!

But, many overnights have passed Anil & u havent changed I think! Have u ? So, are u changing now or will wait for the day when u get on the other side of this relation & are left realising that parents are really parents & must be loved seriously ! Kaashhh........ tab humne apne parents ko samjh hota ki unki har ichha, har khushi bas humse thi !

Another important point is of the family practices , Earlier it was the joint family concept and friends were madde inside the family ( cousins and all ) but now a days friends are plenty and mostly not from the family. So there is a cut on the family time.

As regards the loneliness part , i personally do not believe at all in living alone , friends , family or life partner has to be around me ! :)
even if i am totally down , i need the caress of hers to give me comfort and for sure u need to have someone to celebrate with when you are elated.

Achaaaaaaaa........ kaun kaun kitni kitni??;)

But the growing tendency of being lonely is because of the mishaps that have happened earlier , ( Seema ji hinted on it i guess in her first reply only ) !
18 or 19 , we are in college and due to this immense burrst of communications means , things just happen that much faster , Affair , breakups within months and then everything looks butter. (BITTER !):o
We really dont have the head to think that we ourselves didnt handle the relationship properly.
WE start blaming other person for all this and that mentality sinks in. Everyone else look to us as the culprit and we satisfy ourselves by saying we are happy alone.

Great ! Good analytical reasoning ! Anything which requires an understanding & patience needs that & there is no short cut which can result into happiness & if we try shortcuts result will be repentence in the "end" - Mostly. Some things dont have shortcuts..........


I have thought on this subject quite a few number of times and also discussed it with some of my friends ( U think !Oh, how thoughtful!) ! :) And also most of the age group 26 + say they dont want to get married and just to take a prediction i guess 90 % + of them have had a relationship earlier ! and hence the bitterness and hence the philosophy of getting alone.

& this is how the old mistake is repeated again !!! Marriage is nothing if one cant feel its real meaning, for all others it is a new life beginning & starts from feeling & may be even saying that no matter what I was or u were but now we are one & let us start OUR life ........

& they lived happily ever after .......... (exceptions stay away....)

mukeshkumar007
September 28th, 2007, 11:32 AM
when we feel now we have to share something then we say "please leave me alone." Please first fulfil your duties then leave alone who care.

very true sir !

dkumars
September 28th, 2007, 11:44 AM
True , not to go too far , i take myself as the example and keep on hearing from my parents that i do not sepnd enough time with them :confused: Although i have scrathced my head a lot on this and never found any particular reason for that and then when i do listen this from every parents mouth , i do get a little solace.

I think there are a lot of reasons for sucha behaviour and i do not find any party guilty for sucha thing ( neither the parents , elderly people , nor the younger generation).

Times have changed and parents do not realize that the same child is spending all the time into studies and the pressure of becoming a doctor , engineer ( coaching + tuitions + schools ) takes all the time !
I myself when was in class 11th and 12th used to spend morning 7 to evening 9 out of home ( coahing + school ) and then sleepinf for the rest of time :D
Weekends were slotted for exams :(
At that time no complaints watsoever from parents becuase they are seeing me doing the hard work.

Now at this stage i am quite free ( just the time before joining the job ) and i hear daily complaints , but they do not realize that it has become a habbit for me to sit on computer for hours , earlier it used to be for work mostly but now a days for orkut , jatland , mails and surfing and all.
Its hard to change overnight !!

Another important point is of the family practices , Earlier it was the joint family concept and friends were madde inside the family ( cousins and all ) but now a days friends are plenty and mostly not from the family. So there is a cut on the family time.

As regards the loneliness part , i personally do not believe at all in living alone , friends , family or life partner has to be around me ! :)
even if i am totally down , i need the caress of hers to give me comfort and for sure u need to have someone to celebrate with when you are elated.

But the growing tendency of being lonely is because of the mishaps that have happened earlier , ( Seema ji hinted on it i guess in her first reply only ) !
18 or 19 , we are in college and due to this immense burrst of communications means , things just happen that much faster , Affair , breakups within months and then everything looks butter.
We really dont have the head to think that we ourselves didnt handle the relationship properly.
WE start blaming other person for all this and that mentality sinks in. Everyone else look to us as the culprit and we satisfy ourselves by saying we are happy alone.

I have thought on this subject quite a few number of times and also discussed it with some of my friends ! :) And also most of the age group 26 + say they dont want to get married and just to take a prediction i guess 90 % + of them have had a relationship earlier ! and hence the bitterness and hence the philosophy of getting alone.


Hmmm... Kaafi gahan adhyan kiya hai Anil... Bahut sahi explanation bhi di hai... Bahut achha... now lets do something impossible coz its a kinda fun... cheers :)

mukeshkumar007
September 28th, 2007, 11:59 AM
.. Bahut achha... now lets do something impossible coz its a kinda fun... cheers :)

hahaha ho sake hai ib dusra signature miljyawe

shweta123
September 28th, 2007, 12:06 PM
http://www.jatland.com/forums/images/kirsch/buttons/viewpost.gif (http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?p=148720#post148720)
as far as I can perceive or I have observed, I think that this relation is typical of its kind & the most close !

True to the core , i do agree with Shweta , this relation and i am talking about marrigae or a companion ( Bf/GF ) is very intimate.

(BF/GF) relation can be intimate & true too, but is still different from this one owing to some but natural inherent issues.

Ur frds, brother, parents, everyone is there & will be there but cant be with u forever & everyday owing to their own inherent issues.

The solace , the peace and the satiation from a husband wife relation is entirely different than other relations :)

Really ? Quite Experienced stuff !:o

Marriage is an institution which gives a common platform to two persons for rest of the life! More so, generally these two ppl are from the same age group, similar background if its an arranged marriage. The intimacy, sacredness, bonding & responsibilty of this relation surpasses all other relations so as to the fact the couple is often looked at by the society even as a single identity, their identity merges..... and a lot more......


Stop defining this pious and potentially divine relation Shweta , it is one to be felt and absorbed ! Words may defy u when talking about its signifance.
:)

Oh u r telling me "Stop it Shweta, I will feel & absorb & then tell u " :D

Felt to thik hai par absorbed............ :o


& abt the responsibility thing, is life all about responsibility? Its about loving someone, teasing someone, being possesive about someone, laughing at absolutely nothing, riding along without knowing where to go, holding hands when everyone else is busy, becoming boss for someone & at times a slave too!, missing someone, eating someone's head and lots more........!




Awwee... beautiful !! :) Absolute gorgeous words ! :)

Ok !!!!

anilsinghd
September 28th, 2007, 03:58 PM
@ Devendra : yup Bro , i try and try to my full potential ! :)

and yeah it is really fun to do the impossible !!! :)

@ shweta : Ohh thanks for your comments :p and yes i am also trying to adapt / change ! I believe in behaviourism , so am learning ! :) And hope to inprove in near future :)

ssdangi
October 2nd, 2007, 02:34 PM
kisi ko apne se jyada samazdar mil jai to bardast nahin
apne se kam samazdar mil jai to status low hota hai
"thats why"
choop chaap akeley bhete raho

but that's not the way to live. YOU LEARN A LOT FROM THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU
SO PL. BECOME SOCIAL ANIMALS AGAIN
REGARDS

devdahiya
October 2nd, 2007, 02:45 PM
There are two kinds of people on this score.One who seek additional responsibility cheerfully and make RESPONSIBLE LIVING their motto of life.Give them any damn responsibility,ask them to meet various kinds of people[nasty,difficult,selfish,nice or self-centered] and take their responsibility...he/she will gladly accept that and wit shear CHARACTER and sacrificing attitude will make them comfortable and surely earn their good will in long run.......SEEKING RESPONSIBILITIES is also an addiction.These kinda people don't judge people but perform their good deeds and forget....AND AS SUCH THEY ARE THE TRUE PEOPLE WITH SUBSTANCE AND GRACE.


Second category of people hate taking or seeking responsibilities.They are generally self-centered and have a piggish approach in life.For them every body other than them is NIKKAMMA and not up to their standard and expectations.One thing is conclusive about such people and that is.......................FARTHER THEY ARE FROM THE CIVILIZATION, better it is for this world.You can never have people near you if you compare,hate,show distrust and live in a false world of egotism.Any one can stay alone...no big deal...but staying together and sharing responsibilities with pride is all together different matter.


A PERSON WITHOUT RESPONSIBLE ATTITUDE IS AS STUPID AS THE WORD STUPID.

amitabh4ever
October 3rd, 2007, 07:50 AM
Leave me alone !! are areeeeee aap log kaha jaane lage,:confused: are ye to ek dialouge tha bas !

Well, times have changed & so have changed the living standards & various other attributes related to our lives. I would like to discuss about the causes underlying the fast growing tendency amongst the people of finding pleasure in living alone. Its not that they dont love their parents or family members but still they find themselves more comfortable in living alone. Recently, I also came across a newer philosophy in this regards ! A boy was of the opinion that he doesnt wants to get married because he dont wanna share his house with anyone ! Just an example amongst many others, but the point that lies beneath is that why people now take even an elderly advise or a gesture out of love as a hinderance to their identity or for that matter, an interruption in their lives?



there is absolutely nothing wrong living alone. it has always been up to anyone who wants to live alone can live alone, anyone that wants a family can live with a family. what's the big deal? the boy on the other hand is just acting naive.

chhavi
October 3rd, 2007, 10:34 PM
Leave me alone !! are areeeeee aap log kaha jaane lage,:confused: are ye to ek dialouge tha bas !

Well, times have changed & so have changed the living standards & various other attributes related to our lives. I would like to discuss about the causes underlying the fast growing tendency amongst the people of finding pleasure in living alone. Its not that they dont love their parents or family members but still they find themselves more comfortable in living alone. Recently, I also came across a newer philosophy in this regards ! A boy was of the opinion that he doesnt wants to get married because he dont wanna share his house with anyone ! Just an example amongst many others, but the point that lies beneath is that why people now take even an elderly advise or a gesture out of love as a hinderance to their identity or for that matter, an interruption in their lives?

I shall contribute what wise people said about Lonliness and we can judge atleast our own opinion about lovely lonliness if we are thinking constructively or destructively!

Here are the few famous sayings
Quote: All men's misfortunes spring from their hatred of being alone. Author: Jean De La BruyFre (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Jean+De+La&Author_Last_Name=BruyFre&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1645-1696, French Classical Writer

Quote: Isolation is the sum total of wretchedness to a man. Author: Thomas Carlyle (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Thomas&Author_Last_Name=Carlyle&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1795-1881, Scottish Philosopher, Author

Quote: A lonely man is a lonesome thing, a stone, a bone, a stick, a receptacle for Gilbey's gin, a stooped figure sitting at the edge of a hotel bed, heaving copious sighs like the autumn wind. Author: John Cheever (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=John&Author_Last_Name=Cheever&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1912-1982, American Author



Quote: Who knows what true loneliness is -- not the conventional word, but the naked terror? To the lonely themselves it wears a mask. The most miserable outcast hugs some memory or some illusion. Now and then a fatal conjunction of events may lift the veil for an instant. For an instant only. No human being could bear a steady view of moral solitude without going mad. Author: Joseph Conrad (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Joseph&Author_Last_Name=Conrad&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1857-1924, Polish-born British Novelist

Quote: The eternal quest of the human being is to shatter his loneliness. Author: Norman Cousins (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Norman&Author_Last_Name=Cousins&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1915-1990, American Editor, Humanitarian, Author


Quote: There is none more lonely than the man who loves only himself. Author: Abraham Ibn Esra (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Abraham+Ibn&Author_Last_Name=Esra&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records)

Quote: One aged man -- one man -- can't fill a house. Author: Robert Frost (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Robert&Author_Last_Name=Frost&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1875-1963, American Poet

Quote: Loneliness is never more cruel than when it is felt in close propinquity with someone who has ceased to communicate. Author: Germaine Greer (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Germaine&Author_Last_Name=Greer&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1939-, Australian Feminist Writer

Quote: We are never the same with others as when we are alone. We are different, even when we are in the dark with them. Author: Maurice Maeterlinck (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Maurice&Author_Last_Name=Maeterlinck&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1862-1949, Belgian Author

Quote: It's a terrible thing to be alone -- yes it is -- it is -- but don't lower your mask until you have another mask prepared beneath --as terrible as you like --but a mask. Author: Katherine Mansfield (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=Katherine&Author_Last_Name=Mansfield&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1888-1923, New Zealand-born British Author
And Finally

Quote: When Christ said: ''I was hungry and you fed me,'' he didn't mean only the hunger for bread and for food; he also meant the hunger to be loved. Jesus himself experienced this loneliness. He came amongst his own and his own received him not, and it hurt him then and it has kept on hurting him. The same hunger, the same loneliness, the same having no one to be accepted by and to be loved and wanted by. Every human being in that case resembles Christ in his loneliness; and that is the hardest part, that's real hunger. Author: Mother Teresa (http://www.great-quotes.com/cgi-bin/db.cgi?&uid=default&Author_First_Name=&Author_Last_Name=Mother+Teresa&mh=10&sb=4&so=ASC&view_records=View+Records) 1910-1997, Albanian-born Roman Catholic Missionary

bls31
October 25th, 2007, 09:03 AM
I am single not by choice or design but by divine intervention. Now I have all the space to myself freedom of action or inaction with no one to ask questions. I am alone but not lonely; keep myself busy. For company I have to seek or give a party and for sleep an empty bed by my side every night a reminder of what it meant not to be a single.. BLS

bls31
October 25th, 2007, 09:04 AM
I am single not by choice or design but by divine intervention. Now I have all the space to myself freedom of action or inaction with no one to ask questions. I am alone but not lonely; keep myself busy. For company I have to seek or give a party and for sleep an empty bed by my side every night a reminder of what it meant not to be a single.. BLS

shweta123
October 25th, 2007, 12:27 PM
I am single not by choice or design but by divine intervention. Now I have all the space to myself freedom of action or inaction with no one to ask questions. I am alone but not lonely; keep myself busy. For company I have to seek or give a party and for sleep an empty bed by my side every night a reminder of what it meant not to be a single.. BLS

I can feel the irony ! Being single not by choice, but by destiny ! Freedom of actions but an everlasting desire to be with someone who can question you ! An empty bed by side, reminding of the lonely soul residing somewhere !

Samarkadian
October 25th, 2007, 03:55 PM
I can feel the irony ! Being single not by choice, but by destiny ! Freedom of actions but an everlasting desire to be with someone who can question you ! An empty bed by side, reminding of the lonely soul residing somewhere !

Life itself is ironical and paradoxical in its nature because death is sure; so does everything related with it.Being alone and being lonlely are itself in each other if we seek approval of other significant half to validate it.Self-validation is the best virtue yet achievable with sheer will.