women of new gen...

[pooja12goyat]

ajkal ladkiyaan har wo kaam kar rahi hain jo ladke...
matlab wo kisi bhi field me agar unse aage nahin to peeche to bilkul bhi nahin hain.
aise me kya ladko.n bhi house hold works me unka barabar saath nahin dena chahiye...?
hamesha se kaha jaata hai ki shhadi ke baad pati patni i gaa di ke do pahiye hote hain jab 1 pahiye ne dusre pahiye ka kuch bojh apne upar le liya hai to kya us pahiye ka bhi yehi farz nahin banta...............?:rolleyes:

[ajit2009]

ajkal ladkiyaan har wo kaam kar rahi hain jo ladke...
matlab wo kisi bhi field me agar unse aage nahin to peeche to bilkul bhi nahin hain.
aise me kya ladko.n bhi house hold works me unka barabar saath nahin dena chahiye...?
hamesha se kaha jaata hai ki shhadi ke baad pati patni i gaa di ke do pahiye hote hain jab 1 pahiye ne dusre pahiye ka kuch bojh apne upar le liya hai to kya us pahiye ka bhi yehi farz nahin banta...............?:rolleyes:



पूजा जी या कोई नई बात नहीं है एक दुसरे का साथ देना , ये तो सदियों से होता आया है
लेकिन असलियत में ये साथ देना,ना देना एक बहम है पर जो ऐसा समझाता है कि पति ने साथ दिया या नहीं दिया ....same ऐसे ही पत्नी ने ,तो समझो उनके मन में खोट है , समझो वो जोड़ा साचा प्रेमी नहीं है ,उनमे सदभाव और परमात्मा का वास नहीं है ,वे सवार्थी है , क्यूंकि साथ देना या ना देना उनके हाथ में नहीं ये सब natural होता है . क्योंकि भगवन कृषण ने भी कहा है तवम केवलम करम करू , फालसे चिंता मा करू . यही सत्य है , इसलिए लड़के पीछे लड़की आगे और इनका उल्टा ,ये सब बकवास है ये सब बाते वही करते है जिनमे हिन् भावनाए होती है ,जो खुदगर्ज होते है .मेरी समझ में तो बस यही ठीक है अपना कम करे जाओ किसी का दिल ना दुखाओ फसे हुवे की मदद करो यही सत्कर्म है यही सब हमारी जिंदगी को सुखद बना सकता है .नहीं तू उलझा रहता है मनुसय अपनी ही उधेड़ बुन में ,और मर जाता है एक जिनावर की भाति बिना किसी की अच्छाई लिए ,जो धरती पर सबसे बुरा है सबके लिए.

:cool:............................................ .........................:cool:

[rajesh00]

Men and Women are manufactured diffrently in many a ways by the God almighty and we must understand those dynamics correctly and should not try to equate each others as regards to every issue.Yes if we talk of certain things which are feasibly doable by both like cooking,cleaning of house or dishes or washing cloths etc,there is absolutely no doubt with me that both should share these responsibilities voluntarily, if both happen to be working but still there are certain issues which should and can be handled by respective sex.Talking too much equality will certainly hurt the dignity of both sexes.Let them be unique but let them compliment and share duties where ever it is possible without compromising that uniqueness.God created both to love,to share the burdons of huge life together but still he created them so differently.So respect his creation and move on.

[arvind1069]

आज की नारी की समस्या ये है की वो पुरुष से आगे नुकलने की दौड़ मैं अपने आप को भूल गयी है जहाँ वो ये सोचती है की उसे पुरूष के साथ कोई दौड़ जीतनी है बस वहीँ सारी गलती हो जाती है पुरुष और नारी की कोई प्रतिस्पर्धा नहीं है वो तो एक दुसरे के पूरक है , जो गुण एक मैं नहीं हैं वो दुसरे मैं हैं, इस तरह वो एक दुसरे को पूरण बनाते हैं पुरुष और नारी के बीच प्रतिस्पर्धा की मानसिकता गलत है , उनमे कोई प्रतिस्पर्धा , कोई दौड़ हो ही नहीं सकती , होनी भी नहीं चाहिए
जिन कार्यों के लिए प्रकृति (या परमात्मा कह लीजिये) ने पुरुष को नियुक्त किया है, उसे पुरुष को ही करना चाहिए, और जिन कार्य के लिए नारी को उन्हें नारी को ही करना चाहिए . इसे ही गीता मैं स्वधर्म कहा गया है, जिसका काम उसी को साजे वाली बात भी आप जानती होंगी.

वैसे जो सवाल आपने पुछा है उसके उत्तर मैं येही कहने चाहूँगा की अगर दोनों कोई नौकरी आदि करते है तो पुरुष को स्त्री का घर बार के काम मैं जरूर साथ देना चाहिए

[gaganjat]

hahhaha some people are still thinking about all these things

[anusha]

ladki ki daud ladke ke sath nhi balki time ke sath hai......she knows that time has changed,now she is equally educated,similarly cherished and pampered by her parents as a boy so why not stand on her own feet as an independent and bold lady of today?It is not like defeating other but winning yourself.
Pooja has raised a very genuine and common concern of today which at least deserves a thought. If the girl of today carries an equal load in professional life so is it justified to pour the entire household responsibility on her head?There are so many jobs which only she can do but apart from it,there are so many which both can do.If she cooks the food,the boy can serve it and keep the utensils back.If she washes the clothes,the boy can hang them for drying.If she cleans the house,the boy can at least keep his things organized,if she takes care of the kid all the day,the boy can look in the night.These are the minor contributions that the boy can make easily that would be really helpful for her.If she raises a voice against this,then the common answer of boy is "My mother also used to do this,infact much more than this,so why cant u?" or "Ok,leave everything,I will do all my tasks myself like cooking food for me,washing clothes(in an irritated way) ".So to avoid such arguements she remains quiet.Koi inko jakar btao ki tumhari mmy kya aisi job karti thi 10-12 ghanto vali??It is just a matter of understanding and co operative nature which is missing out.Probably this is ego that they think it is a woman's task.An moreover,if a woman complains about it,they say ki "tumhe to is cheez ke lie prepared hona chhiye as u have ur mother doin all this,i mean ladki ko to aisa hona hi chhaiye" ,sochne vali baat ye hai ki fir yhi log aisa kyun bolte hain ki "main to ajkal ka ladka hun...aaj to ladka ladka sab brabar hain.....muje to ajkal ke time ki ladki chhaiye shadi ke lie.".sidhe hi matrimony me chapva de ki sara din kitchen me kaam kare,brabar ki naukri kre ,meri sewa kare,bache pale,ghar ke faislo me mere age bole na etc etc.....
And last but not the least ye khene vale ki ladko ko pura sath dena chhaiye,inme se kitne aise hain jo sach me aisa karte hain....is a big question??????

[sanjaymalik]

Yes if both want peace and smooth family life than it is also the duty of the men that they should contribute something in family in terms of household work if both are working.otherwise ladki housewife ho working na ho.fir kharcha na chale.
isliye Bhaiyo agar ghar chalana hai to ye sab bhi karna hi padega, or vaise bhi akeli Ladki ki hi jimewari thodi hai ki sab kuchh wohi kare, ladke ko bhi kuchh karna chahiye.
It all about sharing and caring of each others, which keep them intect.

[rocky0036]

आज की नारी की समस्या ये है की वो पुरुष से आगे नुकलने की दौड़ मैं अपने आप को भूल गयी है जहाँ वो ये सोचती है की उसे पुरूष के साथ कोई दौड़ जीतनी है बस वहीँ सारी गलती हो जाती है पुरुष और नारी की कोई प्रतिस्पर्धा नहीं है वो तो एक दुसरे के पूरक है , जो गुण एक मैं नहीं हैं वो दुसरे मैं हैं, इस तरह वो एक दुसरे को पूरण बनाते हैं पुरुष और नारी के बीच प्रतिस्पर्धा की मानसिकता गलत है , उनमे कोई प्रतिस्पर्धा , कोई दौड़ हो ही नहीं सकती , होनी भी नहीं चाहिए
जिन कार्यों के लिए प्रकृति (या परमात्मा कह लीजिये) ने पुरुष को नियुक्त किया है, उसे पुरुष को ही करना चाहिए, और जिन कार्य के लिए नारी को उन्हें नारी को ही करना चाहिए . इसे ही गीता मैं स्वधर्म कहा गया है, जिसका काम उसी को साजे वाली बात भी आप जानती होंगी.

वैसे जो सवाल आपने पुछा है उसके उत्तर मैं येही कहने चाहूँगा की अगर दोनों कोई नौकरी आदि करते है तो पुरुष को स्त्री का घर बार के काम मैं जरूर साथ देना चाहिए

well said ............................its truth

[ajit2009]

anusha ji apki kuch chuninda line........

There are so many jobs which only she can do but apart from it,there are so many which both can do.If she cooks the food,the boy can serve it and keep the utensils back.If she washes the clothes,the boy can hang them for drying.If she cleans the house,the boy can at least keep his things organized,if she takes care of the kid all the day,the boy can look in the night.These are the minor contributions that the boy can make easily that would be really helpful for her.If she raises a voice against this,then the common answer of boy is "My mother also used to do this,infact much more than this,so why cant u?" or "Ok,leave everything,I will do all my tasks myself like cooking food for me,washing clothes(in an irritated way) ".So to avoid such arguements she remains quiet.Koi inko jakar btao ki tumhari mmy kya aisi job karti thi 10-12 ghanto vali??It is just a matter of understanding and co operative nature which is missing out.Probably this is ego that they think it is a woman's task.An moreover,if a woman complains about it,they say ki "tumhe to is cheez ke lie prepared hona chhiye as u have ur mother doin all this,i mean ladki ko to aisa hona hi chhaiye" ,sochne vali baat ye hai ki fir yhi log aisa kyun bolte hain ki "main to ajkal ka ladka hun...aaj to ladka ladka sab brabar hain.....muje to ajkal ke time ki ladki chhaiye shadi ke lie.".sidhe hi matrimony me chapva de ki sara din kitchen me kaam kare,brabar ki naukri kre ,meri sewa kare,bache pale,ghar ke faislo me mere age bole na etc etc.....


ha ha anusha ji ap sahi keh rahi hai ....kyunki ye ap nahi apki 10-12 ghante ki job bol rahi hai.
aur ap jin matao se compair kar rahi hai unke sath compair karne ke layak aj ki ladki nahi hai ,
are u know, why ??????/
because firstly
...................we sabse achhi beti banti thi fir
....................achhi patni then
...................achhi mata and then
...................waqt ane par rani of janshi
in sabhi guno ke karan we all the best thi, aur hai ,aur rahengi.


lekin aj ke samaj me selfish ke siwa aur koi jyada gun nahi hai, chahe fir wo ladki ho ya ladka , nisawarth bhaw se kam karne wala koi nahi hai kyonki jo jitni badi post par hai wo utana hi selfish hota hai.
lag jata hai wo apni kamai ka rob dikhane jaise ap 10 -12 ghante??????????????
hahahaha
ye apki galti nahi ye kalyug bil raha hai
kyunki pehli kuch line to apne thik boli but ap fir aaaaaaaaa gai kal ke ghare me aur suru kar diya apna alap
:mad: best of luck and :rock
enjoy ur life with time timeeeeeeeeeeee

[rocky0036]

ajkal ladkiyaan har wo kaam kar rahi hain jo ladke...
matlab wo kisi bhi field me agar unse aage nahin to peeche to bilkul bhi nahin hain.
aise me kya ladko.n bhi house hold works me unka barabar saath nahin dena chahiye...?
hamesha se kaha jaata hai ki shhadi ke baad pati patni i gaa di ke do pahiye hote hain jab 1 pahiye ne dusre pahiye ka kuch bojh apne upar le liya hai to kya us pahiye ka bhi yehi farz nahin banta...............?:rolleyes:

ager aap baat sirf kaam karne ki kar rhe ho tho aap ek dam theek ho.kaam kaam hota hai uspe ye nhi likka hota ye ladke karge ye ladkiya karegi. per ladke or ladkiyo main anter hona jaruri hai
ager asia na ho to indian girls bhi goriyo ki trha her roz sutte margi pag margi disco club pub main jan lag jagi......coz un countries main ladke or ladkiya ko bilkul saman samja jata hai. aapne desh main ladkiyo ko kannya or devi ka roop dia gaya hai jabki english people ladkiyo ko ***** khe ke bulate hai .or goriya ye word sunke itni kush hoti jasie 100 $ mil ge ho..ham sab lucky hai ki ham asie desh main hai .....or jab 1 pahiya ne dusre pahiye ka bojh apne upar le lia ho to wo tut jata hai .......

[rocky0036]

ladki ki daud ladke ke sath nhi balki time ke sath hai......she knows that time has changed,now she is equally educated,similarly cherished and pampered by her parents as a boy so why not stand on her own feet as an independent and bold lady of today?It is not like defeating other but winning yourself.
Pooja has raised a very genuine and common concern of today which at least deserves a thought. If the girl of today carries an equal load in professional life so is it justified to pour the entire household responsibility on her head?There are so many jobs which only she can do but apart from it,there are so many which both can do.If she cooks the food,the boy can serve it and keep the utensils back.If she washes the clothes,the boy can hang them for drying.If she cleans the house,the boy can at least keep his things organized,if she takes care of the kid all the day,the boy can look in the night.These are the minor contributions that the boy can make easily that would be really helpful for her.If she raises a voice against this,then the common answer of boy is "My mother also used to do this,infact much more than this,so why cant u?" or "Ok,leave everything,I will do all my tasks myself like cooking food for me,washing clothes(in an irritated way) ".So to avoid such arguements she remains quiet.Koi inko jakar btao ki tumhari mmy kya aisi job karti thi 10-12 ghanto vali??It is just a matter of understanding and co operative nature which is missing out.Probably this is ego that they think it is a woman's task.An moreover,if a woman complains about it,they say ki "tumhe to is cheez ke lie prepared hona chhiye as u have ur mother doin all this,i mean ladki ko to aisa hona hi chhaiye" ,sochne vali baat ye hai ki fir yhi log aisa kyun bolte hain ki "main to ajkal ka ladka hun...aaj to ladka ladka sab brabar hain.....muje to ajkal ke time ki ladki chhaiye shadi ke lie.".sidhe hi matrimony me chapva de ki sara din kitchen me kaam kare,brabar ki naukri kre ,meri sewa kare,bache pale,ghar ke faislo me mere age bole na etc etc.....
And last but not the least ye khene vale ki ladko ko pura sath dena chhaiye,inme se kitne aise hain jo sach me aisa karte hain....is a big question??????
90% asie log hai jo faislo main aapni gharwali or baccho ki puri raye lete hai.

rhi baat baki kaam ki

ghar ko chalne wali or sambhalne wali ladki hi hoti
hai

chorra daru pita ho koi baat nhi bhu kaam chala legi
ager uski bhu daru pin lagi na do bhi kaam na chale

or ghar ko sambhalna ko buri baat nhi .............i think sabse muskil kaam hai ...

or ladkiya isse fir bhi acche se handle karti hai

job kyun karte hai for money sirf ....

ladki ka ye bhi farz banta hai aapne baccho ko time de
otherwise aaj kal childcare school bhut hai.

per ghar ka kaam aaj kal ki ladkiyo ko itna bura lagta huh
ham khana bana sakte kapde bhi wash kar sakte or safai bhi kar sakte

per ghar to nhi chala sakte na ?????????????????????????????????????

[daivischahal]

jakar btao ki tumhari mmy kya aisi job karti thi 10-12 ghanto vali??

anusha, do u think that working for 10-12 hrs in office is much-much difficult than working at home(i mean household works).......but i say that vice-versa is true.......
ghar sambhalana koi easy kaam nahi hota.......or har kisi ke bas ki baat nahi hoti......
so dont say that a working woman is doing something great than a house wife......

[daivischahal]

jabki english people ladkiyo ko ***** khe ke bulate hai .or goriya ye word sunke itni kush hoti jasie 100 $ mil ge ho....


hahahahha........very well said rocky........

[rocky0036]

anusha, do u think that working for 10-12 hrs in office is much-much difficult than working at home(i mean household works).......but i say that vice-versa is true.......
ghar sambhalana koi easy kaam nahi hota.......or har kisi ke bas ki baat nahi hoti......
so dont say that a working woman is doing something great than a house wife......

i don't think so.............if someone does work at house he/she's doing nothing


i know that everyone loves freedom ..................
its a human right
. its doesn't matter where she works at home or office

[anusha]

sandeep ji what bout doin both???i mean working in office and settling home??i guess that is easiest acc to u:)...and shayd this is what the topic is all bout...naki 1 housewife and working lady ke comparison ka....
10-12 ghanto ki job meri nhi bhut ladkion ki hai ajkal.....n jhan pehle ka time tha jab ladka kheto me kaam karke ata tha ya sara din naukri karke ata tha to biwi uski sewa karti thi ,uske hath paon bhi dbati thi vo islie nhi ki vo apni naukri ka rob dikhata tha ya ghante count krata tha balki understang ke taur par and yhi cheez ajakl ki ladkian expect karti hain..bt afsos ki unhe apna busy routine explain karna padta hai...
jhan tak alap karne ki bat hai to i dnt thnk ki jl par aise issues adress kie jate hain bas sirf apne opinions and thoughts rakhe jate hain shayd tabhi iska nam general talk hai
agar guno ki baat hai usme pehle ki aurton me ya ab ki aurton me comparison karna to shyad is topic ke out of scope hai han bt jhan unke ghar ke kaam karne ki ability ko 1 benchmark samjha jata hai vo shayad galat hoga...kyunki unme se kitni aisi hai jo subeh ghar se nikalkar rat ko ghar ghusti thi....

[daivischahal]

sandeep ji what bout doin both???i mean working in office and settling home??i guess that is easiest acc to u...

no anusha, acc. to me this is the toughest combination.....
n i am also i favour of working women that there husbands should help them in their household works.....



..jakar btao ki tumhari mmy kya aisi job karti thi 10-12 ghanto vali??

i just answered ur above SENTENCE........



n jhan pehle ka time tha jab ladka kheto me kaam karke ata tha ya sara din naukri karke ata tha to biwi uski sewa karti thi ,uske hath paon bhi dbati thi vo islie nhi ki vo apni naukri ka rob dikhata tha ya ghante count krata tha balki understang ke taur par
actually these are the required words....
n i dont think that aajkal ladke, who prefer house wife, apni wife ko ghar aakar rob dikhate hain apni job ka......


bt jhan unke ghar ke kaam karne ki ability ko 1 benchmark samjha jata hai vo shayad galat hoga...kyunki unme se kitni aisi hai jo subeh ghar se nikalkar rat ko ghar ghusti thi....

ab yahan par aap aisa lagta hai ki job kar ke aap(not you, in general) kisi par ahsaan kar rahi hai......khud ko ek house wife se bada dikhane ki koshish kar rahi hai.........

[deepshi]

maybe its gettin repetitive
merge this thread
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=29092

[sanjaymalik]

maybe its gettin repetitive
merge this thread
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=29092

Yes these two thread has almost same kind of veiw of members and are overlapping, it would be better to merge these two.

[ajit2009]

sandeep ji what bout doin both???i mean working in office and settling home??i guess that is easiest acc to u:)...and shayd this is what the topic is all bout...naki 1 housewife and working lady ke comparison ka....
10-12 ghanto ki job meri nhi bhut ladkion ki hai ajkal.....n jhan pehle ka time tha jab ladka kheto me kaam karke ata tha ya sara din naukri karke ata tha to biwi uski sewa karti thi ,uske hath paon bhi dbati thi vo islie nhi ki vo apni naukri ka rob dikhata tha ya ghante count krata tha balki understang ke taur par and yhi cheez ajakl ki ladkian expect karti hain..bt afsos ki unhe apna busy routine explain karna padta hai...
jhan tak alap karne ki bat hai to i dnt thnk ki jl par aise issues adress kie jate hain bas sirf apne opinions and thoughts rakhe jate hain shayd tabhi iska nam general talk hai
agar guno ki baat hai usme pehle ki aurton me ya ab ki aurton me comparison karna to shyad is topic ke out of scope hai han bt jhan unke ghar ke kaam karne ki ability ko 1 benchmark samjha jata hai vo shayad galat hoga...kyunki unme se kitni aisi hai jo subeh ghar se nikalkar rat ko ghar ghusti thi....

mainly

..bt afsos ki unhe apna busy routine explain karna padta hai...

madam ji bas ham yahi kehna chahte hai ki jab explain tak bat ajati hai to samjho ap thak chuke ho is jindagi ki bhag daud me ,apnekam ko jimewari nahi bas ek sadhan samjha hai bas paise kamane ka , fir apne sadi riste nato ke adhar par nahi ,bonding ke adhar par ki hai
ap samaj ko ye explain karne ki kosis me rahti hai ki dekho mai kitna kamati hoooooooooo
na ki ye ki ap ek jimmedar aurat hai
apni jimedariyo se bachane ke liye hi manushy apne ap ko explain karne ke chakkar me pada rahta hai chahe fir ap ho ya hum .


aur jaha tak topic out of scop ki bat hai , to iska matlab ye hi ki ap jimedariyo ko manna hi nahi chahati


bhawnaye ,riste- nate ghar pariwar ,ijjat bejati ye sab scope nahi hote ......ye sab natural hote hai jab se ye jahan bana hai tab se

now i hope that ...........lagi rahooooooooooo aushi ji
hahahaha

[jagmohan]

Dear All,

Another all time popular topic! There can never be a thumb rule in these matters. Comparisons also would not help solve the problem. One can only express his/her opinion and only hope that arguments are based on logic and not egos. It is also difficult to compare women or men who have to deal with different situations and locations. It was always so much more comfortable for everyone in joint families. Problems that couples face now a days existed even then but weren't noticed or were taken care of.

In my view, western societies have always practiced gender equality whereas we have only preached. A man and wife would share most of the household work in western societies without going into the matters of gender equality or ‘my work – your work’ kind of debate. In most parts of our country, including Jatland, certain works are considered to be ‘only for women’. The hypocritical social system has ensured that gender equality is only spoken but seldom practiced. We worship various forms of female power during many festivals but when it comes to giving them equality, most societies here are found to be lacking in the real sense. With increase in education standards we should have seen some improvement in our social behavior pattern but sadly we haven’t. A society that does not practice what it preaches shall always debate these things.

In the race to achieve I don’t know what, we have become engrossed in making money, more and more of it. Earlier a couple would have a number of children and only the father would be working. The mother was satisfied or didn’t feel the need to go out and work. Today, we are having couples who don’t even want to have children because their careers are important. We work for 12 – 14 hours a day, leaving home in great tension and returning totally exhausted and perhaps even tenser! Surely, at that time, when both partners have returned home, it is criminal to expect the woman to then take care of the household chores as though she was at home the whole day. Now comes the conditioning. How can the husband wash utensils when he has always seen woman do that? His male ego doesn’t allow him to share this kind of domestic help. This is the reality and it will take generations to overcome this deeply engraved social evil.

We are lucky in India. We can hire affordable domestic help(s) to take care of the problem. All the irksome household work can be taken care of in about Rs 3000/- per month in a satellite town of Delhi. I am sure a working couple can afford that.

Regards,

JS Malik

[sidchhikara]

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hamesha se kaha jaata hai ki shhadi ke baad pati patni i gaa di ke do pahiye hote hain jab 1 pahiye ne dusre pahiye ka kuch bojh apne upar le liya hai to kya us pahiye ka bhi yehi farz nahin banta...............?:rolleyes:

Wah wah ! Kasute mahaware - gaadi ka pahiyaaa --- hahaha !! Mr and Mrs Goodyear !!

Ghana kaam ho jya te kaam-aali rakh lo ..... Gaadi ne overload waise bhi naa karya karein - pahiya ghis ke paaat jaaga.

[gaganjat]

hehehewhohwohowhahahaha sid tu tai marriage counsellor hona chayie.
kati phayie naye ke naye rakhega , na kimme ghisan de na kimme pattan de.

kimme tiger woods ka bhi dekhiye mamla theek thak ho ja tai



Wah wah ! Kasute mahaware - gaadi ka pahiyaaa --- hahaha !! Mr and Mrs Goodyear !!

Ghana kaam ho jya te kaam-aali rakh lo ..... Gaadi ne overload waise bhi naa karya karein - pahiya ghis ke paaat jaaga.

[sidchhikara]

hehehewhohwohowhahahaha sid tu tai marriage counsellor hona chayie.
kati phayie naye ke naye rakhega , na kimme ghisan de na kimme pattan de.

kimme tiger woods ka bhi dekhiye mamla theek thak ho ja tai

Hahahaha !! Tiger Woods ............ bhai Tiger 18 wheeler truck ka chassis sei .... kai tire ek sath fit kar raha tha. Uski lugaai spare tire thi. Accident ho gaya .. saare tire ek saath paat gaye.

BTW ... how old are the people seriously responding to this stuff ... none of them should ever marry. They will bore each other to death with lameness.

[deepshi]

BTW ... how old are the people seriously responding to this stuff ... none of them should ever marry. They will bore each other to death with lameness.
Not teenagers
Marriage is the best thing to happen..try it

Disclaimer: if u share common passion,wavelength,lifestyles n beleifs..its a blast.
with no seven-year or wotever year itch
If not..walk out ..

[VivekGathwala]

Hahahaha !! Tiger Woods ............ bhai Tiger 18 wheeler truck ka chassis sei .... kai tire ek sath fit kar raha tha. Uski lugaai spare tire thi. Accident ho gaya .. saare tire ek saath paat gaye.

BTW ... how old are the people seriously responding to this stuff ... none of them should ever marry. They will bore each other to death with lameness.





true weird & lame:thappad

[yudhvirmor]

It looks like we are advocating Live in relations... Sometimes it make sense.. stay together for 2-3 years and check the wavelength, frequency etc..
I am sure many of us may end up making 5-6 wrong choices before we turn 50..
so at the age of 50, we'll be come mature and we know that what we want but problem will be solved at Old age home...

[gaganjat]

iske tyre tai ghane mhange pattenge:D kisi ko chup karane ke paise kisi ko nahi jane ke paise , pisse battan laag rya sai. ib sari ki sari ik ik kar kai likkad kai aan laag gi pisse khatar.

gareeb admi ke tyre paat ja tai raam -raam tai tai , na lena na dena :o, thoda bahut pissa ho tai pher mamla gadbad sai

sid tu bhai ghana dhyan tai rhayie, kadde bhai tanne koi chorri bahka le



Hahahaha !! Tiger Woods ............ bhai Tiger 18 wheeler truck ka chassis sei .... kai tire ek sath fit kar raha tha. Uski lugaai spare tire thi. Accident ho gaya .. saare tire ek saath paat gaye.

BTW ... how old are the people seriously responding to this stuff ... none of them should ever marry. They will bore each other to death with lameness.

[sidchhikara]

sid tu bhai ghana dhyan tai rhayie, kadde bhai tanne koi chorri bahka le

Hahaha !!
Bhai gunny ... ek nahi ghani saare behka le te swaad aawega.;)

[prashantacmet]

पूजा जी या कोई नई बात नहीं है एक दुसरे का साथ देना , ये तो सदियों से होता आया है
लेकिन असलियत में ये साथ देना,ना देना एक बहम है पर जो ऐसा समझाता है कि पति ने साथ दिया या नहीं दिया ....same ऐसे ही पत्नी ने ,तो समझो उनके मन में खोट है , समझो वो जोड़ा साचा प्रेमी नहीं है ,उनमे सदभाव और परमात्मा का वास नहीं है ,वे सवार्थी है , क्यूंकि साथ देना या ना देना उनके हाथ में नहीं ये सब natural होता है . क्योंकि भगवन कृषण ने भी कहा है तवम केवलम करम करू , फालसे चिंता मा करू . यही सत्य है , इसलिए लड़के पीछे लड़की आगे और इनका उल्टा ,ये सब बकवास है ये सब बाते वही करते है जिनमे हिन् भावनाए होती है ,जो खुदगर्ज होते है .मेरी समझ में तो बस यही ठीक है अपना कम करे जाओ किसी का दिल ना दुखाओ फसे हुवे की मदद करो यही सत्कर्म है यही सब हमारी जिंदगी को सुखद बना सकता है .नहीं तू उलझा रहता है मनुसय अपनी ही उधेड़ बुन में ,और मर जाता है एक जिनावर की भाति बिना किसी की अच्छाई लिए ,जो धरती पर सबसे बुरा है सबके लिए.

:cool:............................................ .........................:cool:

bhai katai todd kar diya..........

[gaganjat]

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GD




Hahaha !!
Bhai gunny ... ek nahi ghani saare behka le te swaad aawega.;)

[shailendra]

Hahaha !!
... ek nahi ghani saare behka le te swaad aawega.;)

...Mkaa Theek!!! ...tham saare theek jaa rae ho... :rolleyes:
Bhaiyee rae, baaki sabb theek sai; per dekhiyae un sabuo kae saath kimmi 'pre-nup' sa phelan hi kara liyae!!!.... ;)

ps. BTW nowadays they say that if you are a woman (new gen! ;)) and go for example to Sports Authority etc. looking for golf clubs; they ask you, "Oh hullo there... these here are for the playing sports version ...um, and these nice shiny ones here are if you are looking to whack the hubby instead!" :D:D:D ... Poor Tiger!

[karan]

Pooja, Anusha, deepshi
Take a chill pill, drink a smoothie, or do something that will calm your egos. I agree with Col Malik there is no competition in marriage. Marriage is a complement it took me long time to understand western perspective of gender equality (was single all that time) spent alot of time with live in relationships checking all physical elements like Frequency, wavelength, same page, similar likes, dislikes, hobbies, interest, sports etc. In the end none of that mattered, all it mattered was love that makes you accept your partners flaws, removes arrogance and fake machismo from your personality, instills acceptance, patience, respect and someone who can advise you when you need one, stand by you when you are down, comforts you when you are alone and hurt.
All my single years I was chasing some other woman, someone better than what I had in pan and not just in USA, India but Middle East, Europe inclusive.

In the end all that mattered was what I have said earlier.
For those single men here and especially Jat Male, understand this, woman are very insecure by nature regardless of what they say. They all desire few things from their man, security, respect, love, appreciation. Women like to be complimented for their work, they want recognition for their accomplishments, hard work. Great Sex is just icing on the cake no slam bam thank you ma'am kinda crap.

Women will forgive men for almost everything except if you cheat on them aka don't pull tiger woods on them, no cruelty toward children or anyone else.:cool:

[Samarkadian]

ajkal ladkiyaan har wo kaam kar rahi hain jo ladke...
matlab wo kisi bhi field me agar unse aage nahin to peeche to bilkul bhi nahin hain.
aise me kya ladko.n bhi house hold works me unka barabar saath nahin dena chahiye...?
hamesha se kaha ata hai ki shhadi ke baad pati patni i gaa di ke do pahiye hote hain jab 1 pahiye ne dusre pahiye ka kuch bojh apne upar le liya hai to kya us pahiye ka bhi yehi farz nahin banta...............?:rolleyes:

Yes, equality is present but in graveyard where all dead are sleeping beautifuly. While alive, cut your own nature/role and roots, it pains and you end up in a grass hut.

[shailendra]

All my single years I was chasing some other woman, someone better than what I had in pan and not just in USA, India but Middle East, Europe inclusive.

For those single men here and especially Jat Male, understand this, woman are very insecure by nature regardless of what they say. :cool:

Dang!!! :rolleyes:
...and to think that it was actually a Jat male who admirably was able to coin this 'profound' revelation simply while chasing 'these very creatures' across the known civilized world!!?!!.... (and not to miss: with one in 'pan' ;))... like wow, I am impressed!!!....

[deepshi]

Pooja, Anusha, deepshi
Take a chill pill, drink a smoothie, or do something that will calm your egos.


Lolz..u cudnt get more wrong and far from truth..
n I didnt even utter a word here on the topic
Had just said to merge the other thread I replied to

P.S:m not a big fan of smoothies..V-drinks just do it...

[karan]

Dang!!! :rolleyes:
...and to think that it was actually a Jat male who admirably was able to coin this 'profound' revelation simply while chasing 'these very creatures' across the known civilized world!!?!!.... (and not to miss: with one in 'pan' ;))... like wow, I am impressed!!!....

So Mr. Hooda
Do you like you know like read the message and understand or like you know like it went like totally like over your head like you know.:eek:

[deepshi]

abki english people ladkiyo ko ***** khe ke bulate hai .or goriya ye word sunke itni kush hoti jasie 100 $ mil ge ho.........
Not all of them..
n regarding Indians..if uve watched movie Jail
heroine calls the hero "A dog". He is flattered..n says lovingly "say again" n again she goes "Dog"
haha..amusing!

[richi]

karan ji very nicely put:) and so i must say "ACCEPTANCE IS ONE REALISTIC ATTRACTION" and it just happens.

As per the Indian scenario too much gender bias still exists ..EQUALITY AHH!!
In many Indian families gender bias exists, it's like a coiled cobra always ready for attack .Parents are many a times reluctant to send their daughters to work in corporate sector then they think that a girl is protected or considered respectful or safe when she gets her husband's surname ,there are so many things that still exist only for girls or not meant for them ...she always has to struggle struggle and struggle as a daughter ,wife or mother to either speak her mind or to stand firmly with what she believes in.

Indians definitely are still stuck in a rut or are bats in the belfry!!.....They need to think real seriously about absolute gender equality.....
Though it can't be denied that many indians are trying to come out of the ageold conservative thinking and managing to be strong supporters of gender equality yet the scenario remains very lopsided.

Many girls who have been recalcitrant and tried to assert the equality with male gender have shed their modesty somewhere and that has debilitated the status quo.
So ,when we speak of equality then it's not about coercing the women into believing that they are equal to men,it's all about respecting their individuality and making them aware of their freedom.

[annch]

Sir,

With due respect to your worldwide experience, could your experience have been limited to a particular type of women for you to give a statement like women are insecure by nature?

Don't you think men can be just as insecure seeking confidence in their boastful conquests as a woman would be?

Approval, love, respect, appreciation, etc etc.......men desire it as much as women or children.....its a basic human nature.....why give it only a feminine flavor?

(PS: I am not a feminist and not at all a male ego-basher)

Regards


For those single men here and especially Jat Male, understand this, woman are very insecure by nature regardless of what they say. They all desire few things from their man, security, respect, love, appreciation. Women like to be complimented for their work, they want recognition for their accomplishments, hard work.

Women will forgive men for almost everything except if you cheat on them aka don't pull tiger woods on them, no cruelty toward children or anyone else.:cool:

[richi]

Calling a woman insecure is not necessarily voluminous of any sort of reluctance or weakness or cowardice ..

she is insecure because she is more emotionally laden than men or is more defiant over something or quite ambitious or more possessive ;)or loves her significant other too much with utmost dedication or may be more assertive .. so many things there could be that generalize women as insecure beings ...

[annch]

More power to you for accepting that!!!:)

Calling a woman insecure is not necessarily voluminous of any sort of reluctance or weakness or cowardice ..

she is insecure because she is more emotionally laden than men or is more defiant over something or quite ambitious or more possessive ;)or loves her significant other too much with utmost dedication or may be more assertive .. so many things there could be that generalize women as insecure beings ...

[karan]

Sir,

With due respect to your worldwide experience, could your experience have been limited to a particular type of women for you to give a statement like women are insecure by nature?

Don't you think men can be just as insecure seeking confidence in their boastful conquests as a woman would be?

Approval, love, respect, appreciation, etc etc.......men desire it as much as women or children.....its a basic human nature.....why give it only a feminine flavor?

(PS: I am not a feminist and not at all a male ego-basher)

Regards
Anju Dear
Very valid question. Men are equally insecure but in different way. Historically speaking male insecurities are well documented, Men are very insecure when it comes to their performance prowess. My experience is not confined to one type of women it transcends all across. In general, all our human behavior is similar across racial lines and national boundaries. Here is an example of insecurity and its different perception, women dress up, put their make up on, take all the time in world to get ready to appease their men, make him look good among his peers that he has such hot wife or girlfriend--how does men react either he becomes abusive and berates her or accuse her that she is dressing herself to show herself to other men. As far as male conquest is concerned it is embedded in male reptilian brain. It is far more accepted than female adventures. I didn't make the rules just lived by them. Once I realized my folly of following tradition I refused to be part of tradition that leads to betrayal and humiliation.

Richi couldn't agree with you more. Very well said. Less said about Indian Hypocrisy the best. Most parents who have daughter and son will give more nutritious food to their son and deprive their daughter of it--so that their son will become taller, stronger get a good job all the while forgetting that its the girl who becomes mother, her stronger health will produce healthier progeny as a result most Indians are short and plump instead of more desirable Taller, Leaner, Meaner and Stronger. We Indians for most part are myopic in our outlook lacking foresight. A nation that doesn't provide health and welfare to her daughters is doomed and this has been proven many times in history. Look at western nations, until women were given top notch health, nutrition, education care they were no better than anyone else.

[richi]

naaah it came easy to me !!!
More power to you for accepting that!!!:)

[yudhvirmor]

Calling a woman insecure is not necessarily voluminous of any sort of reluctance or weakness or cowardice ..

she is insecure because she is more emotionally laden than men or is more defiant over something or quite ambitious or more possessive ;)or loves her significant other too much with utmost dedication or may be more assertive .. so many things there could be that generalize women as insecure beings ...

I agree that women are passionate lovers and they try to judge things by words. on contrary, Men tend to judge things by actions.. I think Action speaks louder than words.. I think it may be very rationale to say that woman can be assertive and possessive in love though for man its always a sense of achievement.
No wonder most of the beautiful poetry were written to impress the woman because only way to enter in woman's heart is either through open bye pass surgery or some sugar coated words..

[rocker88]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to work.Its not always the financial reasons.
Just to show their hubby/in-laws etc. that they exist or just to escape from day-to-day house works .(yes these house works is a one of the major reason. )
its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag but can give 18 mins time to illiterate persons how to check your balance & validity in hutch/reliance etc.

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Women will always be insecure until she finds some man(Any women/girl are free to give some examples).
I dn't know how many many of you will agree with me.
its really fabulous to have your wife cooking/serving your food & speaking on various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie.

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs..

[rajkphogat]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to

its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Ha ha ha............. realy good one

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs

Unne inflation ka dar na hota bhai, na balka ki fees deni pade er na future khater jonde, par admiyan ne to yo sab karna pade se.

..


Tanne to 25-30 saal pahlyan hona tha bhai.

[shailendra]

So Mr. Hooda
Do you like you know like read the message and understand or like you know like it went like totally like over your head like you know.:eek:

Hmmmmm... :cool:
Heh! Heh! okaaaay.....

...LIKE as in 'like I think I am having my mid-life crisis come on with a sudden vengeance like?...:D

...and like mebbe I may have likely chased women (dubious kinds :rolleyes:) across the world's backstreet alleys(?) and still wouldn't know anything about them even if it hit me on the head like a crashing coconut falling on the top nut(s) of some poor shipwrecked loser on a deserted Island with only his silly grandiose fairytales now* to keep him company LIKE???..... :rolleyes:;):cool:


*Pan like(ly) emptied out looong back! :D

[sidchhikara]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to work.Its not always the financial reasons.
Just to show their hubby/in-laws etc. that they exist or just to escape from day-to-day house works .(yes these house works is a one of the major reason. )
its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag but can give 18 mins time to illiterate persons how to check your balance & validity in hutch/reliance etc.

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Women will always be insecure until she finds some man(Any women/girl are free to give some examples).
I dn't know how many many of you will agree with me.
its really fabulous to have your wife cooking/serving your food & speaking on various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie.

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs..

Tu kaam aali laa le ... kyun itna dukhi ho rhya se. 200-400 rupaiye extra de dega te tanne "various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie." bhi bata degi.
Kasuti fantasy bana rhya sei bhai ... tera byah ho liya??

[rocker88]

Its amazing you dn't know the difference between "kaam-wali" & "wife".I cannot explain/put in words what the DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WIFE'S MADE ROTI & "KAAM-WALI"'S ROTI.
Its not the roti thing,its love,care/respect,willingness,scarifice towards your family...Its much more than these inadequate sentences/words.





Tu kaam aali laa le ... kyun itna dukhi ho rhya se. 200-400 rupaiye extra de dega te tanne "various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie." bhi bata degi.
Kasuti fantasy bana rhya sei bhai ... tera byah ho liya??

[karan]

Hmmmmm... :cool:
Heh! Heh! okaaaay.....

...LIKE as in 'like I think I am having my mid-life crisis come on with a sudden vengeance like?...:D

...and like mebbe I may have likely chased women (dubious kinds :rolleyes:) across the world's backstreet alleys(?) and still wouldn't know anything about them even if it hit me on the head like a crashing coconut falling on the top nut(s) of some poor shipwrecked loser on a deserted Island with only his silly grandiose fairytales now* to keep him company LIKE???..... :rolleyes:;):cool:


*Pan like(ly) emptied out looong back! :D

Hahahaha.........No vengeance here...what made you think that. Sarcasm is not vengeance. No Backstreet alleys here brother. Blessed enough to turn the room dark.
No Mid Life crisis here either...when I will get there, I am sure I will have your company to share experience......hahahahahahahaa

[shailendra]

Hahahaha.........No vengeance here...what made you think that. Sarcasm is not vengeance. No Backstreet alleys here brother. Blessed enough to turn the room dark.
No Mid Life crisis here either...when I will get there, I am sure I will have your company to share experience......hahahahahahahaa

Ha! Ha!....Ok, fair Enuf, Karan! ;)

Who knows, will probably get mine advertised (by default) to all and sundry with likely a flashing red Lamborghini sitting on the front porch....! Heh! :cool:

ps. ....and oh btw no Dostana-2 please, no having my company and/or turning the room dark n' stuff, bud.....I would then rather prefer ...ahem, ...a woman to share my experiences with!!! ......Heheheh! J/K (No pun intended!) :D:D:D

[prashantacmet]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to work.Its not always the financial reasons.
Just to show their hubby/in-laws etc. that they exist or just to escape from day-to-day house works .(yes these house works is a one of the major reason. )
its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag but can give 18 mins time to illiterate persons how to check your balance & validity in hutch/reliance etc.

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Women will always be insecure until she finds some man(Any women/girl are free to give some examples).
I dn't know how many many of you will agree with me.
its really fabulous to have your wife cooking/serving your food & speaking on various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie.

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs..

And...Most of the time, they are also overwhelmed by fantasy talks of the callers:p..but it is really hard for a caller to get the lady sparking like damp firewood...;)...what a patience!!. Anyway, I am curious to know why the time was 18 mins not 10 or 20:D?????

On topic now!..Do u really think that the men who are intimidated by their bosses in the offices and always keep their tails folded at work place:rolleyes:, are always so gentle at home or just the women are polite at workplace and fatal:p at home.

[karan]

Ha! Ha!....Ok, fair Enuf, Karan! ;)

Who knows, will probably get mine advertised (by default) to all and sundry with likely a flashing red Lamborghini sitting on the front porch....! Heh! :cool:

ps. ....and oh btw no Dostana-2 please, no having my company and/or turning the room dark n' stuff, bud.....I would then rather prefer ...ahem, ...a woman to share my experiences with!!! ......Heheheh! J/K (No pun intended!) :D:D:D

Shailendra
hahahahahahahahaha....Fair Enough Brother. Good to know you have sense of humor.