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htomar
April 4th, 2011, 03:39 PM
It is a true story.Recently 1old friend se mila.ye usi ki story hai.

ye ladka lower-middle class family se belong karta hai.Class mai always top karta tha.uske parants ne jyada rich na hote hue bhi uski study mai koi kami nahi aane di.
start mai to sab theek tha.lekin jaise-2 young hota gya.uski family ki expectation badhti gayi.sab sochte the ki ladke par itna kharch ho raha hai to koi achi job karega and ghar ki haalat sudhaarega.man hi rakhte expectation to koi galti na hoti.lekin sab baate uske saamne aane lagi.
Ghar mai koi kamara banwana hai to boe ki abhi to is par kharach ho raha hai,iski job lagegi to banwayenge.Bachche bole ki colour TV le lo to kisi ne bola ki tumhare chacha ki shadi mai aayega. Koi kahta ki jab isko job milegi tab hi ghumne jaayenge bahar.
dheere-2 ye expectation us ladke ke liye burden banti gayi.usne sabse milna band kar diya and akela rahne laga.
education achi hote hue bhi kuchh nahi kar paya. kiski galti thi isme?????
ye prblm only is ladke ki nahi hai,mostly lower or middle class families mai aisa hota hai.koi bhagwan ki dua se nikal aata hai is burden se bahar aur koi sink ho jaata hai iski wajah se.

rinkusheoran
April 5th, 2011, 07:34 AM
when somebody expect something from you and you know that you can fulfill that or not, you need to tell it to people expecting from you instead of going in solace. If they are doing what they are doing they will also understand you when you tell something to them.

htomar
April 5th, 2011, 12:46 PM
In most cases,this type of problem start around 15-17 year of age.At that stage can't be enough mature.
the guy I am talikng about is Ok now.But lost a precious part of his life.


when somebody expect something from you and you know that you can fulfill that or not, you need to tell it to people expecting from you instead of going in solace. If they are doing what they are doing they will also understand you when you tell something to them.

shivamchaudhary
April 5th, 2011, 02:00 PM
sambhal ke chalo bhai ... duniya to bus kehne ke liye hai .. wahi baat hai ..

Kuch to log kahenge, logo ka kama hai kahna ... chhodo bekaar ki baati ko .. bus mehnat karte rehna .. :)