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vikassingh1
March 7th, 2009, 04:01 AM
Hello everyone,

I just wished to get a feel for how people think on this forum.

With the society getting more educated and 'open' in thoughts about marriage, how many still believe that marriage should be within caste only (i.e. jat with a hindu jat only). That is ONLY within the caste after matching gotras etc.

Second-how many think that intercaste marriage is fine, what is more important is the match and the guy/ girl's family and education rather than being a jat. Or in other words Inter caste marriage is fine too.

Third-how many think that it is all about 2 people matching and possibly their families clicking atleast to some extent and has nothing to do with caste or even relegion or in other words Inter Relegion marriage is fine too.

I would like everyone to vote and not divert this thread with unnecessary mud slingling or personal attacks. Just voice their honest opinion.


I start by saying that I logically think marriage is an institution run on logic and compatibility mostly of 2 individuals (80%)and to some extent of families (20%). I support Inter -relegion marriage also if the case is logical and compatible.

regards,

Vikas

PS: even if someone long ago posted a thread like this, kindly reply constructively instead of slinging mud at myself or anyone else. One more thread will not harm the hard disk storage of the server database or anything else for this matter. Thanks!

deepika
March 7th, 2009, 05:51 AM
I dont know if such thread was ever posted before but i like this issue.I think we all human beings are individuals.Every individual is a bundle of dream in itself.We have no rights to put restrictions on him/her while chosing a life partner.Its not only about one day its about whole life so one shouldn't be handcuffed by this so called society crying over caste,religion or even sexual orientation.If one finds an ideal life partner in someone who is not of same caste or religion then one should go ahead and get married to the one.Sometimes our society is a hindrance in making our lives better and more meaningful.Most of the times even if a person's parents want to support their son/daughter in intercaste marriage they dont because they are more bothered about what people(society)will say.So sometimes society becomes more important to them than their child's happiness.Parents can still be liberal incase of a son but in a girl's case its worse.Girls are not even supppose to find a guy herself(though things are changing now) coz if she does it people will raise their eyebrows and she may be considered'Ideal Girl'.We think more about society then of ourselves.I think we should break and get out of this mindset.




Hello everyone,

I just wished to get a feel for how people think on this forum.

With the society getting more educated and 'open' in thoughts about marriage, how many still believe that marriage should be within caste only (i.e. jat with a hindu jat only). That is ONLY within the caste after matching gotras etc.

Second-how many think that intercaste marriage is fine, what is more important is the match and the guy/ girl's family and education rather than being a jat. Or in other words Inter caste marriage is fine too.

Third-how many think that it is all about 2 people matching and possibly their families clicking atleast to some extent and has nothing to do with caste or even relegion or in other words Inter Relegion marriage is fine too.

I would like everyone to vote and not divert this thread with unnecessary mud slingling or personal attacks. Just voice their honest opinion.


I start by saying that I logically think marriage is an institution run on logic and compatibility mostly of 2 individuals (80%)and to some extent of families (20%). I support Inter -relegion marriage also if the case is logical and compatible.

regards,

Vikas

PS: even if someone long ago posted a thread like this, kindly reply constructively instead of slinging mud at myself or anyone else. One more thread will not harm the hard disk storage of the server database or anything else for this matter. Thanks!

rakeshsehrawat
March 7th, 2009, 08:39 AM
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6110&highlight=intercaste


http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=9677&highlight=intercaste


http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=7466&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6872&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6338&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5165&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5967&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4351&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4353&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6841&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4323&highlight=intercaste

Choice is all Yours
:rock:rock:rock

ajayverma1973
March 7th, 2009, 10:36 AM
Rakesshe jatland ki dictionary khol di



http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6110&highlight=intercaste


http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=9677&highlight=intercaste


http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=7466&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6872&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6338&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5165&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5967&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4351&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4353&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6841&highlight=intercaste

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4323&highlight=intercaste

Choice is all Yours
:rock:rock:rock

VirenderNarwal
March 7th, 2009, 10:39 AM
As quoted and provided many links by Rakesh ji, it is already discussed in length, so the thread is being closed.