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[amans]

One question. After reading posts on this site. I read that there are people who are getting free and good publicity. That they will give referaals, come visit them on some party, quiet person not seeking publicity but willing to do something for community etc. etc.
As I see from worldly experience, no one gives any help to strangers, even ones belonging to same caste, without seeking anything in return. And what some of them want. May be free good publicity, may be they have to marry off their children in a jat family, may be they are passing time.
Who knows, but I would also say that not all people are not seeking anything in return.
What do we know about these people's private life? Absolutely nothing. We may meet them but that is outer persona. A outer life of a good, nice person that everyone wants to project. After living with a few jats at their homes for some days, I know they are not the person they project they are to the outside world. In fact if they acted like that in public life they would be ashamed beyond words.
I am saying most people are not like that, most are a good people but we can't know what a person is unless one lives with them for sometime or knows completely about their past. Their past and present, a few people would not like you to know.

[choudharyneelam]

Individual differences will always be experienced everywhere :)

[dkumars]

One question. After reading posts on this site. I read that there are people who are getting free and good publicity. That they will give referaals, come visit them on some party, quiet person not seeking publicity but willing to do something for community etc. etc.
As I see from worldly experience, no one gives any help to strangers, even ones belonging to same caste, without seeking anything in return. And what some of them want. May be free good publicity, may be they have to marry off their children in a jat family, may be they are passing time.
Who knows, but I would also say that not all people are not seeking anything in return.
What do we know about these people's private life? Absolutely nothing. We may meet them but that is outer persona. A outer life of a good, nice person that everyone wants to project. After living with a few jats at their homes for some days, I know they are not the person they project they are to the outside world. In fact if they acted like that in public life they would be ashamed beyond words.
I am saying most people are not like that, most are a good people but we can't know what a person is unless one lives with them for sometime or knows completely about their past. Their past and present, a few people would not like you to know.


Bhai i cudn get what u wanna convey here. Its its quite common. Jats are no gods. They are just like human beings and u find them(humans) with different faces all over the world. In every soceity, community, region, religion u can find good as well as bad ppl. So, what is there to criticize jats ? U said u r agreed that all are not alike then there is nothing to discuss any more... Isn't it ?

[d_dhankhar]

well i agree with these lines "Aap bhale to jab bhalaa".

and i agree with Devender, we are human not gods.

[amans]

Wah bhi wah. what a unrealistic view of the world!
Seems like you guys/gals were born yesterday.
I am talking about people who act sadhus in public life and are shaitans in private real life - the life they don't want people to know.
There are a few jats I know who are like that.

One watched pornos, detailing every despicable act making someone watch who was less then half his age, his young daughters and wife sleeping in rooms nearby, while married was tying to hook with other women half his age, discussed that Indian soldiers were doing rape in 1971 bangladesh war and when saying this making gestures that he enjoyed this talk while women were sitting with him, trying to intimidate someone who didn't want to live with him due to his despicable behavior, etc. and the list goes on. If he is reading this post - he knows who he is.

Now what hIs tarah ke gande, ghaitya log naye aane waloon ko victim bannate heein. Aur phir jatoon mein betee kar battein banaateiin haein. ek izzztdar ki tarah. Why because other people need this type of person for apnna matlab nikaal lene ke liye.

What has that got to do with aap bhale to jaag bhala?

[ygulia]

Yaha per likhne se to yo dikhai de raha ki aap bhi kisi pe bhadans nikaal rahe hai. Isliye aap ne bhi Bhadans nikalne ka rasta dhoond liya.
Har society mei har tarah ke log hote hai...koi accha nahi lagta to use ignore kar do......keep yourself away from such persons.

[amans]

This is the person, a professor, someone who taught in class that watching this type of movies is not good for mental health but watches himself!

One with 2 personas. One for public one for private. Ek haath diya hota aise aadmi ko to bhadas acchi nikal jaati. There are people who want to make friends with this type of person for their own benefits and matlab who indirectly made me to stay in contact with this person. I am talking about rishetedars. Get their fayadas and use this person for their benefits.

How can this type of two faced person live with himself?

[ygulia]

This is the person, a professor, someone who taught in class that watching this type of movies is not good for mental health but watches himself!

One with 2 personas. One for public one for private. Ek haath diya hota aise aadmi ko to bhadas acchi nikal jaati. There are people who want to make friends with this type of person for their own benefits and matlab who indirectly made me to stay in contact with this person. I am talking about rishetedars. Get their fayadas and use this person for their benefits.

How can this type of two faced person live with himself?
Mr. Hooda, there are thousands of persons like this in every society. Just ignore them.

[positivelook]

This is the person, a professor, someone who taught in class that watching this type of movies is not good for mental health but watches himself!

One with 2 personas. One for public one for private. Ek haath diya hota aise aadmi ko to bhadas acchi nikal jaati. There are people who want to make friends with this type of person for their own benefits and matlab who indirectly made me to stay in contact with this person. I am talking about rishetedars. Get their fayadas and use this person for their benefits.

How can this type of two faced person live with himself?

Bhai Hooda

Aisa bhee hota hai aur har society mein hota hai, India mein bhee hota hai Jaton mein bhee, gujjars , sikhsame hota hai. Western world mein bhee kaafi hota hai. So wht we need to do.
Aur ek Baat agar apke saath koi aisa karta hai toh if u can do ithan beat him. Peeto...peeeto aur peeto thts the only way.
Aur nahin Maar-peet kar sakte toh stay away, Aur agar banda JAtland par hai toh Naam Ujaagar kar saboot ke saath, otherwise dont worrry.
I think its cleared now.

Abhimanyu Phougat

[choudharyneelam]

Aur agar banda JAtland par hai toh Naam Ujaagar kar saboot ke saath, otherwise dont worrry.


very shameless, if it really happened so....but society has variety of people to help us understand what is good and what's bad and accept the same as per our choice

and dear all, i don't think that disclosing any such scoundrel's (as per other's observation and experience) name will make something change.....i feel that such person should be understood by ourselves.....and no need for any justifications to prove anybody's right kind identity 'coz such things are brought into light by themselves (the way they react with others)

jatland here always look after such considerations only if one is hurt in some unacceptable terms to maintain conducive surroundings and provide us the best jovial environment

rest, as much as i know.....Satyeshwar has plenty of Godrej Locks (or may be better than that brand).....so don't insist him to eject from his seat :D

Ignore the Worst and Enjoy the Best :)

Regards
Neelam

[dkumars]

very shameless, if it really happened so....but society has variety of people to help us understand what is good and what's bad and accept the same as per our choice

and dear all, i don't think that disclosing any such scoundrel's (as per other's observation and experience) name will make something change.....i feel that such person should be understood by ourselves.....and no need for any justifications to prove anybody's right kind identity 'coz such things are brought into light by themselves (the way they react with others)

jatland here always look after such considerations only if one is hurt in some unacceptable terms to maintain conducive surroundings and provide us the best jovial environment

rest, as much as i know.....Satyeshwar has plenty of Godrej Locks (or may be better than that brand).....so don't insist him to eject from his seat :D

Ignore the Worst and Enjoy the Best :)

Regards
Neelam


bahut achhe ... but that scoundrel's shabd nahi use karna chahiye mere hisaab se ... remember there may be flip side of the coin also. So, don be emotional driven and take it easy.

Chill ki pill khao aur majje udaao :)

[prashantacmet]

Thread is indicating towards some incidents and it seems that victim is narrating :cool:.....the story himself....whatever is typed here by the thread starter that story is quite common in newspapers, tv channels.......but what's the point??? i guess thread starter want to beat his frustration as victim or a close relative of victim..........so now Mr. Hooda we want to know who is the culprit bcz we know the victim..................

[brahmtewatia]

........bas aisse hi nazar main aa gaya tha yeh thread.....fir bas aisse hi ek post daal di...sb kuch bas aisse hi tha.....jaissa aap samajh rahe hai...waissa kuch nahi tha...sab kuch bas aisse hi hai.......:):)

!!! bas aisse hi, maine bhi ye post daal di !!! .......... :rolleyes::p

[choudharyneelam]

bahut achhe ... but that scoundrel's shabd nahi use karna chahiye mere hisaab se ... remember there may be flip side of the coin also. So, don be emotional driven and take it easy.

Chill ki pill khao aur majje udaao :)

you gobbled some words while reading my reply :D....i already had mentioned that person scoundrel as per other's observation or experience

agar maine kahna hota to bracket waale words mention nahin karti....got it :)

[choudharyneelam]

!!! bas aisse hi, maine bhi ye post daal di !!! .......... :rolleyes::p

so u digged out one hidden reply :D

[brahmtewatia]

so u digged out one hidden reply :D
it wasn't so hard to disinter the reply since it was as fresh it cud be... like a daisy ! :p
...
hv a luk at the seriousness of the post (in concern)... m impressed ;) wud b even more, if the mission "istanbul" succeeds. :D

[choudharyneelam]

it wasn't so hard to disinter the reply since it was as fresh it cud be. :p
...
hv a luk at the seriousness of the post (in concern)... m impressed ;) wud b more if the mission "istanbul" succeeds. :D

hehehe.....'MISSION ISTANBUL' :D

i don't think that this will be successful......and if so happened then for sure our dear moderators will be all on their toes to handle the matter :D;) with as application of 8-lever lock on the entrance as their last option ( the most funniest part i find)

[dkumars]

you gobbled some words while reading my reply :D....i already had mentioned that person scoundrel as per other's observation or experience

agar maine kahna hota to bracket waale words mention nahin karti....got it :)


Neelam i didn miss anything(the underlined ones) he said all but didn use the word. Chalo leave this.. no arguments who is correct and whos not.

Enjoy .. chill ki pill khao ayr mauj manao ... hehe

[choudharyneelam]

Neelam i didn miss anything(the underlined ones) he said all but didn use the word. Chalo leave this.. no arguments who is correct and whos not.

Enjoy .. chill ki pill khao ayr mauj manao ... hehe

this is called....writing one word for collection of sentences :D

[brahmtewatia]

pls. concentrate on the subject of the thread nd mission "istanbul" :D


Thread is indicating towards some incidents and it seems that victim is narrating :cool:.....the story himself....whatever is typed here by the thread starter that story is quite common in newspapers, tv channels.......but what's the point??? i guess thread starter want to beat his frustration as victim or a close relative of victim..........so now Mr. Hooda we want to know who is the culprit bcz we know the victim..................