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mukeshkumar007
February 17th, 2009, 05:21 PM
I just noticed that earlier thread was closed and satyeshwar mentioned that she herself asked for ban with name change..

well I got the exact mail she wrote to the admin/mods after she was given infraction because she replied to one of the other member who was just making nonsense comments...

I thought to share this mail with each one of you so that you could decide who is on fault ? She just asked for the 1 year ban with name change as per the policy declared by Satyeshwar himself on the drama over Sumit's controversy that anyone can ask for the name change with one year ban..

>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
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Dear Moderators/Admins,

After a long association with your online portal, I wish to seek a name change, with a 1 year BAN or for any period as may be applicable.

I was given an infraction, which I highly object. I dropped in a mail regarding the same, but result was the same – no reply !

Moderators need to be strict, but how can it be taken if the wrath of their decisions fall on people unjustly & inconsistently?

I don't justify my behaviour, owing to which I received that infraction, but I cant figure it out to be justifiable by any means when there are plenty examples of utter bullshits spread across the length & breath of the site.


What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?', 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' etc etc are doing to the site, or don't you think about them at all? What good the numerous threads started by the same 2 or 3 individuals daily in humour section does to the site?


Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. I never derailed any discussion, nor did I hurt any genuine person. Worst is the leg pulling & personal comments which have become the backbone of each & every thread of Jatland nowadays. People have learnt a simple funda – Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!


Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !


I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words. Recently all threads, visitor messages books of those people & even chaupal was highly plagued by stupid jokes being played using this word on that same person.


And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat', 'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer ! Why you let few handful of people play cheap tantrums and attck the same person indirectly? It seems that you people see nothing bad in murdering someone indirectly.


The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully – and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!


And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.

How hard I tried to retain Samar as a moderator inspite of me having various differences with him & some of his ways, but you people couldn't make a tough decision and bowed in favour of wrong decision. He was all the way willing to keep going as a moderator inspite of the fury of people he faced. And once again the evil won over the good as usual.

And now I find it useless that you can be able to distinguish between 'being against the moderators' & 'being not convinced with the ways & means of voluntary application of irrational policies'.

It isn't so difficult to apply some rational policies, but it's a sad fact that more than half of the moderators are mere spectators/sleeping beauties !

Finally, I quit.

I no longer wish to be part of this portal, even it would fill me with agony to see my name appear in the list of members at such a place.

Kindly change my name on my profile to 'Shailja Singh' and accord me a Ban or whatever and absolve me of the sin I did & kept on believing that you people will evolve & come out of the shell of redundant policies.

Regards,

Shweta123

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mukeshkumar007
February 17th, 2009, 05:22 PM
and this was the reply she got from Mods
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Shweta,
You seem to have a lot of grievances. It is best to keep you away from Jatland. Therefore you are being

banned forever! No name change will be done and no limiting of your ban for only 1 year.
Thanks for all the time spent here.

-Satyeshwar"
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mukeshkumar007
February 17th, 2009, 05:27 PM
Now you people tell me, do you still think that this ban is justified ?

why the action was not taken as per the rule or policy framed by the mods themselves

I know you will close this thread as well, well doesn't matter I will start another but will keep my protest on in a gandhian way until you do the required correction..

prashantacmet
February 17th, 2009, 05:36 PM
I just noticed that earlier thread was closed and satyeshwar mentioned that she herself asked for ban with name change..

well I got the exact mail she wrote to the admin/mods after she was given infraction because she replied to one of the other member who was just making nonsense comments...

I thought to share this mail with each one of you so that you could decide who is on fault ? She just asked for the 1 year ban with name change as per the policy declared by Satyeshwar himself on the drama over Sumit's controversy that anyone can ask for the name change with one year ban..

>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
------------------------------------------------------
Dear Moderators/Admins,

After a long association with your online portal, I wish to seek a name change, with a 1 year BAN or for any period as may be applicable.

I was given an infraction, which I highly object. I dropped in a mail regarding the same, but result was the same – no reply !

Moderators need to be strict, but how can it be taken if the wrath of their decisions fall on people unjustly & inconsistently?

I don't justify my behaviour, owing to which I received that infraction, but I cant figure it out to be justifiable by any means when there are plenty examples of utter bullshits spread across the length & breath of the site.


What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?', 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' etc etc are doing to the site, or don't you think about them at all? What good the numerous threads started by the same 2 or 3 individuals daily in humour section does to the site?


Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. I never derailed any discussion, nor did I hurt any genuine person. Worst is the leg pulling & personal comments which have become the backbone of each & every thread of Jatland nowadays. People have learnt a simple funda – Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!


Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !


I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words. Recently all threads, visitor messages books of those people & even chaupal was highly plagued by stupid jokes being played using this word on that same person.


And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat', 'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer ! Why you let few handful of people play cheap tantrums and attck the same person indirectly? It seems that you people see nothing bad in murdering someone indirectly.


The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully – and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!


And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.

How hard I tried to retain Samar as a moderator inspite of me having various differences with him & some of his ways, but you people couldn't make a tough decision and bowed in favour of wrong decision. He was all the way willing to keep going as a moderator inspite of the fury of people he faced. And once again the evil won over the good as usual.

And now I find it useless that you can be able to distinguish between 'being against the moderators' & 'being not convinced with the ways & means of voluntary application of irrational policies'.

It isn't so difficult to apply some rational policies, but it's a sad fact that more than half of the moderators are mere spectators/sleeping beauties !

Finally, I quit.

I no longer wish to be part of this portal, even it would fill me with agony to see my name appear in the list of members at such a place.

Kindly change my name on my profile to 'Shailja Singh' and accord me a Ban or whatever and absolve me of the sin I did & kept on believing that you people will evolve & come out of the shell of redundant policies.

Regards,

Shweta123

-------------------------------

This is almost the same as wa sin "sumit sehrawat" case...he got out of the ban...so shweta must be out of ban.......nahi to fir janaaakrosh ubhar jaayega.................khoob rolla maachega aade...........

My Take: we need shweta back:rock

Nishantrathi82
February 17th, 2009, 05:56 PM
From this mail i can clearly see that she opted for a 1 year ban not a life time ban.
Please reconsider the decision, she was really a worthy member of JL.

anilsinghd
February 17th, 2009, 06:05 PM
1490 posts in a couple of years ! And we do not need tell that those were some of the most creative JL has seen! :)


To me there is no significance of a JL if we do not share personal things and behave as a common group , if thats not the case there are N number of other platforms of business , entertainment , knowledge etc.

The attitude of Satyeshwar in this regard has been professional to say the least , please do not react that way! Be a lit compassionate about things!
I am sure there is an better and less confrontive way out. Tit for tat does not and should not hold for people who are like our own! :)

It is a humble request to please save everyone from loosing a worthy contributor! :)

satyeshwar
February 17th, 2009, 06:40 PM
Mukesh,
Did you ask Shweta why she was banned before making the first post? I can tell from the way that you and others wrote in that thread that you didn't have a clue about it until I replied back on it. So my first question is why did you and others who participated in that thread didn't even bother asking why she was banned? There was just an assumption made that moderators are biased and they must have banned her for no fault of hers. No one considered that she may have asked for a ban. A moderator gave her an infraction followed by a 10 day period of moderated activities. Same punishment was taken against Mr. Verma. It seems like Shweta didn't like it and decided that she wanted a ban as is aptly clear from the first post. She asked why we aren't taking any action against others. How does she or anyone know whether we are taking any actions or not? Her contention is that how can you take action against me when all these people are roaming free, which is analogous to saying how can you convict a felon when there are so many people committing crimes and still not caught. The law simply doesn't work like that. We catch people as and when we can, and if you don't believe us, then no amount of persuasion will convince you!

Now as far as the duration is concerned, if a member suggests 1 year ban, the moderator doesn't have to comply with it. If I would have banned her for just 1 year, would you guys have been happy about it? Just ask yourselves would you be happy with 6 months or even 1 month of ban! If a member then asks, please remove each one of my posts 1 by 1, should we do that too given that it will take us weeks to remove thousands of their posts? The point is that we just can't submit to each and everyone of member's whims. The ultimate decision lies with the moderators!

This is not the first time we have banned a member as they have requested. Given the private and sometimes embarrassing nature, the discussion is best in between that member and the moderators. Not in between all of Jatland members and moderators. If the member feels they are discriminated against, they can easily write to us through the "Contact us" link. I have seen no such email from Shweta.

Finally, I fully understand that no member is replaceable. However, no member is above the law either no matter how many friends they have and we will not bend over backwards for one person either. Lately, I have seen that people write whatever rubbish they want about moderators and we take it quietly! They forget that the same moderators are the ones who are bringing the entire site to them everyday, maintaining law and order (even if some members don't agree with their punishments), dedicating time, money and resources to it. If you don't want to respect the moderators actions, you are free to leave the site! This is the final decision! Shweta can come back to the site if she can commit to accepting Moderator decisions gracefully and is ready to roll back her message in which she asked for a ban.

This post covers all salient points about this whole controversy. It also provides a solution. You can continue discussions amongst yourselves but I will not be a part of them anymore.
-Satyeshwar

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 07:03 PM
hey Satyeshwar,hope doing gr8......may be she is also at fault partially but m so very sure galti toh aapke side bhi hui hai and u cant deny it at all.....now u r saying u wont comment anymore...why is it so?we react dis way when we have done something wrong or we try to get away wid something.....
abhi mujhe Shweta ka ek aur mail mila hai tht she sent me after reading the justification u gave.... i am going to paste....and hey Satyeshwar i am not doing it to insult u or to show u down but i really want the truth to come out n i m curious to know who really played role in getting her banned for life.I still maintian it was not a sane action.....this is d mail

I am wondering why Satyeshwar quoted some excerpts from my mail so shamefully to portray the situation in his own way. And fearing that people will counter question, he closed the thread !--
Thanks & Regards,
CA. Shweta Dhaka


When lot of ppl raise a voice agaist something ofcourse it implies administration is faulty.We are not some puppets who will write and do things just to please ppl who takes care of this site.Satyeshwer what are we demanding in the whole thread?ofcourse we wanted to know d reason why she was banned varna yeh sab kahani likhne me hume bhi koi sukh nai milta.....Why dont d person responsible accept his or her fault n u guys lift d ban....kya aisi insult hoti hai jisme aadmi ne gaali bhi naa di ho?aisa kya offensive likha hoga Shweta ne moderators ke baare me...Ab jo ho raha hai woh hai covering up....Its so very shameful:mad:





Mukesh,
Did you ask Shweta why she was banned before making the first post? I can tell from the way that you and others wrote in that thread that you didn't have a clue about it until I replied back on it. So my first question is why did you and others who participated in that thread didn't even bother asking why she was banned? There was just an assumption made that moderators are biased and they must have banned her for no fault of hers. No one considered that she may have asked for a ban. A moderator gave her an infraction followed by a 10 day period of moderated activities. Same punishment was taken against Mr. Verma. It seems like Shweta didn't like it and decided that she wanted a ban as is aptly clear from the first post. She asked why we aren't taking any action against others. How does she or anyone know whether we are taking any actions or not? Her contention is that how can you take action against me when all these people are roaming free, which is analogous to saying how can you convict a felon when there are so many people committing crimes and still not caught. The law simply doesn't work like that. We catch people as and when we can, and if you don't believe us, then no amount of persuasion will convince you!

Now as far as the duration is concerned, if a member suggests 1 year ban, the moderator doesn't have to comply with it. If I would have banned her for just 1 year, would you guys have been happy about it? Just ask yourselves would you be happy with 6 months or even 1 month of ban! If a member then asks, please remove each one of my posts 1 by 1, should we do that too given that it will take us weeks to remove thousands of their posts? The point is that we just can't submit to each and everyone of member's whims. The ultimate decision lies with the moderators!

This is not the first time we have banned a member as they have requested. Given the private and sometimes embarrassing nature, the discussion is best in between that member and the moderators. Not in between all of Jatland members and moderators. If the member feels they are discriminated against, they can easily write to us through the "Contact us" link. I have seen no such email from Shweta.

Finally, I fully understand that no member is replaceable. However, no member is above the law either no matter how many friends they have and we will not bend over backwards for one person either. Lately, I have seen that people write whatever rubbish they want about moderators and we take it quietly! They forget that the same moderators are the ones who are bringing the entire site to them everyday, maintaining law and order (even if some members don't agree with their punishments), dedicating time, money and resources to it. If you don't want to respect the moderators actions, you are free to leave the site! This is the final decision! Shweta can come back to the site if she can commit to accepting Moderator decisions gracefully and is ready to roll back her message in which she asked for a ban.

This post covers all salient points about this whole controversy. It also provides a solution. You can continue discussions amongst yourselves but I will not be a part of them anymore.
-Satyeshwar

richaaz
February 17th, 2009, 07:22 PM
Deepika, did you ask, why did she want to change the name, while she is a most polular and worthy member of this forum, I hope she felt has done somethingh wrong here. We should not force the moderators. Try to keep the privecy. It should be the matter between Mods and baned member. we should respect the admin`s decisions.



hey Satyeshwar,hope doing gr8......may be she is also at fault partially but m so very sure galti toh aapke side bhi hui hai and u cant deny it at all.....now u r saying u wont comment anymore...why is it so?we react dis way when we have done something wrong or we try to get away wid something.....
abhi mujhe Shweta ka ek aur mail mila hai tht she sent me after reading the justification u gave.... i am going to paste....and hey Satyeshwar i am not doing it to insult u or to show u down but i really want the truth to come out n i m curious to know who really played role in getting her banned for life.I still maintian it was not a sane action.....this is d mail

I am wondering why Satyeshwar quoted some excerpts from my mail so shamefully to portray the situation in his own way. And fearing that people will counter question, he closed the thread !--
Thanks & Regards,
CA. Shweta Dhaka


When lot of ppl raise a voice agaist something ofcourse it implies administration is faulty.We are not some puppets who will write and do things just to please ppl who takes care of this site.Satyeshwer what are we demanding in the whole thread?ofcourse we wanted to know d reason why she was banned varna yeh sab kahani likhne me hume bhi koi sukh nai milta.....Why dont d person responsible accept his or her fault n u guys lift d ban....kya aisi insult hoti hai jisme aadmi ne gaali bhi naa di ho?aisa kya offensive likha hoga Shweta ne moderators ke baare me...Ab jo ho raha hai woh hai covering up....Its so very shameful:mad:

sunitahooda
February 17th, 2009, 07:29 PM
Mukesh's quuote from other thread-
I’m just writing with a humble request to all moderators and admin that please get some wisdom and act rationally. Stay unbiased. If you people can’t then better you think of changing the name of this site to some other name like haryana.com or haryanajat.com or something else whatever you like that suit best to your level of thinking but atleast don’t keep it jatland.com.


Mukesh I don’t quite understand what was the reason of your anguish? Ban of Shweta? FEW HARYANWI MEMBERS? OR THE NAME OF JATLAND.COM? I feel in the other thread you have mixed several issues in one thread and you just Needed a Ban member to channel your deep rooted frustration for HARYANA as a whole?

You have always been making mockery of Haryanwis as if WE( Haryanwis) never got ban or infractions? And even if we did we took it as a normal course? Or was it that you expected us to commit suicide? Shall we? Befoe you tell moderatos to get “WISDOM” just think how mch wisdom you have attained in this due course? Why do you always have to point out Haryana through these indirect minor issues? We all know members come and go and there have been so many members who GOT BANNED/ LEFT JL…. Did you start a new thread for each of them?

A hell lot of hue and cry is ALWAYS made about humor and leg pulling? Jaise sab yahan “MAATAM” mananey aatey hain? Aur jisko jallna hai jallo/ hassna hai hanso/ rona hai ro lo JO BASS KA HAI WOH KARO and MIND YOU ALL DO WHAT THEY WANT…. पर आख़िर मै गुठा हरयाणा आलयं के गल्ले मई दिया जा से....क्यों तुम कदे हँसे कोणी के आड़े ? Is it Haryana’s fault if we haryanwis are jovial and don’t get serious unless its really needed? What do we do if you don’t want to laugh?

Why do you divide JATS IN HARYANA/ RAJASTHAN AND UP….ALWAYS…whenever there is an issue like this?? This type of reasons are sought in cheap politics, if your reasons are valid and your concern is sincere then you can fight for it without throwing a blame on HARYANA.

We got Sumit un-banned but SHOW ME A SINGLE post where we used RAJHASTHAN/ UP word like a quarry? You should stop giving way to you shallow mentality and ideas to put here like this. What’s forcing you to always hate Haryana and Haryanwis? I hope you will soon come out of your preconceived notions about Haryana and put your ideas HOW THEY SHOULD BE PUT. What is the reason for such a barbaric display of words?

I still remember when I was a new member and how my posts used to get deleted just by a mere PM or may a phone call…. As if you don’t know? If you think that this PLATOON of moderators doesn’t agree to all of your WHIM and QUIRKS then Please STOP USING HARYANA in your twaddle debates.

Mukesh's quote-
I feel from the heart that I also should leave this place. You people might be thinking that if I too have so much dissatisfaction from this site they why I’m still here. Well, the word “JAT” always fascinates me and I couldn’t stop myself from coming here.

A word like “JAT” must fascinate you whether you are or you are not on JATLAND.

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 07:34 PM
well Richa she said tht name shud be changed after ban coz ofcourse she dint want ppl to notice tht she has been banned coz its embarassing....oh plz give me a break now u sound as if asking for a name change is a sin or is like abusing someone so she shud be banned....had i been in her place i wud have done d same.........cud u just tell me why is she banned....its so easy to shoot a question den u shud have d answer to d question coming ur way next



Deepika, did you ask, why did she want to change the name, while she is a most polular and worthy member of this forum, I hope she felt has done somethingh wrong here. We should not force the moderators. Try to keep the privecy. It should be the matter between Mods and baned member. we should respect the admin`s decisions.

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 07:36 PM
Sunita its a humble request plz dont try to change d topic n the issue we are talking on....unki quote ka kuch bhi matlab ho humari concern kuch aur hai and m sure u know it and can see it



Mukesh's quuote from other thread-
I’m just writing with a humble request to all moderators and admin that please get some wisdom and act rationally. Stay unbiased. If you people can’t then better you think of changing the name of this site to some other name like haryana.com or haryanajat.com or something else whatever you like that suit best to your level of thinking but atleast don’t keep it jatland.com.


Mukesh I don’t quite understand what was the reason of your anguish? Ban of Shweta? FEW HARYANWI MEMBERS? OR THE NAME OF JATLAND.COM? I feel in the other thread you have mixed several issues in one thread and you just Needed a Ban member to channel your deep rooted frustration for HARYANA as a whole?

You have always been making mockery of Haryanwis as if WE( Haryanwis) never got ban or infractions? And even if we did we took it as a normal course? Or was it that you expected us to commit suicide? Shall we? Befoe you tell moderatos to get “WISDOM” just think how mch wisdom you have attained in this due course? Why do you always have to point out Haryana through these indirect minor issues? We all know members come and go and there have been so many members who GOT BANNED/ LEFT JL…. Did you start a new thread for each of them?

A hell lot of hue and cry is ALWAYS made about humor and leg pulling? Jaise sab yahan “MAATAM” mananey aatey hain? Aur jisko jallna hai jallo/ hassna hai hanso/ rona hai ro lo JO BASS KA HAI WOH KARO and MIND YOU ALL DO WHAT THEY WANT…. पर आख़िर मै गुठा हरयाणा आलयं के गल्ले मई दिया जा से....क्यों तुम कदे हँसे कोणी के आड़े ? Is it Haryana’s fault if we haryanwis are jovial and don’t get serious unless its really needed? What do we do if you don’t want to laugh?

Why do you divide JATS IN HARYANA/ RAJASTHAN AND UP….ALWAYS…whenever there is an issue like this?? This type of reasons are sought in cheap politics, if your reasons are valid and your concern is sincere then you can fight for it without throwing a blame on HARYANA.

We got Sumit un-banned but SHOW ME A SINGLE post where we used RAJHASTHAN/ UP word like a quarry? You should stop giving way to you shallow mentality and ideas to put here like this. What’s forcing you to always hate Haryana and Haryanwis? I hope you will soon come out of your preconceived notions about Haryana and put your ideas HOW THEY SHOULD BE PUT. What is the reason for such a barbaric display of words?

I still remember when I was a new member and how my posts used to get deleted just by a mere PM or may a phone call…. As if you don’t know? If you think that this PLATOON of moderators doesn’t agree to all of your WHIM and QUIRKS then Please STOP USING HARYANA in your twaddle debates.

I feel from the heart that I also should leave this place. You people might be thinking that if I too have so much dissatisfaction from this site they why I’m still here. Well, the word “JAT” always fascinates me and I couldn’t stop myself from coming here.

A word like “JAT” must fascinate you whether you are or you are not on JATLAND.

richaaz
February 17th, 2009, 07:43 PM
well Richa she said tht name shud be changed after ban coz ofcourse she dint want ppl to notice tht she has been banned coz its embarassing....oh plz give me a break now u sound as if asking for a name change is a sin or is like abusing someone so she shud be banned....had i been in her place i wud have done d same.........cud u just tell me why is she banned....its so easy to shoot a question den u shud have d answer to d question coming ur way next

So, it was the simple way ..dont login the JL. But hide your identity shows your fault. I hope, every active member can recoganize here after change the name.

sunitahooda
February 17th, 2009, 07:46 PM
Then the thread starter should know how to use WORDS? aur kisi ka koyi bhi concern ho maine apna concern issi issue mein se pick kia hai. Agar Mukesh ko SHWETA ke Ban se problem thi to FIR HARYANA AUR HARYANA WALO ko iss mamooli baat mein nahi ghaseetna chahiye tha:o usko lagta hai ke aise aouchhi baat likh ke kaam asaan ho jayega bas:rolleyes:
Sunita its a humble request plz dont try to change d topic n the issue we are talking on....unki quote ka kuch bhi matlab ho humari concern kuch aur hai and m sure u know it and can see it

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 07:49 PM
Excuse me Richa but ur logics dont make any sense to me at all.....especially coz its kind of addiction if u are on jatland for long time u cant control urself from logging in n commenting m sure u know wot addiction means and how it works....so may be u are so great who can stay kool n finw widout logging in but we cannt...anything else u have to say abt it?



So, it was the simple way ..dont login the JL. But hide your identity shows your fault. I hope, every active member can recoganize here after change the name.

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 07:52 PM
Yaar hadd hai thaari bas issi issi baat pai seeng pina liya karo arr jitt bolan ka time ho ohdai raho chup jukar saap sungh gaya ho:mad:....pher lad liye uss gail ibbe humnai satyagrah me intrupt mat kar:D



Then the thread starter should know how to use WORDS? aur kisi ka koyi bhi concern ho maine apna concern issi issue mein se pick kia hai. Agar Mukesh ko SHWETA ke Ban se problem thi to FIR HARYANA AUR HARYANA WALO ko iss mamooli baat mein nahi ghaseetna chahiye tha:o usko lagta hai ke aise aouchhi baat likh ke kaam asaan ho jayega bas:rolleyes:

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 07:58 PM
Sunitaji, this is not even in context. The context behind Mukesh's comments was that he felt a bias behind the decisions taken by the moderators given Shweta's claims that Ajay Verma had links with certain moderators/admins. While his comments were certainly avoidable, there is no reason to make it a haryana vs. the rest issue. When a person is aggrieved, he/she looks for reasons and comes up with some rationale to explain the inexplicable. That's what Mukesh/Shweta did, rightly or wrongly. Without going into the merits of his "haryana.com" comments, it certainly didn't warrant such extreme reactions from you. His post is in totally different light- then why focus on a minor point made in anguish- when it is going to add no value to this very important discussion. I request you (and Mukesh as well) to not continue on the same line of thought further on this thread.


Mukesh's quuote from other thread-
I’m just writing with a humble request to all moderators and admin that please get some wisdom and act rationally. Stay unbiased. If you people can’t then better you think of changing the name of this site to some other name like haryana.com or haryanajat.com or something else whatever you like that suit best to your level of thinking but atleast don’t keep it jatland.com.


Mukesh I don’t quite understand what was the reason of your anguish? Ban of Shweta? FEW HARYANWI MEMBERS? OR THE NAME OF JATLAND.COM? I feel in the other thread you have mixed several issues in one thread and you just Needed a Ban member to channel your deep rooted frustration for HARYANA as a whole?

You have always been making mockery of Haryanwis as if WE( Haryanwis) never got ban or infractions? And even if we did we took it as a normal course? Or was it that you expected us to commit suicide? Shall we? Befoe you tell moderatos to get “WISDOM” just think how mch wisdom you have attained in this due course? Why do you always have to point out Haryana through these indirect minor issues? We all know members come and go and there have been so many members who GOT BANNED/ LEFT JL…. Did you start a new thread for each of them?

A hell lot of hue and cry is ALWAYS made about humor and leg pulling? Jaise sab yahan “MAATAM” mananey aatey hain? Aur jisko jallna hai jallo/ hassna hai hanso/ rona hai ro lo JO BASS KA HAI WOH KARO and MIND YOU ALL DO WHAT THEY WANT…. पर आख़िर मै गुठा हरयाणा आलयं के गल्ले मई दिया जा से....क्यों तुम कदे हँसे कोणी के आड़े ? Is it Haryana’s fault if we haryanwis are jovial and don’t get serious unless its really needed? What do we do if you don’t want to laugh?

Why do you divide JATS IN HARYANA/ RAJASTHAN AND UP….ALWAYS…whenever there is an issue like this?? This type of reasons are sought in cheap politics, if your reasons are valid and your concern is sincere then you can fight for it without throwing a blame on HARYANA.

We got Sumit un-banned but SHOW ME A SINGLE post where we used RAJHASTHAN/ UP word like a quarry? You should stop giving way to you shallow mentality and ideas to put here like this. What’s forcing you to always hate Haryana and Haryanwis? I hope you will soon come out of your preconceived notions about Haryana and put your ideas HOW THEY SHOULD BE PUT. What is the reason for such a barbaric display of words?

I still remember when I was a new member and how my posts used to get deleted just by a mere PM or may a phone call…. As if you don’t know? If you think that this PLATOON of moderators doesn’t agree to all of your WHIM and QUIRKS then Please STOP USING HARYANA in your twaddle debates.

Mukesh's quote-
I feel from the heart that I also should leave this place. You people might be thinking that if I too have so much dissatisfaction from this site they why I’m still here. Well, the word “JAT” always fascinates me and I couldn’t stop myself from coming here.

A word like “JAT” must fascinate you whether you are or you are not on JATLAND.

richaaz
February 17th, 2009, 08:02 PM
Excuse me Richa but ur logics dont make any sense to me at all.....especially coz its kind of addiction if u are on jatland for long time u cant control urself from logging in n commenting m sure u know wot addiction means and how it works....so may be u are so great who can stay kool n finw widout logging in but we cannt...anything else u have to say abt it?


I would like to say here. No one is special here. We should ask to mods about all those got ban. Practically, it cannt be happened for mods. If she has any objection on this decission she should talk to directly to moderators. Many time she has given the option to other. I am very surprised how does she forget the option contact us

richaaz
February 17th, 2009, 08:07 PM
Sunitaji, this is not even in context. The context behind Mukesh's comments was that he felt a bias behind the decisions taken by the moderators given Shweta's claims that Ajay Verma had links with certain moderators/admins.While his comments were certainly avoidable, there is no reason to make it a haryana vs. the rest issue. When a person is aggrieved, he/she looks for reasons and comes up with some rationale to explain the inexplicable. That's what Mukesh/Shweta did, rightly or wrongly. Without going into the merits of his "haryana.com" comments, it certainly didn't warrant such extreme reactions from you. His post is in totally different light- then why focus on a minor point made in anguish- when it is going to add no value to this very important discussion. I request you (and Mukesh as well) to not continue on the same line of thought further on this thread.
Moderators/admin ke link nahi hone chahiye kissi se.

sunitahooda
February 17th, 2009, 08:08 PM
Sweetheart ek bai uski cheethi padh ley....kis ke barey mai ke-ke likh rakhya hai?

Arr jab Sumit ban hoya tha to yo Mukesh kitt jaa rya tha? Arr tu kitt thi? Shweta ke to roz kise-kise tai seng ulljhey reh hey...Sumit nai to kise gail kade laddayi bi na kari?

I was just about to support Mukesh in previous thread just by knowing that SHWETA is banned. But when i read the word "HARYANA"? I'm sorry i simply could not overlook? I'll be shockd if SHWETA is muh mre important to you THAN HARYANA:o
Yaar hadd hai thaari bas issi issi baat pai seeng pina liya karo arr jitt bolan ka time ho ohdai raho chup jukar saap sungh gaya ho:mad:....pher lad liye uss gail ibbe humnai satyagrah me intrupt mat kar:D

sunitahooda
February 17th, 2009, 08:10 PM
Thats why i have used a word like WHIM....whether you know it or not and believe it or not HE DID THAT ON PURPOSE....And thats even more serious if it had no CONTEXT:confused:
Sunitaji, this is not even in context. The context behind Mukesh's comments was that he felt a bias behind the decisions taken by the moderators given Shweta's claims that Ajay Verma had links with certain moderators/admins. While his comments were certainly avoidable, there is no reason to make it a haryana vs. the rest issue. When a person is aggrieved, he/she looks for reasons and comes up with some rationale to explain the inexplicable. That's what Mukesh/Shweta did, rightly or wrongly. Without going into the merits of his "haryana.com" comments, it certainly didn't warrant such extreme reactions from you. His post is in totally different light- then why focus on a minor point made in anguish- when it is going to add no value to this very important discussion. I request you (and Mukesh as well) to not continue on the same line of thought further on this thread.

mukeshkumar007
February 17th, 2009, 08:15 PM
Then the thread starter should know how to use WORDS? aur kisi ka koyi bhi concern ho maine apna concern issi issue mein se pick kia hai. Agar Mukesh ko SHWETA ke Ban se problem thi to FIR HARYANA AUR HARYANA WALO ko iss mamooli baat mein nahi ghaseetna chahiye tha:o usko lagta hai ke aise aouchhi baat likh ke kaam asaan ho jayega bas:rolleyes:

I thought to clarify before other member misinterpret from your post. Mujhe koi problem nai hai Haryana se aur haryanawalo se..aur hogi bi kyu..mera kye le ke ja hai.. aur maine kabi bi JATO ko bant ke bi nai dekha ki kaun keha ka hai...

Dusri baat aap keh rehi ho ki maine hamesa haryana walo ko criticize kiya to mujhe to nai yaad aa reha ki kab kiya… ek bi thread aise nai hogi jeha maine aisa likha hoga except this one jiska bi matlab dusra tha.. phir aap kyo yeh misinformation faila rehi ho yeha..ek thread maie apne pehle bi likha tha ki maie bi ek baar bann ho gaya tha kisi baat ko lekar..jabki aisa kabi bi nai huwa.. halanki maine to weha par bi kuch nai keha..chalo likh diya to likh diya ke farak pade hai..

Khair wo to alag baat hai lakin upar jo harayan ka naam use kara tha uska matlab yeh tha ki yeha par kai baar aisa discrimination kiya jta hai.. choupal maie members kehte hai ki harywani bolo choupal sirf haryanwi language ke liye hi hai..jisko haryanvi nai ati uska choupal maie koi kaam nai.. ghani baar aisa kara hai.. thread bi aisi saru huwi hai..kai baar keha gaya wo up ka jat aur wo rajasthan ka aur maie haryana ke.. phalan dhikad..kya nai huwi kabi aisi discussion.. jo ki halanki hone nai chaiye thi..but huwi hai... 2004 se hoo yeha par aur kai baar feel kiya hai yeh discrimination lakin kabi kuch keha bi nai maine… isliye maine yeh sab likha tha aur kuch nai.. ki agar aap log sabko ek nazar se nai dekte to aise naam rakh lo..phir hum soch lenge ki ana chaiye ki nai is site par..

Ib isme bi apko lagta hai ki meri soch choti hai to choti sehi..isse jyada explanation mere se di bi na ja…

phir bi agar other members feel that the use of that word in my sentence sound offending than I'm sorry.. My intention was not to hurt but just to communicate the one thing that the discrimination used to happen and it still can be felt sometime.

I never took side of any member based upon the reason ki yeh haryaana ka hai yeh rajasthan ka hai..

Mujhe yeh ban unjustified laga hence I’m protesting, isme kisi side lene wali koi baat nai hai.. my one of the best friend Jitendra Takhar got too many infractions and even got banned ones but I never took his side because I felt he was also responsible somewhat in the fight that lead to his ban and infraction.. na hi maine kabi moderators ke decision ka objection kiya..

Lakin galat to galat hota hai..

Policy sab ke liye saman honi chaiye chahe koi mai ka lal hoo.. sab ko ek hi tarazo maie tolo.. that’s it.

vivektaliyan
February 17th, 2009, 08:19 PM
Mukesh,
Shweta can come back to the site if she can commit to accepting Moderator decisions gracefully and is ready to roll back her message in which she asked for a ban.

.
-Satyeshwar



Dear all ,
I think now there should be no issue. And Shweta ji If u want to resolve the problem .....pls do what Satyeshwar Bhai said.

Respected members I have read the above post . The fault was made by both side,. Now try to resolve the matter....:):)

anilsinghd
February 17th, 2009, 08:27 PM
Sunita ji , Mukesh , Deepika , Kapil , all , Let's not dilute the issue at hand.

I would go with Kapil's argument that in the heat one really does not know what one is writing.


Let's not put it one member against another or case specific. Let's try and bridge the gap that has been created.

I am pretty sure a combined request from many of the members present here to the mods and admins can goa long way in solving the issue.

Mods please take this up in earnest! :) It is a humble request from my side and I am sure others will join me in the same! :)

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 08:33 PM
Thats why i have used a word like WHIM....whether you know it or not and believe it or not HE DID THAT ON PURPOSE....And thats even more serious if it had no CONTEXT:confused:

Madam, first of all I said it had a different context and not "no context". But yeah who am I to know, you are the know-all guru who knows that "HE DID THAT ON PURPOSE"!! All I was requesting was not to derail an important topic by creating a fictitious haryana/non-haryana divide without any context. If you felt so strongly about it, you could have started a different thread with this topic. I am myself from Haryana and didn't like Mukesh's point. But he was voicing a feeling of being discriminated against. If any sane person goes through your post, he/she can clearly see that you are indulging in "We vs. Them" politics of the worst kind. I don't want to indulge in this stupidity further, so feel free to say whatever you want, but don't gloat in stupid pride if you don't see a reply.

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 08:39 PM
I thought to clarify before other member misinterpret from your post. Mujhe koi problem nai hai Haryana se aur haryanawalo se..aur hogi bi kyu..mera kye le ke ja hai.. aur maine kabi bi JATO ko bant ke bi nai dekha ki kaun keha ka hai...

Dusri baat aap keh rehi ho ki maine hamesa haryana walo ko criticize kiya to mujhe to nai yaad aa reha ki kab kiya… ek bi thread aise nai hogi jeha maine aisa likha hoga except this one jiska bi matlab dusra tha.. phir aap kyo yeh misinformation faila rehi ho yeha..ek thread maie apne pehle bi likha tha ki maie bi ek baar bann ho gaya tha kisi baat ko lekar..jabki aisa kabi bi nai huwa.. halanki maine to weha par bi kuch nai keha..chalo likh diya to likh diya ke farak pade hai..

Khair wo to alag baat hai lakin upar jo harayan ka naam use kara tha uska matlab yeh tha ki yeha par kai baar aisa discrimination kiya jta hai.. choupal maie members kehte hai ki harywani bolo choupal sirf haryanwi language ke liye hi hai..jisko haryanvi nai ati uska choupal maie koi kaam nai.. ghani baar aisa kara hai.. thread bi aisi saru huwi hai..kai baar keha gaya wo up ka jat aur wo rajasthan ka aur maie haryana ke.. phalan dhikad..kya nai huwi kabi aisi discussion.. jo ki halanki hone nai chaiye thi..but huwi hai... 2004 se hoo yeha par aur kai baar feel kiya hai yeh discrimination lakin kabi kuch keha bi nai maine… isliye maine yeh sab likha tha aur kuch nai.. ki agar aap log sabko ek nazar se nai dekte to aise naam rakh lo..phir hum soch lenge ki ana chaiye ki nai is site par..

Ib isme bi apko lagta hai ki meri soch choti hai to choti sehi..isse jyada explanation mere se di bi na ja…

phir bi agar other members feel that the use of that word in my sentence sound offending than I'm sorry.. My intention was not to hurt but just to communicate the one thing that the discrimination used to happen and it still can be felt sometime.

I never took side of any member based upon the reason ki yeh haryaana ka hai yeh rajasthan ka hai..

Mujhe yeh ban unjustified laga hence I’m protesting, isme kisi side lene wali koi baat nai hai.. my one of the best friend Jitendra Takhar got too many infractions and even got banned ones but I never took his side because I felt he was also responsible somewhat in the fight that lead to his ban and infraction.. na hi maine kabi moderators ke decision ka objection kiya..

Lakin galat to galat hota hai..

Policy sab ke liye saman honi chaiye chahe koi mai ka lal hoo.. sab ko ek hi tarazo maie tolo.. that’s it.

Mukesh, if you really feel so strongly about Shweta's ban, than you could have avoided going into accusations of discrimination, especially when you have no evidence. Discrimination may be a fact and may exist from both sides, but how do you know that that is the cause of the ban? Writing a para in the heat of the moment is one thing and posting a full reply on the subject is another. If you felt about the discrimination, you could have started a new thread. Why confuse it with the original issue of the ban? Making accusations just on the basis of your feelings is only going to antagonise others and not help on the main issue.

sachinb
February 17th, 2009, 08:46 PM
Kapil Sir,,,,yu dekh le context http://www.jatland.com/forums/showpost.php?p=198679&postcount=1

Mukesh has behaved with a very narrow mentality. Why he is playing a divisive politics,,,what Mukesh wants to gain by doing this propaganda,,,,,Regarding Shweta's ban we also have deep concern,,,,,,lekin iska matlab ye nahi ki koyi "Regionalism" failaana shuru kar de.....,,,,,,,

Mukesh jaise bhai hi hamari Jat Kaum ko divide karte hain,,,,hamne kabhi koyi bhi farak nahi mahsus kiyaa Rajasthani jat, UP-waala Jat, Dilli-waala jat or haryanvi jat,,,,hamare liye saare Jat barabar hain,,,,

Mukesh ne apne pichhle thread mein likhyaa thaa ke JL ka naam Haryana.com/haryanajat.com dhar dyo,,,,,,ke is ne bera se aaj tain kitne Haryana ke Jat JL par BAN ho liye yaa pher Infraction paa liye,,,,,,,,,,,pata nahi kitne example hain jahaan Haryanavi Jat Ban/Infraction se nawaaje gaye hain,,,,lekin aisi Gheenoni baat jo Mukesh ne kahi kabhi bhi Moderator/Administrator ke khilaaf nahi kahi,,,Kaum ko Todne waali har baat ke khilaaf hain ham


Sunitaji, this is not even in context. The context behind Mukesh's comments was that he felt a bias behind the decisions taken by the moderators given Shweta's claims that Ajay Verma had links with certain moderators/admins. .

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 09:14 PM
Did you really think I have not seen that link? Have you even read my reply properly? Or understood what had been said? If you didn't get it, then please understand that I was not supporting Mukesh on that point, leave alone praising him. But it is quite clear to me who is playing divisive politics by picking on someone's grievances (right or wrong), and any right thinking person would agree to that. I can give you an example- not the best one, but still good enough. Once Jaya Bachhan made a comment that "Hum UP ke hain, hamein Hindi bolni chaahiye". Raj Thackeray and his goons went on rampage picking on that off-the-cuff statement. Who was playing politics?


Kapil Sir,,,,yu dekh le context http://www.jatland.com/forums/showpost.php?p=198679&postcount=1

Mukesh has behaved with a very narrow mentality. Why he is playing a divisive politics,,,what Mukesh wants to gain by doing this propaganda,,,,,Regarding Shweta's ban we also have deep concern,,,,,,lekin iska matlab ye nahi ki koyi "Regionalism" failaana shuru kar de.....,,,,,,,

Mukesh jaise bhai hi hamari Jat Kaum ko divide karte hain,,,,hamne kabhi koyi bhi farak nahi mahsus kiyaa Rajasthani jat, UP-waala Jat, Dilli-waala jat or haryanvi jat,,,,hamare liye saare Jat barabar hain,,,,

Mukesh ne apne pichhle thread mein likhyaa thaa ke JL ka naam Haryana.com/haryanajat.com dhar dyo,,,,,,ke is ne bera se aaj tain kitne Haryana ke Jat JL par BAN ho liye yaa pher Infraction paa liye,,,,,,,,,,,pata nahi kitne example hain jahaan Haryanavi Jat Ban/Infraction se nawaaje gaye hain,,,,lekin aisi Gheenoni baat jo Mukesh ne kahi kabhi bhi Moderator/Administrator ke khilaaf nahi kahi,,,Kaum ko Todne waali har baat ke khilaaf hain ham

anilsinghd
February 17th, 2009, 09:16 PM
Did you really think I have not seen that link? Have you even read my reply properly? Or understood what had been said? If you didn't get it, then please understand that I was not supporting Mukesh on that point, leave alone praising him. But it is quite clear to me who is playing divisive politics by picking on someone's grievances (right or wrong), and any right thinking person would agree to that. I can give you an example- not the best one, but still good enough. Once Jaya Bachhan made a comment that "Hum UP ke hain, hamein Hindi bolni chaahiye". Raj Thackeray and his goons went on rampage picking on that off-the-cuff statement. Who was playing politics?


Cool off mate , concentrate on the CDOs , INDU touching Nov. Lows :) !

anilsangwan
February 17th, 2009, 09:19 PM
Dear All,

I feel that Sweta has requested for ban on her own. She is not banned by Mods without a request. So, we should respect her personal decision and leave this matter here itself. IF she has concerns, she can discuss with Mods over mail.

Second, I dont know if she has asked people to raise this concern on her behalf. But, if she has done so, she should have not asked for ban in first place.

Thirdly, in her mail (I hope it is presented here without manipulations), she seems to be more concerned about others than her own issues. So why to give so much of importance to it.

PS: My personal views!

Regards,
Anil

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 09:23 PM
Moderators/admin ke link nahi hone chahiye kissi se.

What does this mean? Moderators/admins bhi insaan hain. Unka link kyun nahin hona chaahiye? Koi rule hai kya ki JL pe moderator ban rahe ho to sab sansarik rishte naate tyaagne padenge? JL ki moderatorship hai ki sanyaas?

sachinb
February 17th, 2009, 09:24 PM
Kapil Bhai,,,, Jaya is also a politician and Raj thakre is also a politician,,,,,,,,,

i knew that you have read, the link was for those who have not read:)


Did you really think I have not seen that link? Have you even read my reply properly? Or understood what had been said? If you didn't get it, then please understand that I was not supporting Mukesh on that point, leave alone praising him. But it is quite clear to me who is playing divisive politics by picking on someone's grievances (right or wrong), and any right thinking person would agree to that. I can give you an example- not the best one, but still good enough. Once Jaya Bachhan made a comment that "Hum UP ke hain, hamein Hindi bolni chaahiye". Raj Thackeray and his goons went on rampage picking on that off-the-cuff statement. Who was playing politics?

sachinb
February 17th, 2009, 09:27 PM
agree with you Sangwan bhai,,,,very well said


Dear All,

I feel that Sweta has requested for ban on her own. She is not banned by Mods without a request. So, we should respect her personal decision and leave this matter here itself. IF she has concerns, she can discuss with Mods over mail.

Second, I dont know if she has asked people to raise this concern on her behalf. But, if she has done so, she should have not asked for ban in first place.

Thirdly, in her mail (I hope it is presented here without manipulations), she seems to be more concerned about others than her own issues. So why to give so much of importance to it.

PS: My personal views!

Regards,
Anil

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 09:28 PM
Well Richa first of all let me tell u she did it b4 but never got any response from their side....now when u dint know abt this fAct why r u commenting abt it at all?there are so many other threads where u can show ur intellect so plz go there n utilize the time.I wud not lock my horns wid u as this problem has been solved otherwise i wud have given u a better answer tht u needed:cool:



I would like to say here. No one is special here. We should ask to mods about all those got ban. Practically, it cannt be happened for mods. If she has any objection on this decission she should talk to directly to moderators. Many time she has given the option to other. I am very surprised how does she forget the option contact us

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 09:33 PM
Kapil Bhai,,,, Jaya is also a politician and Raj thakre is also a politician,,,,,,,,,

i knew that you have read, the link was for those who have not read:)

My question was not who is a politician, but who was playing politics with a non-issue?

sachinb
February 17th, 2009, 09:35 PM
And my question is why you are asking this question


My question was not who is a politician, but who was playing politics with a non-issue?

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 09:38 PM
And my question is why you are asking this question

Because I had some hope. But now I have lost it.

sunitahooda
February 17th, 2009, 09:42 PM
Sir,

You can not force someone to see the world with yor eyes and understand things with your mind....OK? And i dont think that i'm a kid or you're a kid/ the banned person is a kid/ moderators are kids/ thrad starter is a kid. I've also got infractions but neve FOR FIGHTING with members, whereas all sort of trials have been given to malign my image and it'll be out of CONTEXT we get into that discussion. And all know everything but pick as per their taste. Go through Shweta's mail what she has written about other members posts and threads. As if all have done a crime if not written what she liked? And as if she never started any thread in "TIME-PASS" section? And she never got indulged in an kind of leg-pulling? I am proud to the coe and i'm happy with my stupid pride.
Madam, first of all I said it had a different context and not "no context". But yeah who am I to know, you are the know-all guru who knows that "HE DID THAT ON PURPOSE"!! All I was requesting was not to derail an important topic by creating a fictitious haryana/non-haryana divide without any context. If you felt so strongly about it, you could have started a different thread with this topic. I am myself from Haryana and didn't like Mukesh's point. But he was voicing a feeling of being discriminated against. If any sane person goes through your post, he/she can clearly see that you are indulging in "We vs. Them" politics of the worst kind. I don't want to indulge in this stupidity further, so feel free to say whatever you want, but don't gloat in stupid pride if you don't see a reply.

deepika
February 17th, 2009, 09:42 PM
Thanks Satyeshwar for giving us the solution i din't read this one before.:)



Mukesh,

Shweta can come back to the site if she can commit to accepting Moderator decisions gracefully and is ready to roll back her message in which she asked for a ban.
This post covers all salient points about this whole controversy. It also provides a solution. You can continue discussions amongst yourselves but I will not be a part of them anymore.
-Satyeshwar

anilsinghd
February 17th, 2009, 09:43 PM
Because I had some hope. But now I have lost it.


INDU : 7610 : -240.

Mee too lost the hope mate :)

sunillathwal
February 17th, 2009, 09:57 PM
INDU : 7610 : -240.

Mee too lost the hope mate :)

Would u mind mate if i request u to throw some light(s) on INDU !!

who/what is he/she/it??

anilsinghd
February 17th, 2009, 09:58 PM
Would u mind mate if i request u to throw some light(s) on INDU !!

who/what is he/she/it??

The stats were for Kapil , on the topic was just the line : I too lost the hope :)

poonamchaudhary
February 17th, 2009, 10:18 PM
Well, a very depressive kind of rhetoric is going on here. The issue was something but it is getting derailed and we are heading towards conflicts, conflicts and just conflicts. It hurts to see that it has incorporated some divisive remarks here. But as Kapil said, it really happens that when we write something, feeling strongly about it, then in the heat of the moment we tend to write things that perhaps we otherwise would not have written or written differently. But lets not deflect from what the main issue is.

Shweta's ban is very unacceptable. And yes members come and go. They get banned or they simply leave. But here, there seems to be some lack of communication or something like a block in communication.

We should just talk about Shweta's ban and not about other members or what happened to them. These comparisons would yield nothing.

I just hope that Shweta's ban is lifted because, as Anil has said, she is a creative contributor of this forum.

kapdal
February 17th, 2009, 10:22 PM
The stats were for Kapil , on the topic was just the line : I too lost the hope :)

Anil, I didn't reply initially as this was off the topic, but then what is on the topic here anyways :)

Anyways, what did you expect? There might be bear market rallies, but it is going down for 2009 as far as I can see. With Obama coming in, there was bound to be an over-reaction, but as the euphoria settles down, people would realise what deep sh*t they are in. Also look at CDX/ITRAXX- credit is trading so wide, pricing in deep recession- compared to that equities are on dope. I'd have bought gold as an inflation hedge, but it is already zooming. Maybe oil is not a bad bet right now. It has already taken a big hit. If there are any signs of recovery, this could be the first one to react. Looking at the supply of money now and adding a couple of conflicts to it, people might rush to black gold at first signs of inflation.

anilsinghd
February 17th, 2009, 10:30 PM
Anil, I didn't reply initially as this was off the topic, but then what is on the topic here anyways :)

Anyways, what did you expect? There might be bear market rallies, but it is going down for 2009 as far as I can see. With Obama coming in, there was bound to be an over-reaction, but as the euphoria settles down, people would realise what deep sh*t they are in. Also look at CDX/ITRAXX- credit is trading so wide, pricing in deep recession- compared to that equities are on dope. I'd have bought gold as an inflation hedge, but it is already zooming. Maybe oil is not a bad bet right now. It has already taken a big hit. If there are any signs of recovery, this could be the first one to react. Looking at the supply of money now and adding a couple of conflicts to it, people might rush to black gold at first signs of inflation.

Brought up a thread in the curre nt affairs sect ion called "The financial pendamic" , lets talk market there ;) I do not want to be abshed for off topic comments! :)

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 05:49 AM
Well this message is for all the respected members who actually hav posted irrelevant comments on this particular thread.This one was a serious issue but i m surprised how people took it as a thread from timepass section and posted d quotes which were not related at all or asking irrelevant questions.Secondly please try to get out of this Haryana,U.P or Rajasthan issue coz site's name is ofcourse not Haryana.com or U.P.com or Rajasthan.com....sab jat hai yaahdai arr bina baat ki baat banan ka koi matlab nai hai.shukar yaahdai bas regionwise hai log agar religionwise (Hindu arr muslim)toh kayi saare log ibb lag riots shuru kar devai yaahdai:mad:Jis dinn ya baat palle padd jyagi uss din aadhe raulle mit jyange yaahdai jatland pai:mad:...Shweta is one female here whos not an attentionseeker like many ppl here....it wont be wrong if i say she has got d exceptional intellect tht not many females possess.If she reacted strongly n replied back to the quotes posted by some selfproclaimed 'Most Intelligent Creatures on the Earth" then wot's wrong in tht?i have seen everyone(including the ppl who claims tht she was wrong)doing it....and thts called defending urself and ur views and i dont see anything wrong in tht....thaari toh yaa baat ho rahi hai "Aap karo toh Leela dusre karai toh Paap":D...aap chahe kitni bhi bakwas likh dyo raaji nyu rehvainge jukar geeta ka gyan de diya ho loga tai arr dusre ki baat laagai faltu.....If I am not wrong its called doublestandard:mad: ......anyways as Satyeshwar has mentioned Shweta can come back and i really thank Satyeshwar for tht....when issue kind of sorted out still after tht one ppl posted their nonsense quotes which were not related to the thread at all just to have the feel that he/she is the most intelligent person around baaki sab pagal hai:mad:(I am not talking abt Kapil Dalal coz he was just replying to d quotes he was getting)Jat attitude hona aachi baat hai par har time maarne saand ki dhaal taang dharti mai ghisana koi achi baat nai hai:mad:

ritu
February 18th, 2009, 07:35 AM
i think this thread should be moved to time pass..with the title
khamkha
or
aapni aapni daflli aapna aapna raag

ritu
February 18th, 2009, 07:41 AM
i really do not se a issue here........and why one should change their name only to be get banned.when sumit did... he had some point to prove regrading the identity of a moderator.now it really seems annoying ppl using that rule and then blaming mods.shweta is a dear friend and i really felt bad for her but why she asked for ban using the name rule.

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February 18th, 2009, 08:39 AM
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sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 09:23 AM
Some people really try to show them as the most ultra-sophosticated creature on earth who have just ventured on JL:),,,,,and above all they have a state of mind wherein they think that whatever that ultra-sophosticated person writes is as per the topic, relevant and to the point whereas the other person is just writing a humbug.

For those ultra-sophosticated creatures,,,,just read what Mukesh Samota has written initially,,,,as per him this Haryana Jat was also an issue,,,,,then how come you people defend him,,,,

If he wanted to raise the issue of banning Shweta he could have done with out saying that,,,,,,,,,

kahaan se ye thread "DERAIL" ho gaya,,,,,aajkal log-baag derail hon te bhot darre se:D:D,,,,,,jo issue thread mein Mukesh ne uthaaye unhi ke upar baat ho rahi hai,,,,,,,

Shweta was nice person no doubt and the ban on her should be lifted, but first we have to see if she wants her Ban to be lifted,,,,I think if she approaches Modes she will get the things right....

Lekin how you people can ignore what Mukesh wrote and trying to create a divide among Jats. Galat Baat ko galat kahna bhi logo ko raas nahi aata,,,,,why should i refrain from highlighting this issue when it was raised with a very narrow minded approach by our worthy member Mukesh Samota

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 09:42 AM
Mr. Sachin jee i think u skipped my reply on d thread i posted lastly...plz stop raising this haryana jat rajasthan jat issue as its a complete nonsense to me.I am also from Haryana...but i have neither time nor mind to waste on this disgusting issue.If u dont raise this point haryana ki grace khatam nai hogi but when u shuw such disgusting behaviour its pathetic and i wont mind calling u a racist in a way coz u( m so very sure)favour this rajashtan jat haryana jat issue as its relevant from ur reply.Issi ke khaas baat hai haryana ke jat mai ?manne toh aaj tak nai dikhi koi...harr cheez mai politics khelan ki zarurat nai india mai ek Raj thakre hi bhtera....arr manne oh hi itna khatai hai akk aaj mil gya toh kaat kaat botte kar dyu.....jatland pai humnai issi vaahiyaat issue pai disscuss karan ka koi matlab nai:mad:


Some people really try to show them as the most ultra-sophosticated creature on earth who have just ventured on JL:),,,,,and above all they have a state of mind wherein they think that whatever that ultra-sophosticated person writes is as per the topic, relevant and to the point whereas the other person is just writing a humbug.

For those ultra-sophosticated creatures,,,,just read what Mukesh Samota has written initially,,,,as per him this Haryana Jat was also an issue,,,,,then how come you people defend him,,,,

If he wanted to raise the issue of banning Shweta he could have done with out saying that,,,,,,,,,

kahaan se ye thread "DERAIL" ho gaya,,,,,aajkal log-baag derail hon te bhot darre se:D:D,,,,,,jo issue thread mein Mukesh ne uthaaye unhi ke upar baat ho rahi hai,,,,,,,

Shweta was nice person no doubt and the ban on her should be lifted, but first we have to see if she wants her Ban to be lifted,,,,I think if she approaches Modes she will get the things right....

Lekin how you people can ignore what Mukesh wrote and trying to create a divide among Jats. Galat Baat ko galat kahna bhi logo ko raas nahi aata,,,,,why should i refrain from highlighting this issue when it was raised with a very narrow minded approach by our worthy member Mukesh Samota

sannand
February 18th, 2009, 09:46 AM
Unnecessary hue and cry over nothing !

When Satyeshwar has already quoted saying Shweta can come back to admins anytime if she feels strongly about the permanent ban, why everyone else is going gaga over it ? She got what she asked for, a name change and with it, a ban. In my opinion, a permanent ban is more of an apt solution for a name change request. O'wise members here will flood admins with requests like these.

Admins are the most hard working people here. Trust 'em and their decisions. I have never seen 'em come out with absurd solution to any problem. Those who believe against it, should not come here so as to keep their self-respect intact. Because, as per their belief, they are and will always be demeaned here. Preserve your individuality folks.

Shweta has been an asset to JL and I request her to reconsider this decision. However, we won't mind seeing her as "Shailja Singh" after a year. I think she herself wanted to take a break from proceedings.(Bobo, dont do a :thappadplease, if you didn't intend it !:p) Admins just obliged. :)

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 09:55 AM
Respected Maa'm,

Thats what i wrote in my earlier post that a thing can look ok to me but some other person might call it a big humbug. To you it looks nonsense but for me its a complete sense,,,,,

What I have been saying is that people should not come with these racists feeling and rather than calling Mukesh a racists you are calling me so,,,,its very strange:D

My point is that we should not differntiate based on the region a person comes from. Again I am saying for me ALL JATS ARE SAME.

ek be jo manne ib tain likhyaa se hat ke padh lyo,,,,

Shweta ke Ban ka issue thaa to phir isme Haryana Jat waali baat kahaan se aagayi,,,jara ek baar puchhana Mukesh Samota se,,,kyaa thaa uske dil mein,,,,,,,,,


Mr. Sachin jee i think u skipped my reply on d thread i posted lastly...plz stop raising this haryana jat rajasthan jat issue as its a complete nonsense to me.I am also from Haryana...but i have neither time nor mind to waste on this disgusting issue.If u dont raise this point haryana ki grace khatam nai hogi but when u shuw such disgusting behaviour its pathetic and i wont mind calling u a racist in a way coz u( m so very sure)favour this rajashtan jat haryana jat issue as its relevant from ur reply.Issi ke khaas baat hai haryana ke jat mai ?manne toh aaj tak nai dikhi koi...harr cheez mai politics khelan ki zarurat nai india mai ek Raj thakre hi bhtera....arr manne oh hi itna khatai hai akk aaj mil gya toh kaat kaat botte kar dyu.....jatland pai humnai issi vaahiyaat issue pai disscuss karan ka koi matlab nai:mad:

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 10:00 AM
Sachin jee!IF u really notice same issue was raised by some other ppl before also in the same thread... jab jo baat ek baar discuss holi yaha pai thread mai baar baar uss baat ko repeat karan tai ke ho jyaga?aur agar bol bhi di toh baat me mukesh samota ne isske baare pe reply bhi kara hai....ek baar aap bhi padh lyo puri Ramayan toh aapnai bera patt jyaga akk ibb ke chaal rya hai



Respected Maa'm,

Thats what i wrote in my earlier post that a thing can look ok to me but some other person might call it a big humbug. To you it looks nonsense but for me its a complete sense,,,,,

What I have been saying is that people should not come with these racists feeling and rather than calling Mukesh a racists you are calling me so,,,,its very strange:D

My point is that we should not differntiate based on the region a person comes from. Again I am saying for me ALL JATS ARE SAME.

ek be jo manne ib tain likhyaa se hat ke padh lyo,,,,

Shweta ke Ban ka issue thaa to phir isme Haryana Jat waali baat kahaan se aagayi,,,jara ek baar puchhana Mukesh Samota se,,,kyaa thaa uske dil mein,,,,,,,,,

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 10:05 AM
Deepika unn JATS ko samjha do fir ke ye tuche hathkandey nahi apnaaney chahiye....par UNKO to khud pata hona chahiye....THEY HAVE BEEN HERE MUCH BEFORE U AND I CAME TO JATLAND:mad:AAND PLEASE AVOID USING THIS RED FACE:o< This will express and we know u r upset and we'll understand:D
Well this message is for all the respected members who actually hav posted irrelevant comments on this particular thread.This one was a serious issue but i m surprised how people took it as a thread from timepass section and posted d quotes which were not related at all or asking irrelevant questions.Secondly please try to get out of this Haryana,U.P or Rajasthan issue coz site's name is ofcourse not Haryana.com or U.P.com or Rajasthan.com....sab jat hai yaahdai arr bina baat ki baat banan ka koi matlab nai hai.shukar yaahdai bas regionwise hai log agar religionwise (Hindu arr muslim)toh kayi saare log ibb lag riots shuru kar devai yaahdai:mad:Jis dinn ya baat palle padd jyagi uss din aadhe raulle mit jyange yaahdai jatland pai:mad:...Shweta is one female here whos not an attentionseeker like many ppl here....it wont be wrong if i say she has got d exceptional intellect tht not many females possess.If she reacted strongly n replied back to the quotes posted by some selfproclaimed 'Most Intelligent Creatures on the Earth" then wot's wrong in tht?i have seen everyone(including the ppl who claims tht she was wrong)doing it....and thts called defending urself and ur views and i dont see anything wrong in tht....thaari toh yaa baat ho rahi hai "Aap karo toh Leela dusre karai toh Paap":D...aap chahe kitni bhi bakwas likh dyo raaji nyu rehvainge jukar geeta ka gyan de diya ho loga tai arr dusre ki baat laagai faltu.....If I am not wrong its called doublestandard:mad: ......anyways as Satyeshwar has mentioned Shweta can come back and i really thank Satyeshwar for tht....when issue kind of sorted out still after tht one ppl posted their nonsense quotes which were not related to the thread at all just to have the feel that he/she is the most intelligent person around baaki sab pagal hai:mad:(I am not talking abt Kapil Dalal coz he was just replying to d quotes he was getting)Jat attitude hona aachi baat hai par har time maarne saand ki dhaal taang dharti mai ghisana koi achi baat nai hai:mad:

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 10:09 AM
Respected Maa'm,

First thing that regionalism issue was not discussed in the thread which was closed, I didnt write there for some time so that Mukesh can realize his mistake, either edit that text or take his words back,,,,,,,,

Then initiated another thread and some where he has also written that he will continue initiating new threads if Mods close them,,,,so in that context we can not isolate what our worthy member Mukesh Samota had written in his first thread.

Baar baar discuss nahi i am just clarifying because people started labeling me as a racists where as they should have said so to Mukesh Samota,,,,,,,,dusra iska faayda ye hoga ki,,,,aagli baariyaan koye bhi is type ki gheenoni baat bolne se pahle 100 baar sochega,,,,,

hansi karo, majak karo, legpulling karo, enjoy sarcasm,,,,sab manjur hai mujhe,,,,lekin ye regionalism among Jats is something I will not tolerate and as a cast we should rise ourselves above these petty issues.

PS:- agar mujhse koyi galti ho gayi hai to haath jod kar maafi chaahta hun




Sachin jee!IF u really notice same issue was raised by some other ppl before also in the same thread... jab jo baat ek baar discuss holi yaha pai thread mai baar baar uss baat ko repeat karan tai ke ho jyaga?

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 10:12 AM
Aali banbukk aali madam:D manne bera tha tu zarur aavaigi:D arre bebe i dint mean tht ki mukesh samota ne jo kiya woh sahi kiya....mai toh aajkal bahatma budhha seinspire hoke unki eyh ideology folow kar rahi thi ke jo agar aapko galat bolo usko kshma(maaf karo):o....mai toh aapni haryanvi jat logo ki chavvi ke baare me maddi si conscious ho rahi thi hahahahahaha.....bebe u r right par hum agar jayada react karange toh apna e nuksaam kara haan.:o:o:o:o



Deepika unn JATS ko samjha do fir ke ye tuche hathkandey nahi apnaaney chahiye....par UNKO to khud paa hona chahiye....THEY HAVE BEEN HERE MUCH BEFORE U AND I CAME TO JATLAND:mad:AAND PLEASE AVOID USING THIS RED FACE:o< This will express and we know u r upset and we'll understand:D

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 10:20 AM
Respected Maa'm,

Ek baat jara dhyaan dene ki hai,,,,,Mukesh ne issue raise kiyaa Shweta Dhaka ke Ban ko lekar,,,,,,to phir ye Haryana waali baat kaise Mukesh Samota ke dimaag mein aagayi,,,,,

agar ye bhi maan le ki Mukesh ne gusse(anger) mein aakar likh diyaa,,,,to phir Shweta ke Ban aur Haryana ka kyaa relation....gusse mein kuchh aur likh deta,,,,

I think Mukesh Samota acted because of some deep rooted regional hatred, which he should have not done,,,,,,

JAT Ekta Jindaabaad:rock

PS:- I have made my stand amply clear ,,,,,now no more post from me on this regionalism issue



Deepika unn JATS ko samjha do fir ke ye tuche hathkandey nahi apnaaney chahiye....par UNKO to khud paa hona chahiye....THEY HAVE BEEN HERE MUCH BEFORE U AND I CAME TO JATLAND:mad:AAND PLEASE AVOID USING THIS RED FACE:o< This will express and we know u r upset and we'll understand:D

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 10:26 AM
Deepika the other thread got closed before we could support in this cause. Then Mukesh Samota Ji posted her e-mail....Now if you know that someone has been writing to Moderators against you, Will you support that member? Still i discussed this matter with Satyeshwar on G-talk. Now like an Idiot should i paste that chat session over here to prove that i DID DISCUSS this matter? Mkesh happily pasted her e-mail here because Shweta just complained about members who are disliked by Mukesh Samota himself? If his name was in her mail, i gurantee he would never have pasted that message here.

I personally feel that a member like Shweta doesn't need anybody's UNWANTED SUPPORT and what upsets me more i thought she is as strong as me:D I thought she can fight on her own. She might be upset on reading this like she gets upset on OUR other posts she complained about, so a simple question- DO WE REALLY HAVE TO BE LIKED BY EVERYONE?

P.S.- Should you keep nagging members because their replies are not up to your expectations? Or they dont write what you want them to write?

Aali banbukk aali madam:D manne bera tha tu zarur aavaigi:D arre bebe i dint mean tht ki mukesh samota ne jo kiya woh sahi kiya....mai toh aajkal bahatma budhha seinspire hoke unki eyh ideology folow kar rahi thi ke jo agar aapko galat bolo usko kshma(maaf karo):o....mai toh aapni haryanvi jat logo ki chavvi ke baare me maddi si conscious ho rahi thi hahahahahaha.....bebe u r right par hum agar jayada react karange toh apna e nuksaam kara haan.:o:o:o:o

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 10:27 AM
Sachin jee mahara ek maharathi e kaafi hai saari sena nai chitt mai,aapke yogdaan ki zarurat koni iss yudh mai hahahahahahaha....issliye aap mat thao banduk plz....i agree tht u and sunita and other ppl who have raised this issue are right...par ibb kitne bai chaum aaoge ibb mukesh samota nai?:p:o



Respected Maa'm,

Ek baat jara dhyaan dene ki hai,,,,,Mukesh ne issue raise kiyaa Shweta Dhaka ke Ban ko lekar,,,,,,to phir ye Haryana waali baat kaise Mukesh Samota ke dimaag mein aagayi,,,,,

agar ye bhi maan le ki Mukesh ne gusse(anger) mein aakar likh diyaa,,,,to phir Shweta ke Ban aur Haryana ka kyaa relation....gusse mein kuchh aur likh deta,,,,

I think Mukesh Samota acted because of some deep rooted regional hatred, which he should have not done,,,,,,

JAT Ekta Jindaabaad:rock

PS:- I have made my stand amply clear ,,,,,now no more post from me on this regionalism issue

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 10:32 AM
yaar i wasn't aware if this coldwar....isske liye right thing tht i think u wud have done was...u shud have started a thread by pasting the statement made by mkuesh samota:Di hope manne teri taayio ek aur thread likhan ka topic nai diya ho:p:D....I know u r sensible and mature and i trust u tht u must have discussed this with satyeshwar.par baat transperency ki ho rahi thi ibb u regionwise aala issue kyukar ek dum aa gaya beech mai i was surprised to see tht....issi baat nai hai pyar manne bhi utna e hai haryana tai jibbe mai yaahdai malaysia mai bhi inn chinese logga nai harynvai gaal bakya karu jee bhar kai:D




Deepika the other thread got closed before we could support in this cause. Then Mukesh Samota Ji posted her e-mail....Now if you know that someone has been writing to Moderators against you, Will you support that member? Still i discussed this matter with Satyeshwar on G-talk. Now like an Idiot should i paste that chat session over here to prove that i DID DISCUSS this matter? Mkesh happily pasted her e-mail here because Shweta just complained about members who are disliked by Mukesh Samota himself? If his name was in her mail, i gurantee he would never have pasted that message here.

I personally feel that a member like Shweta doesn't need anybody's UNWANTED SUPPORT and what upsets me more i thought she is as strong as me:D I thought she can fight on her own. She might upset on reading this like she gets upset on OUR other posts she complained about, so a simple question- DO WE REALLY HAVE TO BE LIKED BY EVERYONE?

loginrahul
February 18th, 2009, 12:05 PM
I support Satyeshwat on this issue.....

I feel she took infraction in very revolting manner. Every one here gets infraction. But people take that in sportive way and move along, they don’t ask for a ban or a name change:confused:.

Mukesh it would have been better if you would have pasted the post from where all this started not just the mail from Shweta. As that’s the starting point which made all this hatred in the Jatland.

And yeah, I feel we should be fighting over the sin and decide the sinner later.


Thanks!!

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 12:07 PM
Shweta ke Ban ka issue thaa to phir isme Haryana Jat waali baat kahaan se aagayi,,,jara ek baar puchhana Mukesh Samota se,,,kyaa thaa uske dil mein,,,,,,,,,

Bhai Sachin, I think I already explained in my earlier reply that why did I use Haryana word in my last thread and I have even expressed sorry if it sounds offending or dividing...

I failed to understand why are you still making an issue out it? Don’t you understand the meaning of sorry?

Ya koi personal dushmani nikalni hai mere sath to nue bata dyoo..

It looks like your intention of dragging this thread to another side by raising the same thing again and again is something different, that I have somewhat guessed but I won’t waste my time in replying to you,

This is my last reply to you. Now you are free to write whatever you want.

maie bi janta hoo ki moderators ka job itna asan nai hai aur galti hoti bi hai.. lakin jo bi rules ho sabi members ke liye ek saman hone chaiye..aisa nai ki ek to warning de ke chod do aur dusre ki wat laga do.. pichle do char time mods ne aisa hi kiya unhone aise kai unwanted replies ko to ignore kar diya, they took no action lakin usi particular matter maie dusre member ko yaa to infraction de diya ya phir ban kar diya..

Law se upar koi nai hona chaiye..jo bi galti kare us par action lena chaiye chahe koi bi hoo & yehi baat Shweta kehna chah rehi thi apni mail maie aur reply maie Mods ne sirf bann wala button daba diya..

Is it justifiable?

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 12:43 PM
areee maan jaao thaam....yu ke raagad tha diya thaamne..haryana , UP, rajasthan...............aade pehle bhi yudh ho liya isske upper..........eibb raahan do issne............bas eibb to ek hi baat hai ki shweta ko kheench -taan ke hulti bula lyo................

P.S. for mukesh samota aur deepika : , aap bhej dyo message shweta ne ek uski jatland pe sab baat johan laag re hai.........taawli si waaps aa ja wa...aur jo na bhej sakte majhe uski email ID de dyo.............

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 01:53 PM
Can i say something in context to Shweta Ji's e-mail sent to moderators? I want to reply as much as i can being UNBIASED:) first few threads just to prove that all like humor and time-pass then why to point fingers at others?>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
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Its not Shweta’s fault that she became member of this site just a l’il bit late or she could be able to read these threads-

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14276- Most humorous Thread I believe and Shweta must agree to this.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13703- A ridiculous thread whatelse?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25008- Ye bhi shayad Shweta Ji ko kafi pasand aayega, reason she knows

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22374 - ye hai TIME-PASS mein most humorous thread….jiss sey ab Mukesh Samota Ji ko itni allergy hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11110 - Ek ye hai Fake-Ids par ho-halla
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11065 - Ye REGIONALISM ke naam par guhaar lagatey aur khud hi fir NAME CHANGE suggestion dete aur sorry bolltey.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11037 - Ye HUMOR Jo aaj-kal unse hazam nahi hota…..Bhagwan jane kyu?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23669 - Wah-Wah TIME-PASS ka badhiya namoona hai ….aise faddu ideas to hume ab aane lage hain.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23624 - Jatland was dying but how is it STILL ALIVE?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23505 - Iss “FUN” ki SHweta Ji aur aap sab bhi jarur kaayal hongey

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22640- Yahan par KISSI TARAH KI” double standard approach ki baat kahi gayi hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=21729 - Oh no fir se TIME-PASS

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13363 - Humor ka ek uttkrisht namoona

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12323 - Shayad ye time-pass nahi tha still people failed to understand hence no reply

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12116 - SENIOR MEMBERS ke naam ek aur guhar….ek member ne reply dita who bhi Mkesh Ji se junior nikla

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12069 - Ye GENERAL TALK ka vishay tha ya TIME-PASS ka aap decide karo….. Aise hi kitney threads hain jo ki FIZOOL ke hain par ATTENTION sirf 5-7 members ke threads ko hi milta hai? Kyu???? Do we really deserve the kind of attention we are given? If No then why to keep attacking on US….IF NO THEN WHY TO KEEP CRYING AND MOURNING?

Iss thread “'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?' se Lekhika Shweta Ji ko kya problem thi? Agar unko majak samjh nahi aata to kya ye meri problem hai. Maine to unka ye majak samjhney ki bharpoor koshish kee thi….

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26014 - Unke humor ko kis ki buri nazar lag gayi?


What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?'

, 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' iss shabd mein aise kya objectionable baat hai jo ye unko footti aankh nahi suhaya?

Ab ye GOLDEN WORDS….not again and again for Christ’s sake…. Likh kaun raha hai hamari Shweta Ji….do I need to tell guys ?

Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!<<<< Humney bhi itney saal ki observation se seekha hi hai aur yahin seekha hai....ab seekhney ko kuch bacha nahi hai to time-pass kartey hian....unko iss mein bhi problem hai:o


Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !

Ab iss puraney shabd “THEY” ki ek naye sandarbh mein prayunkti…. Jit Ji ney apne Mama Ji ko respect den eke liye kee….If somebody like Shweta Ji didn’t laugh at it It’ll be SHOCK OF MY LIFE…. And if all justify the usage was CORRECT then why cant WE use it????

I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words.

Agar Shweta Ji ney ACTUALLY UNN logon ke visitor messages padhey hain to unko “VOLCANIC HEAT” ki utpatti ka gyan to ho hi gaya hoga.

And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat',

The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully
Agar Shweta Ji ney apna dhyan sirf “CAMEL RIDE” and “COOL” par hi kendrit nahi kia hota to unko ek aur word “MENDAKK” nazar aata….jo ki CAMEL shabd ki prayukti se pahley prayog kiya gaya tha…. But you know ‘WE SEE WHAT WE WANT TO SEE OR MAY BE SHOWN TO US” Agar Jit Ji kisiko "MENDAKK" kah rahe the to ye SHWETA JI ney samjhney ki tanik bhi aavshyakta nahi samjhi aur "CAMEL RIDE" ka lutf utha liya....human nature hai....Opps rather Demon nature....as she would say so.

'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer !


Shweta Ji ye word KHOONI nahi tha KHOONDI BHEET tha….is sey Pakistani uss par chadh na payein….har koyi apne caliber ke hisab se likhega na? Sab ki tarah Sachin ney bhi apna suggestion diya tha….sabko pasand aaye ye jaruri to nahi?
– and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!

This was indeed worth seeking a SUPPORT….where were you MUKESH JI?????
And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.

Yahan par aapney RAMAYAN ya MAHABHARAT ko madde-nazar rakhtey huay likha hai shayad….
And once again the evil won over the good as usual.

Lagta hai unn logon ko fansi pe chadhney se hi JATLAND ka sudhar ho payega

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 02:01 PM
Bhai Sorry ka matlab to manne bera se,,,khoob bera se,,,,,,tere gelyaa kyaanki personal dushmani,,,,,,hamne to koye kisse to dushmani nahi bhai,,,,,,,ye to tam kaadhan laag rhe se personal dushmani and so called Intellectualls,,,,,Male Vs Females aur Boys vs Girls aale thread mein posts bhaand ke aapne aap ne Intellectuals samjhan laag jyaa se,,,,if these are the important issue for some intellectual then we find some other things important

baaki ya shweta aali puri post chep ke Mukesh Bhai ne badhiyaa karryaaa:D,,,,kam te kam intellectuals ke ho se vo to bera paat gyaaa:D

Mhaara jo jee karre se vaa likhyaa saa pher kyun kisse ne takleef se,,,,bata de ib tain koye galat baat likhi ho,,,,jo bi karya se light humor mein kaaryaa se,,,,ar mhaare upar kisse ne comment maarre se to unka jawab bi bilkul aapne JAT style mein diyaa se,,,hamne koye bura nahi maanyaa,,,,,,,,,

Hope you understand the meaning of Intellectual- Can a person be intellectual who get perturbed so easily,,,,,,can a person be an intellectual who sees values in his oppinions but find fault with others posts and call them humbug,,,,,,,can that person be called an intellectual who looses patience so easily

Jo likhani thi thok baja ke likh di ar bhai jiska ji karre vo bhi likh diye mere upar thok baja ke,,,,,,haade baat-baat pe roya ar jheekhyaa na karte,,,,,saari cheeja ke jawab kati dene aavve se aur binaa gaali-galoch ke:rock

JAT Ekta Jindabaad:rock



I failed to understand why are you still making an issue out it? Don’t you understand the meaning of sorry?

Ya koi personal dushmani nikalni hai mere sath to nue bata dyoo..

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 02:03 PM
I could not paste Shweta Ji's some humorous/ time-pass threads as the message can't be longer than 10000 words. Now request to ALL WORTHY MEMBERS....please don't try to prove that what is the motto of my presence here on JL....you all already know it....PURE TIME-PASS and do lot of blah-blah which fortunately many members understand cuz we are like-minded and it proves i'm normal:)
Can i say something in context to Shweta Ji's e-mail sent to moderators? I want to reply as much as i can being UNBIASED:) first few threads just to prove that all like humor and time-pass then why to point fingers at others?>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
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Its not Shweta’s fault that she became member of this site just a l’il bit late or she could be able to read these threads-

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14276- Most humorous Thread I believe and Shweta must agree to this.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13703- A ridiculous thread whatelse?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25008- Ye bhi shayad Shweta Ji ko kafi pasand aayega, reason she knows

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22374 - ye hai TIME-PASS mein most humorous thread….jiss sey ab Mukesh Samota Ji ko itni allergy hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11110 - Ek ye hai Fake-Ids par ho-halla
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11065 - Ye REGIONALISM ke naam par guhaar lagatey aur khud hi fir NAME CHANGE suggestion dete aur sorry bolltey.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11037 - Ye HUMOR Jo aaj-kal unse hazam nahi hota…..Bhagwan jane kyu?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23669 - Wah-Wah TIME-PASS ka badhiya namoona hai ….aise faddu ideas to hume ab aane lage hain.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23624 - Jatland was dying but how is it STILL ALIVE?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23505 - Iss “FUN” ki SHweta Ji aur aap sab bhi jarur kaayal hongey

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22640- Yahan par KISSI TARAH KI” double standard approach ki baat kahi gayi hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=21729 - Oh no fir se TIME-PASS

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13363 - Humor ka ek uttkrisht namoona

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12323 - Shayad ye time-pass nahi tha still people failed to understand hence no reply

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12116 - SENIOR MEMBERS ke naam ek aur guhar….ek member ne reply diya who bhi Mkesh Ji se junior nikla----Joining date ke hisab se

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12069 - Ye GENERAL TALK ka vishay tha ya TIME-PASS ka aap decide karo….. Aise hi kitney threads hain jo ki FIZOOL ke hain par ATTENTION sirf 5-7 members ke threads ko hi milta hai? Kyu???? Do we really deserve the kind of attention we are given? If No then why to keep attacking on US….IF NO THEN WHY TO KEEP CRYING AND MOURNING?

Iss thread “'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?' se Lekhika Shweta Ji ko kya problem thi? Agar unko majak samjh nahi aata to kya ye meri problem hai. Maine to unka ye majak samjhney ki bharpoor koshish kee thi….

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26014 - Unke humor ko kis ki buri nazar lag gayi?


What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?'

, 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' iss shabd mein aise kya objectionable baat hai jo ye unko footti aankh nahi suhaya?

Ab ye GOLDEN WORDS….not again and again for Christ’s sake…. Likh kaun raha hai hamari Shweta Ji….do I need to tell guys ?

Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!<<<< Humney bhi itney saal ki observation se seekha hi hai aur yahin seekha hai....ab seekhney ko kuch bacha nahi hai to time-pass kartey hian....unko iss mein bhi problem hai:o


Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !

Ab iss puraney shabd “THEY” ki ek naye sandarbh mein prayunkti…. Jit Ji ney apne Mama Ji ko respect den eke liye kee….If somebody like Shweta Ji didn’t laugh at it It’ll be SHOCK OF MY LIFE…. And if all justify the usage was CORRECT then why cant WE use it????

I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words.

Agar Shweta Ji ney ACTUALLY UNN logon ke visitor messages padhey hain to unko “VOLCANIC HEAT” ki utpatti ka gyan to ho hi gaya hoga.

And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat',

The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully
Agar Shweta Ji ney apna dhyan sirf “CAMEL RIDE” and “COOL” par hi kendrit nahi kia hota to unko ek aur word “MENDAKK” nazar aata….jo ki CAMEL shabd ki prayukti se pahley prayog kiya gaya tha…. But you know ‘WE SEE WHAT WE WANT TO SEE OR MAY BE SHOWN TO US” Agar Jit Ji kisiko "MENDAKK" kah rahe the to ye SHWETA JI ney samjhney ki tanik bhi aavshyakta nahi samjhi aur "CAMEL RIDE" ka lutf utha liya....human nature hai....Opps rather Demon nature....as she would say so.

'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer !


Shweta Ji ye word KHOONI nahi tha KHOONDI BHEET tha….is sey Pakistani uss par chadh na payein….har koyi apne caliber ke hisab se likhega na? Sab ki tarah Sachin ney bhi apna suggestion diya tha….sabko pasand aaye ye jaruri to nahi?
– and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!

This was indeed worth seeking a SUPPORT….where were you MUKESH JI?????
And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.

Yahan par aapney RAMAYAN ya MAHABHARAT ko madde-nazar rakhtey huay likha hai shayad….
And once again the evil won over the good as usual.

Lagta hai unn logon ko fansi pe chadhney se hi JATLAND ka sudhar ho payega

And now I find it useless that you can be able to distinguish between 'being against the moderators' & 'being not convinced with the ways & means of voluntary application of irrational policies'.

It isn't so difficult to apply some rational policies, but it's a sad fact that more than half of the moderators are mere spectators/sleeping beauties !

Finally, I quit.

I no longer wish to be part of this portal, even it would fill me with agony to see my name appear in the list of members at such a place.

Kindly change my name on my profile to 'Shailja Singh' and accord me a Ban or whatever and absolve me of the sin I did & kept on believing that you people will evolve & come out of the shell of redundant policies.

Regards,

Shweta123

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 02:06 PM
Can i say something in context to Shweta Ji's e-mail sent to moderators? I want to reply as much as i can being UNBIASED:) first few threads just to prove that all like humor and time-pass then why to point fingers at others?

Best reply Bebbey !!!

yudhvirmor
February 18th, 2009, 02:06 PM
Can i say something in context to Shweta Ji's e-mail sent to moderators? I want to reply as much as i can being UNBIASED:) first few threads just to prove that all like humor and time-pass then why to point fingers at others?
Shweta123

yaa toh CBI alli report laga see.. Itne detail.. Jee ek baar apni time sheet bhejana mere koo iss week ke

I totaly agree... Success lies in details :)

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 02:24 PM
Yudhvir....yo tai 5 % sai....pahlya mai itni mehnat na karya karu thi nyu soch kai akk maada makholl karna sai arr hansna-bollna sai par aade to jamma- घिट्टी मै गुठा देण नै होरे सें.... माड़े- माड़े दिना मै इन् कै या शिर्ड उभर्या करे
yaa toh CBI alli report laga see.. Itne detail.. Jee ek baar apni time sheet bhejana mere koo iss week ke

I totaly agree... Success lies in details :)

dndeswal
February 18th, 2009, 02:27 PM
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आंहे सुनीता, तू तो लिंक देने में सबको पीछे छोड़ गई ! कितनी मेहनत लगी होगी इसमें !

मुकेश भाई - बस, ज्यादा पोस्ट लिखने से कोई फायदा नहीं होगा । ठीक है, "हरयाणा-वाद" वगैरा आपका लक्ष्य नहीं था, पर सुनीता ने इस बारे में जो विचार लिखे हैं, वे भी गौर फरमाने लायक हैं । इस क्षेत्रीयतावाद के मुद्दे को भूल जाना ही अच्छा है ।

अब बाकी जवाब तलब बंद करो - श्वेता से कह दो कि वो वापिस आने के लिए Mods को अपना अनुरोध भेज दे । इसको वे टालेंगे नहीं, जैसा कि सत्येश्वर ने ऊपर लिख ही दिया है ।

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deepika
February 18th, 2009, 02:30 PM
Is this some kind of mud slinging going on or wot......bebe manne nai bera tanne itni mehnat kyu kari akk itni saari threads tohi....PHD karaigi ke inn threads pai:D.....bebe Shweta ka toh bera nai par ek baat mai batau...to be very honest when i saw this thread "Ban hona sukh hai ya dukh" i also found it awkward....har koi toh ban hoya nai ki bata dega ki how it feels aur issliye(if u remember) i posted a quote ki bebe humnai na bera tanne jyada bera hoga kyunki tanne request karkai ban liya tha....bebe bura na maaniye i also dint find anything humurous in tht thread to b very honest arr dusra 'Bhoori bhoori peendi" bhai yash nai likhya tha arr cha joke tha but again title was not apt it wud have been 'BAALTODD' m sure u have read tht joke....now to summarize it all i wud remind u of a statement tht u gave yesterday while replying to a quote posted by Kapil Dalal...YOU CANT FORCE PEOPLE TO SEE THE WORLD WITH UR EYES:o:o.....when u said she wrote something against u in d mail i read her mail again and din't find anything written against u...now i got it why u are pissed off:eek:....aur haan Shweta ki threads kisi bhi ho par iss baat mai koi shakk na rakhiye bebe ke she is a proficient writer here on jatland and its not possible for most of the jatlanders to match her writing skills n to beat her.
P.S-DONT THINK I AM BIASED ITS MY PERSONAL OPINION






Can i say something in context to Shweta Ji's e-mail sent to moderators? I want to reply as much as i can being UNBIASED:) first few threads just to prove that all like humor and time-pass then why to point fingers at others?>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
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Its not Shweta’s fault that she became member of this site just a l’il bit late or she could be able to read these threads-

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14276- Most humorous Thread I believe and Shweta must agree to this.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13703- A ridiculous thread whatelse?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25008- Ye bhi shayad Shweta Ji ko kafi pasand aayega, reason she knows

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22374 - ye hai TIME-PASS mein most humorous thread….jiss sey ab Mukesh Samota Ji ko itni allergy hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11110 - Ek ye hai Fake-Ids par ho-halla
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11065 - Ye REGIONALISM ke naam par guhaar lagatey aur khud hi fir NAME CHANGE suggestion dete aur sorry bolltey.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11037 - Ye HUMOR Jo aaj-kal unse hazam nahi hota…..Bhagwan jane kyu?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23669 - Wah-Wah TIME-PASS ka badhiya namoona hai ….aise faddu ideas to hume ab aane lage hain.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23624 - Jatland was dying but how is it STILL ALIVE?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23505 - Iss “FUN” ki SHweta Ji aur aap sab bhi jarur kaayal hongey

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22640- Yahan par KISSI TARAH KI” double standard approach ki baat kahi gayi hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=21729 - Oh no fir se TIME-PASS

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13363 - Humor ka ek uttkrisht namoona

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12323 - Shayad ye time-pass nahi tha still people failed to understand hence no reply

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12116 - SENIOR MEMBERS ke naam ek aur guhar….ek member ne reply dita who bhi Mkesh Ji se junior nikla

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12069 - Ye GENERAL TALK ka vishay tha ya TIME-PASS ka aap decide karo….. Aise hi kitney threads hain jo ki FIZOOL ke hain par ATTENTION sirf 5-7 members ke threads ko hi milta hai? Kyu???? Do we really deserve the kind of attention we are given? If No then why to keep attacking on US….IF NO THEN WHY TO KEEP CRYING AND MOURNING?

Iss thread “'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?' se Lekhika Shweta Ji ko kya problem thi? Agar unko majak samjh nahi aata to kya ye meri problem hai. Maine to unka ye majak samjhney ki bharpoor koshish kee thi….

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26014 - Unke humor ko kis ki buri nazar lag gayi?


What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?'

, 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' iss shabd mein aise kya objectionable baat hai jo ye unko footti aankh nahi suhaya?

Ab ye GOLDEN WORDS….not again and again for Christ’s sake…. Likh kaun raha hai hamari Shweta Ji….do I need to tell guys ?

Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!<<<< Humney bhi itney saal ki observation se seekha hi hai aur yahin seekha hai....ab seekhney ko kuch bacha nahi hai to time-pass kartey hian....unko iss mein bhi problem hai:o


Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !

Ab iss puraney shabd “THEY” ki ek naye sandarbh mein prayunkti…. Jit Ji ney apne Mama Ji ko respect den eke liye kee….If somebody like Shweta Ji didn’t laugh at it It’ll be SHOCK OF MY LIFE…. And if all justify the usage was CORRECT then why cant WE use it????

I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words.

Agar Shweta Ji ney ACTUALLY UNN logon ke visitor messages padhey hain to unko “VOLCANIC HEAT” ki utpatti ka gyan to ho hi gaya hoga.

And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat',

The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully
Agar Shweta Ji ney apna dhyan sirf “CAMEL RIDE” and “COOL” par hi kendrit nahi kia hota to unko ek aur word “MENDAKK” nazar aata….jo ki CAMEL shabd ki prayukti se pahley prayog kiya gaya tha…. But you know ‘WE SEE WHAT WE WANT TO SEE OR MAY BE SHOWN TO US” Agar Jit Ji kisiko "MENDAKK" kah rahe the to ye SHWETA JI ney samjhney ki tanik bhi aavshyakta nahi samjhi aur "CAMEL RIDE" ka lutf utha liya....human nature hai....Opps rather Demon nature....as she would say so.

'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer !


Shweta Ji ye word KHOONI nahi tha KHOONDI BHEET tha….is sey Pakistani uss par chadh na payein….har koyi apne caliber ke hisab se likhega na? Sab ki tarah Sachin ney bhi apna suggestion diya tha….sabko pasand aaye ye jaruri to nahi?
– and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!

This was indeed worth seeking a SUPPORT….where were you MUKESH JI?????
And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.

Yahan par aapney RAMAYAN ya MAHABHARAT ko madde-nazar rakhtey huay likha hai shayad….
And once again the evil won over the good as usual.

Lagta hai unn logon ko fansi pe chadhney se hi JATLAND ka sudhar ho payega

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 02:32 PM
Mukesh samota .........where are you?....why are u hiding behind the curtain now..why did u started a thread when u cann't reply the ppl 's question.....As shweta is not here, person who has started the thread, should reply. If you pasted the mails stuff, u are the person who should reply on behalf of shweta.
As far as i think, in her entire period on JL, shweta did n't say anything illogical here .I know if shweta would be here, she had reverted back in the graceful manner ...and I don't undertsand why the ppl are beating drums in her absence...:(...Let's wait until she comes back

yudhvirmor
February 18th, 2009, 02:36 PM
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आंहे सुनीता, तू तो लिंक देने में सबको पीछे छोड़ गई ! कितनी मेहनत ता से कह दो कि वो वापिस आने के लिए Mods को अपना अनुरोध भेज दे । इसको वे टालेंगे नहीं, जैसा कि सत्येश्वर ने ऊपर लिख ही दिया है ।
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Chalo vatvaran ko thanda karne ke liye ek joke likhta hoon...

Ek bai ek bahamni ka byah hoga... Sanj hoyii.. aur uski sasu boli uste.. Ek Darwaje ke bech main ek khaaat gal dee

Bahamni bhi nahin bhau thee kuch system bera naa thaa.. Wah boli ek Darwaje ke beech main kyon???

Sasu boli uski...Tera susra awega JATAN ke byah main jeem kaa ar muskil teh dael (chukhat) lega

Bahamni chutaye boli... BASSS.. Mere babu nee toh khaat main gaal ke laya karen...

Disclaimer: Its not a non-jat joke kyonki byah Jatan kee thaa :D:D

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 02:38 PM
Sir aapse hi seekha hai:) aap to guiding light hain;)

Baki Shweta ko mai as a writer appreciate karti hoon aur ussey yahan par wapas aana chahiye.

Moderators please bring her back.


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आंहे सुनीता, तू तो लिंक देने में सबको पीछे छोड़ गई ! कितनी मेहनत लगी होगी इसमें !

मुकेश भाई - बस, ज्यादा पोस्ट लिखने से कोई फायदा नहीं होगा । ठीक है, "हरयाणा-वाद" वगैरा आपका लक्ष्य नहीं था, पर सुनीता ने इस बारे में जो विचार लिखे हैं, वे भी गौर फरमाने लायक हैं । इस क्षेत्रीयतावाद के मुद्दे को भूल जाना ही अच्छा है ।

अब बाकी जवाब तलब बंद करो - श्वेता से कह दो कि वो वापिस आने के लिए Mods को अपना अनुरोध भेज दे । इसको वे टालेंगे नहीं, जैसा कि सत्येश्वर ने ऊपर लिख ही दिया है ।

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deepika
February 18th, 2009, 02:38 PM
Arr teri ya laambi si quote padh kai manne purra purra shakk hai akk tu moderator banan ke chakkar mai hai:d rehan de makhha:d



i could not paste shweta ji's some humorous/ time-pass threads as the message can't be longer than 10000 words. Now request to all worthy members....please don't try to prove that what is the motto of my presence here on jl....you all already know it....pure time-pass and do lot of blah-blah which fortunately many members understand cuz we are like-minded and it proves i'm normal:)

sunitahooda
February 18th, 2009, 02:43 PM
Yo Sattey banataye na manne...kai bai kah lee akk tum ek mojij moderatrrni tai mehroom so:D ib tai ye thalli mai naariya tekk kai aave to bi na bannu mai....gull bochnna pade sai fer seeng na uljha saktey:o
Arr teri ya laambi si quote padh kai manne purra purra shakk hai akk tu moderator banan ke chakkar mai hai:d rehan de makhha:d

sumitsehrawat
February 18th, 2009, 02:43 PM
Those trying to scrutinize Shweta’s email they can ask her once she is back, if she’s back. Who else are you writing for? Be direct! This thread is about the wrong decision that Administrator made by banning Shweta… please don’t derail it.

************************************************** **********************

Please go through these two posts from Satyeshwar…
1.Post 83 in http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26104&page=6
2.Post 25 in http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26567&page=2

There is one thing which is common here. Satyeshwar has this sick habit of writing bad about people when they are banned and can’t even reply back. He thinks he can say anything and get away by closing the thread. Previously when I found loopholes I wrote about it openly in JL thread “Is fakeID a solid reason to make you banned permanently”… but Satyeshwar never replied and then when I almost forced him he banned me by forming a sudden new policy of “From now on, we will change everyone's names as per their request but the name change will come with a ban of 1 year” [Source: http://www.jatland.com/forums/showpost.php?p=192826&postcount=83]

I won’t go much into details about what actually happened, for the whole story one can read posts 9, 10, 11 here http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26258. I tried to play down my disappointment with Satyeshwar’s actions then… he had even called me a ‘joker’. This ultimately left a mark in a way and I started joking in almost every thread since then. I also targeted Mr Dev Dahiya (the real ‘bhediya’ @ JL) and Mr Jit Takhar (the biggest snoop @ JL) for their fake personalities (not fakeIDs) on JL. I have proofs (in abundance) for the same. Satyeshwar’s action hurt me then but I moved along and did not crib much about him adamantly and fallaciously banning me. Whatever justification I asked I asked through personal emails. I still have then along with Yahoo server’s timings and a few JL activity screenshots. Did I ever make them public??? What kind of stupid way was that when Satyeshwar used excerpts from Shweta’s email (personal conversation) to support his lame argument? This is the second time that I know he’s played as a trickster. Picking up one sentence and casually ignoring the other much related ones. Sick!

Coming back to Shweta’s case. According to me she’s one of the most genuine and worthy members of JL. And, it is well known. I won’t write much about her otherwise JL server would crash down. A few days back, Shweta asked Satyeshwar to change her name and ban her according to that ‘then sudden’ policy. Look at Satyeshwar’s words again “From now on, we will change everyone's names as per their request but the name change will come with a ban of 1 year”. Now what is he doing? Why on earth was this policy formed and announced if it was not to be followed? How wrong it was I had asked that time also… but we all moved on… and now I have the another related question to Satyeshwar… “Why don’t you follow your own policies?”

I don’t know about Satyeshwar in person but I’ve heard from many people that he’s a nice guy. Maybe he is and he’s worked just okay as an administrator… he HAS MADE SOME HORRIBLE DECISIONS that have no base…. banning Shweta for life is major one of them. She was ready to take one year ban for the name change… Why do you form such policies when you don’t really mean it, Satyeshwar????? Time and again you have acted in haste without even giving it much thought.

Why do you want Shweta to write to you about her coming back here on JL? Why DON’T YOU APOLOGISE TO HER for not working in accordance to your own policies and making her a scapegoat?

Why did you copy-pasted excerpts from your conversation with Shweta in PM or personal email? If you were right you could have convinced people with your words… you would not have gone CHEAP.

When members are wrong and out of control then they are banned… who bans you when you make atrocious mistakes like this?? What Law and order do you talk about??? For your own sake… retrospect!

I have only one thing to say to Satyeshwar…. Forget lifetime or 1 year… please BAN YOURSELF for 1 week and see how it feels. And for everyone’s sake stop playing with people’s emotions!

I was in no mood to spare them but then I think its time for Mr Dev Dahiya and Mr Jit Takhar to breathe. I wrote to you earlier also and I am writing again… change my name to Sumit Singh and ban me forever and I shall never come back to this website. Don’t ask me WHY I want it? Do as per your policy. You only made it right… now people should also not ask why they ask for name change… they should ask WHY THIS POLICY? And it’s not impossible to answer that…

I promised earlier also in a PM that if you change my name and ban me I will never return… now I have got to know that you turn your back within a blink of an eye… I don’t care about my name change and I don’t care about the ban… do as what you like….. I will not return here again. And if I am a man, I would do what I said and not go as cheap as making fakeIDs just like one of your HOLY members Mr Dev Dahiya does time and again. When was he given a ban??????????????? Help your relatives and help your friends Satyeshwar… and cheat others as per your whims. Sick!

I understand it my loss and I would definitely miss JL but then I am okay with it. Its just NOT my style to be wrongly dragged by wrong hands. I have made some good friends here… and a couple of them are moderators now… I hope I would be as honest in their eyes as I ever was. And, I am sorry to those good people who I would miss a chance to interact with… Btw… I appreciate the tag ‘joker’ that he once gave me… forces me to smile :)! When you call me Joker then why don’t you change my name and ID to joker here?

That’s all that I want to say. I will not be here to reply to any queries or accusations on me. However, if anyone has any then I could be contacted on my personal email-Id which can be taken from any of my friends. I don’t want to disclose it here in public. Satyeshwar has expertise in revealing PM/email conversations and maybe he would only give my email-id here. Hell, I don’t trust him anymore! And, please I don’t want anyone to write to me about coming back here… I will not! please respect my decision.

Satyeshwar, I have spoken about your recent ‘form’ as an administrator not as a person… for I know nothing about it. As for your recent action, I think you should personally apologize and graciously welcome back Shweta here. Unfortunately, I wouldn’t be here to see that but I hope in future you understand the gravity of one’s displeasure on some issue and don’t take real horrible decisions making others suffer emotionally. I am saying because once I have suffered because of your one unjust action.

In the end I would like to repeat... Shweta is one of the most genuine and very worthy members of JL.

Last but not the least… it’s time for all of us to get some morals… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-cvc22vSFQ

P.S.: not-so-dear Administrator, I know now you would go ahead and delete this post as well. Please dont do it...

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 02:56 PM
Those trying to scrutinize Shweta’s email they can ask her once she is back, if she’s back. Who else are you writing for? Be direct! This thread is about the wrong decision that Administrator made by banning Shweta… please don’t derail it.

************************************************** **********************

Please go through these two posts from Satyeshwar…
1.Post 83 in http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26104&page=6
2.Post 25 in http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26567&page=2

There is one thing which is common here. Satyeshwar has this sick habit of writing bad about people when they are banned and can’t even reply back. He thinks he can say anything and get away by closing the thread. Previously when I found loopholes I wrote about it openly in JL thread “Is fakeID a solid reason to make you banned permanently”… but Satyeshwar never replied and then when I almost forced him he banned me by forming a sudden new policy of “From now on, we will change everyone's names as per their request but the name change will come with a ban of 1 year” [Source: http://www.jatland.com/forums/showpost.php?p=192826&postcount=83]

I won’t go much into details about what actually happened, for the whole story one can read posts 9, 10, 11 here http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26258. I tried to play down my disappointment with Satyeshwar’s actions then… he had even called me a ‘joker’. This ultimately left a mark in a way and I started joking in almost every thread since then. I also targeted Mr Dev Dahiya (the real ‘bhediya’ @ JL) and Mr Jit Takhar (the biggest snoop @ JL) for their fake personalities (not fakeIDs) on JL. I have proofs (in abundance) for the same. Satyeshwar’s action hurt me then but I moved along and did not crib much about him adamantly and fallaciously banning me. Whatever justification I asked I asked through personal emails. I still have then along with Yahoo server’s timings and a few JL activity screenshots. Did I ever make them public??? What kind of stupid way was that when Satyeshwar used excerpts from Shweta’s email (personal conversation) to support his lame argument? This is the second time that I know he’s played as a trickster. Picking up one sentence and casually ignoring the other much related ones. Sick!

Coming back to Shweta’s case. According to me she’s one of the most genuine and worthy members of JL. And, it is well known. I won’t write much about her otherwise JL server would crash down. A few days back, Shweta asked Satyeshwar to change her name and ban her according to that ‘then sudden’ policy. Look at Satyeshwar’s words again “From now on, we will change everyone's names as per their request but the name change will come with a ban of 1 year”. Now what is he doing? Why on earth was this policy formed and announced if it was not to be followed? How wrong it was I had asked that time also… but we all moved on… and now I have the another related question to Satyeshwar… “Why don’t you follow your own policies?”

I don’t know about Satyeshwar in person but I’ve heard from many people that he’s a nice guy. Maybe he is and he’s worked just okay as an administrator… he HAS MADE SOME HORRIBLE DECISIONS that have no base…. banning Shweta for life is major one of them. She was ready to take one year ban for the name change… Why do you form such policies when you don’t really mean it, Satyeshwar????? Time and again you have acted in haste without even giving it much thought.

Why do you want Shweta to write to you about her coming back here on JL? Why DON’T YOU APOLOGISE TO HER for not working in accordance to your own policies and making her a scapegoat?

Why did you copy-pasted excerpts from your conversation with Shweta in PM or personal email? If you were right you could have convinced people with your words… you would not have gone CHEAP.

When members are wrong and out of control then they are banned… who bans you when you make atrocious mistakes like this?? What Law and order do you talk about??? For your own sake… retrospect!

I have only one thing to say to Satyeshwar…. Forget lifetime or 1 year… please BAN YOURSELF for 1 week and see how it feels. And for everyone’s sake stop playing with people’s emotions!

I was in no mood to spare them but then I think its time for Mr Dev Dahiya and Mr Jit Takhar to breathe. I wrote to you earlier also and I am writing again… change my name to Sumit Singh and ban me forever and I shall never come back to this website. Don’t ask me WHY I want it? Do as per your policy. You only made it right… now people should also not ask why they ask for name change… they should ask WHY THIS POLICY? And it’s not impossible to answer that…

I promised earlier also in a PM that if you change my name and ban me I will never return… now I have got to know that you turn your back within a blink of an eye… I don’t care about my name change and I don’t care about the ban… do as what you like….. I will not return here again. And if I am a man, I would do what I said and not go as cheap as making fakeIDs just like one of your HOLY members Mr Dev Dahiya does time and again. When was he given a ban??????????????? Help your relatives and help your friends Satyeshwar… and cheat others as per your whims. Sick!

I understand it my loss and I would definitely miss JL but then I am okay with it. Its just NOT my style to be wrongly dragged by wrong hands. I have made some good friends here… and a couple of them are moderators now… I hope I would be as honest in their eyes as I ever was. And, I am sorry to those good people who I would miss a chance to interact with… Btw… I appreciate the tag ‘joker’ that he once gave me… forces me to smile :)! When you call me Joker then why don’t you change my name and ID to joker here?

That’s all that I want to say. I will not be here to reply to any queries or accusations on me. However, if anyone has any then I could be contacted on my personal email-Id which can be taken from any of my friends. I don’t want to disclose it here in public. Satyeshwar has expertise in revealing PM/email conversations and maybe he would only give my email-id here. Hell, I don’t trust him anymore! And, please I don’t want anyone to write to me about coming back here… I will not! please respect my decision.

Satyeshwar, I have spoken about your recent ‘form’ as an administrator not as a person… for I know nothing about it. As for your recent action, I think you should personally apologize and graciously welcome back Shweta here. Unfortunately, I wouldn’t be here to see that but I hope in future you understand the gravity of one’s displeasure on some issue and don’t take real horrible decisions making others suffer emotionally. I am saying because once I have suffered because of your one unjust action.

In the end I would like to repeat... Shweta is one of the most genuine and very worthy members of JL.

Last but not the least… it’s time for all of us to get some morals… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-cvc22vSFQ

P.S.: not-so-dear Administrator, I know now you would go ahead and delete this post as well. Please dont do it...

You frankly open your heart....:).. this is most logical reply on this thread....:rock:rock:rock

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 03:17 PM
Can i say something in context to Shweta Ji's e-mail sent to moderators? I want to reply as much as i can being UNBIASED:) first few threads just to prove that all like humor and time-pass then why to point fingers at others?>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
-------------------------

Its not Shweta’s fault that she became member of this site just a l’il bit late or she could be able to read these threads-

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14276- Most humorous Thread I believe and Shweta must agree to this.

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13703- A ridiculous thread whatelse?

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25008- Ye bhi shayad Shweta Ji ko kafi pasand aayega, reason she knows

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22374 - ye hai TIME-PASS mein most humorous thread….jiss sey ab Mukesh Samota Ji ko itni allergy hai

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11110 - Ek ye hai Fake-Ids par ho-halla


kye sabit karna chawo hoo..kyo kari itni mehnat in purane purane threads ko nikalne maie.... kab keha maine ki humor nai hona chaiye..lakin serious thread par bi machna chaiye ke...khair no point in arguing with you as you will never understand. chalu rakho apni ramayan..

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 03:19 PM
>>
I just saw the thread and I am surprised in a way & not surprised in another one ! Oh I cant make out exactly what I mean, but somewhere I know what I mean … he he


Well I knew something of this sort will happen but still it hurts to see people fighting this way! The newest in debate is regionalism – an unsettled issue since ages. It is an issue beyond discussions & debates, and has uncountable faces but to sum it up its not a bad term unless it results into some bad done to someone !


If I have 5 members in my family then surely I will love these 5 members more than the people belonging to any other family and there is nothing wrong with that unless I do something that hits those other people in a distasteful way. This must exist so as to make one gleefully feel strongly about being associated to something but it should not overshadow the 'humane factor' of being transparent & open hearted in our acts & deeds.


Why should one not be inclined to one's roots, language, background & the likes? But often it happens that we get so captivated by this virtual cord of belongingness that we get swayed and end up wearing glasses of regional bias. How easily this becomes out of context when we see that Mr. Satyeshwar belongs to UP, while the people supporting my cause like Deepika, Mukesh, Anil, Kapil are not from UP.


However, I too love my roots but I don't get swayed away by the darker side of it, while making my decisions. This is not the case with me, has never been & will never be. Just because I feel that everyone has a heart, a mind & a soul which knows how to read beyond the lines of regionalism, though at times we dismiss the findings & let our emotions take over pragmatism.


Anyways, issue here is that some people do follow this in a negative manner & some not, but its never a wise task to try figuring out who is who ! Needless will be this debate & lets not take it any further & give this already sour episode another blind turn ! Those who are taking their own meanings are free to do so.


I did asked for a ban (and please leave this drama over 'contact us' button ! Is this button more effective than the PM facility provided to directly contact them in any way?? This is utter absurdity, we may use this button or PM I don't think it makes any difference) but why is a thing which I have already explained clearly ia being questioned again & again. Few people seem to be busy with something else & didn't read between the lines. Anyways, I do place it in other words:


I got an infraction and it read "Inspite of giving warning you made personal comments & hence the infraction …………………". It was for 20 days (till March 2nd)

1- My first surprise was I never received any warning ! I asked them through a PM how, when & where I received a warning? Kindly forward that warning to me again.

2- My second question was I don't find it justifiable just because of the reason that there have been many threads with posts full of leg pulling, personal comments, illogical conversations, absurd subject matter & the likes, then why me? (and I am talking about the posts of members who haven't received any infraction/ban). I am not talking about Mr. Ajay.

3- It is a sad truth that rules are applied haphazardly. Can anyone deny that there are numerous threads full of nonsense posts? And I pointed out this fact to them & said that the punishment accorded to me seems not fair to me in light of the present scenario at Jatland and I wished to seek an explanation on this.

4- Last but not the least, I wrote only one post during my infraction period, a sensible one for sure, and it was not approved by moderators. Now I didn't revolted against infraction, but yes I wished to seek reason for the same and that too when I DIDN'T RECIVED ANY WARNING as was pointed out by them.


Now why I asked for a ban:


People are so happy about a 'Contact Us' button & moderators are happy in claiming that they are redressing the grievances, then why wasn't my grievances never answered at all? I was given infraction and I had above doubts, but I received NO response. I waited for 5-6 days, but in vain. I posted something, accepting the infraction but it never got approved.


What resort was left with me in a situation where I cant write anything on forums & I am not receiving any reply from our dear moderators?


I again wrote to them that if they wish to continue with the things in the way they deem fit and don't wish to redress some genuine problems then ban me as this was the last resort, and name change + 1 year Ban was the only policy I knew about voluntary banning of people !!!!! ( am surprised to hear people do bitching by saying that she may have done something wrong that's why she asked for a name change – height of pollution in minds !)

Now I see people pointing out that why I pointed out towards things like leg pulling etc when I myself do it. Well I down deny answering this too ! Rather I have put forth my views on the same many a times. I said that JL is not a class and its quite natural to get lured by emotions at times, but it doesn't means that we have to keep continuing this trail of being light across all threads. I have never demoralized anyone doing some serious discussion over here. We are not here for making 'maatam' but that doesn't mean that we make just 'mockery'. Using serious words doesn't means that one is serious, it's the script behind the words that stands tall & cant be hidden under the lame excuse of not using funny words.

We aren't here for 'maatam' but then we aren't here just for fun. There is a difference between not being serious all the times & being offending or demoralizing others. Now where to draw the line is a question which moderators need to address through clear policies which aren't there as of now, and hence the ho-halla.

PS: I didn't intend to point out towards any person, rather I pointed out towards examples of things which can easily appear to be not funny in good taste ! Fun too has a standard after all !

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 03:28 PM
[/SIZE][/FONT] Why do you want Shweta to write to you about her coming back here on JL? Why DON’T YOU APOLOGISE TO HER for not working in accordance to your own policies and making her a scapegoat? [FONT=Verdana][SIZE=3]



Exactly !! agar Mods ne rules ki according Shweta ko 1 year ke liye bann kiya hota tab to baat bi thi, us condition maie to yeh baat samaj maie ati hai ki Shweta khud mail kare ban hatwane ke liye.. lakin jab apne apni marzi chala di aur lifetime ban kar diya to phir use kyu request karni chaiye.. who want to afford such a humiliation?

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 03:31 PM
Mukesh bhai,

How would we know that this post (mail) is not from you and it is from Sweta? How to believe that someone else is not trying to shoot by keeping guns on her shouolders..

I guess best way would be that she talks to moderators directly. Only they can resolve her problem. Even we want her back... but this can happen when she resolves issues with moderators...


Regards,
Anil






>>
I just saw the thread and I am surprised in a way & not surprised in another one ! Oh I cant make out exactly what I mean, but somewhere I know what I mean … he he


Well I knew something of this sort will happen but still it hurts to see people fighting this way! The newest in debate is regionalism – an unsettled issue since ages. It is an issue beyond discussions & debates, and has uncountable faces but to sum it up its not a bad term unless it results into some bad done to someone !


If I have 5 members in my family then surely I will love these 5 members more than the people belonging to any other family and there is nothing wrong with that unless I do something that hits those other people in a distasteful way. This must exist so as to make one gleefully feel strongly about being associated to something but it should not overshadow the 'humane factor' of being transparent & open hearted in our acts & deeds.


Why should one not be inclined to one's roots, language, background & the likes? But often it happens that we get so captivated by this virtual cord of belongingness that we get swayed and end up wearing glasses of regional bias. How easily this becomes out of context when we see that Mr. Satyeshwar belongs to UP, while the people supporting my cause like Deepika, Mukesh, Anil, Kapil are not from UP.


However, I too love my roots but I don't get swayed away by the darker side of it, while making my decisions. This is not the case with me, has never been & will never be. Just because I feel that everyone has a heart, a mind & a soul which knows how to read beyond the lines of regionalism, though at times we dismiss the findings & let our emotions take over pragmatism.


Anyways, issue here is that some people do follow this in a negative manner & some not, but its never a wise task to try figuring out who is who ! Needless will be this debate & lets not take it any further & give this already sour episode another blind turn ! Those who are taking their own meanings are free to do so.


I did asked for a ban (and please leave this drama over 'contact us' button ! Is this button more effective than the PM facility provided to directly contact them in any way?? This is utter absurdity, we may use this button or PM I don't think it makes any difference) but why is a thing which I have already explained clearly ia being questioned again & again. Few people seem to be busy with something else & didn't read between the lines. Anyways, I do place it in other words:


I got an infraction and it read "Inspite of giving warning you made personal comments & hence the infraction …………………". It was for 20 days (till March 2nd)

1- My first surprise was I never received any warning ! I asked them through a PM how, when & where I received a warning? Kindly forward that warning to me again.

2- My second question was I don't find it justifiable just because of the reason that there have been many threads with posts full of leg pulling, personal comments, illogical conversations, absurd subject matter & the likes, then why me? (and I am talking about the posts of members who haven't received any infraction/ban). I am not talking about Mr. Ajay.

3- It is a sad truth that rules are applied haphazardly. Can anyone deny that there are numerous threads full of nonsense posts? And I pointed out this fact to them & said that the punishment accorded to me seems not fair to me in light of the present scenario at Jatland and I wished to seek an explanation on this.

4- Last but not the least, I wrote only one post during my infraction period, a sensible one for sure, and it was not approved by moderators. Now I didn't revolted against infraction, but yes I wished to seek reason for the same and that too when I DIDN'T RECIVED ANY WARNING as was pointed out by them.


Now why I asked for a ban:


People are so happy about a 'Contact Us' button & moderators are happy in claiming that they are redressing the grievances, then why wasn't my grievances never answered at all? I was given infraction and I had above doubts, but I received NO response. I waited for 5-6 days, but in vain. I posted something, accepting the infraction but it never got approved.


What resort was left with me in a situation where I cant write anything on forums & I am not receiving any reply from our dear moderators?


I again wrote to them that if they wish to continue with the things in the way they deem fit and don't wish to redress some genuine problems then ban me as this was the last resort, and name change + 1 year Ban was the only policy I knew about voluntary banning of people !!!!! ( am surprised to hear people do bitching by saying that she may have done something wrong that's why she asked for a name change – height of pollution in minds !)

Now I see people pointing out that why I pointed out towards things like leg pulling etc when I myself do it. Well I down deny answering this too ! Rather I have put forth my views on the same many a times. I said that JL is not a class and its quite natural to get lured by emotions at times, but it doesn't means that we have to keep continuing this trail of being light across all threads. I have never demoralized anyone doing some serious discussion over here. We are not here for making 'maatam' but that doesn't mean that we make just 'mockery'. Using serious words doesn't means that one is serious, it's the script behind the words that stands tall & cant be hidden under the lame excuse of not using funny words.

We aren't here for 'maatam' but then we aren't here just for fun. There is a difference between not being serious all the times & being offending or demoralizing others. Now where to draw the line is a question which moderators need to address through clear policies which aren't there as of now, and hence the ho-halla.

PS: I didn't intend to point out towards any person, rather I pointed out towards examples of things which can easily appear to be not funny in good taste ! Fun too has a standard after all !

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 03:34 PM
Mukesh bhai,

How would we know that this post (mail) is not from you and it is from Sweta? How to believe that someone else is not trying to shoot by keeping guns on her shouolders..

I guess best way would be that she talks to moderators directly. Only they can resolve her problem. Even we want her back... but this can happen when she resolves issues with moderators...


Regards,
Anil

le bhai anilee...teri problem eibhi solve karta hun...eibb ke ya le....signature aali.....::




I just saw the thread and I am surprised in a way & not surprised in another one ! Oh I cant make out exactly what I mean, but somewhere I know what I mean … he he

Well I knew something of this sort will happen but still it hurts to see people fighting this way! The newest in debate is regionalism – an unsettled issue since ages. It is an issue beyond discussions & debates, and has uncountable faces but to sum it up its not a bad term unless it results into some bad done to someone !

If I have 5 members in my family then surely I will love these 5 members more than the people belonging to any other family and there is nothing wrong with that unless I do something that hits those other people in a distasteful way. This must exist so as to make one gleefully feel strongly about being associated to something but it should not overshadow the 'humane factor' of being transparent & open hearted in our acts & deeds.

Why should one not be inclined to one's roots, language, background & the likes? But often it happens that we get so captivated by this virtual cord of belongingness that we get swayed and end up wearing glasses of regional bias. How easily this becomes out of context when we see that Mr. Satyeshwar belongs to UP, while the people supporting my cause like Deepika, Mukesh, Anil, Kapil are not from UP.

However, I too love my roots but I don't get swayed away by the darker side of it, while making my decisions. This is not the case with me, has never been & will never be. Just because I feel that everyone has a heart, a mind & a soul which knows how to read beyond the lines of regionalism, though at times we dismiss the findings & let our emotions take over pragmatism.

Anyways, issue here is that some people do follow this in a negative manner & some not, but its never a wise task to try figuring out who is who ! Needless will be this debate & lets not take it any further & give this already sour episode another blind turn ! Those who are taking their own meanings are free to do so.

I did asked for a ban (and please leave this drama over 'contact us' button ! Is this button more effective than the PM facility provided to directly contact them in any way?? This is utter absurdity, we may use this button or PM I don't think it makes any difference) but why is a thing which I have already explained clearly ia being questioned again & again. Few people seem to be busy with something else & didn't read between the lines. Anyways, I do place it in other words:

I got an infraction and it read "Inspite of giving warning you made personal comments & hence the infraction …………………". It was for 20 days (till March 2nd)

1- My first surprise was I never received any warning ! I asked them through a PM how, when & where I received a warning? Kindly forward that warning to me again.

2- My second question was I don't find it justifiable just because of the reason that there have been many threads with posts full of leg pulling, personal comments, illogical conversations, absurd subject matter & the likes, then why me? (and I am talking about the posts of members who haven't received any infraction/ban). I am not talking about Mr. Ajay.

3- It is a sad truth that rules are applied haphazardly. Can anyone deny that there are numerous threads full of nonsense posts? And I pointed out this fact to them & said that the punishment accorded to me seems not fair to me in light of the present scenario at Jatland and I wished to seek an explanation on this.

4- Last but not the least, I wrote only one post during my infraction period, a sensible one for sure, and it was not approved by moderators. Now I didn't revolted against infraction, but yes I wished to seek reason for the same and that too when I DIDN'T RECIVED ANY WARNING as was pointed out by them.

Now why I asked for a ban:

People are so happy about a 'Contact Us' button & moderators are happy in claiming that they are redressing the grievances, then why wasn't my grievances never answered at all? I was given infraction and I had above doubts, but I received NO response. I waited for 5-6 days, but in vain. I posted something, accepting the infraction but it never got approved.

What resort was left with me in a situation where I cant write anything on forums & I am not receiving any reply from our dear moderators?

I again wrote to them that if they wish to continue with the things in the way they deem fit and don't wish to redress some genuine problems then ban me as this was the last resort, and name change + 1 year Banwas the only policy I knew about voluntary banning of people !!!!! ( am surprised to hear people do bitching by saying that she may have done something wrong that's why she asked for a name change – height of pollution in minds !)

Now I see people pointing out that why I pointed out towards things like leg pulling etc when I myself do it. Well I down deny answering this too ! Rather I have put forth my views on the same many a times. I said that JL is not a class and its quite natural to get lured by emotions at times, but it doesn't means that we have to keep continuing this trail of being light across all threads. I have never demoralized anyone doing some serious discussion over here. We are not here for making 'maatam' but that doesn't mean that we make just 'mockery'. Using serious words doesn't means that one is serious, it's the script behind the words that stands tall & cant be hidden under the lame excuse of not using funny words.

We aren't here for 'maatam' but then we aren't here just for fun. There is a difference between not being serious all the times & being offending or demoralizing others. Now where to draw the line is a question which moderators need to address through clear policies which aren't there as of now, and hence the ho-halla.

PS: I didn't intend to point out towards any person, rather I pointed out towards examples of things which can easily appear to be not funny in good taste ! Fun too has a standard after all !


--
Thanks & Regards,
CA. Shweta Dhaka






theek sai eibb to............

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 03:35 PM
Mukesh bhai,

How would we know that this post (mail) is not from you and it is from Sweta? How to believe that someone else is not trying to shoot by keeping guns on her shouolders..

Regards,
Anil

bhaiya ek baat bataiyo mujhe kya jarurat hai kisi ke kandhe par gun rakh ke trigger dabane ki :) sochiyo ek be!!

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 03:39 PM
Le bhai...signature bhi toh change ho sakein sein... I have changed it and have put my name :D...see below... :D

Brother, I am not asking for a proof or somthing....my idea is to just say that she can better discuss "directly" with Mods....

And yes, I respect her as a worthy member and want her back if Mods do not have any problem with her....



le bhai anilee...teri problem eibhi solve karta hun...eibb ke ya le....signature aali.....::




I just saw the thread and I am surprised in a way & not surprised in another one ! Oh I cant make out exactly what I mean, but somewhere I know what I mean … he he

Well I knew something of this sort will happen but still it hurts to see people fighting this way! The newest in debate is regionalism – an unsettled issue since ages. It is an issue beyond discussions & debates, and has uncountable faces but to sum it up its not a bad term unless it results into some bad done to someone !

If I have 5 members in my family then surely I will love these 5 members more than the people belonging to any other family and there is nothing wrong with that unless I do something that hits those other people in a distasteful way. This must exist so as to make one gleefully feel strongly about being associated to something but it should not overshadow the 'humane factor' of being transparent & open hearted in our acts & deeds.

Why should one not be inclined to one's roots, language, background & the likes? But often it happens that we get so captivated by this virtual cord of belongingness that we get swayed and end up wearing glasses of regional bias. How easily this becomes out of context when we see that Mr. Satyeshwar belongs to UP, while the people supporting my cause like Deepika, Mukesh, Anil, Kapil are not from UP.

However, I too love my roots but I don't get swayed away by the darker side of it, while making my decisions. This is not the case with me, has never been & will never be. Just because I feel that everyone has a heart, a mind & a soul which knows how to read beyond the lines of regionalism, though at times we dismiss the findings & let our emotions take over pragmatism.

Anyways, issue here is that some people do follow this in a negative manner & some not, but its never a wise task to try figuring out who is who ! Needless will be this debate & lets not take it any further & give this already sour episode another blind turn ! Those who are taking their own meanings are free to do so.

I did asked for a ban (and please leave this drama over 'contact us' button ! Is this button more effective than the PM facility provided to directly contact them in any way?? This is utter absurdity, we may use this button or PM I don't think it makes any difference) but why is a thing which I have already explained clearly ia being questioned again & again. Few people seem to be busy with something else & didn't read between the lines. Anyways, I do place it in other words:

I got an infraction and it read "Inspite of giving warning you made personal comments & hence the infraction …………………". It was for 20 days (till March 2nd)

1- My first surprise was I never received any warning ! I asked them through a PM how, when & where I received a warning? Kindly forward that warning to me again.

2- My second question was I don't find it justifiable just because of the reason that there have been many threads with posts full of leg pulling, personal comments, illogical conversations, absurd subject matter & the likes, then why me? (and I am talking about the posts of members who haven't received any infraction/ban). I am not talking about Mr. Ajay.

3- It is a sad truth that rules are applied haphazardly. Can anyone deny that there are numerous threads full of nonsense posts? And I pointed out this fact to them & said that the punishment accorded to me seems not fair to me in light of the present scenario at Jatland and I wished to seek an explanation on this.

4- Last but not the least, I wrote only one post during my infraction period, a sensible one for sure, and it was not approved by moderators. Now I didn't revolted against infraction, but yes I wished to seek reason for the same and that too when I DIDN'T RECIVED ANY WARNING as was pointed out by them.

Now why I asked for a ban:

People are so happy about a 'Contact Us' button & moderators are happy in claiming that they are redressing the grievances, then why wasn't my grievances never answered at all? I was given infraction and I had above doubts, but I received NO response. I waited for 5-6 days, but in vain. I posted something, accepting the infraction but it never got approved.

What resort was left with me in a situation where I cant write anything on forums & I am not receiving any reply from our dear moderators?

I again wrote to them that if they wish to continue with the things in the way they deem fit and don't wish to redress some genuine problems then ban me as this was the last resort, and name change + 1 year Banwas the only policy I knew about voluntary banning of people !!!!! ( am surprised to hear people do bitching by saying that she may have done something wrong that's why she asked for a name change – height of pollution in minds !)

Now I see people pointing out that why I pointed out towards things like leg pulling etc when I myself do it. Well I down deny answering this too ! Rather I have put forth my views on the same many a times. I said that JL is not a class and its quite natural to get lured by emotions at times, but it doesn't means that we have to keep continuing this trail of being light across all threads. I have never demoralized anyone doing some serious discussion over here. We are not here for making 'maatam' but that doesn't mean that we make just 'mockery'. Using serious words doesn't means that one is serious, it's the script behind the words that stands tall & cant be hidden under the lame excuse of not using funny words.

We aren't here for 'maatam' but then we aren't here just for fun. There is a difference between not being serious all the times & being offending or demoralizing others. Now where to draw the line is a question which moderators need to address through clear policies which aren't there as of now, and hence the ho-halla.

PS: I didn't intend to point out towards any person, rather I pointed out towards examples of things which can easily appear to be not funny in good taste ! Fun too has a standard after all !


--
Thanks & Regards,
Anil Sangwan

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 03:43 PM
bhaiya ek baat bataiyo mujhe kya jarurat hai kisi ke kandhe par gun rakh ke trigger dabane ki :) sochiyo ek be!!

I am not saying that you are doing it brother. But what I am saying is that if you defend her....and put all these personal mails....it is going to make matter worse as it has already....right from beginning of this thread.....,

When I say that this mail could be fake....I am not saying that you have wrote it from your side....but I am trying to highlight what people will feel about it... I mean they may not take this copy of mail as genuine...


Instead of doing it.... I guess better approach for her would be to talk to moderators directly !! Once again I repeat... she is a good member and can add value to JL if she is here !

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 03:44 PM
sangwan jee iss mail ki ek copy mere paas bhi hai jo shweta ne bheji hai mujhe....abb aap koi judge toh hai nai ki hum sab aapnai proof de akk ya mail shweta e likhi hai akk nai...ibb ya baat aapke dmag mai badti ho arr vishwaas hota hai toh theek varna faltu mai mehnat karna humnai bhi pasand hai:D



Le bhai...signature bhi toh change ho sakein sein... I have changed it and have put my name :D...see below... :D

Brother, I am not asking for a proof or somthing....my idea is to just say that she can better discuss "directly" with Mods....

And yes, I respect her as a worthy member and want her back if Mods do not have any problem with her....







I just saw the thread and I am surprised in a way & not surprised in another one ! Oh I cant make out exactly what I mean, but somewhere I know what I mean … he he

Well I knew something of this sort will happen but still it hurts to see people fighting this way! The newest in debate is regionalism – an unsettled issue since ages. It is an issue beyond discussions & debates, and has uncountable faces but to sum it up its not a bad term unless it results into some bad done to someone !

If I have 5 members in my family then surely I will love these 5 members more than the people belonging to any other family and there is nothing wrong with that unless I do something that hits those other people in a distasteful way. This must exist so as to make one gleefully feel strongly about being associated to something but it should not overshadow the 'humane factor' of being transparent & open hearted in our acts & deeds.

Why should one not be inclined to one's roots, language, background & the likes? But often it happens that we get so captivated by this virtual cord of belongingness that we get swayed and end up wearing glasses of regional bias. How easily this becomes out of context when we see that Mr. Satyeshwar belongs to UP, while the people supporting my cause like Deepika, Mukesh, Anil, Kapil are not from UP.

However, I too love my roots but I don't get swayed away by the darker side of it, while making my decisions. This is not the case with me, has never been & will never be. Just because I feel that everyone has a heart, a mind & a soul which knows how to read beyond the lines of regionalism, though at times we dismiss the findings & let our emotions take over pragmatism.

Anyways, issue here is that some people do follow this in a negative manner & some not, but its never a wise task to try figuring out who is who ! Needless will be this debate & lets not take it any further & give this already sour episode another blind turn ! Those who are taking their own meanings are free to do so.

I did asked for a ban (and please leave this drama over 'contact us' button ! Is this button more effective than the PM facility provided to directly contact them in any way?? This is utter absurdity, we may use this button or PM I don't think it makes any difference) but why is a thing which I have already explained clearly ia being questioned again & again. Few people seem to be busy with something else & didn't read between the lines. Anyways, I do place it in other words:

I got an infraction and it read "Inspite of giving warning you made personal comments & hence the infraction …………………". It was for 20 days (till March 2nd)

1- My first surprise was I never received any warning ! I asked them through a PM how, when & where I received a warning? Kindly forward that warning to me again.

2- My second question was I don't find it justifiable just because of the reason that there have been many threads with posts full of leg pulling, personal comments, illogical conversations, absurd subject matter & the likes, then why me? (and I am talking about the posts of members who haven't received any infraction/ban). I am not talking about Mr. Ajay.

3- It is a sad truth that rules are applied haphazardly. Can anyone deny that there are numerous threads full of nonsense posts? And I pointed out this fact to them & said that the punishment accorded to me seems not fair to me in light of the present scenario at Jatland and I wished to seek an explanation on this.

4- Last but not the least, I wrote only one post during my infraction period, a sensible one for sure, and it was not approved by moderators. Now I didn't revolted against infraction, but yes I wished to seek reason for the same and that too when I DIDN'T RECIVED ANY WARNING as was pointed out by them.

Now why I asked for a ban:

People are so happy about a 'Contact Us' button & moderators are happy in claiming that they are redressing the grievances, then why wasn't my grievances never answered at all? I was given infraction and I had above doubts, but I received NO response. I waited for 5-6 days, but in vain. I posted something, accepting the infraction but it never got approved.

What resort was left with me in a situation where I cant write anything on forums & I am not receiving any reply from our dear moderators?

I again wrote to them that if they wish to continue with the things in the way they deem fit and don't wish to redress some genuine problems then ban me as this was the last resort, and name change + 1 year Banwas the only policy I knew about voluntary banning of people !!!!! ( am surprised to hear people do bitching by saying that she may have done something wrong that's why she asked for a name change – height of pollution in minds !)

Now I see people pointing out that why I pointed out towards things like leg pulling etc when I myself do it. Well I down deny answering this too ! Rather I have put forth my views on the same many a times. I said that JL is not a class and its quite natural to get lured by emotions at times, but it doesn't means that we have to keep continuing this trail of being light across all threads. I have never demoralized anyone doing some serious discussion over here. We are not here for making 'maatam' but that doesn't mean that we make just 'mockery'. Using serious words doesn't means that one is serious, it's the script behind the words that stands tall & cant be hidden under the lame excuse of not using funny words.

We aren't here for 'maatam' but then we aren't here just for fun. There is a difference between not being serious all the times & being offending or demoralizing others. Now where to draw the line is a question which moderators need to address through clear policies which aren't there as of now, and hence the ho-halla.

PS: I didn't intend to point out towards any person, rather I pointed out towards examples of things which can easily appear to be not funny in good taste ! Fun too has a standard after all !


--
Thanks & Regards,
Anil Sangwan

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 03:48 PM
sangwan jee iss mail ki ek copy mere paas bhi hai jo shweta ne bheji hai mujhe....abb aap koi judge toh hai nai ki hum sab aapnai proof de akk ya mail shweta e likhi hai akk nai...ibb ya baat aapke dmag mai badti ho arr vishwaas hota hai toh theek varna faltu mai mehnat karna humnai bhi pasand hai:D

Apne proof apni ghoj mein raakho deepika ji.... menne koi shaukk na sei bekaar k proof ekathey karann ka...!!! Er mukesh ki post ka reply menne kar diya sei... !!

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 04:00 PM
arre wah wah aap hi pucho proof ka arr pher aap bhi bidakk gaye jib proof ki kahi toh...ye ke baat hoyi....ek aap akele hi jat nai ho jissmai attitude hai aahdai sabke dhore hai so plz mind ur words:cool:....and excuse me meri ghoj mai nai raakhti mai proof mail mai hai u....baat maarni humnai bhi aavai hai jee issliye maada sa control karo kyunki ek jatland pai sirf aap hi koni jis dhorai jeli hai yaahdai bhetrya dhorai hai arr ek aur baat aap aali tai laambi arr paini:D



Apne proof apni ghoj mein raakho deepika ji.... menne koi shaukk na sei bekaar k proof ekathey karann ka...!!! Er mukesh ki post ka reply menne kar diya sei... !!

VivekGathwala
February 18th, 2009, 04:02 PM
tham sarya n ......2/3 din holiye apne serr bidhateeeeeeee.......
ade sab ek dusre n defend karan lag re s sab apni jagah thek s ....

asal baat p aaao agar shweta vapis jatland p active hona chave s to usne tham nue kyuna kehte ti va moderators t baat kare na ki members dhore mail kareeeee........ar kar di to bhi koi dikaat na s ....par eb tham sareee conclusions p bhi khud hi aagaye satyeswar n sariiii baat clear t kar di s .....koi na eb shweta n keh do ki moderators t baat kar le ar esne soughtout kar lo tawle s ........ade nue kham kha apas main seeng nahi fasaya karte .......itne padhe likhe hoye pacheee bhi tham nue feeh re soo .......

ya baat t clear hi s ki agar koi bhi member name change karvana chahve s to vo 1 sal ka ban hoojaga

ar shweta n bhi keh do yoo naam hi sahi s ....naam badallegi t va unn hi pichan m na aave .....


aaap sabhi t meri vinti s apas m joot mat bajaya karoooo ......... ade or log bhi as a guest aave s t unne ye sang free main matna dikhoooo or shanti ka dannn do

mukesh shweta n keh de ki moderators t baat karle ar esne resolve kar le

ar ade ade haryana,punjab, rajasthan ,UP ka ragg mat gaoooo .............ade sareee as a jat hum kathee s na ki UP,HARYANA ,PUNJAB ,RAJASTHAN

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 04:05 PM
Le bhai...signature bhi toh change ho sakein sein... I have changed it and have put my name :D...see below... :D



bhai anille................. main nu socha tha ek tu mere pai to yakkeen kar hi lega.....par eibb ke kahu......

coolphool
February 18th, 2009, 04:10 PM
I don't know why there is such a controversy over someone being booted out of Jatland.

Don't forget this is a privately owned and funded forum. We are here on someone else dime. So, we have to follow the rules set by the owners. If we have a problem with the fairness of a rule, then we have an option and that is to quit the forum.

From what I know there are quite a few members who fool around this forum with multiple fake IDs. I am not pointing fingers. I may be one of them too. Ha Ha! :)

There are some mischief makers. Its funny how they cry the loudest demanding fair treatment, when there may be evidence that the people with JL IDs in question may not even exist.

Just enjoy guys! Take it easy. Keep doing mischief. Just don't get sentimental about unfair treatment. We all love you unconditionally!

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 04:10 PM
Mukesh bhai,

How would we know that this post (mail) is not from you and it is from Sweta? How to believe that someone else is not trying to shoot by keeping guns on her shouolders..

Regards,
Anil

Hahaha...yeh waala andy tha...:D...aur peechhe sachin ne bhi ek mast theory kaadhi thi- "I think Mukesh Samota acted because of some deep rooted regional hatred"....bhai log main to kehta hoon ki in sab theories ko mila ke hum ek mast film bana sakte hain...jismain suspense, mystery, thrill aur sabse zyada humor hoga...poori masala movie mithun style...

Maine bhi kuchh andy baatein sochi hain...Sachin theek hi keh raha tha ki Mukesh ke dil main gusse se yahi baat kyun aayi, koi aur si kyun na aayi...Mere khyaal se to iske peeche kuchh videshi taaqaton ka haath hai...woh haryana ka naam badnaam karrke bhartiya jaaton main division laana chaahte hain....aur agar Jat divide ho gaye to Bharat se yudhh jeetna bahut asaan ho jaayega...kahin yeh Mukesh Pakistani agent to nahin? Bhai logon, picture main is angle ko bhi daalne ki koshish karna pleeaase!

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 04:11 PM
It means person is confused:D:D

arr Mukesh dusri baat ho sakke se tera koye "Emotional Atyaachaar" karta ho,,,,,,,dekh bhai ham to intellectual saa nahi,,,,,mhaare ke farak pade thaa,,,,,,but you are an intellectual,,,,,,,,,yaa nyu ho sakke se ke Bhai tere kaandhe pe kisse ne bandhuk tek raakhi ho fire karan khatir

serious ar non serious kunse discussion ho se,,,,,,majaak to kitte bhi ho sakke se,,,serious aale thread koye mooh kaan aale se:D

Shweta please come back to JL


>>
I just saw the thread and I am surprised in a way & not surprised in another one ! Oh I cant make out exactly what I mean, but somewhere I know what I mean … he he


!

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 04:16 PM
sangwan jee iss mail ki ek copy mere paas bhi hai jo shweta ne bheji hai mujhe....abb aap koi judge toh hai nai ki hum sab aapnai proof de akk ya mail shweta e likhi hai akk nai...ibb ya baat aapke dmag mai badti ho arr vishwaas hota hai toh theek varna faltu mai mehnat karna humnai bhi pasand hai:D

Iska matlab tum bhi is ghinoni saazish main shaamil ho...tumse yeh ummeed nahin thi Deepika....par picture main ab masala aur badh raha hai...villain ke saath ek vamp bhi hai....shayad ek pakistani agent hai aur doosra chini.....ab aayega maza...

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 04:24 PM
Hats off to you Kapil jee:D...it was really funny and unfortunately i was drinking juice when i was reading ur quote n i found it so funny tht i splashed d juice in my mouth all over d laptop screen...abb saaf kiya hai...mujhe toh aap par bhi shaak hai aur lagta hai ki aap bhi ek saajish me shaamil ho.....aap bhi mujhe kisi videshi laptop company se mile lagte hai aur mere laptop ko kharaab karvane ka shadyantra rach rahe hai taaki mai aapki wali company ka naya laptop le saku:D:D:D:D





Hahaha...yeh waala andy tha...:D...aur peechhe sachin ne bhi ek mast theory kaadhi thi- "I think Mukesh Samota acted because of some deep rooted regional hatred"....bhai log main to kehta hoon ki in sab theories ko mila ke hum ek mast film bana sakte hain...jismain suspense, mystery, thrill aur sabse zyada humor hoga...poori masala movie mithun style...

Maine bhi kuchh andy baatein sochi hain...Sachin theek hi keh raha tha ki Mukesh ke dil main gusse se yahi baat kyun aayi, koi aur si kyun na aayi...Mere khyaal se to iske peeche kuchh videshi taaqaton ka haath hai...woh haryana ka naam badnaam karrke bhartiya jaaton main division laana chaahte hain....aur agar Jat divide ho gaye to Bharat se yudhh jeetna bahut asaan ho jaayega...kahin yeh Mukesh Pakistani agent to nahin? Bhai logon, picture main is angle ko bhi daalne ki koshish karna pleeaase!

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 04:29 PM
:D:DVAMP:D:DKapil jee agar banana hi tha koi special mission pe special force officer hi bana dete jo stuntbaazi karte hai....VAMP kyu bayana mujhe:mad::Dwaise ek baat toh maan gayi mai u have amazing sense of humor n u know how to reply to d quotes humorously but still getting ur point conveyed to d ppl concerned:D:D:D:D





Iska matlab tum bhi is ghinoni saazish main shaamil ho...tumse yeh ummeed nahin thi Deepika....par picture main ab masala aur badh raha hai...villain ke saath ek vamp bhi hai....shayad ek pakistani agent hai aur doosra chini.....ab aayega maza...

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 04:31 PM
iss saazish main to haryana , UP, Rajasthan....sabhi jat states ke log shaamil hai..bas ek punjab ale ki radak rah gi......par ye saazish kiske khillaf ho rahi hai..:confused:...arrre bata dyo koi manne bhi.........na to main aapne baal paad lyoonga eibhi:p

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 04:40 PM
arre wah wah aap hi pucho proof ka arr pher aap bhi bidakk gaye jib proof ki kahi toh...ye ke baat hoyi....ek aap akele hi jat nai ho jissmai attitude hai aahdai sabke dhore hai so plz mind ur words:cool:....and excuse me meri ghoj mai nai raakhti mai proof mail mai hai u....baat maarni humnai bhi aavai hai jee issliye maada sa control karo kyunki ek jatland pai sirf aap hi koni jis dhorai jeli hai yaahdai bhetrya dhorai hai arr ek aur baat aap aali tai laambi arr paini:D

Jabardasti se chaippp howann ki jarurat na sei laambey laambey reply kar k........ I dont want to fight ...nahi toh 'TABEEZ' karnaa menne bhi aawe sei......!!! par yaa baat haddey e bandh ho jya toh bhalayi sei....baaki thaari marjiii deepika ji!!!

I have not asked any kind of proof from you. Also, I have not quoted any of your replies... It is you who jumped in between Mukesh bhai and self and have written.

Btw.... we want sweta back and would request her to resolve issues with moderators without any middlemen/women....thanks!

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 04:48 PM
kyu Sangwan jee aap koi Prime minister ho kitte ke akk mai aapkai chepp houngi akk kitte ki minitry e mil jyagi manne...aur agar Shweta ko wapis laan ki jee mai hai bhi toh u befaaltu mai proof kyu maago the...ya aachi baat pehlya baat shuru karo arr pher khijo bhi....tabeej ji aap apni ghoj mai e rakho m sure aapki jeb mai aa jyange kyunki tabeez mail box mai nai hoya karte:D chalo jo manne bhi aap tai baat karan ka ya u kaho cheep honn ka ek percent bhi shauk nai aap kunsa mera kanyadaan karoge:DLadaayi ladaayi maaf karo.............aagai nai likhti nai tai mai bhi ban jo jaungi ya pher infraction toh pakki hai:D:D Om Shanti Shanti:o




Jabardasti se chaippp howann ki jarurat na sei laambey laambey reply kar k........ I dont want to fight ...nahi toh 'TABEEZ' karnaa menne bhi aawe sei......!!! par yaa baat haddey e bandh ho jya toh bhalayi sei....baaki thaari marjiii deepika ji!!!

Btw.... we want sweta back and would request her to resolve issues with moderators without any middlemen/women....thanks!

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 04:49 PM
:D:DVAMP:D:DKapil jee agar banana hi tha koi special mission pe special force officer hi bana dete jo stuntbaazi karte hai....VAMP kyu bayana mujhe:mad::D

Arre yeh bollywood script hai....actors ki demands pe secondon main badalti hai...theek hai tumhain C2C ki Deepika ki tarah double role de dete hain...pehla role hai honest police officer ka jo ki JL ki respected member hai.....par uski judwa bahan jisse bachpan main "One who shall not be named" ne chura liya tha aur usse Chini agent bana diya tha...She has hacked into your laptop and is now posting these messages to create this controversy to divide the Jats...

Prashant Bhai- poora logic hona zaroori hai kya, Mithun ki picture dekh ke baal paadte ho kya :D.....saazish ki gutthi suljhaane ke liye hamein "worthy contributions" ki zaroorat hai....itni worthy contributions se story interval tak pahuchi hai...2-4 dhakke aur lagenge to poori ho jaayegi picture...

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 04:53 PM
kyu Sangwan jee aap koi Prime minister ho kitte ke akk mai aapkai chepp houngi akk kitte ki minitry e mil jyagi manne...aur agar Shweta ko wapis laan ki jee mai hai bhi toh u befaaltu mai prrof kyu maago the...ya aachi baat pehlya baat shuru karo arr pher khijo bhi....taazeej ji aap apni ghoj mai e rakho m sure aapki jeb mai aa jyange kyunki taabeez mail box mai nai hoya karte:D chalo jo manne bhi aap tai baat karan ka ya u kaho cheep honn ka ek percent bhi shauk nai aap kunsa mera kanyadaan karoge:DOm Shanti Shanti:o

Tere kenne kaunn sa proof maang liya menne??? Er K galat keh dee... copy paste aale mail "nakli" bhi toh ho sakein sein..... Itna dukh kyu aawe sei tenne? Thamm "Daakiye" laag re so k?

Er yoh bekaar ki baat ne kheench k iska pahaad bana dena e "Chaipp" hona hoya kare.....fevicol ki jarurat na hoya kare chaipp howann mein....

Baaki yoh mera aakhiri reply sei tere post ka... Kahi sunni maaf !!

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 04:55 PM
hahahahaha toh mai kaun hu immandaar officer ya phir chinni agent:cool:by d way yeh C2C kaunsi movie hai:eek:....waise aap ek kaam kar kaha banking ke chakkaro me phasse hue hai i can see one budding jat director n producer in d making...so imaginative and creative hahahahahaha.....m sure u can be d next big thing in d bollywood:D:D



Arre yeh bollywood script hai....actors ki demands pe secondon main badalti hai...theek hai tumhain C2C ki Deepika ki tarah double role de dete hain...pehla role hai honest police officer ka jo ki JL ki respected member hai.....par uski judwa bahan jisse bachpan main "One who shall not be named" ne chura liya tha aur usse Chini agent bana diya tha...She has hacked into your laptop and is now posting these messages to create this controversy to divide the Jats...

Prashant Bhai- poora logic hona zaroori hai kya, Mithun ki picture dekh ke baal paadte ho kya :D.....saazish ki gutthi suljhaane ke liye hamein "worthy contributions" ki zaroorat hai....itni worthy contributions se story interval tak pahuchi hai...2-4 dhakke aur lagenge to poori ho jaayegi picture...

bagamalik
February 18th, 2009, 04:56 PM
Now you people tell me, do you still think that this ban is justified ?

why the action was not taken as per the rule or policy framed by the mods themselves

I know you will close this thread as well, well doesn't matter I will start another but will keep my protest on in a gandhian way until you do the required correction..

That is the decision of Mod. but they do that after fault find

but ban period relax 6 months

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 04:59 PM
Ofocurse hum usske daakiye haan jib va ban ho rahi arr nai reply kar sakti arr clarification de sakti toh ibb bhagwan toh aakashwaani karai nai ke suun lyo saare jatland member baat nyu nyu hai:D:D jib proof kisse pai maangya ho manne toh aapki madad e karni chahi thi naa sangwan jee jibbe aapki iss duvidha(ki mail Shweta ki hi hai ya nai)se nikalne ke liye thode margdarshan diya tha:p



Tere kenne kaunn sa proof maang liya menne??? Er K galat keh dee... copy paste aale mail "nakli" bhi toh ho sakein sein..... Itna dukh kyu aawe sei tenne? Thamm "Daakiye" laag re so k?

Er yoh bekaar ki baat ne kheench k iska pahaad bana dena e "Chaipp" hona hoya kare.....fevicol ki jarurat na hoya kare chaipp howann mein....

Baaki yoh mera aakhiri reply sei tere post ka... Kahi sunni maaf !!

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 05:01 PM
Respected Maa'm,

Aap Brahm-kumaaris ki follower so ke:rock vaise achha hai ye sect,,,,

aapke vichaar se thread ke is mod par hamein kyaa karna chaahiye,,,,,ya kuchh nahi karna chaahiye....

Bhai Sangwaan,,,,dekh thread ne "derail" na karre nyu,,,,,saari rythm tod di mere yaar:D




hai:D:D Om Shanti Shanti:o

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 05:02 PM
Neither moderator will talk to shweta first nor shweta...so to resolve this issue , moderator should lift the ban from shweta without any discussion with her and If shweta is willing to come back , she can join JL again . So no conversations from both side and issue will be over

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 05:03 PM
That is the decision of Mod. but they do that after fault find

but ban period relax 6 months

Bhai itna generous kyun ho raha se...6 mahine baad aake terese fir uljhegi woh...kaat lene de aajeevan karawaas usse...

anilsangwan
February 18th, 2009, 05:04 PM
Maaf karna deepika ji.... I could not resist myself from quoting your post again...

Below post of yours shows how "serious" you are in getting her back and discussing the main issue here.

And, if we people bring slightest of humor, everyone will accuse us of "derailing" the thread. Even Sweta would say so.




hahahahaha toh mai kaun hu immandaar officer ya phir chinni agent:cool:by d way yeh C2C kaunsi movie hai:eek:....waise aap ek kaam kar kaha banking ke chakkaro me phasse hue hai i can see one budding jat director n producer in d making...so imaginative and creative hahahahahaha.....m sure u can be d next big thing in d bollywood:D:D

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 05:05 PM
Neither moderator will talk to shweta first nor shweta...so to resolve this issue , moderator should lift the ban from shweta without any discussion with her and If shweta is willing to come back , she can join JL again . So no conversations from both side and issue will be over

100% agree with you!!

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 05:05 PM
arre nahi Sachin jee mai aajkal gautam budhha ki follower ho rahi hu....bhudhham sharanam gachaami:D bas ibb jib Satyeshwar nai haami bhar di ban hataan ki ibb koi raulla e koni:o pher bhi kuch loga nai aapna yogdaan dena hi hai toh aao arr deo hum aapko sahi margdarshan denge:rock




Respected Maa'm,

Aap Brahm-kumaaris ki follower so ke:rock vaise achha hai ye sect,,,,

aapke vichaar se thread ke is mod par hamein kyaa karna chaahiye,,,,,ya kuchh nahi karna chaahiye....

Bhai Sangwaan,,,,dekh thread ne "derail" na karre nyu,,,,,saari rythm tod di mere yaar:D

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 05:08 PM
I think Shweta should get in direct touch with the Moderators/Administrators and resolve the issue.

Mods please consider lifting of ban on Shweta, both the parties have a chat and iron out the issues.

Lets come out with a solution where no body's Ego is hurt.

Shweta you also please be specific to your grievances if there are any, since its a public platform so take in to consideration that different people have different style and way of communicating. I am very hopeful that you will help the Mods to find an easy solution.

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 05:09 PM
Respected Maa'm,

Aap Brahm-kumaaris ki follower so ke:rock vaise achha hai ye sect,,,,

aapke vichaar se thread ke is mod par hamein kyaa karna chaahiye,,,,,ya kuchh nahi karna chaahiye....

Bhai Sangwaan,,,,dekh thread ne "derail" na karre nyu,,,,,saari rythm tod di mere yaar:D

Re ib tum log ghanne demanding ho rahe so....brahm kumaari ka follower banaane ke liye triple role kaadhna padega....bas deepika hi rahegi picture main ki koisa aur bhi kuchh karega...

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 05:11 PM
Jibb itni haan ke saare log mhara dimaag khaan laag rahe arr lahu phukkan laag rahe arr jib baat ho li saari tai ibb hum bhi apna stress level kam karange akk nai,sainik bhi mdda aaram karya karai just to unwind..........aur maaf karna Sangwan jee maine jab bhi irrelevant quote ko issue banay hai when i saw ppl were trying to create controvery instead of sorting d issue out...aur haan iss thread pe humor ki koi manahi nai aap abhi batao kiske mazaak pai arr kissnai yaha comment karya hai....ibb manne bera hai aap pher kahoge ki mai cheep honn ki koshish karu rahi hu:eek:Ram nai bera hai arr manne bhi akk kunn kisskai cheep ho rya hai:rolleyes:




Maaf karna deepika ji.... I could not resist myself from quoting your post again...

Below post of yours shows how "serious" you are in getting her back and discussing the main issue here.

And, if we people bring slightest of humor, everyone will accuse us of "derailing" the thread. Even Sweta would say so.

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 05:12 PM
manne maarag chaahiye,,,,,darshan to main duniyaa ne dyu su


arre nahi Sachin jee mai aajkal gautam budhha ki follower ho rahi hu....bhudhham sharanam gachaami:D bas ibb jib Satyeshwar nai haami bhar di ban hataan ki ibb koi raulla e koni:o pher bhi kuch loga nai aapna yogdaan dena hi hai toh aao arr deo hum aapko sahi margdarshan denge:rock

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 05:14 PM
100% agree karan ke kunse ground se daaki:D,,,,kasut agree kar gyaa aaj te,,,,,


100% agree with you!!

deepika
February 18th, 2009, 05:15 PM
Marg chahiye toh nyu kar sachin naak ki seedh mai chaale chaal chaale chaal kitte toh pahuchaiga:D bassss ibb bahot ho liya Shweta aale issue pai aa jyo rai:boxing




manne maarag chaahiye,,,,,darshan to main duniyaa ne dyu su

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 05:17 PM
100% agree karan ke kunse ground se daaki:D,,,,kasut agree kar gyaa aaj te,,,,,

Mere khyaal se iske peechhe bhi ek ghinoni saazish hai...any takes anyone?

anilsinghd
February 18th, 2009, 05:19 PM
Come on all , whatever is there on the thread is a matter of shame for all of us.

I dearly request the moderators to close this issue asap.

It is utter nonsense to talk about a person who is not present here!

Please above all ( state , religion , caste , community ) , do not forget that you are HUMAN :)

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 05:20 PM
100% agree karan ke kunse ground se daaki:D,,,,kasut agree kar gyaa aaj te,,,,,

Bhai sachin, bhai sangwan, bhai kapil, bhai mukesh samota and deepika ji....If all of you don't mind, please break off this fun for a while . if my post no. 108 seems worthy to you to sort out this issue....we all can request to moderators to lift the ban

sachinb
February 18th, 2009, 05:21 PM
ham te shuru te e issue pe the....ye to log-baagh binyaa padhe aapne aap derail ho rhe the,,,,,

chalo nyu batao ke Shweta ke ban hon ka reason ke se,,,,,,reason to beraa chaalna chaahiye ne,,,koye 100% support karre se ar koye 200%
Mods ke saath kyaa problem hui aur kis baat par ladai shuru hui aur asli muddaa kyaa thaa ki Ban ki nobat aagi,,,

ib ramayan-mahabharat aala example naa diyo,,,,ve saari baat manne khoob bera se:D



Marg chahiye toh nyu kar sachin naak ki seedh mai chaale chaal chaale chaal kitte toh pahuchaiga:D bassss ibb bahot ho liya Shweta aale issue pai aa jyo rai:boxing

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 05:27 PM
Come on all , whatever is there on the thread is a matter of shame for all of us.

I dearly request the moderators to close this issue asap.

It is utter nonsense to talk about a person who is not present here!

Please above all ( state , religion , caste , community ) , do not forget that you are HUMAN :)

Anille- kaahe ka disgust bhai? As one worthy contributor said earlier, hum ke aade maatam manaane aate hain? Thread ko derail karne main to garv mehsoon karna chaahiye. Aur bhai ibbe to issa pride aa raha sai mere main jyukar IIT-JEE main rank 1 maar di ho ya fir bindra type gold medal jeet liya ho. It is an achievement to say something when you have nothing really to say. It is called bullshitting- to be honest, it is not that bad- the top politicians, executives of companies, etc. are full of it.

kapdal
February 18th, 2009, 05:29 PM
Bhai sachin, bhai sangwan, bhai kapil, bhai mukesh samota and deepika ji....If all of you don't mind, please break off this fun for a while . if my post no. 108 seems worthy to you to sort out this issue....we all can request to moderators to lift the ban

Bhai sahab- I am with you. Sorry for the ruckus, I was trying to make a point. Jisko samajhna hoga, samajh jaayega.

mukeshkumar007
February 18th, 2009, 05:41 PM
Bhai sachin, bhai sangwan, bhai kapil, bhai mukesh samota and deepika ji....If all of you don't mind, please break off this fun for a while . if my post no. 108 seems worthy to you to sort out this issue....we all can request to moderators to lift the ban

this seems only perfect solution in present senario. I do request Mods to lift the ban now!!

prashantacmet
February 18th, 2009, 05:45 PM
Dear mods, we have a humble request ........please lift the ban from shweta ........!!!

anilsinghd
February 18th, 2009, 06:11 PM
Dear mods, we have a humble request ........please lift the ban from shweta ........!!!


I second the request! :)

Rmandaura
February 18th, 2009, 06:22 PM
Neither moderator will talk to shweta first nor shweta...so to resolve this issue , moderator should lift the ban from shweta without any discussion with her and If shweta is willing to come back , she can join JL again . So no conversations from both side and issue will be over

I agree with Prashant and request the moderator to unilaterally lift the ban and respect the feelings of members so that we get more threads/posts like 'Aakrosh' from Shweta. I would request Shweta also to forget about the past happenings. We all miss and want your quality posts and yes leave the sarcasm and anger out of your posts. l

poonamchaudhary
February 18th, 2009, 06:30 PM
Even I second the request.

Dear mods, we have a humble request ........please lift the ban from shweta ........!!!

sunillathwal
February 18th, 2009, 07:35 PM
Even I second the request.

I third the request :)

ritu
February 18th, 2009, 07:36 PM
i agree with you sir....
I agree with Prashant and request the moderator to unilaterally lift the ban and respect the feelings of members so that we get more threads/posts like 'Aakrosh' from Shweta. I would request Shweta also to forget about the past happenings. We all miss and want your quality posts and yes leave the sarcasm and anger out of your posts. l

deepika
February 19th, 2009, 06:33 AM
Now as our respected elder jatland member has also requested i think ban shud be lifted.I also request dear administrators n moderators to lift the ban.

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 07:04 AM
I really wonder then why did you not object or say anything at that time or you also needed an INTELLECT like Shweta's or wanted her/ somebody to throw LIGHT and then join hands? Waise abhi mai kuch dino ke liye out of station jaa rahi hoon tab tak ye thread chalta raha to mai"INTELLECT" pe bhi kuch "PRAKASH" jarur daloongi....kyunki tanne to itna time aade kade spend karya nahi jo asli "INTELLECT" ka bera paattey:D:p

I found "HUNDREDS" of threads "AWKWARD" then should i cry about it like Shweta or just ignore them? Or i should fall on people's feet .....PLEASE WRITE WHAT I LIKE FOR MY HAPPINESS'S SAKE....OR I"LL DIE....Please suggest?

Arr doosra "BAALTODD" tu sharat laa ley Yash ke thrad ka aur kimme bhi naam hota to bhi "USS" intellectual nai nuay rolla machana tha....arr iss thread nai chodd kai uss key aur thread padh ley....shuru-shuru ke....Jatland pai badda bhari shaan hoga....Par meri tai Mukesh jissey ki thread padhan mai P.Hd hgi Uss Mahaan Lekhika ki thread padh kai teri bera na koonsi degree hovegi:) But I'll be more than happy for you

At last you must know i dont give a damn about what HE/SHE thinks or say ABOUT ME....the signature that you have now....was used by me years back, so u might be able to understand QUITE how i feel;)
Is this some kind of mud slinging going on or wot......bebe manne nai bera tanne itni mehnat kyu kari akk itni saari threads tohi....PHD karaigi ke inn threads pai:D.....bebe Shweta ka toh bera nai par ek baat mai batau...to be very honest when i saw this thread "Ban hona sukh hai ya dukh" i also found it awkward....har koi toh ban hoya nai ki bata dega ki how it feels aur issliye(if u remember) i posted a quote ki bebe humnai na bera tanne jyada bera hoga kyunki tanne request karkai ban liya tha....bebe bura na maaniye i also dint find anything humurous in tht thread to b very honest arr dusra 'Bhoori bhoori peendi" bhai yash nai likhya tha arr cha joke tha but again title was not apt it wud have been 'BAALTODD' m sure u have read tht joke....now to summarize it all i wud remind u of a statement tht u gave yesterday while replying to a quote posted by Kapil Dalal...YOU CANT FORCE PEOPLE TO SEE THE WORLD WITH UR EYES:o:o.....when u said she wrote something against u in d mail i read her mail again and din't find anything written against u...now i got it why u are pissed off:eek:....aur haan Shweta ki threads kisi bhi ho par iss baat mai koi shakk na rakhiye bebe ke she is a proficient writer here on jatland and its not possible for most of the jatlanders to match her writing skills n to beat her.
P.S-DONT THINK I AM BIASED ITS MY PERSONAL OPINION

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 07:21 AM
लङै बरोबर रोवे बाध:thappad < ye Shweta Ji ka manpasand SMILEY hai...jiska Unhoney prachur maatra mein prayog kiya hai, sirf naye members le liye hi nahi har uss member ke liye jo unks INTELLECT samjhney mein naakamyab rahe:rolleyes:
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kye sabit karna chawo hoo..kyo kari itni mehnat in purane purane threads ko nikalne maie.... kab keha maine ki humor nai hona chaiye..lakin serious thread par bi machna chaiye ke...khair no point in arguing with you as you will never understand. chalu rakho apni ramayan..


Exactly !! agar Mods ne rules ki according Shweta ko 1 year ke liye bann kiya hota tab to baat bi thi, us condition maie to yeh baat samaj maie ati hai ki Shweta khud mail kare ban hatwane ke liye.. lakin jab apne apni marzi chala di aur lifetime ban kar diya to phir use kyu request karni chaiye.. who want to afford such a humiliation?

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 07:39 AM
Baaltodd se ek baat deemag mein aayi....ke iss thread ka naam bhi to Dear Mods and worth members !! hai? Kya iska naam LIFT BAN FROM INTELLECTUAL SHWETA JI !! nahi hona chahiye tha:confused: Shweta Ji ney ek thread chalaya tha "WHAT IS THIS" mere ko uska Title samjh mein nahi aaya tha par waise usme Title ke alava SAB KUCH interesting tha:D Should i use >>:thappad<< smiley for the title or this one:tamatar lagta hai mai bhi agar intellectual hoti to ye use karti>>:boxing and people have PROBLEMS with others using these smilies>:p;):D:rock

deepika
February 19th, 2009, 07:51 AM
Sunita first of all if u wudn't hav given a "DAMN"then why did u bother ur hands and ur brain in looking for hell lot of links and why u tried to justify abt the title of ur thread"Ban hona sukh hai ya dukh"....moreover i m also not in habit of picking up fight by calling someone's thread nonsense(even if its disgusting) unless it becomes a big issue.Toh be manne ke karna chahiye tha thread dekh kai?manne bhi ek aur thread daalni chahiye thi ke akk u ke sauda hai arr ya thread kis kaam ki hai?Right mai yaha itna jyada nai aati jitna tum aati ho but yup when i come i make sure i read the threads:o....Baat vahi hai wot u think "Intellect" is all abt may b to other it cud be senseless coz everyone has his/her individual views abt everything and u cant force ppl see world wid ur eyes.aur haan degree na tai manne teri thread padhan tai milai na usski bebe issiliye manne teri dhaal research nai kari kadde na teri threads pai arr na usski pai jukar tanne kari kal usski pai:o...anyways iss reply tai pehlya kayi saare log Shweta nai waapis lyan ki appeal kar rahe the and asusual u broke d chain:o:o...yeh roule thaam baad mai suljha liyo jo bhi baat hai thaare beech mai,aur ek baat aur taali kadde ek haath tai nai bajya karti jai usski galti hai toh m sure galti apni kaan tai bhi hogi zarur thodi bahot toh par naad koni mudai arr accept koni hovai ya baat....chalo ibbe filhal toh baat ya hai akk request ho rahi hai ke "Please lift the ban from SHWETA":o



I really wonder then why did you not object or say anything at that time or you also needed an INTELLECT like Shweta's or wanted her/ somebody to throw LIGHT and then join hands? Waise abhi mai kuch dino ke liye out of station jaa rahi hoon tab tak ye thread chalta raha to mai"INTELLECT" pe bhi kuch "PRAKASH" jarur daloongi....kyunki tanne to itna time aade kade spend karya nahi jo asli "INTELLECT" ka bera paattey:D:p

I found "HUNDREDS" of threads "AWKWARD" then should i cry about it like Shweta or just ignore them? Or i should fa on people's feet .....PLEASE WRITE WHAT I LIKE FOR MY HAPPINESS'S SAKE....OR I"LL DIE....Please suggest?

Arr doosra "BAALTODD" tu sharat laa ley Yash ke thrad ka aur kimme bhi naam hota to bhi "USS" intellectual nai nuay rolla machana tha....arr iss thread nai chodd kai uss key aur thread padh ley....shuru-shuru ke....Jatland pai badda bhari shaan hoga....Par meri tai Mukesh jissey ki thread padhan mai P.Hd hgi Uss Mahaan Lekhika ki thread padh kai teri bera na koonsi degree hovegi:) But I'll be more than happy for you

At last you must know i dont give a damn about what HE/SHE thinks or say ABOUT ME....the signature that you have now....was used by me years back, so u might be able to understand QUITE how i feel;)

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 08:18 AM
Deepika...Bas ye jo thada sa red font hai na issi ke naam par ye mehnat karni paddi....Bas haathon ko BRAIN ki iss mein fir bhi kahin jaruarat nahi paddi....ab Jatland ki image ke liye itna to karna hi padda....Imagine a dialogue from all intellects its a question of JL's and Jat community's image, thousands and thousands of people are reading these threads:D:boxing:thappad smiley paste kiye jatey hian tab kisi ko ye dhyan nahi aata ke thousands of people are viewing these smilies too:D Apni akal tai baddi kise na kise ki na laagti arr jyah tai Shweta nai yo smiley ghana kasoot ghissa diya tha use kar kar kai:thappad
I just noticed that earlier thread was closed and satyeshwar mentioned that she herself asked for ban with name change..

well I got the exact mail she wrote to the admin/mods after she was given infraction because she replied to one of the other member who was just making nonsense comments...

I thought to share this mail with each one of you so that you could decide who is on fault ? She just asked for the 1 year ban with name change as per the policy declared by Satyeshwar himself on the drama over Sumit's controversy that anyone can ask for the name change with one year ban..

>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
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Dear Moderators/Admins,

After a long association with your online portal, I wish to seek a name change, with a 1 year BAN or for any period as may be applicable.

I was given an infraction, which I highly object. I dropped in a mail regarding the same, but result was the same – no reply !

Moderators need to be strict, but how can it be taken if the wrath of their decisions fall on people unjustly & inconsistently?

I don't justify my behaviour, owing to which I received that infraction, but I cant figure it out to be justifiable by any means when there are plenty examples of utter bullshits spread across the length & breath of the site.


What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?', 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' etc etc are doing to the site, or don't you think about them at all? What good the numerous threads started by the same 2 or 3 individuals daily in humour section does to the site?


Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. I never derailed any discussion, nor did I hurt any genuine person. Worst is the leg pulling & personal comments which have become the backbone of each & every thread of Jatland nowadays. People have learnt a simple funda – Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!


Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !


I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words. Recently all threads, visitor messages books of those people & even chaupal was highly plagued by stupid jokes being played using this word on that same person.


And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat', 'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer ! Why you let few handful of people play cheap tantrums and attck the same person indirectly? It seems that you people see nothing bad in murdering someone indirectly.


The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully – and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!


And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.

How hard I tried to retain Samar as a moderator inspite of me having various differences with him & some of his ways, but you people couldn't make a tough decision and bowed in favour of wrong decision. He was all the way willing to keep going as a moderator inspite of the fury of people he faced. And once again the evil won over the good as usual.

And now I find it useless that you can be able to distinguish between 'being against the moderators' & 'being not convinced with the ways & means of voluntary application of irrational policies'.

It isn't so difficult to apply some rational policies, but it's a sad fact that more than half of the moderators are mere spectators/sleeping beauties !

Finally, I quit.

I no longer wish to be part of this portal, even it would fill me with agony to see my name appear in the list of members at such a place.

Kindly change my name on my profile to 'Shailja Singh' and accord me a Ban or whatever and absolve me of the sin I did & kept on believing that you people will evolve & come out of the shell of redundant policies.

Regards,

Shweta123

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sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 08:22 AM
I object to usage of this sentence:o Baki taali dono hath se hi bajjti hai par Pehla haath kaunsa tha arr kiska tha it matters....arr sari bata ka bera hotey huay tu ye talli arr chuttki aali baat kare hai....I'm surprised:o
Sunita first of all if u wudn't hav given a "DAMN"then why did u bother ur hands and ur brain in looking for hell lot of links and why u tried to justify abt the title of ur thread"Ban hona sukh hai ya dukh"....moreover i m also not in habit of picking up fight by calling someone's thread nonsense(even if its disgusting) unless it becomes a big issue.Toh be manne ke karna chahiye tha thread dekh kai?manne bhi ek aur thread daalni chahiye thi ke akk u ke sauda hai arr ya thread kis kaam ki hai?Right mai yaha itna jyada nai aati jitna tum aati ho but yup when i come i make sure i read the threads:o....Baat vahi hai wot u think "Intellect" is all abt may b to other it cud be senseless coz everyone has his/her individual views abt everything and u cant force ppl see world wid ur eyes.aur haan degree na tai manne teri thread padhan tai milai na usski bebe issiliye manne teri dhaal research nai kari kadde na teri threads pai arr na usski pai jukar tanne kari kal usski pai:o...anyways iss reply tai pehlya kayi saare log Shweta nai waapis lyan ki appeal kar rahe the and asusual u broke d chain:o:o...yeh roule thaam baad mai suljha liyo jo bhi baat hai thaare beech mai,aur ek baat aur taali kadde ek haath tai nai bajya karti jai usski galti hai toh m sure galti apni kaan tai bhi hogi zarur thodi bahot toh par naad koni mudai arr accept koni hovai ya baat....chalo ibbe filhal toh baat ya hai akk request ho rahi hai ke "Please lift the ban from SHWETA":o

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 09:06 AM
Moderators,

I'm sure that your behavior has never been irrational as the blame put by all members in this thread BUT i've noticed that your behavior have been extremely IMMATURE, so far the BAN or lifting the BAN on members is concerned. Either Don't BAN a member and IF you have to do then don't lift the ban EVER. And giving infraction and all seemingly have become more like a mockery as all get used to gradually.

This thread has been long enough now, if you are sure that you're NOT lifting the ban then close his thread please OR LIFT THE BAN FROM SHWETA.

All moderators are SUPPOSED to be mature and level head who dont suffer and act ON IMPULSE and if they do Then make me a moderator and i'm sure i'll be an AWAKEN BEAUTY not sleeping one:D Moderators are not supposed to get some sleep then why do you let Female moderators sleep?I guess i've asked too many irrelevant questions AS USUAL....sorry GUYS my intellect is still evolving:) The substance that i rarely use:rolleyes:

deepika
February 19th, 2009, 09:13 AM
Jo baat tanne batayi hai unn tai manne jach li akk galti hai Shweta ki bhi.Theek hai maan li manne and i agree with you par atleast let her come back...iss baat pai hum baat karange and ofcourse she also owes explaination.Agar va aa jya waapis i am sure issmai koi dukh ki baat nai hai....vo kahawat hai na ki jat ki chori jat kai e jaagi...i wud modify it and say jat ki chori jatland pai e aagi:D...arr uhh bhi ibb va aadhi Haryana ki holi hai kyunki va haryana mai byah raakhi hai:D:p:o....aur haan sab logo se request hai ki plz mere is haryana wale statement ko issue bana ke regionwise discrimination karnewalo ki list me mera naam na dala jaaye coz it was just a joke:cool:bada oh hoya karai jo maaf karde....jis ped pai phall ghanne ho oh he jhukya karai:obina phal ki daali kadd jhukya karai bebe:rock




I object to usage of this sentence:o Baki taali dono hath se hi bajjti hai par Pehla haath kaunsa tha arr kiska tha it matters....arr sari bata ka bera hotey huay tu ye talli arr chuttki aali baat kare hai....I'm surprised:o

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 09:32 AM
Manne Shweta tai kade koye problem na thi arr na hai Simple reason i dont JUDGE people and don't measure their intellect based on the stuff posted here:)....par uska fizool ki baata pai ho-hala machana roz ka kaam ho gya jiss tai Moderator dukhi hogey, issa laage iss thread mai ek aur request daalni paddegi ke SHweta nai ek dedicated moderator de dyo jo uski iss intellect urge nai satisfy karta reh;) Arr sabke apney-apney interest hoya karein kise ka kuch likhan ka jee kare arr kise ka kuch padhann ka, iska matlab ke shikayat laatey raho mail likh-likh kai. Apney reasons le liye fight karo. I like few of her threads and posts but should i complain about which i don't like? Like she did....I'm sorry i don't expect any intellectual member to complain like this though i'll try my LEVEL BEST which is 57% (58% ho gya aage manne koye INTELLECTUAL baat kardi)at the moment, to meet her expectations:o
Jo baat tanne batayi hai unn tai manne jach li akk galti hai Shweta ki bhi.Theek hai maan li manne and i agree with you par atleast let her come back...iss baat pai hum baat karange and ofcourse she also owes explaination.Agar va aa jya waapis i am sure issmai koi dukh ki baat nai hai....vo kahawat hai na ki jat ki chori jat kai e jaagi...i wud modify it and say jat ki chori jatland pai e aagi:D...arr uhh bhi ibb va aadhi Haryana ki holi hai kyunki va haryana mai byah raakhi hai:D:p:o....aur haan sab logo se request hai ki plz mere is haryana wale statement ko issue bana ke regionwise discrimination karnewalo ki list me mera naam na dala jaaye coz it was just a joke:cool:bada oh hoya karai jo maaf karde....jis ped pai phall ghanne ho oh he jhukya karai:obina phal ki daali kadd jhukya karai bebe:rock

anilsangwan
February 19th, 2009, 09:33 AM
You are very right Sunita.

Moderators should take decision very fast in all such cases. And, in this case it is very simple - if they want to give her a chance and let her come back....Ban should be lifted immediately.....else, this thread should be closed/deleted as their decision of ban is final and firm. No more dicussions on the issue.

Off late, many people here are writing just to enjoy and to fight with other members and they pretend to be the real "aandolankaari". :mad:







Moderators,

I'm sure that your behavior has never been irrational as the blame put by all members in this thread BUT i've noticed that your behavior have been extremely IMMATURE, so far the BAN or lifting the BAN on members is concerned. Either Don't BAN a member and IF you have to do then don't lift the ban EVER. And giving infraction and all seemingly have become more like a mockery as all get used to gradually.

This thread has been long enough now, if you are sure that you're NOT lifting the ban then close his thread please OR LIFT THE BAN FROM SHWETA.

All moderators are SUPPOSED to be mature and level head who dont suffer and act ON IMPULSE and if they do Then make me a moderator and i'm sure i'll be an AWAKEN BEAUTY not sleeping one:D Moderators are not supposed to get some sleep then why do you let Female moderators sleep?I guess i've asked too many irrelevant questions AS USUAL....sorry GUYS my intellect is still evolving:) The substance that i rarely use:rolleyes:

deepika
February 19th, 2009, 09:49 AM
Haanji Sangwan jee mai aapki ek ek tipanni se sehmat hu:D:rockModerators plz pay attention and plz take initiative:o



You are very right Sunita.

Moderators should take decision very fast in all such cases. And, in this case it is very simple - if they want to give her a chance and let her come back....Ban should be lifted immediately.....else, this thread should be closed/deleted as their decision of ban is final and firm. No more dicussions on the issue.

Off late, many people here are writing just to enjoy and to fight with other members and they pretend to be the real "aandolankaari". :mad:

Nishantrathi82
February 19th, 2009, 10:13 AM
This is the final decision! Shweta can come back to the site if she can commit to accepting Moderator decisions gracefully and is ready to roll back her message in which she asked for a ban.


-Satyeshwar

That's the only solution by which SD can come back and i strogly beleive that we guys are not trying to approaching solution of the main issue even we are creating more problems for her and creating new gaps between other members too. So a request if u don't have any thing sensible to say pls don't behave like a kid.
Agree with Bagh on the above relpy but there is only one problem i can see if the rule for changing the name suggests one 1 year ban why she has been awarded a life time ban. But forget it and lets concenrate on the solution provided by the Bagh.
And Bagh pls do read this whole thread i m sure u can really find 2-3 members whom u can ban easily :)

sunitahooda
February 19th, 2009, 10:24 AM
Yeah sure Nishant and when they all come back after a BAN they can post their views on my thread" Ban hona kaisa lagta hai aapko- SUKH ya DUKH" ab to Shweta Ji bhi likh sakti hain uss mein:thappad
That's the only solution by which SD can come back and i strogly beleive that we guys are not trying to approaching solution of the main issue even we are creating more problems for her and creating new gaps between other members too. So a request if u don't have any thing sensible to say pls don't behave like a kid.
Agree with Bagh on the above relpy but there is only one problem i can see if the rule for changing the name suggests one 1 year ban why she has been awarded a life time ban. But forget it and lets concenrate on the solution provided by the Bagh.
And Bagh pls do read this whole thread i m sure u can really find 2-3 members whom u can ban easily :)

deepika
February 19th, 2009, 10:55 AM
I partially agree with you.When the policy was to ban a person only for one year how this life ban came into the picture.Arr dusri baat pai i dont agree kyunki khatre ki ghanti meri kaan bhi baj sakti hai:D arr haan e Sunita manne na bera bebe tanne ke sukh milya ban mai par manne nai laagta tanne chood kai kisse aur nai sukh laagya ho ya laagega:Dkyukar khush ho aadmi jibb kisse thread pai reply karan ka jee ho arr kar naa pao ban ke kaaran...ibb toh issi feeling aa rahi hai jukar mai ibb bhi school mai hu jitt saare moderators teacher hai arr Baagh principal:Dpher ek baat hai ladayi bhi apnya tai hoya karai ibb ladd liye kaal pher ek saath.Iss baat pai ban den ka koi matlab nai:pJibb do raach gail honge toh baje bhi ge aur khudka hovaiga e:D:DMai toh mere ghar mai bhi ladd liya karu sab gail toh isska matlab vai bhi mera ban kar de ke ghar mai entry tai:mad::mad::mad:





That's the only solution by which SD can come back and i strogly beleive that we guys are not trying to approaching solution of the main issue even we are creating more problems for her and creating new gaps between other members too. So a request if u don't have any thing sensible to say pls don't behave like a kid.
Agree with Bagh on the above relpy but there is only one problem i can see if the rule for changing the name suggests one 1 year ban why she has been awarded a life time ban. But forget it and lets concenrate on the solution provided by the Bagh.
And Bagh pls do read this whole thread i m sure u can really find 2-3 members whom u can ban easily :)

prashantacmet
February 19th, 2009, 12:13 PM
That's the only solution by which SD can come back and i strogly beleive that we guys are not trying to approaching solution of the main issue even we are creating more problems for her and creating new gaps between other members too. So a request if u don't have any thing sensible to say pls don't behave like a kid.
Agree with Bagh on the above relpy but there is only one problem i can see if the rule for changing the name suggests one 1 year ban why she has been awarded a life time ban. But forget it and lets concenrate on the solution provided by the Bagh.
And Bagh pls do read this whole thread i m sure u can really find 2-3 members whom u can ban easily :)

Hi nishant,
as u are insisting bagh not to read the whole thread otherwise he will strike back hardly...I want to remind you taht bagh can ban all the members of this site easily:D bcz he is the authorised person for that;)...but mere bhai, u can't suppress the truth so long..it has to come on surface one day:)......
I remember when shweta joined this site how she was welcomed here!!!., A group of ppl caught a " word" used by her and first made a mockery and later on raised fingers on her writing skills:(.Was this behaviour OK with a new member at least when u know that newcomer is a better communicator than u.? ...It gives the smell of jealousy...but some ppl have the intellect:D:D.to present it in a ligher way......Infact, someppl here have a superiorty complex and they can't tolerate someone more intellect:rock:rock..like shweta.........that's the real problem....bhai tu adde nawa nawa aaya tanne eibblo byara hi kuch na.............

coolphool
February 19th, 2009, 12:43 PM
I love catfights!

mukeshkumar007
February 19th, 2009, 12:45 PM
That's the only solution by which SD can come back and i strogly beleive that we guys are not trying to approaching solution of the main issue even we are creating more problems for her and creating new gaps between other members too. So a request if u don't have any thing sensible to say pls don't behave like a kid.
Agree with Bagh on the above relpy but there is only one problem i can see if the rule for changing the name suggests one 1 year ban why she has been awarded a life time ban. But forget it and lets concenrate on the solution provided by the Bagh. And Bagh pls do read this whole thread i m sure u can really find 2-3 members whom u can ban easily :)

Nishant buddy, tell me one thing that had you been given the life term ban instead of one year ban as per the rule if you would have requested for name change, would you wanted to approach to the Mods to lift the ban ?

Don’t you think that the ban should be lifted unconditionally by the Mods?

Nishantrathi82
February 19th, 2009, 12:52 PM
Nishant buddy, tell me one thing that had you been given the life term ban instead of one year ban as per the rule if you would have requested for name change, would you wanted to approach to the Mods to lift the ban ?

Don’t you think that the ban should be lifted unconditionally by the Mods?

It has to be bhai but i m trying to resolve the issue because now its become a pride issue for the Mods too.In actual scene the ban has to to be uplift with out any condition.
I have just read the post by sumit it was amazing and sounds true word by word.
We all will miss him as we r missing SD.

SANDEEP5
February 19th, 2009, 12:58 PM
Dear Moderators, (Satyeshwar as well) Please closed this thread peacefully. Nahi to jitne members is thread par apne apne seeng bhidaane me lage hooye hain, usse lagta hai 2-4 member or isi chakkar me ban ho jayenge.

Jis kaam ke liye thread start ki gayi thi wo kaam ho chuka hai (as per satyeshwar quoted that Shweta can come back if she want).

Now there is no need to extend this thread unnecessarily. Nahi to wo hi hoga ki jaisa discussion is thread par ho raha hai usme personal comments jyada ho jayenge, EGO hurt hongi aur unme se kuchh par ban lag jayega. Fir un members par se ban hatane ke liye nayi thread start karenge.

To Mods please closed this thread. It is my humble request to you !!!!! :)

prashantacmet
February 19th, 2009, 01:19 PM
Dear Moderators, (Satyeshwar as well) Please closed this thread peacefully. Nahi to jitne members is thread par apne apne seeng bhidaane me lage hooye hain, usse lagta hai 2-4 member or isi chakkar me ban ho jayenge.

Jis kaam ke liye thread start ki gayi thi wo kaam ho chuka hai (as per satyeshwar quoted that Shweta can come back if she want).

Now there is no need to extend this thread unnecessarily. Nahi to wo hi hoga ki jaisa discussion is thread par ho raha hai usme personal comments jyada ho jayenge, EGO hurt hongi aur unme se kuchh par ban lag jayega. Fir un members par se ban hatane ke liye nayi thread start karenge.

To Mods please closed this thread. It is my humble request to you !!!!! :)

Ram ram bhai sandeepe.......
bhai mere tu shweta pai tai ban hatawan ki arr fer thread close karan ki humble request kar le ne........ sara khadu-khanna dab jyaga maadi si waar main...............:)

prashantacmet
February 19th, 2009, 03:02 PM
Dear admins , i request you again please comment here and lift the ban from shweta....

Thanks

SANDEEP5
February 19th, 2009, 03:16 PM
Dear admins , i request you again please comment here and lift the ban from shweta....

Thanks


Prashant Bhai, ab to aisa kuchh nahi hai ki hum request kare Mods se ki Ban hata do. Kyonki Satyeshwer already is thread me reply kar chuka hai ki agar Shweta ji Ban hatwaka fir se JL par aana chahti hain to ve Kisi bhi Mods se direct contact kare to Ban hat jayega aur ve JL par login kar sakti hain.

As per my view the problem has been solved and no point to extend this thread and make comments like request to Mods about lift the ban of Shweta. Now it,s Shweta's turn, she should contact to one of the Mods and get green signal for logging on JL.

Dhanyvaad !!!!! :)

kapdal
February 19th, 2009, 03:34 PM
Manne Shweta tai kade koye problem na thi arr na hai Simple reason i dont JUDGE people and don't measure their intellect based on the stuff posted here:)....par uska fizool ki baata pai ho-hala machana roz ka kaam ho gya jiss tai Moderator dukhi hogey, issa laage iss thread mai ek aur request daalni paddegi ke SHweta nai ek dedicated moderator de dyo jo uski iss intellect urge nai satisfy karta reh;) Arr sabke apney-apney interest hoya karein kise ka kuch likhan ka jee kare arr kise ka kuch padhann ka, iska matlab ke shikayat laatey raho mail likh-likh kai. Apney reasons le liye fight karo. I like few of her threads and posts but should i complain about which i don't like? Like she did....I'm sorry i don't expect any intellectual member to complain like this though i'll try my LEVEL BEST which is 57% (58% ho gya aage manne koye INTELLECTUAL baat kardi)at the moment, to meet her expectations:o

Madam,

I find it hard to believe that you don't realize that Shweta made those comments in a PRIVATE email. You are going on and on about her in a PUBLIC forum just because she criticized some of your threads in a personal email to the moderators. She was fighting against what she perceived as double standards. She may or may not be right. But she was definitely not picking an issue with you in that email. She won't even have known that there would be such a turn of events that the email would land here!! Now you have full right to be pissed off as your threads were criticized. If I was in your place, I'd have felt bad too. Really bad. But by going on a no-holds-barred against her, you are making a mockery of yourself. In fact, some time back, you had said that when you were reading Mukesh's first post, you were going to support it UNTIL you read his Haryana comment. And then the opposition to Shweta's ban was gone too when you read her email. Wow, that's amazingly high respect you have for your own beliefs. What surprises me even more is that apart from Deepika no one is even taking you on such ridiculous logic/behavior. All I can see is gutbaazi, so whatever you say, your supporters will support it. Comeon guys, get a life! If you feel so strongly about what she wrote in a personal email, then write to her and slog it out with her. Why call her names when she can't even reply back to you here?

The issue was not what she wrote in her email, the issue was about banning a person unjustly. And then there are people making comments like "She asked for it; it is moderators' decision, etc. etc.". Have you still not understood why she asked for it? And are you always in agreement with moderators' decision? All it is displaying here is that since you have decided that you don't like her, you want her to be banned. Is this what being a Jat means to you? The most important aspect of being a Jat according to me is to stand for what you believe is right. What beliefs are you guys standing for here?

PS: I am not writing this because I belong to Shweta's gang. I am too new to belong to any gang. Plus, I have had arguments with most people including Shweta. So before you come out baying for my blood, please give this a thought.

mukeshkumar007
February 19th, 2009, 03:39 PM
Prashant Bhai, ab to aisa kuchh nahi hai ki hum request kare Mods se ki Ban hata do. Kyonki Satyeshwer already is thread me reply kar chuka hai ki agar Shweta ji Ban hatwaka fir se JL par aana chahti hain to ve Kisi bhi Mods se direct contact kare to Ban hat jayega aur ve JL par login kar sakti hain.

As per my view the problem has been solved and no point to extend this thread and make comments like request to Mods about lift the ban of Shweta. Now it,s Shweta's turn, she should contact to one of the Mods and get green signal for logging on JL.

Dhanyvaad !!!!! :)

My Dear bhaishab.. agar kisi ko bejati karke ghar se behar nikal do aur phir yeh keho ki wo wapis ghar aa sakta hai agar parthna karke request kare to.. yeh keha ki baat huwi..

Dikat kye aa ri hai Mods ke uska ban hatane maie..:confused:

Meri Hath jod ke Mods se request hai ki karipya karke ban hata dijiye !! apke aabhari rehenge hum. Ban hata doge to apki ijaat maie koi kami nai ayegi..balki aur bad jayegi..

prashantacmet
February 19th, 2009, 04:03 PM
I love catfights!

Don't u love bullfight;)

prashantacmet
February 19th, 2009, 04:05 PM
Madam,

I find it hard to believe that you don't realize that Shweta made those comments in a PRIVATE email. You are going on and on about her in a PUBLIC forum just because she criticized some of your threads in a personal email to the moderators. She was fighting against what she perceived as double standards. She may or may not be right. But she was definitely not picking an issue with you in that email. She won't even have known that there would be such a turn of events that the email would land here!! Now you have full right to be pissed off as your threads were criticized. If I was in your place, I'd have felt bad too. Really bad. But by going on a no-holds-barred against her, you are making a mockery of yourself. In fact, some time back, you had said that when you were reading Mukesh's first post, you were going to support it UNTIL you read his Haryana comment. And then the opposition to Shweta's ban was gone too when you read her email. Wow, that's amazingly high respect you have for your own beliefs. What surprises me even more is that apart from Deepika no one is even taking you on such ridiculous logic/behavior. All I can see is gutbaazi, so whatever you say, your supporters will support it. Comeon guys, get a life! If you feel so strongly about what she wrote in a personal email, then write to her and slog it out with her. Why call her names when she can't even reply back to you here?

The issue was not what she wrote in her email, the issue was about banning a person unjustly. And then there are people making comments like "She asked for it; it is moderators' decision, etc. etc.". Have you still not understood why she asked for it? And are you always in agreement with moderators' decision? All it is displaying here is that since you have decided that you don't like her, you want her to be banned. Is this what being a Jat means to you? The most important aspect of being a Jat according to me is to stand for what you believe is right. What beliefs are you guys standing for here?

PS: I am not writing this because I belong to Shweta's gang. I am too new to belong to any gang. Plus, I have had arguments with most people including Shweta. So before you come out baying for my blood, please give this a thought.

Second best reply on this thread:rock:rock:rock

SANDEEP5
February 19th, 2009, 04:15 PM
My Dear bhaishab.. agar kisi ko bejati karke ghar se behar nikal do aur phir yeh keho ki wo wapis ghar aa sakta hai agar parthna karke request kare to.. yeh keha ki baat huwi..

Dikat kye aa ri hai Mods ke uska ban hatane maie..:confused:

Meri Hath jod ke Mods se request hai ki karipya karke ban hata dijiye !! apke aabhari rehenge hum. Ban hata doge to apki ijaat maie koi kami nai ayegi..balki aur bad jayegi..


Bhai Mukesh aisi baat nahi hai, Jaisa ki aapne likhe "agar kisi ko bejati karke ghar se behar nikal do aur phir ye keho ki wo wapis ghar aa sakta hai agar parthna karke request kare to.."

Agar aap sabhi log JL ko apna ghar maante ho to isme izzat aur beizzati wali baat nahi honi chahiye. JATLAND ko apna ghar maan ke chalo to koi bhi behas ya vivaad itna gambheer roop dhaaran nahi karegi, jitna is baar is maamle me hooa hai.

Agar ghar ki baat hai to jo mails Shweta ne Mods ko likhe hain ya aap ko likhe hain unhe kyon yahan sarvajanik kiya ja raha hai. usme kaafi saari aisi apattijanak baate hain jo jis ke baare me kahi gayi hain use wo hurt karengi. unhi baato ko mudda banakar ye chhoti si lekin mahatvapooran thread itni lambi aur behaspooran na hoti. Khair ab main isi mudde ko utha kar aap me se kisi ke saath behas me nahi padna chahta. Kisi bhi member ke liye ban hona sabse dukhad baat hai. ye nahi hona chahiye.

Ya to ek suggestion de do admin walo ko ki CRICKET ki tarah se yahan bhi Mods ke upar ek 3rd umpire niyukt kar do. jisse faisle lene me aasani ho.

Baaki bhai aap sabhi log padhe likhe aur samajhdaar ho.

Note:- Kripya kar ke upar likhi baato ko lekar koi bhi apne man me mere prati galat na soche. if somebody does not agree with my views and my statements hurm him or her tab meri dono haath jod kar maafi.

:)

prashantacmet
February 19th, 2009, 04:41 PM
Bhai Mukesh aisi baat nahi hai, Jaisa ki aapne likhe "agar kisi ko bejati karke ghar se behar nikal do aur phir ye keho ki wo wapis ghar aa sakta hai agar parthna karke request kare to.."

Agar aap sabhi log JL ko apna ghar maante ho to isme izzat aur beizzati wali baat nahi honi chahiye. JATLAND ko apna ghar maan ke chalo to koi bhi behas ya vivaad itna gambheer roop dhaaran nahi karegi, jitna is baar is maamle me hooa hai.

Agar ghar ki baat hai to jo mails Shweta ne Mods ko likhe hain ya aap ko likhe hain unhe kyon yahan sarvajanik kiya ja raha hai. usme kaafi saari aisi apattijanak baate hain jo jis ke baare me kahi gayi hain use wo hurt karengi. unhi baato ko mudda banakar ye chhoti si lekin mahatvapooran thread itni lambi aur behaspooran na hoti. Khair ab main isi mudde ko utha kar aap me se kisi ke saath behas me nahi padna chahta. Kisi bhi member ke liye ban hona sabse dukhad baat hai. ye nahi hona chahiye.

Ya to ek suggestion de do admin walo ko ki CRICKET ki tarah se yahan bhi Mods ke upar ek 3rd umpire niyukt kar do. jisse faisle lene me aasani ho.

Baaki bhai aap sabhi log padhe likhe aur samajhdaar ho.

Note:- Kripya kar ke upar likhi baato ko lekar koi bhi apne man me mere prati galat na soche. if somebody does not agree with my views and my statements hurm him or her tab meri dono haath jod kar maafi.

:)

bhai saahab aapka decision achaa hai ki aap bahas main nahi padna chahate...aap jaisse sulhe hue aadmi se yahi umeed hai hamme bhi...waise aap moderator banne laayak ho....sach main:D

Nishantrathi82
February 19th, 2009, 04:41 PM
Mujhe lagta hai iss site ka naam jaisa mujhe kisse ne bataya JATLAND se AKHADALAND kaar de na chaheye :D

SANDEEP5
February 19th, 2009, 05:00 PM
bhai saahab aapka decision achaa hai ki aap bahas main nahi padna chahate...aap jaisse sulhe hue aadmi se yahi umeed hai hamme bhi...waise aap moderator banne laayak ho....sach main:D


Fer mere peechhe lath le ke pade rahiyo ek inne aaj mhari post delete kar di, aaj mhare point kaat liye infraction ke. :D

Hum to Active member hi theek hain. Jis topic ke baare me jo jaankari ho usme likh de nahi te jo mhare to jyada gyaani dhyaani hain unke padh ke apne amal me le aave. itna hi bahoot hain. :)

Maniisha
February 19th, 2009, 05:10 PM
Stop one on one conversations !!!

Already clearified from moderators side so no need for
further discussions :rolleyes:


http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26567