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pooja12goyat
December 3rd, 2009, 09:34 PM
kya kabhi kisi ne iss serial ko ya iske koi episode dekhe hain???
maine kabhi-2 kabhi dekhe to laga ki ye seiral hamare state haryana aur specially jaat society ke baare me galat fehmiaan faila reha hai. maana ki hamare state me sex ratio me kaafi difference per jo iss serial me dikhaya jareha hai wo to pure desh me hamari society ke bare me kafi galt fehmi paida erne wala hai.

aur ajkal to inhone bina hi uska reason jaane 1 hi got main shaadi ki vakalat kerni suru kardi hai.

waise hi pure desh me hamare state ko leke pehle hi bahut galat dharnaein hain rehi sahi kasar ab ye serial puri kar raha hai:confused:

rocky0036
December 3rd, 2009, 10:20 PM
kya kabhi kisi ne iss serial ko ya iske koi episode dekhe hain???
maine kabhi-2 kabhi dekhe to laga ki ye seiral hamare state haryana aur specially jaat society ke baare me galat fehmiaan faila reha hai. maana ki hamare state me sex ratio me kaafi difference per jo iss serial me dikhaya jareha hai wo to pure desh me hamari society ke bare me kafi galt fehmi paida erne wala hai.

aur ajkal to inhone bina hi uska reason jaane 1 hi got main shaadi ki vakalat kerni suru kardi hai.

waise hi pure desh me hamare state ko leke pehle hi bahut galat dharnaein hain rehi sahi kasar ab ye serial puri kar raha hai:confused:




kabi kabi sacch sunne ki bhi aadat dal leni chiye

anilsangwan
December 4th, 2009, 10:20 AM
Aur te bera nahi... par waa AMMA JI kasoooti s.... mari batti ne poorey gaam ki naasa mein lath de raakha sssss..... er uper tein uske chelley....


Your concern is right Pooja but serial has safeguarded itself by flashing a message that this serial does not represent any region or its people. To legally to safe hain serial aale.......... serial mein gaadiyan ki numberplate bhi HR ki jagah HA kar dee unn ne.... :(





kya kabhi kisi ne iss serial ko ya iske koi episode dekhe hain???
maine kabhi-2 kabhi dekhe to laga ki ye seiral hamare state haryana aur specially jaat society ke baare me galat fehmiaan faila reha hai. maana ki hamare state me sex ratio me kaafi difference per jo iss serial me dikhaya jareha hai wo to pure desh me hamari society ke bare me kafi galt fehmi paida erne wala hai.

aur ajkal to inhone bina hi uska reason jaane 1 hi got main shaadi ki vakalat kerni suru kardi hai.

waise hi pure desh me hamare state ko leke pehle hi bahut galat dharnaein hain rehi sahi kasar ab ye serial puri kar raha hai:confused:

anil_rathee
December 4th, 2009, 02:38 PM
Even one of my colleague from Kerala told me about this serial... And even he commented abt girl's situation in Haryana after watching this serial.

After that I tried watching few episodes of this but could not digest it....

How a single lady (from an elite family) speaking Haryanavi where the whole village is speaking in Hindi.....

Aisa lagya jaise America mein koyi Gaam bas rahya ho Hindustaniya ka err wahan ek Haryanavi lady jake raaj akran lag gi ho.......



kya kabhi kisi ne iss serial ko ya iske koi episode dekhe hain???
maine kabhi-2 kabhi dekhe to laga ki ye seiral hamare state haryana aur specially jaat society ke baare me galat fehmiaan faila reha hai. maana ki hamare state me sex ratio me kaafi difference per jo iss serial me dikhaya jareha hai wo to pure desh me hamari society ke bare me kafi galt fehmi paida erne wala hai.

aur ajkal to inhone bina hi uska reason jaane 1 hi got main shaadi ki vakalat kerni suru kardi hai.

waise hi pure desh me hamare state ko leke pehle hi bahut galat dharnaein hain rehi sahi kasar ab ye serial puri kar raha hai:confused:

sukhbirhooda
December 4th, 2009, 03:14 PM
To update all of you, All India Jat Mahasabha has written strongly and asked channel to debate/ stop this serial. Waiting channel Reply. Legal option is also open let's us see the the meeting outome----

anil_rathee
December 4th, 2009, 03:43 PM
Thank you Sirji..

Social issue should be raised on appropriate platform but with facts and proper solution not to just raise the TRPs.


To update all of you, All India Jat Mahasabha has written strongly and asked channel to debate/ stop this serial. Waiting channel Reply. Legal option is also open let's us see the the meeting outome----

anilsangwan
December 4th, 2009, 03:49 PM
To update all of you, All India Jat Mahasabha has written strongly and asked channel to debate/ stop this serial. Waiting channel Reply. Legal option is also open let's us see the the meeting outome----


Sir, if you notice, they have started showing disclaimer that they are not representing anything from any community. Now after this, do you think your legal actions will be taken seriously. These guys hire very good professional lawyers to take care of such things and probably those people only have suggested them to show disclaimers...


er mare battey us AMMA JI ke ghar ne "SANGWAN KHANDAAN" bataya karein :(

harish24
December 4th, 2009, 04:39 PM
Dear Jatlanders, i dont see anything wrong in the serial, One ammaji is speaking in Haryanvi and also called her family SANGWAN family but one must understand it is purely a filmy entertainment. In really sex ratio in Haryana, Delli and surroundings is on danger level than what is the harm to show these kind of things which are near to real.Mujhe to bhayo isme koi galat nahin lagya baki Jat chaudhurio ki marji, lekin ammaji ka aur Dharambir sangwan ka role badhia se.:D

bsanjusmily
December 4th, 2009, 10:41 PM
nothng wrong in this serial.....this is a fiction nt related to any one......bt frnds 1 thing is true tht ki in haryana it is a big prblm.....its realistic......in sm way........

daivischahal
December 5th, 2009, 12:50 PM
nothng wrong in this serial.....this is a fiction nt related to any one......bt frnds 1 thing is true tht ki in haryana it is a big prblm.....its realistic......in sm way........

i didnt watch a single episode of this serial, so don't know what is going on in it....
but Mr.Sanjay will you please explain WHAT PROBLEMS DO HARYANA HAVE?
and also put some light on how u know about THOSE PROBLEMS?

and to all HARYANVIS who think that this serial can do harm to us, i would like to say only one thing:
.....KUTTE BHONKTE RAHTE HAIN, LEKIN US SE NA HI HAATHI PAR KOI FARAK PADTA HAI NA HI HATHI KI CHAAL PAR.......

vinaysirohi
December 5th, 2009, 01:44 PM
pooja koi bhi serial kisi state k baare mein koi galat cheez nahi dikha sakta.haryana mein ye cheez hogi tabhi shayad ye serial start kiya gaya hai. ye fact hai hai ki aaj ke time mein bhi haryana ke kai gaaon mein ye kupratha chal rahi hai ki wh ladki ke janam ko abhishaap maante hai.tabhi uss serial mein wh amma ji bhi nue kehve "AKK JEEYEGI TEH BHOJ BANKE PAAR LAGA DO ISNE":rock

PAWANCHAUDHARY
December 5th, 2009, 02:17 PM
Sahi Baat hai Vinay Bhai, Pooja ke according, haryana main aisa hi hota hoga

pooja12goyat
December 5th, 2009, 03:08 PM
serial banane walo ko sayad hamare social structure(village) ki koi family kitni bhi dominating ho sara gaon usse dab kar nahin rehta speciaaly 1 aurat se. aur ye amma ji (meghna malik) to khud haryanavi hai:mad:

ajaysinghkundu
December 5th, 2009, 03:11 PM
Apni apni problem har region mein hoti hain (possibly hoti hongi, as I think the society itself has improved a lot. This serial seems 20 years later than it should have been telecast).. But dont you think that hatred against the girl child are highly exaggerated in this serial which makes it difficult to digest..

And the interesting part - The story revolves around a woman who is the head of a society againt women.

ajaysinghkundu
December 5th, 2009, 03:23 PM
Laado to aake hi rahegi....... most of my friends have been blessed with daughters in recent times..

Times and things have changed..... Watch the serials for entertainment... if you dont find entertaining watch something else.... dont shoot your BP up for issues that were issues long back...

rocky0036
December 5th, 2009, 03:52 PM
pooja koi bhi serial kisi state k baare mein koi galat cheez nahi dikha sakta.haryana mein ye cheez hogi tabhi shayad ye serial start kiya gaya hai. ye fact hai hai ki aaj ke time mein bhi haryana ke kai gaaon mein ye kupratha chal rahi hai ki wh ladki ke janam ko abhishaap maante hai.tabhi uss serial mein wh amma ji bhi nue kehve "AKK JEEYEGI TEH BHOJ BANKE PAAR LAGA DO ISNE":rock

aaj kal baccho ki soch
ye haryana ye delhi ye up

haryana main ye hota hoga
up main ye hota hoga

delhi main kya hota hai bataao

sare delhi walo ka whi kaam hai kya .............cool:rolleyes:

Khatkar
December 5th, 2009, 06:40 PM
pooja koi bhi serial kisi state k baare mein koi galat cheez nahi dikha sakta.haryana mein ye cheez hogi tabhi shayad ye serial start kiya gaya hai. ye fact hai hai ki aaj ke time mein bhi haryana ke kai gaaon mein ye kupratha chal rahi hai ki wh ladki ke janam ko abhishaap maante hai.tabhi uss serial mein wh amma ji bhi nue kehve "AKK JEEYEGI TEH BHOJ BANKE PAAR LAGA DO ISNE":rock


Pooja you absolutely right

Sirohi Sir prove that this serial creating the misunderstanding about Haryana.

Sirohi sir, It's true that problem is there, but Punjab is being the worst as compared to Haryana ( See the statics released by UNICEF ).Now statics for Haryana are in reverse gear as result of some encouragement policies started for Girls by Haryana govt. & paradigm shift by young married couples.Moreover Haryana comes after Maharastra, Gujarat, HP etc.

And I am not defending Haryana , but issue should be raised as social responsibility not for money making.Television is mirror of society , so it should reflect the things in positive way.



http://www.unicef.org/india/media_3285.htm

pooja12goyat
December 5th, 2009, 09:37 PM
nothng wrong in this serial.....this is a fiction nt related to any one......bt frnds 1 thing is true tht ki in haryana it is a big prblm.....its realistic......in sm way........
by the way Mr. Sanjay jo iss serial me dikhaya hai(paida hote hi ladkiyon ko maar dena) wo haryana me to kahin dekha nahin par rajasthan me jaroor hota tha specially rajputon me.
haan haryana me ladke ki chahat me 1 ghar me kai baar kai kai ladkiyon ke baad jaroor ladke hote dekhe hain par wo sab ladkiyaan jee rahi hoti hain aur wo bhi bade sahi tarike se......

daivischahal
December 5th, 2009, 09:55 PM
by the way Mr. Sanjay jo iss serial me dikhaya hai(paida hote hi ladkiyon ko maar dena) wo haryana me to kahin dekha nahin par rajasthan me jaroor hota tha specially rajputon me.
haan haryana me ladke ki chahat me 1 ghar me kai baar kai kai ladkiyon ke baad jaroor ladke hote dekhe hain par wo sab ladkiyaan jee rahi hoti hain aur wo bhi bade sahi tarike se......

pooja i dont know about rajasthan, but what u said about haryana is absolutely right......

and one thing is sure, the serial has a great influence on Mr.Sanjay's mind......

daivischahal
December 5th, 2009, 10:01 PM
pooja koi bhi serial kisi state k baare mein koi galat cheez nahi dikha sakta.haryana mein ye cheez hogi tabhi shayad ye serial start kiya gaya hai. ye fact hai hai ki aaj ke time mein bhi haryana ke kai gaaon mein ye kupratha chal rahi hai ki wh ladki ke janam ko abhishaap maante hai.tabhi uss serial mein wh amma ji bhi nue kehve "AKK JEEYEGI TEH BHOJ BANKE PAAR LAGA DO ISNE":rock

vinay ye app apne personal experience k base par kah rahe ho ya fir is serial se ya kahi or se suni hui baaton ke base par.......
kya aap mujhe aise 1-2 gaaon ke naam bataenge.......
kyonki agar aisa hai to hum haryana vaasiyon ki ye duty banati hai ki hum un gaavon me jaakar,un logon ko samjhaen......
really i will go there.....you just give the name of villages......

daivischahal
December 5th, 2009, 10:08 PM
Pooja you absolutely right

Sirohi Sir prove that this serial creating the misunderstanding about Haryana.

Sirohi sir, It's true that problem is there, but Punjab is being the worst as compared to Haryana ( See the statics released by UNICEF ).Now statics for Haryana are in reverse gear as result of some encouragement policies started for Girls by Haryana govt. & paradigm shift by young married couples.Moreover Haryana comes after Maharastra, Gujarat, HP etc.

And I am not defending Haryana , but issue should be raised as social responsibility not for money making.Television is mirror of society , so it should reflect the things in positive way.



khatkar sahab aapse ye umid to nahi thi.......
may i know why you are not defending ur state.......dont u think that u should clear people that no such things happen in our state now.......or do u think that people still think that there daughter is a ABHISHAP for them n they should get rid of her.....i dont think so......

vrshokeen
December 5th, 2009, 10:24 PM
Jatland bhi areasim ka sikaar ho gaya lagta hein
Friends
if this serials indicates Haryana perhaps it is supposed to be due to the language used by one of the main character but that language is an integral Part of Delhi Western UP and of course some part of Rajasthan
if it is indicating JATS need to clarify other things like ruling of that lady on all others and teaching some good lession to the SDM and so on

So just take the positive rest of the things will be settled once we wont highlight it neither it will be a hit and we ..............

Karamjeet
December 6th, 2009, 08:10 AM
Badiya to hain....Log dare reh ge.....HARYANA aala te

Koye doosre state ka....apni chori ne na dhakave ga apne haryana main......kade chori ka bhi vohe haal karde jo na-janmi ka kara se.(Hypothetical though)

pooja12goyat
December 6th, 2009, 09:51 AM
[QUOTE=vrshokeen;233866]Jatland bhi areasim ka sikaar ho gaya lagta hein
Friends
if this serials indicates Haryana perhaps it is supposed to be due to the language used by one of the main character but that language is an integral Part of Delhi Western UP and of course some part of Rajasthan
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actually sir isme jo gaon dikhaya gaya hai wo karnal se 10 KM dur ka dikhaya gaya hai.....

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December 6th, 2009, 10:49 PM
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vinaysirohi
December 6th, 2009, 11:24 PM
khatkar sahab aapse ye umid to nahi thi.......
may i know why you are not defending ur state.......dont u think that u should clear people that no such things happen in our state now.......or do u think that people still think that there daughter is a ABHISHAP for them n they should get rid of her.....i dont think so......
sandeep bhaisahab ye fact hai ki haryana ke mostly villages aise hai jahan ladki ke paida hone ko maatam ki tarah treat kiya jata hai.kisi ke ladka ho ja toh pure gaam ne dawat di jaawe hai arr chhori hoja teh we kisi ko batane mein bhi sharam mehsus kare hai.aur ye statement mein kisi serial ke base par nahi de raha. ye sab mera apna dekha hua hai.:rock

lalit_nashier
December 7th, 2009, 12:47 AM
by the way Mr. Sanjay jo iss serial me dikhaya hai(paida hote hi ladkiyon ko maar dena) wo haryana me to kahin dekha nahin par rajasthan me jaroor hota tha specially rajputon me.
haan haryana me ladke ki chahat me 1 ghar me kai baar kai kai ladkiyon ke baad jaroor ladke hote dekhe hain par wo sab ladkiyaan jee rahi hoti hain aur wo bhi bade sahi tarike se......

well said ....,,,,,,

tomarhitesh23
December 7th, 2009, 08:32 AM
i didnt watch a single episode of this serial, so don't know what is going on in it....
but Mr.Sanjay will you please explain WHAT PROBLEMS DO HARYANA HAVE?
and also put some light on how u know about THOSE PROBLEMS?


Bhai Chahal tu ja pehle serial dekh tujhe aap bera patt jaga.... ab har cheej ka answer poochna bhol jao.... bade ho jao thode....:rock:rock


kyonki agar aisa hai to hum haryana vaasiyon ki ye duty banati hai ki hum un gaavon me jaakar,un logon ko samjhaen......
really i will go there.....you just give the name of villages......

yeh baat tune kuchh samjhdari ki si kari.... makka tawla ja der matna kariye... ibbe vinay kitne naam ginawe ka tujhe.. sarra kunba hi aisa hai....:rock:rock

tomarhitesh23
December 7th, 2009, 08:37 AM
khatkar sahab aapse ye umid to nahi thi.......
may i know why you are not defending ur state.......dont u think that u should clear people that no such things happen in our state now.......or do u think that people still think that there daughter is a ABHISHAP for them n they should get rid of her.....i dont think so......
sandeep bhaisahab ye fact hai ki haryana ke mostly villages aise hai jahan ladki ke paida hone ko maatam ki tarah treat kiya jata hai.kisi ke ladka ho ja toh pure gaam ne dawat di jaawe hai arr chhori hoja teh we kisi ko batane mein bhi sharam mehsus kare hai.aur ye statement mein kisi serial ke base par nahi de raha. ye sab mera apna dekha hua hai.:rock

Bhai vinay ab tu kisse sudharne chala hai ..... chhod mere yaar mast reh.... ek aadi ladki hum bacha bhi lenge to koi farak nahi padta mere bhai...wahan ladkiyan vote to apni marji se ger nahi sakti .... ladkiyoon ki aisi jindgi pe dhikkar hai...

yo poonch seedhi honaalli na :rock:rock:rock.

vicky84
December 7th, 2009, 08:41 AM
Bhai Chahal tu ja pehle serial dekh tujhe aap bera patt jaga.... ab har cheej ka answer poochna bhol jao.... bade ho jao thode....:rock:rock



yeh baat tune kuchh samjhdari ki si kari.... makka tawla ja der matna kariye... ibbe vinay kitne naam ginawe ka tujhe.. sarra kunba hi aisa hai....:rock:rock

I think you have got some serious issues with your thinking. I have noticed so many times that you have got no comments to back up. Better off you may refrain from replying. Thanks.

rocky0036
December 7th, 2009, 08:51 AM
khatkar sahab aapse ye umid to nahi thi.......
may i know why you are not defending ur state.......dont u think that u should clear people that no such things happen in our state now.......or do u think that people still think that there daughter is a ABHISHAP for them n they should get rid of her.....i dont think so......
sandeep bhaisahab ye fact hai ki haryana ke mostly villages aise hai jahan ladki ke paida hone ko maatam ki tarah treat kiya jata hai.kisi ke ladka ho ja toh pure gaam ne dawat di jaawe hai arr chhori hoja teh we kisi ko batane mein bhi sharam mehsus kare hai.aur ye statement mein kisi serial ke base par nahi de raha. ye sab mera apna dekha hua hai.:rock
200 saal purni baat karo rhe ho aap mate

asia kuch nhi........

galt insaan her jagha hai sirf haryana ya india main hi nhi
or acche insaan bhi her jagha hai...

rocky0036
December 7th, 2009, 09:05 AM
Bhai vinay ab tu kisse sudharne chala hai ..... chhod mere yaar mast reh.... ek aadi ladki hum bacha bhi lenge to koi farak nahi padta mere bhai...wahan ladkiyan vote to apni marji se ger nahi sakti .... ladkiyoon ki aisi jindgi pe dhikkar hai...

yo poonch seedhi honaalli na :rock:rock:rock.

kasie khe sakte ho ladkiya vote nhi ger sakti aapni marzi se

jab vote gerne jate hai kisko pata chalta hi nhi kisne kisko dali hai

listen ........ ladki akhir ladki hi hoti hai

her ladki ki ek alag image hoti hai che wo delhi ki ho, haryana ki ho ya UP ki ho:mad:

60% maa-baap asie hai jo ladko se jayda ladkiyo ko support karte hai .

kabi up se bhar nikal kar dhekna sab change ho gaya hai

daivischahal
December 7th, 2009, 10:20 AM
sandeep bhaisahab ye fact hai ki haryana ke mostly villages aise hai jahan ladki ke paida hone ko maatam ki tarah treat kiya jata hai.kisi ke ladka ho ja toh pure gaam ne dawat di jaawe hai arr chhori hoja teh we kisi ko batane mein bhi sharam mehsus kare hai.aur ye statement mein kisi serial ke base par nahi de raha. ye sab mera apna dekha hua hai.:rock
vinay bhai ya baat to mai bhi maanu hu ki ladka paida hon pa jyada khushi manayi ja hai....par bhai ya baat galat hai ki ladki hon pa maatam manaya ja hai........aisa 10-15 saal pahle hota tha.........ab sab kuch badal gaya hai......
ladkiyan ne bhi sab english medium school ma bhejan hai padan khatar.......
harayana ke jitne bhi engineering college ya medical college sab ma kam te kam 20% ladkiyan hai.....
or agar school ki baat karen to kam te kam 30% ladkiyan hai.....
bhai tu to KURUKSHETRA UNIVERSITY bhi ja rya hai.......wahan dekh ka laga hai k ladkiyan ke saath partiality ho ri hai.....ya unhe education ni di jaandi.....bhai ye sab bite time ki baat ho chuki hai.......

anilsangwan
December 7th, 2009, 11:32 AM
Conming back to the TOPIC of this thread:

I watched CM Hooda on haryana News yesterday. He was addressing some college girls in Rohtak. One thing which I liked in his speech was that he told girl to be strong against Female Foeticide. Also he told that clearly that even ladies as as much responsible as the men are. If wife is strong enough to put her foot down for this and say NO to foeticide, it can not happen.

sunitahooda
December 7th, 2009, 12:38 PM
Ek tai jattan mai sab tai bhundi bimari yaa akk sach jantey hodd bi jhuth ki vakalat kare jaangey....jo "LADO" mai deekhaya gaya hai woh ek dum sahi hai.....ibb gaam ka naam manna bujhiyo koye sa.....bhunda sakka ho jaga.....ek reason yo ke baat ghani purani holi arr dusra reason yo k thodi-ghani ibbi sarey kai ye baat honn laagri hain....daba di jati hain ye alag baat hai. Sonography ban hoye paache bhi lugayi doctor nai ghane pissey de kai ye test karaya karein akk chhora sai ya chhori.....chahe abortion na karave....Arr time bohot ghana badal gya hai par iska matlab ye nahi hai ke "JAT" poori tarah badal gaye hain. Arr 200 saal koye ghana purana tame thoda ho liya? kisse ki bhi 3 peedhi?....kis-kis ke ghar mein hum jaa kai jhaank sakein hain?

Aaj ke jamaney mai bhi padhi-likhi modern families mai manne apni JAT budhi-therri Cheeni/Chai-Patti/Ghee/Mithayi kai taale thokke dekhi hain:mad:

P.S.- I don't want to loose good friends everytime i write something here on these types of thread- Based on my PERSONAL experience n 100% true:o

tomarhitesh23
December 7th, 2009, 12:50 PM
Ek tai jattan mai sab tai bhundi bimari yaa akk sach jantey hodd bi jhuth ki vakalat kare jaangey....jo "LADO" mai deekhaya gaya hai woh ek dum sahi hai.....ibb gaam ka naam manna bujhiyo koye sa.....bhunda sakka ho jaga.....ek reason yo ke baat ghani purani holi arr dusra reason yo k thodi-ghani ibbi sarey kai ye baat honn laagri hain....daba di jati hain ye alag baat hai. Sonography ban hoye paache bhi lugayi doctor nai ghane pissey de kai ye test karaya karein akk chhora sai ya chhori.....chahe abortion na karave....Arr time bohot ghana badal gya hai par iska matlab ye nahi hai ke "JAT" poori tarah badal gaye hain. Arr 200 saal koye ghana purana tame thoda ho liya? kisse ki bhi 3 peedhi?....kis-kis ke ghar mein hum jaa kai jhaank sakein hain?

Aaj ke jamaney mai bhi padhi-likhi modern families mai manne apni JAT budhi-therri Cheeni/Chai-Patti/Ghee/Mithayi kai taale thokke dekhi hain:mad:

P.S.- I don't want to loose good friends everytime i write something here on these types of thread- Based on my PERSONAL experience n 100% true:o

yo ki saachi baat....Thanks for supporting truth...to be very clear this problem is not only with JATs from hariyana rather its with the JAT community as a whole.
ab muh lukoo lo pehlwaano:rock:rock:rock

tomarhitesh23
December 7th, 2009, 12:54 PM
Badiya to hain....Log dare reh ge.....HARYANA aala te

Koye doosre state ka....apni chori ne na dhakave ga apne haryana main......kade chori ka bhi vohe haal karde jo na-janmi ka kara se.(Hypothetical though)

jibbe hi mangta handoo :rock:rock

anil_rathee
December 7th, 2009, 01:05 PM
bhai maine to aaj tak aisa koi incident nahi dekha meri life mein
Ladkiyo ko laxmi ka roop mante hain..


pooja koi bhi serial kisi state k baare mein koi galat cheez nahi dikha sakta.haryana mein ye cheez hogi tabhi shayad ye serial start kiya gaya hai. ye fact hai hai ki aaj ke time mein bhi haryana ke kai gaaon mein ye kupratha chal rahi hai ki wh ladki ke janam ko abhishaap maante hai.tabhi uss serial mein wh amma ji bhi nue kehve "AKK JEEYEGI TEH BHOJ BANKE PAAR LAGA DO ISNE":rock

jitendershooda
December 7th, 2009, 01:07 PM
Ek tai jattan mai sab tai bhundi bimari yaa akk sach jantey hodd bi jhuth ki vakalat kare jaangey....jo "LADO" mai deekhaya gaya hai woh ek dum sahi hai.....:o

I have not watched this serial till now. But the thirst of boy child is still prevailing in our society though may be little less than earlier. It is there in all the castes of this area, Jats are also not spared.

I was in PGI rohtak day before yesterday and one Jat family from Baggad is forcing to carry on with pregnancy just because it is a boy child inside. Though 3 of the doctors have suggested abortion because of some deformity in the child. Its now 6th month and they bring her to medical. Medical docs did some tests and dont know if they want to experiment. They said there are chances but its marginal. God knows whats the truth. The 25 year old girl and 38 year old man are ready to abort but their parents are so much adamant that they also kept mum now.

So its clear that the sex determination is still very much easily available and so is the thirst of male child.

Though I havent heard of killing a girl child after birth in Jats. Neither it was earlier. Thakkar/Rajput to afem ka anta deke marte sune hein. Haan as Sunita pointed there were discrimination between upbringing of male and female child earlier.

deepshi
December 7th, 2009, 01:16 PM
I have not watched this serial till now. But the thirst of boy child is still prevailing in our society though may be little less than earlier. It is there in all the castes of this area, Jats are also not spared.

I was in PGI rohtak day before yesterday and one Jat family from Baggad is forcing to carry on with pregnancy just because it is a boy child inside. Though 3 of the doctors have suggested abortion because of some deformity in the child. Its now 6th month and they bring her to medical. Medical docs did some tests and dont know if they want to experiment. They said there are chances but its marginal. God knows whats the truth. The 25 year old girl and 38 year old man are ready to abort but their parents are so much adamant that they also kept mum now.

So its clear that the sex determination is still very much easily available and so is the thirst of male child.

Though I havent heard of killing a girl child after birth in Jats. Neither it was earlier. Thakkar/Rajput to afem ka anta deke marte sune hein. Haan as Sunita pointed there were discrimination between upbringing of male and female child earlier.

Ohh..Gawd..n the word shameful doesnt even begin to decribe!
probably they dont wot its to give birth to a child with deformity..jeez they are criminals and heartless of highest order..its life-long agony
thanks heavens, here it doesnt matter..n they can get sex-determinig kits over the counter from chemists,,but its just curiosty and to plan accordingly later..or maybe to think of naming their kids lolz..all the pray is the child is born normal n healthy...boy or girl

Karamjeet
December 7th, 2009, 01:23 PM
There was no discrimination ever while upbringing a female vs male child.

Balki meri maa to meri bhaan ne godi main bitha ke
roti khuati arr manne kati nahin...

Haan dadi zaroor meri baat manti , but her love towards my sis was no less...

deepshi
December 7th, 2009, 01:27 PM
There was no discrimination ever while upbringing a female vs male child.

Balki meri maa to meri bhaan ne godi main bitha ke
roti khuati arr manne kati nahin...

Haan dadi zaroor meri baat manti , but her love towards my sis was no less...
And my dad was always biased.
He always repremand me for not eating healthy, force fed me and took extra care that m well n healthy right from the time I was born
Bhai ki koyi chinta ni..beshak 10 din na khaa haha
he used to say gals hv to be extra careful for nutrition n health,,as his friends daughter had died during childbirth 2 yrs ago.

Karamjeet
December 7th, 2009, 01:31 PM
Many a times DOCTORs are half mad.

Once there was a campaign that NO DESI GHEE ,
marr jaonge..motapa cha ja ga...cholesterol....phalana...

Doctors are MAXIMUM money minded professional seen
now a days...private hospital aale to busss......bujo mat

Sirf padd ke doctor na bann sakta aadmi....
Unpad log gaam ke ..many a times....tell best techniques..................Numerous Examples come across

malikdeepak1
December 7th, 2009, 01:56 PM
I was in PGI rohtak

PGI to adda hai ji isse isse kaam khatir. PGI me sare kaam hove se sivay mareej ki sambhaal ke!! Iski to full form e se "Parlok Gya Insaan"!

So its clear that the sex determination is still very much easily available and so is the thirst of male child.

Yes, a baby BOY is still preferred in our side (not only in haryana). Par log ladkiyo ko marte nahi hai. Ha ladke ki chahat me jyaada bachhe jarur kar lete hai! :thappad

Haan as Sunita pointed there were discrimination between upbringing of male and female child earlier.

:D Discrimination to ib bhi hove se hooda saab, par mada farak se ib. Chori ne faltu sir pe chdawe se er Chore ne koe nahi boojhta ke kit paa bhidanta haande se:rock



Baaki natak main dekhya nahi karta. sab faltu fund se. :thappad

anilsangwan
December 7th, 2009, 02:10 PM
Baaki natak main dekhya nahi karta. sab faltu fund se. :thappad

Bhai ek be dekh le iss Naatak ne aaj evening aale episode mein...koye harz nahi.... Colors channel pe aaya kare...... mein nu kahu su us AMMA JI ka fan ho jaaga ..... er haan... waa artist asal mein koye Meghna Malik e s....Jatni....... menne koye batawe thaa... :)


GAZAB ki acting kare s matti... as I said earlier, saarey gaam ki naasa mein dhooma de raakhya s dyaakan ne,...

akshaymalik84
December 7th, 2009, 02:18 PM
On lighter note:

Purane time mai jab ladki hoya karti kise ghar mai te ladki ki Daadi kahya karti:"hey bhagwan....aagi 20,000 ki laatry" matlab jab wa badi howegi te Rs20,000 kharch karne padenge......

Malik khap aale is Meghna Malik k paache na laage se k ibbe.....:D

malikdeepak1
December 7th, 2009, 02:59 PM
Bhai ek be dekh le iss Naatak ne aaj evening aale episode mein...koye harz nahi.... Colors channel pe aaya kare......

Tam e khraab karna se bhaisaab!! Ye naatak ya to galat dharnaye failate hai ya ghar toden ke naye naye tareeke btawe se. Ek ber galti te "Kahin kissi roj" dekh liya tha. Main to hath jod gya us din pache. Mare bate kade ho kise ne mar de se,er kade ho kise ne jiva de se :thappad

daivischahal
December 7th, 2009, 03:48 PM
.....ibb gaam ka naam manna bujhiyo koye sa.....bhunda sakka ho jaga.....ek reason yo ke baat ghani purani holi arr dusra reason yo k thodi-ghani ibbi sarey kai ye baat honn laagri hain....

ar yahi baat to hum kah rah hain ki ib aisa konya honda haryana ma.....ye sab purani baat hai.....


Arr time bohot ghana badal gya hai par iska matlab ye nahi hai ke "JAT" poori tarah badal gaye hain.
hath ki paancho ungaliya baraabar ni hondi.....ar yahan to baat insaano ki ho ri hai.......to laazmi hai ki saari tarah k paa jan ge......
par majority unki hai jo chhori na we saari suvidha devan hai jo ek chhore na mila hai.......

Arr 200 saal koye ghana purana tame thoda ho liya? kisse ki bhi 3 peedhi?
kamal hai app 200 saal na bhi ghana na mante......par haryana ma ya saare badlaav pachhle 5-7 saal ma aaliye hai.....itne lamba time span rakhoge to fer ib tak to bharat azad bhi na hoya.....


....kis-kis ke ghar mein hum jaa kai jhaank sakein hain?
matlab appne 2-4 case ise dekh ka nu maan liya k saare haryane ma yuhi hota hoga.......par jo log apni chhori na chhore jitna pyaar karan hai, unha dekh ka nu na kaha ke saara haryana aapni chhoriyan ne chhoryan wala pyar ar suvidha dentaa hoga........STRANGE......

rocky0036
December 7th, 2009, 06:08 PM
ar yahi baat to hum kah rah hain ki ib aisa konya honda haryana ma.....ye sab purani baat hai.....


hath ki paancho ungaliya baraabar ni hondi.....ar yahan to baat insaano ki ho ri hai.......to laazmi hai ki saari tarah k paa jan ge......
par majority unki hai jo chhori na we saari suvidha devan hai jo ek chhore na mila hai.......

kamal hai app 200 saal na bhi ghana na mante......par haryana ma ya saare badlaav pachhle 5-7 saal ma aaliye hai.....itne lamba time span rakhoge to fer ib tak to bharat azad bhi na hoya.....


matlab appne 2-4 case ise dekh ka nu maan liya k saare haryane ma yuhi hota hoga.......par jo log apni chhori na chhore jitna pyaar karan hai, unha dekh ka nu na kaha ke saara haryana aapni chhoriyan ne chhoryan wala pyar ar suvidha dentaa hoga........STRANGE......
maa ka pyar sabke liye barbar hota hai.na ki ladke ke liye jayda or ladki ke liye kam . ladke se jayda care ladki ki hoti .insaan her trha ke hote hai bhai.....her caste main na ki sirf jaato main

sunitahooda
December 7th, 2009, 10:09 PM
Bas ek baat bata dyo fer aap...

1. Ke chhora honn pai thaali kyu bajaya karein?
2. Chhore ka dashottan karya karein....kade chhoriyan ka dashottan na sunya arr na kisse nai karya
3. Kuan pujan ka pakka dhyan nahi...par apne najdeeki rishtedaron mein ladka hone pe hi kuan poojtey dekha hia
4. Ladka ho jaye to nanad ko sone ke gahne diye jatey hian...ladki ho to kahtey hian....rahan dyo thare to pahlyaye chhori hori hai...yo ke chhota dukh hai:D

5. Arr 15-20 saal pahle to chhori hoya karti to Jachha ka goond bhi na ghaalya karein the- Saasu wagera nyu kahti akk issa ke LAAL jaam rakhya hai jo goond khuwavein:rolleyes:

P.S.-Thali bajaan aali 200 saal purani konya meri jaan mai....aaj bhi bajavein hain sare kai:)
ar yahi baat to hum kah rah hain ki ib aisa konya honda haryana ma.....ye sab purani baat hai.....


hath ki paancho ungaliya baraabar ni hondi.....ar yahan to baat insaano ki ho ri hai.......to laazmi hai ki saari tarah k paa jan ge......
par majority unki hai jo chhori na we saari suvidha devan hai jo ek chhore na mila hai.......

kamal hai app 200 saal na bhi ghana na mante......par haryana ma ya saare badlaav pachhle 5-7 saal ma aaliye hai.....itne lamba time span rakhoge to fer ib tak to bharat azad bhi na hoya.....


matlab appne 2-4 case ise dekh ka nu maan liya k saare haryane ma yuhi hota hoga.......par jo log apni chhori na chhore jitna pyaar karan hai, unha dekh ka nu na kaha ke saara haryana aapni chhoriyan ne chhoryan wala pyar ar suvidha dentaa hoga........STRANGE......

rekharathee
December 7th, 2009, 10:15 PM
meri ek frend hai.......ve char bahan hain,va sabte chhoti hai.nu kah thi jab main hoyi thi te meri daadi ke 10 din tain taap na uttrya tha..hahhahahahahahaaha

rocky0036
December 7th, 2009, 10:23 PM
Bas ek baat bata dyo fer aap...

1. Ke chhora honn pai thaali kyu bajaya karein?
2. Chhore ka dashottan karya karein....kade chhoriyan ka dashottan na sunya arr na kisse nai karya
3. Kuan pujan ka pakka dhyan nahi...par apne najdeeki rishtedaron mein ladka hone pe hi kuan poojtey dekha hia
4. Ladka ho jaye to nanad ko sone ke gahne diye jatey hian...ladki ho to kahtey hian....rahan dyo thare to pahlyaye chhori hori hai...yo ke chhota dukh hai:D

5. Arr 15-20 saal pahle to chhori hoya karti to Jachha ka goond bhi na ghaalya karein the- Saasu wagera nyu kahti akk issa ke LAAL jaam rakhya hai jo goond khuwavein:rolleyes:

P.S.-Thali bajaan aali 200 saal purani konya meri jaan mai....aaj bhi bajavein hain sare kai:)

number 2 wali baat aapki bilkul shi hai ..
her ghar main ladki ko asia nhi samja jata..... hamhare yha to ager ladka ladka ho to usko pooja karne bhi nhi leke jata

ladka
+ladki ho to pooja karwane leke jate devi pe

joot bina to pooja bhi na karwate.....

rocky0036
December 7th, 2009, 10:27 PM
On lighter note:

Purane time mai jab ladki hoya karti kise ghar mai te ladki ki Daadi kahya karti:"hey bhagwan....aagi 20,000 ki laatry" matlab jab wa badi howegi te Rs20,000 kharch karne padenge......

Malik khap aale is Meghna Malik k paache na laage se k ibbe.....:D

eb bolte hai ghar main laxmi ayi hai devi ayi hai :rock

lalit_nashier
December 8th, 2009, 03:30 AM
meri ek frend hai.......ve char bahan hain,va sabte chhoti hai.nu kah thi jab main hoyi thi te meri daadi ke 10 din tain taap na uttrya tha..hahhahahahahahaaha

ib utar gya uska taap ... ;) hehehehehehe

sunitahooda
December 8th, 2009, 08:38 AM
Ladki ko to "ASIA" tab bhi nahi samjha jata tha aur ab bhi nahi samajh saktey....Tanne phonetical hindi IBB tayi na likhni aayi? Kadd seekhega fer...Kodd badda tai ho liya:o
number 2 wali baat aapki bilkul shi hai ..
her ghar main ladki ko asia nhi samja jata..... hamhare yha to ager ladka ladka ho to usko pooja karne bhi nhi leke jata

ladka
+ladki ho to pooja karwane leke jate devi pe

joot bina to pooja bhi na karwate.....

rocky0036
December 8th, 2009, 08:47 AM
Ladki ko to "ASIA" tab bhi nahi samjha jata tha aur ab bhi nahi samajh saktey....Tanne phonetical hindi IBB tayi na likhni aayi? Kadd seekhega fer...Kodd badda tai ho liya:o

nhi ji sunita ji 60% asie ghar hai jin main ladkiyo ko jayda support milti hai.............ladko se or unhe milni bhi chiye unhe jayda support ki jarurt hoti hai coz girls jayda emotional hoti hai ................or hindi aapne muje shikyi hi nhi ..............u r experts in hindi

VirJ
December 8th, 2009, 09:00 AM
nhi ji sunita ji 60% asie ghar hai jin main ladkiyo ko jayda support milti hai

Sunita sahi kah rahi he. 60% ladkiyon ko jayada support milti he ??? Kaunse desh me?? Shayad tu shahron ki bat kar raha he jo gam me rahte he unse pucho kitni support milti he

rocky0036
December 8th, 2009, 09:21 AM
Sunita sahi kah rahi he. 60% ladkiyon ko jayada support milti he ??? Kaunse desh me?? Shayad tu shahron ki bat kar raha he jo gam me rahte he unse pucho kitni support milti he

main gam main rhata hu bhai...... issi mhan desh ki baat kar rha hu main .................jitni respect india pakistan main girls ko di jati hai dunai main khi nhi di jati....................aaj ke tame pe kitne asie hai jinke pass sirf ek ladki hai or unhone ne kabi ladke ke bare main socha nhi.........mate insaan sare acche nhi hai per sirf jaat hi bure nhi hai...........sirf jaat hone se koi ravan nhi banta sabse phele ek koi bhi caste ho akhir ek insaan hai

VirJ
December 8th, 2009, 09:36 AM
main gam main rhata hu bhai...... issi mhan desh ki baat kar rha hu main .................jitni respect india pakistan main girls ko di jati hai dunai main khi nhi di jati....................aaj ke tame pe kitne asie hai jinke pass sirf ek ladki hai or unhone ne kabi ladke ke bare main socha nhi.........mate insaan sare acche nhi hai per sirf jaat hi bure nhi hai...........sirf jaat hone se koi ravan nhi banta sabse phele ek koi bhi caste ho akhir ek insaan hai

Bhai me sirf Jaton ki bat nahi kar raha tha. Me in general haryana ki bat kar raha tha. Bhai mene to nu dekha me log nu kahte he iski to kismat fut ri he 3 chori hogi lagte hi har nu bhi dekha he ladke ke chakkar me log 5-5 chori pada kar de he har pher aapki kismat ne rove he. Han in sabka main karan gareebi he agar gareebi na hoti to log aisa shayad na mante( just my personal opinion). Ladki ka baya jab tak nahi hoje vo baap ke karz mani jati he vo uski sabse badi tension hoti he life ki. Mene to nu dekha he ladki ko log boz mante har laxmi vo agle ghar me (bhau) jakar banti he

Par agar teri bat sach he to ye hamare samaj ke liye bahot achi bat he me bhi chahta hun ke asa hi ho.

P.S: These are just my personal opinion based on my personal observations.

malikdeepak1
December 8th, 2009, 09:50 AM
ladke ke chakkar me log 5-5 chori pada kar de he

This is true, par ab to gaon me bhi shayad hi koi 3 bachho se jyada bachhe krta hoga. Maa-baap ko ab itna to samjh me aa hi chuka hai ki khaan ne daane nahi milenge je ghane balak jaam diye to.

Han in sabka main karan gareebi he agar gareebi na hoti to log aisa shayad na mante( just my personal opinion).

May be illiteracy has more major role in this social evil thinking!

Par agar teri bat sach he to ye hamare samaj ke liye bahot achi bat he me bhi chahta hun ke asa hi ho.



Bhai ab saksharta badh rahi hai har jagah. Thinking change ho rahi hai logo ki. Ladki ko ab bura nahi mana jata jo purane time me tha. Mostly aaj apni ladkiyo ko achi padhayi karwate hai,ache se rakhte hai, or ladki ko ghar ki ijjat mante hai! Things are changing and thats better for our society.

rocky0036
December 8th, 2009, 09:56 AM
Bhai me sirf Jaton ki bat nahi kar raha tha. Me in general haryana ki bat kar raha tha. Bhai mene to nu dekha me log nu kahte he iski to kismat fut ri he 3 chori hogi lagte hi har nu bhi dekha he ladke ke chakkar me log 5-5 chori pada kar de he har pher aapki kismat ne rove he. Han in sabka main karan gareebi he agar gareebi na hoti to log aisa shayad na mante( just my personal opinion). Ladki ka baya jab tak nahi hoje vo baap ke karz mani jati he vo uski sabse badi tension hoti he life ki. Mene to nu dekha he ladki ko log boz mante har laxmi vo agle ghar me (bhau) jakar banti he

Par agar teri bat sach he to ye hamare samaj ke liye bahot achi bat he me bhi chahta hun ke asa hi ho.

P.S: These are just my personal opinion based on my personal observations.
accha ek simple si baat batao aap
kya aap personally feel karte ho kya ladkiya bhoj hoti hai ghar main...............mere ghar main te ye baat boli jaya kare ki sab kuch in chorriya ki kismat te hai ....sab koi aapni kismat ka leke ave hai......jo log asie sochte hai ki ladkiya bhoj hai ..............unhe kiski beti ko aapne ghar ki bhau banne ka haqk bhi nhi hai......itni nafart hai to ladkiyo se rhe ke dhikyo unke bina

VirJ
December 8th, 2009, 10:05 AM
Bhai ab saksharta badh rahi hai har jagah.

Bhai Literate to ye sare jo 5vi ya 10vi ya 12vi fail he ye sare he par 10-12 pad lene se aadmi ki soch badal jaye ye jarrori nahi shayad tu literacy ki jageh jagrukta kahna cha raha tha han jagrukta jaroori he par jo gareeb nahi hota use ladki boz nahi lagti.

Ek 5vi pas insaan bhi jagrook ho sakta he har ek 12vi pas bhi agyani ho sakta he par donu literate hen. Han logon ki soch to badal rahi he par uski rate bahot kam he abhi bhi. Par mene dekha he ke jo nayi peede he unem ye sab cheezen itni nahi he which is good.

VirJ
December 8th, 2009, 10:07 AM
accha ek simple si baat batao aap
kya aap personally feel karte ho kya ladkiya bhoj hoti hai ghar main...............mere ghar main te ye baat boli jaya kare ki sab kuch in chorriya ki kismat te hai ....sab koi aapni kismat ka leke ave hai......jo log asie sochte hai ki ladkiya bhoj hai ..............unhe kiski beti ko aapne ghar ki bhau banne ka haqk bhi nhi hai......itni nafart hai to ladkiyo se rhe ke dhikyo unke bina

yar dont take it personally me teri bat nahi kar raha na hi teri soch pe doubt kar raha hun. Teri soch bahot badiya he. Me to un logon ki bat kar raha hun jinki soch tere jaisi nahi he aur dookh ki bat he ki unki shankhya( numbers) bahot jayada he

rocky0036
December 8th, 2009, 10:16 AM
yar dont take it personally me teri bat nahi kar raha na hi teri soch pe doubt kar raha hun. Teri soch bahot badiya he. Me to un logon ki bat kar raha hun jinki soch tere jaisi nahi he aur dookh ki bat he ki unki shankhya( numbers) bahot jayada he

come on jab ham itna bura nhi sochte tho baki sab bhi itna bura nhi socte.

aapa accha to jag accha.......:)hardly 10 % log asie hoga ab to

i am single i dont have kids how can i take it personally

sanjaymalik
December 8th, 2009, 10:32 AM
Bas ek baat bata dyo fer aap...

1. Ke chhora honn pai thaali kyu bajaya karein?
2. Chhore ka dashottan karya karein....kade chhoriyan ka dashottan na sunya arr na kisse nai karya
3. Kuan pujan ka pakka dhyan nahi...par apne najdeeki rishtedaron mein ladka hone pe hi kuan poojtey dekha hia
4. Ladka ho jaye to nanad ko sone ke gahne diye jatey hian...ladki ho to kahtey hian....rahan dyo thare to pahlyaye chhori hori hai...yo ke chhota dukh hai:D

5. Arr 15-20 saal pahle to chhori hoya karti to Jachha ka goond bhi na ghaalya karein the- Saasu wagera nyu kahti akk issa ke LAAL jaam rakhya hai jo goond khuwavein:rolleyes:

P.S.-Thali bajaan aali 200 saal purani konya meri jaan mai....aaj bhi bajavein hain sare kai:)

There might be some differance of cerimonies organised at the time of birth of girl child or Boys child but i think and what i have seen there is no differance in upbringing, Education, love and care from parents even girl child gets more attention and affection from parents.

And as far as about point of Kuawn Pujan, this cermony also being celebrated at the time of Girl child.
Aur Goond ghalan me bhi koi differance nhi hota, chahe ladka ho ya ladki, ek jaisa ghee or goond diya jata hai.

Br//sanjay

Karamjeet
December 8th, 2009, 11:32 AM
I feel if a girl is not put under control , then it affects a whole range of immediate family members.

As far as I observed , a female doesn't possess power to control herself ...inner control...as compared to a guy.


In a way.....maach si ja gi....bina vajah.

May be what i'm saying can be described more clearly by other fellows here.

pushpen
December 8th, 2009, 12:25 PM
kya kabhi kisi ne iss serial ko ya iske koi episode dekhe hain???
maine kabhi-2 kabhi dekhe to laga ki ye seiral hamare state haryana aur specially jaat society ke baare me galat fehmiaan faila reha hai. maana ki hamare state me sex ratio me kaafi difference per jo iss serial me dikhaya jareha hai wo to pure desh me hamari society ke bare me kafi galt fehmi paida erne wala hai.

aur ajkal to inhone bina hi uska reason jaane 1 hi got main shaadi ki vakalat kerni suru kardi hai.

waise hi pure desh me hamare state ko leke pehle hi bahut galat dharnaein hain rehi sahi kasar ab ye serial puri kar raha hai:confused: Bahut acha likha hai aapne Ye Natak bund hone chaaiyen

tomarhitesh23
December 8th, 2009, 12:52 PM
Achha laga dekh kar ki aap log APNI problem ko shanti se discuss kar rahe ho.. :)

but please do innovate(successfully implement ) this discussion... All the Best :):)

vinaysirohi
December 8th, 2009, 06:05 PM
bhai sandeep problem leke teh pooja aayi thi jl pe haryana ki. usse laga ki haryana ka bina matlab naam badnaam kiya jaa raha hai.aur ye problem haryana mein hai tabhi th wh meghna malik jisne log amma ji bhi kaha kare. wo iss serail mein ye haryana ki ghinoni hakikat leke saamne aayi. naa teh kisi aur state ki bhi th amma ji ban sake thi.arr waa jis jis haryana ke gaam mein jaawe hai teh saari beerbaani uska abhinandan kare hai ki uske uthaye iss kadam se shayad iss kupratha se unhe nizaat mil sake.:rock

prashantacmet
December 9th, 2009, 12:31 AM
bhai sandeep problem leke teh pooja aayi thi jl pe haryana ki. usse laga ki haryana ka bina matlab naam badnaam kiya jaa raha hai.aur ye problem haryana mein hai tabhi th wh meghna malik jisne log amma ji bhi kaha kare. wo iss serail mein ye haryana ki ghinoni hakikat leke saamne aayi. naa teh kisi aur state ki bhi th amma ji ban sake thi.arr waa jis jis haryana ke gaam mein jaawe hai teh saari beerbaani uska abhinandan kare hai ki uske uthaye iss kadam se shayad iss kupratha se unhe nizaat mil sake.:rock

What the hell u r talking abt!!. Just being from UP, delhi or haryana do not segregate our cultural influences. If you really find out culprits harayana jats for this female discrimination, jats of delhi and UP too can not be excluded. So stop talking nonsense and see around urself u are also cladded with that $hit. No matter how modern ur values are!!

VivekGathwala
December 9th, 2009, 12:36 AM
:rock:rock:rock:rock:rock:rockkise ki photu p nakal mar diya karoo iste badhiya t ....ade apna khoon fukeee jaya karoo kham kha seeng fasaya mat karooo ......................ya thread kis khtr likhi thi ar eb ya kit pahunch gayii dekh t looo ..:rock:boxing:thappad

rocky0036
December 9th, 2009, 12:37 AM
jitni bhi ladkiya ye sochti hai na haryana main sab asie hi hai ya ladkiyo ke sath bura hota hai yha pe
main un sab ye sawal pucchta hu

kabi unhe bhi beti hogi..............kya wo uske sath itna bura kar sakti hai ?
?
ager aap sab aapni beti sath bura nhi kar sakte to .......or koi kasie kar sakte hai.

jinke sath bura hua wo unke maa- baap ne kia hai na ki haryana ki janta ne...........fir b muje yakin nhi asia sab hota hoga

ager hua bhi hai to usmain kis insaan ki socht thi pure haryana ke jaato ki nhi

maa-baap aapni puri life baccho ki life sawarne ke liye laga dete hai ladka ho ya ladki

bhavnasingh20
December 9th, 2009, 10:16 AM
jitni bhi ladkiya ye sochti hai na haryana main sab asie hi hai ya ladkiyo ke sath bura hota hai yha pe
main un sab ye sawal pucchta hu

kabi unhe bhi beti hogi..............kya wo uske sath itna bura kar sakti hai ?
?
ager aap sab aapni beti sath bura nhi kar sakte to .......or koi kasie kar sakte hai.

jinke sath bura hua wo unke maa- baap ne kia hai na ki haryana ki janta ne...........fir b muje yakin nhi asia sab hota hoga

ager hua bhi hai to usmain kis insaan ki socht thi pure haryana ke jaato ki nhi

maa-baap aapni puri life baccho ki life sawarne ke liye laga dete hai ladka ho ya ladki




I completely agree :)....

agar aise dekha jaye to sabse misbalanced sex ratio punjab mein hai....so tht means punjabis r more backward than jaats....

yeh to bas ek serial hai....better is jus to ignore it...n i dun think v hav such dumb ppl arnd who form opinions on the basis of serials....

n female foeticide sirf kisi community ya state ki prob nahin....yeh poore india ki prob hai....mayb south india ko thoda chhod ke...aur jitne samajhdar log hein woh yeh jaante hein....

aise to "bairi piya" kayde se maharashtra ke farmers pe banaya gaya hai....but after seeing tht hav u started believing tht farmers of maharashtra sell off their wives n daughters jus to get money or pay bak their loans???

n if thr r some ppl who hav actually started believing it....then i can only pity them....

serials to bakwas hote hein...jus a medium for time pass...they dun increase ur knowledge in general !!

anilsangwan
December 9th, 2009, 10:28 AM
bhai ek be dekh le iss naatak ne aaj evening aale episode mein...koye harz nahi.... Colors channel pe aaya kare...... Mein nu kahu su us amma ji ka fan ho jaaga ..... Er haan... Waa artist asal mein koye meghna malik e s....jatni....... Menne koye batawe thaa... :)


gazab ki acting kare s matti... As i said earlier, saarey gaam ki naasa mein dhooma de raakhya s dyaakan ne,...


सारे खूंड बजावान में बिजी सें ..... कोए भी उस जाटनी मेघना मलिक की एक्टिंग की तारीफ नहीं कर रा...... जिस ने योह मुद्दा इतने जोर शोर तें ठा राख्या स..... मेघना मलिक ने एक्टिंग कसूत कर राखी स इस सीरियल में ..... एर काल आले एपिसोड में तो मरी-बटी एम् एल अ ने धमकावे थी..... एर एम् एल एह का नाम था चंदर मोहन .... हा हा हा हा हा हा ,.,......

malikdeepak1
December 9th, 2009, 10:31 AM
एर एम् एल एह का नाम था चंदर मोहन .... हा हा हा हा हा हा ,.,......

Ha ha ha ha ..yu to MC banen joga bhi konya rahya bhai Leele!! :rock
Fer uske koi repta to nahi marya na, by so called "Amma ji" ne (3-4 bar zhooop zhooop kar ke)?? :D

anilsangwan
December 9th, 2009, 10:37 AM
ha ha ha ha ..yu to mc banen joga bhi konya rahya bhai leele!! :rock
fer uske koi repta to nahi marya na, by so called "amma ji" ne (3-4 bar zhooop zhooop kar ke)?? :d


ना भाई ... फोन पे धमकावे थी.... सो रेहप्त्ता नहीं मारया...... एर सीरियल आले चंदेर्मोहन की भी टिकेट कट गयी थी पार्टी तें .... एर तो अम्मा जी ने न्यू कहवे था आक में निर्दालिये लडूंगा ....तो मेरी सुप्पोर्ट करियो...... हा हा हा हा हा हा......

malikdeepak1
December 9th, 2009, 10:38 AM
Dit jao dit jao!!.. lado manya. Baat serial pe chal rhi thi er suru ho ge apas me e..

Is natak pe "zhooop", Is natak pe "zhooop", Is natak pe "zhooop" e kime bol-batla lyo :D

skarmveer
December 9th, 2009, 11:00 AM
Eak TV serial hai or usney agar koi burai dekhai hai to us-sey savikaar kerkay usey door kerney kee bat to ker nahi rahey aapas mein eak dusrey per comments kerney say kaya hoga. Sabhi say nivedan hai kee is burai say kesey lada jaya is per discuss karo or agar nahi ker satey to aaram say padho.

Yea problem Haryana, UP, Rajasthan or Punjab kee nahi purey utter Bharat kee hai isliyea keese perdesha ko jimmewar thahrna galat hai.

akshaymalik84
December 10th, 2009, 12:21 PM
Before addressing questions on the need for female literacy and empowerment of women we need to evaluate the relevance of women on earth. Our society faces many question on Women equality like :Is there a need for women to get educated? If so, how far? If women go for jobs, who will look after the family? Arenít education and employment responsible for the greater individuality that women acquire and which causes split families? Doesnít freedom for women result in a low morality rate in society?etc.etc.

First we need to address the fundamental issue about the existence of women. If this is solved then issue like equality, employement and freedom can be decided.

Women and only women can address these issues. They are the only species in the entire world who do not want to give birth to their own kind and have an instinct to kill their own kind, they are the only ones who willingly allow all kinds of nasty and cruel things to happen to their bodies in the name of enhancing beauty.

Still time left for women to avoid being declared as World Heritage sites or it can be worse for them if women breeding centres got established. Different women could be produced ó of different colours, sizes and shapes to suit varied purposes.:eek:

hoodarajesh
December 10th, 2009, 12:43 PM
kya kabhi kisi ne iss serial ko ya iske koi episode dekhe hain???
Maine kabhi-2 kabhi dekhe to laga ki ye seiral hamare state haryana aur specially jaat society ke baare me galat fehmiaan faila reha hai. Maana ki hamare state me sex ratio me kaafi difference per jo iss serial me dikhaya jareha hai wo to pure desh me hamari society ke bare me kafi galt fehmi paida erne wala hai.

Aur ajkal to inhone bina hi uska reason jaane 1 hi got main shaadi ki vakalat kerni suru kardi hai.

Waise hi pure desh me hamare state ko leke pehle hi bahut galat dharnaein hain rehi sahi kasar ab ye serial puri kar raha hai:confused:

पूजा जी हमारे हरियाने में तो २०० साल पहले लडकियों
को पैदा होते ही मारा जाता हो तो बात अलग है पर हमने
अपने दादा परदादा से कभी एसा नही सुना जो इस नाटक में
दिखाया गया है की लड़की को कांच मिला हुआ दूध पिला दिया
गया . राजस्थान में तो कही कही अब भी होता है पर जाटों में नही राजपूतो में
होता है . अभी मने राजस्थान के एक अखबार में पड़ा की बाड़मेर के एक
राजपूतो के गाँव में १५० साल बाद बारात आई है . क्योंकि वहा लडकियों के
पैदा होते ही मार देते है . और जिस लड़की की बारात आई वो पैदा होते ही
उसके मामा के यहाँ भेज दी गई थी इसलिए बच गई . यानि की पुरे गाँव के गाँव
शामिल होते है इस काम में . और बदनाम हरियाने के जाटों को कर रहे है नाटको में .
जहा तक मैं समझता हु हरियाने में लडकियों की इज्जत सबसे ज्यादा होती है .

daivischahal
December 10th, 2009, 01:06 PM
पूजा जी हमारे हरियाने में तो २०० साल पहले लडकियों
को पैदा होते ही मारा जाता हो तो बात अलग है पर हमने
अपने दादा परदादा से कभी एसा नही सुना जो इस नाटक में
दिखाया गया है की लड़की को कांच मिला हुआ दूध पिला दिया
गया . राजस्थान में तो कही कही अब भी होता है पर जाटों में नही राजपूतो में
होता है . अभी मने राजस्थान के एक अखबार में पड़ा की बाड़मेर के एक
राजपूतो के गाँव में १५० साल बाद बारात आई है . क्योंकि वहा लडकियों के
पैदा होते ही मार देते है . और जिस लड़की की बारात आई वो पैदा होते ही
उसके मामा के यहाँ भेज दी गई थी इसलिए बच गई . यानि की पुरे गाँव के गाँव
शामिल होते है इस काम में . और बदनाम हरियाने के जाटों को कर रहे है नाटको में .
जहा तक मैं समझता हु हरियाने में लडकियों की इज्जत सबसे ज्यादा होती है .

kaisi baat kar rya hai hooda bhai........haryana ke jaat to ladkiyan ki izzat karna janate hi konya......or to or log to nu mana hai ki haryana ke jaat ladkiyan paida hon hi na dende.....ar jo koi galti te paida ho bhi gai to us na ghar te bahar na likadan dete, padaate-likhaate konya.......

par bhai ek baat samajh ni aandi......jib haryana ke jaat itne ZAALIM hai to ye jaatland pa itni jaataniya kade te aayi.....ya meghna malik,saina nehwal kade te aayi...ar bhai in saariyan ki umar bhi kam-te-kam 20 saal to hai hi......
mane nu laga hai ki ye saari jooth bol ri hai.....apna address galat bta rakhya hai.......ye to kisi or state ki hai.......kyun haryana ma to jaat apni ladkiya na padaate hi konya.......internet use karna to bahut door ki baat hai........
to bhai aisi galat baat mat likhya kar ki haryana ma ladkiyon ki izzat hova hai.......

ravinderjeet
December 10th, 2009, 01:20 PM
actually sir isme jo gaon dikhaya gaya hai wo karnal se 10 KM dur ka dikhaya gaya hai.....[/QUOTE]
ismey jo gaam pahlam dikhayaa thaa uskaa to beraa naa par ebb jo dikhaawey sein wo navi mumbai kaa panvel ke paas kaa marathee gaon hey.

pooja12goyat
December 10th, 2009, 01:27 PM
actually sir isme jo gaon dikhaya gaya hai wo karnal se 10 KM dur ka dikhaya gaya hai.....
ismey jo gaam pahlam dikhayaa thaa uskaa to beraa naa par ebb jo dikhaawey sein wo navi mumbai kaa panvel ke paas kaa marathee gaon hey.[/QUOTE]
darasal shooting kahin par hui ho natak me ise karnal ke paas bataya gaya hai:rolleyes:

rahuljat
December 10th, 2009, 01:29 PM
Excuse me miss pooja first update ur knowledge about Jats without having proper knowledge u cant argue about any serial..... waise aise bahut kaam loog hi hai jo jaat cultural follow karte hai..

Sukar
December 14th, 2009, 10:47 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzCshjBJtno&feature=related



Song with traditional musical instruments for awareness among folks.




Dhee Di Arz
Jagtar Singh Cheema

karan
December 15th, 2009, 02:05 AM
Eak TV serial hai or usney agar koi burai dekhai hai to us-sey savikaar kerkay usey door kerney kee bat to ker nahi rahey aapas mein eak dusrey per comments kerney say kaya hoga. Sabhi say nivedan hai kee is burai say kesey lada jaya is per discuss karo or agar nahi ker satey to aaram say padho.

Yea problem Haryana, UP, Rajasthan or Punjab kee nahi purey utter Bharat kee hai isliyea keese perdesha ko jimmewar thahrna galat hai.

karmveer bhai sahib
Couldn't agree with you more. We spent so much time in learning about evolution, Charles Darwin and other Bull Crap, never understand that in human race women play the most important role in evolution. Another aspect is women have very minimal role is gender selection of child, it is single act of men in creating progeny since they carry XY chromosomes while women only carry XX chromosomes. All the while we do all kinds of pompous celebration in the name of appeasing Durga mata, doing a yatra to vaishno devi asking her blessing. I am at loss to understand how these stupid budhiya's and bhoodey (using these terms pejoratively) of old school can blame a women for not giving them a grand son. Again How do you explain that to these hypocrites, ego maniacs, nihilistic, stubborn idiots.
In majority of cases there is no need for gender testing, a pregnant women can tell you if you are having a girl or boy. If a pregnant woman is carrying a boy, she has elevated level of testosterones hence elevated libido, if she is pregnant with girl, she is more subdued in libido, her glow and looks take a big hit.
All these idiots who were committing female infanticide are now looking for brides for their sons-none to be found. I call it poetic justice. Natures way of removing providence from decadent society.
:mad::mad:

tomarhitesh23
December 15th, 2009, 08:10 AM
kaisi baat kar rya hai hooda bhai........haryana ke jaat to ladkiyan ki izzat karna janate hi konya......or to or log to nu mana hai ki haryana ke jaat ladkiyan paida hon hi na dende.....ar jo koi galti te paida ho bhi gai to us na ghar te bahar na likadan dete, padaate-likhaate konya.......

par bhai ek baat samajh ni aandi......jib haryana ke jaat itne ZAALIM hai to ye jaatland pa itni jaataniya kade te aayi.....ya meghna malik,saina nehwal kade te aayi...ar bhai in saariyan ki umar bhi kam-te-kam 20 saal to hai hi......
mane nu laga hai ki ye saari jooth bol ri hai.....apna address galat bta rakhya hai.......ye to kisi or state ki hai.......kyun haryana ma to jaat apni ladkiya na padaate hi konya.......internet use karna to bahut door ki baat hai........
to bhai aisi galat baat mat likhya kar ki haryana ma ladkiyon ki izzat hova hai.......


hahahahahahahahahhahahahha...shabash:D

malikdeepak1
December 15th, 2009, 09:08 AM
Najar si mariyo is link pe... Mane to Haryane ki e khabar laagi ya :cool:

http://in.jagran.yahoo.com/news/local/haryana/4_6_6020918.html

Sukar
December 15th, 2009, 12:34 PM
Another aspect is women have very minimal role is gender selection of child, it is single act of men in creating progeny since they carry XY chromosomes while women only carry XX chromosomes. I am at loss to understand how these stupid budhiya's and bhoodey (using these terms pejoratively) of old school can blame a women for not giving them a grand son.

Its not just XX chromosomes present in female.

Its what overtakes what!

XX or XY

Generally from behavioural aspect we can say that this couple would be proud parents of a girl child , if women partner is more energetic among the two!

At that specific time who is more energetic!

So women are dubbed by their Mother-in-laws to reduce their activity level.

malikseema
December 15th, 2009, 02:17 PM
Before addressing questions on the need for female literacy and empowerment of women we need to evaluate the relevance of women on earth. Our society faces many question on Women equality like :Is there a need for women to get educated? If so, how far? If women go for jobs, who will look after the family? Arenít education and employment responsible for the greater individuality that women acquire and which causes split families? Doesnít freedom for women result in a low morality rate in society?etc.etc.

First we need to address the fundamental issue about the existence of women. If this is solved then issue like equality, employement and freedom can be decided.

Women and only women can address these issues. They are the only species in the entire world who do not want to give birth to their own kind and have an instinct to kill their own kind, they are the only ones who willingly allow all kinds of nasty and cruel things to happen to their bodies in the name of enhancing beauty.

Still time left for women to avoid being declared as World Heritage sites or it can be worse for them if women breeding centres got established. Different women could be produced ó of different colours, sizes and shapes to suit varied purposes.:eek:
Akshay .....
I think ur perception about women's Empowerment is very wrong...the questions u pointed out which society is facing regarding women Empowerment is raised by whom?......can u please tell me this thing......U say women n only women can address these issues....?????............can u plz tell me how only women can address these issues...wen most of the problems or i should say all of the problems r usually created by men like....eve teasing...women exploitation and all the problems which r regarding women safety outside her home......isn't it?
Bhai...its very easy to blame others....n shredd ur shoulders n walk away....u must hav females at ur home n u will also get married n that too will b a gurl.....she would also face such problems n can u at that time also act according to ur this thinking ....,.?(here i'm not getting personal to hurt u anyway ..just trying to make u understand my point)
And regarding ur comment that they r (women) only living beings who allow nasty n cruel things happen to themselves.......rethink on ur point !!
U r not a women n u cann't understand the pshyche of a women......(as u hav urself said in another thread of ur's.......wat women want in a guy !!)
n If u think women r so insensitive than why u men allow ur betterhalf's to do so.....u equally hav ur share in every decision of lyf being a Men(btw as i hav seen india as a male dominated society man hav full fledge authority in every decision ).
I kno every bdy knows wat our society is n how it behaves .......u better kno how gurl's face problems outside her home at school ,colleges,workplaces n usually every place were she tries to step out ! n now plz dont try to criticise this thing as this is true .
I kno this discussion is endless as we both r different being a Woman n Man !But i want to say .....dont b critical just for the sake of writing here.

sanjaymalik
December 15th, 2009, 02:38 PM
Before They are the only species in the entire world who do not want to give birth to their own kind and have an instinct to kill their own kind, they are the only ones who willingly allow all kinds of nasty and cruel things to happen to their bodies in the name of enhancing beauty.

purposes.:eek:

Absolutly correct Akashy, what ever you have said to some extent is correct. It is only the mother or the grand mother of the new born girl who got dispointed not the father or the grandfather , they never dispoint even the father love more to the femal child than male.the jelously and illwill have only a women against women as campared to men.

vikasphougat
December 15th, 2009, 03:43 PM
kaisi baat kar rya hai hooda bhai........haryana ke jaat to ladkiyan ki izzat karna janate hi konya......or to or log to nu mana hai ki haryana ke jaat ladkiyan paida hon hi na dende.....ar jo koi galti te paida ho bhi gai to us na ghar te bahar na likadan dete, padaate-likhaate konya.......

par bhai ek baat samajh ni aandi......jib haryana ke jaat itne ZAALIM hai to ye jaatland pa itni jaataniya kade te aayi.....ya meghna malik,saina nehwal kade te aayi...ar bhai in saariyan ki umar bhi kam-te-kam 20 saal to hai hi......
mane nu laga hai ki ye saari jooth bol ri hai.....apna address galat bta rakhya hai.......ye to kisi or state ki hai.......kyun haryana ma to jaat apni ladkiya na padaate hi konya.......internet use karna to bahut door ki baat hai........
to bhai aisi galat baat mat likhya kar ki haryana ma ladkiyon ki izzat hova hai.......

bhai lage se tne Haryana me aaye kai saal ho ge
kai saal k mne t isa laage se tu kde aaya e na ho haryana me
jo yo tne likh rkya se ak jaat padhan na dete apne ladkiyan ne
bhai ya baat bera na tne kit te laagi tu mne ise kisi gaav ka naam bata de jit jaat apni ladkiyan ne ghar te bhaar na nikln dete ho

neche ya jo malik bhai ne post likh rakhi se isne bhi deek le

aaj hayyana me ladka or ladki me koi frk na se





Najar si mariyo is link pe... Mane to Haryane ki e khabar laagi ya :cool:

http://in.jagran.yahoo.com/news/local/haryana/4_6_6020918.html

malikdeepak1
December 15th, 2009, 03:47 PM
bhai lage se tne Haryana me aaye kai saal ho ge
kai saal k mne t isa laage se tu kde aaya e na ho haryana me
jo yo tne likh rkya se ak jaat padhan na dete apne ladkiyan ne
bhai ya baat bera na tne kit te laagi tu mne ise kisi gaav ka naam bata de jit jaat apni ladkiyan ne ghar te bhaar na nikln dete ho

neche ya jo malik bhai ne post likh rakhi se isne bhi deek le

aaj hayyana me ladka or ladki me koi frk na se

Bhai phogat is bhai ne ya baat dusre tareeke te likh rakhi se. Yu chora haryane ka e se! Modya ne ve post delete kar di jinpe is bhai ne ye baat likhi thi.

ya baat sahi se ke eeb chora chori me farak nahi hota haryane me!

vikasphougat
December 15th, 2009, 03:49 PM
Bhai phogat is bhai ne ya baat dusre tareeke te likh rakhi se. Yu chora haryane ka e se! Modya ne ve post delete kar di jinpe is bhai ne ye baat likhi thi.

ya baat sahi se ke eeb chora chori me farak nahi hota haryane me!

acha t nu baat thi

chal koi na bhai mne bera na thi

karan
December 15th, 2009, 08:39 PM
Absolutly correct Akashy, what ever you have said to some extent is correct. It is only the mother or the grand mother of the new born girl who got dispointed not the father or the grandfather , they never dispoint even the father love more to the femal child than male.the jelously and illwill have only a women against women as campared to men.

Sanjay
I have to concur with you to some extent. Worst enemy of women is another women.

VivekGathwala
December 15th, 2009, 08:48 PM
Sanjay
I have to concur with you to some extent. Worst enemy of women is another women.


truely said !!!! a women cant see other women happy --to some extent...exceptional cases are always there !!!

akshaymalik84
December 15th, 2009, 09:22 PM
Akshay .....
I think ur perception about women's Empowerment is very wrong...the questions u pointed out which society is facing regarding women Empowerment is raised by whom?......can u please tell me this thing......U say women n only women can address these issues....?????............can u plz tell me how only women can address these issues...wen most of the problems or i should say all of the problems r usually created by men like....eve teasing...women exploitation and all the problems which r regarding women safety outside her home......isn't it?
Bhai...its very easy to blame others....n shredd ur shoulders n walk away....u must hav females at ur home n u will also get married n that too will b a gurl.....she would also face such problems n can u at that time also act according to ur this thinking ....,.?(here i'm not getting personal to hurt u anyway ..just trying to make u understand my point)
And regarding ur comment that they r (women) only living beings who allow nasty n cruel things happen to themselves.......rethink on ur point !!
U r not a women n u cann't understand the pshyche of a women......(as u hav urself said in another thread of ur's.......wat women want in a guy !!)
n If u think women r so insensitive than why u men allow ur betterhalf's to do so.....u equally hav ur share in every decision of lyf being a Men(btw as i hav seen india as a male dominated society man hav full fledge authority in every decision ).
I kno every bdy knows wat our society is n how it behaves .......u better kno how gurl's face problems outside her home at school ,colleges,workplaces n usually every place were she tries to step out ! n now plz dont try to criticise this thing as this is true .
I kno this discussion is endless as we both r different being a Woman n Man !But i want to say .....dont b critical just for the sake of writing here.




I am not talking about women enpowernment here. I have written about women enpowernment in that particular thread.

If you cant raise any issue by yourself then why are you expecting Men to raise it. Does that implies that you don't want equality?

yes i have girls and ladies in my family and i would never want them to come to me crying that some eve teaser is teasing them rather i would be more happy if they come to me and Say"Hey bro.....i slammed one of the ******* misbehaving with me"

Please try to think why ours is a male Dominant society?

Just look around you and you will see women hurts women more than men.

annch
December 15th, 2009, 09:37 PM
Women take the initiative and men support it?

I am not talking about women enpowernment here. I have written about women enpowernment in that particular thread.

If you cant raise any issue by yourself then why are you expecting Men to raise it. Does that implies that you don't want equality?

yes i have girls and ladies in my family and i would never want them to come to me crying that some eve teaser is teasing them rather i would be more happy if they come to me and Say"Hey bro.....i slammed one of the ******* misbehaving with me"

Please try to think why ours is a male Dominant society?

Just look around you and you will see women hurts women more than men.

akshaymalik84
December 15th, 2009, 09:50 PM
Women take the initiative and men support it?

Yes, Make them realize your importance.

malikseema
December 15th, 2009, 10:06 PM
I am not talking about women enpowernment here. I have written about women enpowernment in that particular thread.

If you cant raise any issue by yourself then why are you expecting Men to raise it. Does that implies that you don't want equality?

yes i have girls and ladies in my family and i would never want them to come to me crying that some eve teaser is teasing them rather i would be more happy if they come to me and Say"Hey bro.....i slammed one of the ******* misbehaving with me"

Please try to think why ours is a male Dominant society?

Just look around you and you will see women hurts women more than men.
Akshay ..
I kno very well u were not talking about Women Empowerment for sure here.
I am very well aware who hurts whom n why ....u r referring here a Mother -in -law hurting a Daughter -in-law....else in no case a women hurts women.....no Mother can hurt her Daughter .
n in that case that mother too hurts a daughter -in-law with the consent of a MAN .
aur chalo mann lete hain ki sirf women hi women ko hurt karti hai tow man sab jante hue bhi kyun kuch nhi karta?
aur rahi baat eve teasing ki tow mere bhai wo tow 1 ladka hi karta hoga female ke saath......ya wo bhi female hi karti hai against female's....
aur rahi baat mere sochne ki ya samjhne ki tow bhai meri tow samjh se pare hai ki ye hamari society male dominated kyun hai.........tu hi bata de...plz
N dont tell me we cant raise issues for ourselves.......we can n we r ....its just all our initiatives raise the eyebrowes of some of the so called dominants of society .
I think u r also getting my post personal....its just an answer to ur post...as i hav said earlier i am just trying to make my point clear.

akshaymalik84
December 15th, 2009, 10:22 PM
Akshay ..
I kno very well u were not talking about Women Empowerment for sure here.
I am very well aware who hurts whom n why ....u r referring here a Mother -in -law hurting a Daughter -in-law....else in no case a women hurts women.....no Mother can hurt her Daughter .
n in that case that mother too hurts a daughter -in-law with the consent of a MAN .
aur chalo mann lete hain ki sirf women hi women ko hurt karti hai tow man sab jante hue bhi kyun kuch nhi karta?
aur rahi baat eve teasing ki tow mere bhai wo tow 1 ladka hi karta hoga female ke saath......ya wo bhi female hi karti hai against female's....
aur rahi baat mere sochne ki ya samjhne ki tow bhai meri tow samjh se pare hai ki ye hamari society male dominated kyun hai.........tu hi bata de...plz
N dont tell me we cant raise issues for ourselves.......we can n we r ....its just all our initiatives raise the eyebrowes of some of the so called dominants of society .
I think u r also getting my post personal....its just an answer to ur post...as i hav said earlier i am just trying to make my point clear.


I tried to finish this discussion in my last post. But you are saying same thing in different way.

I did not take your post personally. I was just trying to answer your query. But as you had already said that it's a non ending discussion, so i won't comment any more on this.

akshaymalik84
January 7th, 2010, 02:49 PM
Interesting graph, have a look.


The observed sex ratio of 110 is higher than the internationally accepted sex ratio at
birth of 106. There are substantial differences among states in the reported sex ratio at birth.