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rekhasmriti
August 5th, 2012, 12:38 AM
Happy Friendship Day to All :)

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.”

― Henri J.M. Nouwen (http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4837.Henri_J_M_Nouwen)

dndeswal
August 5th, 2012, 03:18 AM
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पहले यह तो बतायें कि यह "Friendship Day" किस चीज का नाम है?

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rekhasmriti
August 5th, 2012, 09:58 AM
Sir -just some day to celebrate dosti .

Patch your differences with ur friends if any . just a day to remember all ur friends .

( Please Sir , don't say it can be done any day , we still celebrate mothers day , fathers day , valentine day , friendship day or any other day )


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पहले यह तो बतायें कि यह "Friendship Day" किस चीज का नाम है?

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JSRana
August 5th, 2012, 10:46 AM
दोस्त मनवान ने एक होली के कम थी जो एक ओर खड़ी कर दी |||

rekhasmriti
August 5th, 2012, 10:47 AM
Sir g , there is nothing to loose .


दोस्त मनवान ने एक होली के कम थी जो एक ओर खड़ी कर दी |||

Sure
August 5th, 2012, 01:42 PM
Sir -just some day to celebrate dosti .

Patch your differences with ur friends if any . just a day to remember all ur friends .

( Please Sir , don't say it can be done any day , we still celebrate mothers day , fathers day , valentine day , friendship day or any other day )

If following familly and social norms, everyday must be celebrated like the days mentiond, we should not wait for special day to come for patch up our differences. For those who thinks there is nothing to loose in this, I say "TIME". We may ,loose time in wait for this day to come.

dndeswal
August 5th, 2012, 01:49 PM
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Internet पर खोज करने के बाद पता चला कि "Friendship Day" अगस्त के पहले रविवार को मनाया जाता है । ये सब "Day" पिछले कुछ सालों से ईजाद किये गये हैं और सब multinational companies की साजिश है ताकि उनका सामान बिकता रहे । जनवरी में छुट्टियों के बाद बाजार में मन्दी सी छा जाती है, बिक्री कम होती है । इसलिये फरवरी में Valetine Day का प्रचार किया गया । मई में Mothers Day, जून में Father Day । फिर अगस्त में फ्रैंडशिप डे और सितम्बर में "Daughters Day". मजे की बात यह है कि ये सब "दिन" रविवार को ही मनाये जाते हैं और इनकी कोई तारीख फिक्स नहीं । एकाध हफ्ते का आगा-पीछा हर साल कर दिया जाता है, बाजार की सुविधा को देखकर। मतलब, सब कुछ एक कोरा व्यापार है। यूरोप और अमेरिका के बुजुर्गों को तो इन "Days" पता भी नहीं क्योंकि ये सब कुछ सालों पहले ही कम्पनियों ने शुरू करवाये हैं। बस नई पीढ़ी थोड़ा बहुत जानती है। भारत जैसे देश एक बड़ा बाजार हैं जहां कम्पनियां इन सबका खूब प्रचार करती है । भारत में एक ग्रीटिंग कार्ड जिसकी कीमत मुश्किल से एक रुपये की होती है, सौ-सौ रुपये का बिकता है । पार्टियां होती हैं जिनके लिए कोका कोला, आलू के चिप्स जैसे पदार्थ और फैशन के कपड़े खरीदे जाते हैं जिससे कम्पनियों को करोड़ों की आमदनी मुफ्त में होती है।

यकीन मानिये एक "Brothers Day" और एक "Sisters Day" भी होता है जिसका प्रचार कम्पनियां करती है। इन दोनों "Days" का प्रचार भारत में कम ही किया जाता है। कम्पनियों को मालूम है यह यहां चलने वाला नहीं क्योंकि रक्षाबंधन का त्यौहार यहां पहले से ही मनाया जाता है ।

अब सवाल यह है कि हमें इनके चक्कर में फंसने की क्या जरूरत है और खासतौर पर जाटलैंड पर इस तरह की बहस शुरू करने का क्या तुक है । जिनको ज्यादा ही शौक है वे फेसबुक पर यह शौक पूरा कर लें !

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Sure
August 5th, 2012, 02:05 PM
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यकीन मानिये एक "Brothers Day" और एक "Sisters Day" भी होता है जिसका प्रचार कम्पनियां करती है। इन दोनों "Days" का प्रचार भारत में कम ही किया जाता है। कम्पनियों को मालूम है यह यहां चलने वाला नहीं क्योंकि रक्षाबंधन का त्यौहार यहां पहले से ही मनाया जाता है ।

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Raksha bandhan and Bhaiya Dooj.

These two tyohar is only Because after adulthood brothers and sisters are going to look after two different families, to make this bond strong enough and should not be forgoten in day todays personal familly humdrums.

sitaram
August 5th, 2012, 02:10 PM
bade khed ki baat hai k bhai bandhuo ko bhi freindship day ki badhai dee ja rahi hai. yahaa par ham sab aapas m bhai bandhu hai, dost nahi. Ye baat in aql ke andho ko kon samjhaye. aaj ki andhi pidhi ka destination kit hia bera na.
bade sharm ki baat hai .................. :(

DrRajpalSingh
August 5th, 2012, 02:27 PM
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Internet पर खोज करने के बाद पता चला कि "Friendship Day" अगस्त के पहले रविवार को मनाया जाता है । ये सब "Day" पिछले कुछ सालों से ईजाद किये गये हैं और सब multinational companies की साजिश है ताकि उनका सामान बिकता रहे । जनवरी में छुट्टियों के बाद बाजार में मन्दी सी छा जाती है, बिक्री कम होती है । इसलिये फरवरी में Valetine Day का प्रचार किया गया । मई में Mothers Day, जून में Father Day । फिर अगस्त में फ्रैंडशिप डे और सितम्बर में "Daughters Day". मजे की बात यह है कि ये सब "दिन" रविवार को ही मनाये जाते हैं और इनकी कोई तारीख फिक्स नहीं । एकाध हफ्ते का आगा-पीछा हर साल कर दिया जाता है, बाजार की सुविधा को देखकर। मतलब, सब कुछ एक कोरा व्यापार है। यूरोप और अमेरिका के बुजुर्गों को तो इन "Days" पता भी नहीं क्योंकि ये सब कुछ सालों पहले ही कम्पनियों ने शुरू करवाये हैं। बस नई पीढ़ी थोड़ा बहुत जानती है। भारत जैसे देश एक बड़ा बाजार हैं जहां कम्पनियां इन सबका खूब प्रचार करती है । भारत में एक ग्रीटिंग कार्ड जिसकी कीमत मुश्किल से एक रुपये की होती है, सौ-सौ रुपये का बिकता है । पार्टियां होती हैं जिनके लिए कोका कोला, आलू के चिप्स जैसे पदार्थ और फैशन के कपड़े खरीदे जाते हैं जिससे कम्पनियों को करोड़ों की आमदनी मुफ्त में होती है।

यकीन मानिये एक "Brothers Day" और एक "Sisters Day" भी होता है जिसका प्रचार कम्पनियां करती है। इन दोनों "Days" का प्रचार भारत में कम ही किया जाता है। कम्पनियों को मालूम है यह यहां चलने वाला नहीं क्योंकि रक्षाबंधन का त्यौहार यहां पहले से ही मनाया जाता है ।

अब सवाल यह है कि हमें इनके चक्कर में फंसने की क्या जरूरत है और खासतौर पर जाटलैंड पर इस तरह की बहस शुरू करने का क्या तुक है । जिनको ज्यादा ही शौक है वे फेसबुक पर यह शौक पूरा कर लें !

Excellent post. Fact of the matter is consumerism has taken over the form of celebrations of festivals. There is nothing like attachment or morality or spirituality attached with so far as these typified days like friendship day, mother'day, father's day and so on are concerned. Under the garb of these days celebrations' much money is minted by those who propagate sponsorship of these newly invented days !!

ravinderjeet
August 5th, 2012, 02:32 PM
आपां ते रोज बाबू के धोरे बैठ के रोटी खावाँ सां , माँ के हाथ की ,रोज फादर डे अर रोज मदर डे स म्हारा ते |

DrRajpalSingh
August 5th, 2012, 02:33 PM
Sir -just some day to celebrate dosti .

Patch your differences with ur friends if any . ......

One must not wait for patching up ones' differences, if any, for arrival of the First Sunday of August. Immediate remedial steps are advisable for ironing out differences.

DrRajpalSingh
August 5th, 2012, 02:35 PM
आपां ते रोज बाबू के धोरे बैठ के रोटी खावाँ सां , माँ के हाथ की ,रोज फादर डे अर रोज मदर डे स म्हारा ते |

Excellent ! This is the real Indian spirit of celebration; win affection of parents by showering respect on them.

Sure
August 5th, 2012, 03:09 PM
आपां ते रोज बाबू के धोरे बैठ के रोटी खावाँ सां , माँ के हाथ की ,रोज फादर डे अर रोज मदर डे स म्हारा ते |

Mahare jisa na jalawe sa jo ghar ta door sa.

Arveend
August 5th, 2012, 04:14 PM
life is all about living and not just living but living it fully and amicably.......some people on social networks and even in their practical lives do criticize others for not living their(others) lives according to them(some people) and forget that democracy does not allow this......each one is allowed to live his/her life the way he/she wants (without effecting others' lives).......each festival/day has got its own importance.........for one Deewali is a festival while for another it is any other day.............but it does not mean that the people celebrating Deewali shall criticize others for not celebrating it and vice versa.................
as far as firms are concerned -
1. they never force one to buy gifts, greeting cards........its one's own choice which urges him/her to go and purchase them..........and again a firm gives job to a number of people.....job means a mean of survival for them.......if spending of some people's 5, 10 rs. for cards fetches others job then its worth of celebration
2. the very basic aim is the aim of survival.........firms are not exception to it........they have to search for the ways of their survival...............and by doing that, they are not doing anything wrong..........again, it is each firm's CSR to not to incur loses and this will be done when it makes good strategies for its business and all.....................................
all i want to say is that
we should never miss a legal chance which gives us the feeling of happiness, attachments, bonding etc. and the days like friendship days are not the exceptions.

rekhasmriti
August 5th, 2012, 06:43 PM
You are right Sir , we must not wait for one day to patch up differences be it with friends or family . As time does not wait for anything .

However these special days -does give some excuse to Say Sorry and Thanks . and everything gets sorted then .

Anyways----its a belief , I find these days special to make some special people in ur life to feel special .




If following familly and social norms, everyday must be celebrated like the days mentiond, we should not wait for special day to come for patch up our differences. For those who thinks there is nothing to loose in this, I say "TIME". We may ,loose time in wait for this day to come.

rekhasmriti
August 5th, 2012, 06:49 PM
" अब सवाल यह है कि हमें इनके चक्कर में फंसने की क्या जरूरत है और खासतौर पर जाटलैंड पर इस तरह की बहस शुरू करने का क्या तुक है । जिनको ज्यादा ही शौक है वे फेसबुक पर यह शौक पूरा कर लें !"

Oh sorry Sir , I had no clue there are some restrictions on JL , that we can wish Happy Rakhi , but not Happy Friendship Day .

Be it JL or Fb-----its all about wishing people who u r in contact with .

However as u have made this crystal that on JL people are not suppose to Wish Happy Friendship Day or any other day .
Just some Indian Festivals .

I will careful in future ( Sorry sir , did not read any such forbidden instructions )



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Internet पर खोज करने के बाद पता चला कि "Friendship Day" अगस्त के पहले रविवार को मनाया जाता है । ये सब "Day" पिछले कुछ सालों से ईजाद किये गये हैं और सब multinational companies की साजिश है ताकि उनका सामान बिकता रहे । जनवरी में छुट्टियों के बाद बाजार में मन्दी सी छा जाती है, बिक्री कम होती है । इसलिये फरवरी में Valetine Day का प्रचार किया गया । मई में Mothers Day, जून में Father Day । फिर अगस्त में फ्रैंडशिप डे और सितम्बर में "Daughters Day". मजे की बात यह है कि ये सब "दिन" रविवार को ही मनाये जाते हैं और इनकी कोई तारीख फिक्स नहीं । एकाध हफ्ते का आगा-पीछा हर साल कर दिया जाता है, बाजार की सुविधा को देखकर। मतलब, सब कुछ एक कोरा व्यापार है। यूरोप और अमेरिका के बुजुर्गों को तो इन "Days" पता भी नहीं क्योंकि ये सब कुछ सालों पहले ही कम्पनियों ने शुरू करवाये हैं। बस नई पीढ़ी थोड़ा बहुत जानती है। भारत जैसे देश एक बड़ा बाजार हैं जहां कम्पनियां इन सबका खूब प्रचार करती है । भारत में एक ग्रीटिंग कार्ड जिसकी कीमत मुश्किल से एक रुपये की होती है, सौ-सौ रुपये का बिकता है । पार्टियां होती हैं जिनके लिए कोका कोला, आलू के चिप्स जैसे पदार्थ और फैशन के कपड़े खरीदे जाते हैं जिससे कम्पनियों को करोड़ों की आमदनी मुफ्त में होती है।

यकीन मानिये एक "Brothers Day" और एक "Sisters Day" भी होता है जिसका प्रचार कम्पनियां करती है। इन दोनों "Days" का प्रचार भारत में कम ही किया जाता है। कम्पनियों को मालूम है यह यहां चलने वाला नहीं क्योंकि रक्षाबंधन का त्यौहार यहां पहले से ही मनाया जाता है ।

अब सवाल यह है कि हमें इनके चक्कर में फंसने की क्या जरूरत है और खासतौर पर जाटलैंड पर इस तरह की बहस शुरू करने का क्या तुक है । जिनको ज्यादा ही शौक है वे फेसबुक पर यह शौक पूरा कर लें !

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Internet पर खोज करने के बाद पता चला कि "Friendship Day" अगस्त के पहले रविवार को मनाया जाता है । ये सब "Day" पिछले कुछ सालों से ईजाद किये गये हैं और सब multinational companies की साजिश है ताकि उनका सामान बिकता रहे । जनवरी में छुट्टियों के बाद बाजार में मन्दी सी छा जाती है, बिक्री कम होती है । इसलिये फरवरी में Valetine Day का प्रचार किया गया । मई में Mothers Day, जून में Father Day । फिर अगस्त में फ्रैंडशिप डे और सितम्बर में "Daughters Day". मजे की बात यह है कि ये सब "दिन" रविवार को ही मनाये जाते हैं और इनकी कोई तारीख फिक्स नहीं । एकाध हफ्ते का आगा-पीछा हर साल कर दिया जाता है, बाजार की सुविधा को देखकर। मतलब, सब कुछ एक कोरा व्यापार है। यूरोप और अमेरिका के बुजुर्गों को तो इन "Days" पता भी नहीं क्योंकि ये सब कुछ सालों पहले ही कम्पनियों ने शुरू करवाये हैं। बस नई पीढ़ी थोड़ा बहुत जानती है। भारत जैसे देश एक बड़ा बाजार हैं जहां कम्पनियां इन सबका खूब प्रचार करती है । भारत में एक ग्रीटिंग कार्ड जिसकी कीमत मुश्किल से एक रुपये की होती है, सौ-सौ रुपये का बिकता है । पार्टियां होती हैं जिनके लिए कोका कोला, आलू के चिप्स जैसे पदार्थ और फैशन के कपड़े खरीदे जाते हैं जिससे कम्पनियों को करोड़ों की आमदनी मुफ्त में होती है।

यकीन मानिये एक "Brothers Day" और एक "Sisters Day" भी होता है जिसका प्रचार कम्पनियां करती है। इन दोनों "Days" का प्रचार भारत में कम ही किया जाता है। कम्पनियों को मालूम है यह यहां चलने वाला नहीं क्योंकि रक्षाबंधन का त्यौहार यहां पहले से ही मनाया जाता है ।

अब सवाल यह है कि हमें इनके चक्कर में फंसने की क्या जरूरत है और खासतौर पर जाटलैंड पर इस तरह की बहस शुरू करने का क्या तुक है । जिनको ज्यादा ही शौक है वे फेसबुक पर यह शौक पूरा कर लें !

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cooljat
August 5th, 2012, 07:00 PM
To be hell with friendship day n' wishes. It's International Beer Day today. Celebrate it with cold or chilled beer with your buddies. Beer is for real buddies n' bros. Enjoy ! .. :very_drunk:

Cheers
Jit

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 04:41 AM
I do not know about others ,
but I have grown up with my Cousins .
Unke sath milkar festivals manaye----daant khayee----chutti mei mei poori gali mei shor macahaya hai-----padosiyon ke bachon ki pitayee ki hai -----hazar jhooth bole hai -----gali ka cricket-----n all that childhood fun ( I miss those days )

For me my siblings are my best friends with whom I have shared every best and worst moment of life .
So many times ur parents don't understand but ur siblings do .

I m so proud to say my siblings have always treated me like a friend----whenever I needed a friend



Who is a friend ?
Friend is someone----with whom u share ur best n worst of life , everything of ur life . Bekar Exam result----Pehla Job Offer -----pehla promotion----pehla ulta kam----pehla acha kam---u share all with them-----jis par chilao b'day bhool jane par ------bahar jane par jan bhoojhkar faltoo paisa lutwana------for hours system ko baith kar kosna ------kissi bhi faltoo bat par poori raat bhar discussion karna -----har choti badi bat par treat mangna ----wog salary ka rona-----woh boss ko galiyan dena--------
n so much -----one can not put every moment here

Friend is a friend-----be it ur mother-father-siblings-some not from blood relation

This is the rule of this generation------n I so damn proud of it Sir .

I have seen so many elderly people says-for a gal mother is her best friend . So I guess galat sikha rahe hai woh apne bachon ko ( please no offence to those )





bade khed ki baat hai k bhai bandhuo ko bhi freindship day ki badhai dee ja rahi hai. yahaa par ham sab aapas m bhai bandhu hai, dost nahi. Ye baat in aql ke andho ko kon samjhaye. aaj ki andhi pidhi ka destination kit hia bera na.
bade sharm ki baat hai .................. :(

piush_tomar
August 6th, 2012, 09:06 AM
Khabardar friendship day..its against our culture, Keep Khap system in mind. ;)

vicky84
August 6th, 2012, 09:12 AM
Paath diya gossa Anil ke kehne.. Hahaha,,, Samagh to gaye hoge saare !!

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 09:38 AM
But I guess , I need some help regarding same



Paath diya gossa Anil ke kehne.. Hahaha,,, Samagh to gaye hoge saare !!

Sure
August 6th, 2012, 10:36 AM
@Rekha, you are influenced by Punjabis/brahman and Baniya culture from your childhood, cultures which are based for the purpose of business (LOOT) and religion attached to that.
You came to Jatland because there is Jat blood flowing with in you, you are very active and everyone here feels proud on this.
Jat as ANNDATA is very laborious peoples not very spiritual and lives at ground level celebrate festival related to crops harvesting as that is only the time when there is something in home to celebrate.
Rest all other festival related to spirituality are just made for the sake of business (LOOT) to take away everything from poor’s so that they should not have saving for survival in their bad days and always look towards these Banias.
You Came on Jatland, you may be tasting little bitter here but slowly slowly you will understand the difference between ground level logics and illogical logics (manufactured ones) , you will also understand why these peoples afraid of Jats, who speak out truth on their face, they never have that guts.
Hope you will feel proud by being a Jat and will be influenced by Jat culture soon and influence of Punjabi/baniya culture will diminish.

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 10:51 AM
Hmmm .

Friendship day toh khatam , ab aage dekhte hai .

Sir still I won't mind celebrating any day or any festival----I love doing so .
Looking at the response -----I should not be posting such thread again .

However I won't stop -sorry coz I do not see any wrong in it .
i
Jahan tak----bitter experience ki bat hai------now I m getting used to it ( i m stubborn---- sorry )

I do feel proud on being Jat -Sir , Coz we are simple-honest-straight forward-not back biters -not mean- n courageous






@Rekha, you are influenced by Punjabis/brahman and Baniya culture from your childhood, cultures which are based for the purpose of business (LOOT) and religion attached to that.
You came to Jatland because there is Jat blood flowing with in you, you are very active and everyone here feels proud on this.
Jat as ANNDATA is very laborious peoples not very spiritual and lives at ground level celebrate festival related to crops harvesting as that is only the time when there is something in home to celebrate.
Rest all other festival related to spirituality are just made for the sake of business (LOOT) to take away everything from poor’s so that they should not have saving for survival in their bad days and always look towards these Banias.
You Came on Jatland, you may be tasting little bitter here but slowly slowly you will understand the difference between ground level logics and illogical logics (manufactured ones) , you will also understand why these peoples afraid of Jats, who speak out truth on their face, they never have that guts.
Hope you will feel proud by being a Jat and will be influenced by Jat culture soon and influence of Punjabi/baniya culture will diminish.

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 11:00 AM
@Rekha, you are influenced by Punjabis/brahman and Baniya culture from your childhood, cultures which are based for the purpose of business (LOOT) and religion attached to that.
You came to Jatland because there is Jat blood flowing with in you, you are very active and everyone here feels proud on this.
Jat as ANNDATA is very laborious peoples not very spiritual and lives at ground level celebrate festival related to crops harvesting as that is only the time when there is something in home to celebrate.
Rest all other festival related to spirituality are just made for the sake of business (LOOT) to take away everything from poor’s so that they should not have saving for survival in their bad days and always look towards these Banias.
You Came on Jatland, you may be tasting little bitter here but slowly slowly you will understand the difference between ground level logics and illogical logics (manufactured ones) , you will also understand why these peoples afraid of Jats, who speak out truth on their face, they never have that guts.
Hope you will feel proud by being a Jat and will be influenced by Jat culture soon and influence of Punjabi/baniya culture will diminish.



Then why is it thought in schools that Festivals are celebrated to bring u out of your busy life and spend your time with family and friends .And , It is really good to celebrate whatever be the reason and base.. It is all in ones perception and way of thinking no one is wrong... If u right the other person is also right.. If everyone is same and do same thing It is against.. Nature.. And world won't be really happening..


and I always see people in JL talking about other caste and pointing them out.. Instead , Why don't one concentrate on developing themselves by analyzing ..

Are we all so much perfect.. and are we always right .. ? To point a finger on others.. ?

anilsangwan
August 6th, 2012, 11:07 AM
फ्रेंडशिप डे मनावन तें हम ने कोए एतराज कोणी...अगर इस में किसी का भला हो तो...

लेकिन एतराज यो स आज जाटा के गाबरू छोरे.... वक्त बर्बाद कर के, इस फ्रेंडशिप डे के चक्कर में मोटर सायकल /कार पे तेल फूकते , महंगे ग्रीटिंग कार्ड खरीदते, महंगे फूल खरीद के , महंगे coffee shops pe.... अपने माँ बाप के पीसे खराब करें सें इस कल्चर में...... रक्षा बंधन पे अपनी बेबे को जो दे दिया वा उस का इस्तेमाल तो karyaa करती.... घर का पीसा घर में इ था .... लेकिन जैसा की देशवाल सर ने कहा..... ये सारे डे-डू सिर्फ धंधा चलवान खातिर सें..... फ़ालतू के फंडा तें बचो (कावड की तरह) ...... एर फ्रेंडशिप स किसे गेल तो हर दिन इ फ्रेंडशिप डे स.....हाँ लेकिन जैसा की यो थ्रेड चलाया रेखा ने... इस में तो कोए हर्ज नहीं..... या भी राजी हो लेगी / हो लेगा......!

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 11:25 AM
फ्रेंडशिप डे मनावन तें हम ने कोए एतराज कोणी...अगर इस में किसी का भला हो तो...

लेकिन एतराज यो स आज जाटा के गाबरू छोरे.... वक्त बर्बाद कर के, इस फ्रेंडशिप डे के चक्कर में मोटर सायकल /कार पे तेल फूकते , महंगे ग्रीटिंग कार्ड खरीदते, महंगे फूल खरीद के , महंगे coffee shops pe.... अपने माँ बाप के पीसे खराब करें सें इस कल्चर में...... रक्षा बंधन पे अपनी बेबे को जो दे दिया वा उस का इस्तेमाल तो karyaa करती.... घर का पीसा घर में इ था .... लेकिन जैसा की देशवाल सर ने कहा..... ये सारे डे-डू सिर्फ धंधा चलवान खातिर सें..... फ़ालतू के फंडा तें बचो (कावड की तरह) ...... एर फ्रेंडशिप स किसे गेल तो हर दिन इ फ्रेंडशिप डे स.....हाँ लेकिन जैसा की यो थ्रेड चलाया रेखा ने... इस में तो कोए हर्ज नहीं..... या भी राजी हो लेगी / हो लेगा......!


lol.. u have mistaken friendship's day with valentines day..;)........

friendship day pe no one goes to coffeee shop..
Instead group of friends hang out..


and sirf chorre hi nahi choriya.. bhi ja hai..:triumphant:

anilsangwan
August 6th, 2012, 11:26 AM
lol.. u have mistaken friendship's day with valentines day..;)........

friendship day pe no one goes to coffeee shop..
Instead group of friends hang out..


and sirf chorre hi nahi choriya.. bhi ja hai..:triumphant:

कोय सा लगा के आशा...एब मेंने इस फंड का इतना ज्ञान कोणी... सब में बर्बादी तो स इ .........बाकी ya hang-out के हो स...कित लटकाया करें छोरे छोरियां ने बाहर ले जा के ?

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 11:31 AM
कोय सा लगा के आशा...एब मेंने इस फंड का इतना ज्ञान कोणी... सब में बर्बादी तो स इ .........बाकी ya hang-out के हो स...कित लटकाया करें छोरे छोरियां ने बाहर ले जा के ?


I mean they go out to celebrate instead of going privately.. with one individual. People of different age group have there own way of spending time with friends. School kids go out to park to play with there friends , teens go to malls ,movies.. , working people(20-25) go for outing to some place or do malls , (30+) people who drink sit and share drinks...

Everyone has there own way ... :)

malikdeepak1
August 6th, 2012, 11:55 AM
, (30+) people who drink sit and share drinks...




फेर आशा, कितने पौव्वे खोले काल? :very_drunk:

Sure
August 6th, 2012, 12:01 PM
Then why is it thought in schools that Festivals are celebrated to bring u out of your busy life and spend your time with family and friends .And , It is really good to celebrate whatever be the reason and base.. It is all in ones perception and way of thinking no one is wrong... If u right the other person is also right.. If everyone is same and do same thing It is against.. Nature.. And world won't be really happening..


and I always see people in JL talking about other caste and pointing them out.. Instead , Why don't one concentrate on developing themselves by analyzing ..

Are we all so much perfect.. and are we always right .. ? To point a finger on others.. ?

You will have your answers only when you will know about Jats history and how they come out from the dirt. How this cast of farmers and soldiers never got their share any of history books as all your text books are also influenced by so called other casts. Jats are only to feed country and for securing border of this country and never for sharing the comfortability services which come out because of his own blood and sweat.

Just cheers enjoy yourself.

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 12:02 PM
फेर आशा, कितने पौव्वे खोले काल? :very_drunk:

asha ne.. friends ke saat movie dekhi..

ha but asharam dada ne.. khole the.. :very_drunk:...
;)................

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 12:06 PM
You will have your answers only when you will know about Jats history and how they come out from the dirt. How this cast of farmers and soldiers never got their share any of history books as all your text books are also influenced by so called other casts. Jats are only to feed country and for securing border of this country and never for sharing the comfortability services which come out because of his own blood and sweat.

Just cheers enjoy yourself.


I do accept.. I have never read the history.. and I hardly have an idea.. But I don't think It has got anything to do with friendship and friends .. :)

Sure
August 6th, 2012, 12:07 PM
Hmmm .

Friendship day toh khatam , ab aage dekhte hai .

Sir still I won't mind celebrating any day or any festival----I love doing so .
Looking at the response -----I should not be posting such thread again .

However I won't stop -sorry coz I do not see any wrong in it .
i
Jahan tak----bitter experience ki bat hai------now I m getting used to it ( i m stubborn---- sorry )

I do feel proud on being Jat -Sir , Coz we are simple-honest-straight forward-not back biters -not mean- n courageous

Honest ,straight, Forward are good qualities which are taken as weakness by others so called .....

in fact you are not stubborn, you will be slwly as this is what pure Jat quality, not liked by others.....

You dont see anything wrong.... not a mistake but .... ignorance

Sure
August 6th, 2012, 12:12 PM
I do accept.. I have never read the history.. and I hardly have an idea.. But I don't think It has got anything to do with friendship and friends .. :)

YES, you are right it does not have anything with friendship day. why not everyday is friendship day. the motive behind celebrating day is just bussiness and nothing else, also this create lots of misunderstanding between friends because of waiting time for this day to come why not patch up asap.

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 12:21 PM
YES, you are right it does not have anything with friendship day. why not everyday is friendship day. the motive behind celebrating day is just bussiness and nothing else, also this create lots of misunderstanding between friends because of waiting time for this day to come why not patch up asap.

For real and good friends . Every day is friendship day, everyday they fight patch up.. But this day is special.. and we do special things with our friends in the name of friendship like birthday to celebrate ur birth .. Friendship day to celebrate.. friendship .. ;)

Sure
August 6th, 2012, 12:32 PM
For real and good friends . Every day is friendship day, everyday they fight patch up.. But this day is special.. and we do special things with our friends in the name of friendship like birthday to celebrate ur birth .. Friendship day to celebrate.. friendship .. ;)

"OK" I dont like stretch it furthur, for hard earners and poors celeberation is internal and not external. for easy money makers celeberation is almost external and very less internal, just have a thought on this. cheers.

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 12:41 PM
"OK" I dont like stretch it furthur, for hard earners and poors celeberation is internal and not external. for easy money makers celeberation is almost external and very less internal, just have a thought on this. cheers.
agreed.. :) with this point.. alone....

sumitra18
August 6th, 2012, 03:21 PM
rekha ne frndship day hi to wish kiya tha...............yahan to frndship day ka postmortem hi kar diya..:stupid:

VPannu
August 6th, 2012, 04:06 PM
"OK" I dont like stretch it furthur, for hard earners and poors celeberation is internal and not external. for easy money makers celeberation is almost external and very less internal, just have a thought on this. cheers.
Just today I saw on a US based TV show that last year alone Americans spent $3.1 billion on flowers and greeting cards . 1.1 billion on greeting cards and remaining 2 billion on flowers. The host was encouraging people to rather donate that money to some sort of charity.
Honestly, Until few years ago I didn't know if such sort of days existed i.e. Father's , Mother's etc.
IMO, there are not many festivals/occasions in Christian religion so they have "made these up" . Now companies have started capitalizing on these by offering sales, specials and printing greeting cards etc.
YMMV.

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 04:40 PM
Just today I saw on a US based TV show that last year alone Americans spent $3.1 billion on flowers and greeting cards . 1.1 billion on greeting cards and remaining 2 billion on flowers. The host was encouraging people to rather donate that money to some sort of charity.
Honestly, Until few years ago I didn't know if such sort of days existed i.e. Father's , Mother's etc.
IMO, there are not many festivals/occasions in Christian religion so they have "made these up" . Now companies have started capitalizing on these by offering sales, specials and printing greeting cards etc.
YMMV.

This is what is called business..

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 05:20 PM
" It is really good to celebrate whatever be the reason and base."

thank you so much :)

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 05:23 PM
Bhaisab ,

"लेकिन एतराज यो स आज जाटा के गाबरू छोरे.... वक्त बर्बाद कर के, इस फ्रेंडशिप डे के चक्कर में मोटर सायकल /कार पे तेल फूकते , महंगे ग्रीटिंग कार्ड खरीदते, महंगे फूल खरीद के , महंगे coffee shops pe"

toh ismei problem humare ladko mei hai-
kissi ne kya fansi tod rakhee hai -----paise barbad kar ne ki

Mere wish to ur frnds is more than enough



फ्रेंडशिप डे मनावन तें हम ने कोए एतराज कोणी...अगर इस में किसी का भला हो तो...

लेकिन एतराज यो स आज जाटा के गाबरू छोरे.... वक्त बर्बाद कर के, इस फ्रेंडशिप डे के चक्कर में मोटर सायकल /कार पे तेल फूकते , महंगे ग्रीटिंग कार्ड खरीदते, महंगे फूल खरीद के , महंगे coffee shops pe.... अपने माँ बाप के पीसे खराब करें सें इस कल्चर में...... रक्षा बंधन पे अपनी बेबे को जो दे दिया वा उस का इस्तेमाल तो karyaa करती.... घर का पीसा घर में इ था .... लेकिन जैसा की देशवाल सर ने कहा..... ये सारे डे-डू सिर्फ धंधा चलवान खातिर सें..... फ़ालतू के फंडा तें बचो (कावड की तरह) ...... एर फ्रेंडशिप स किसे गेल तो हर दिन इ फ्रेंडशिप डे स.....हाँ लेकिन जैसा की यो थ्रेड चलाया रेखा ने... इस में तो कोए हर्ज नहीं..... या भी राजी हो लेगी / हो लेगा......!

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 05:24 PM
Awesome :)

rekhasmriti
August 6th, 2012, 05:27 PM
Sahi mei :)

Agli bar ek poll hoga pehle -----ki aise days par wish karna hai nahi -----
Majority would win

( @other folks just kidding don't take it seriously )

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 05:29 PM
" It is really good to celebrate whatever be the reason and base."

thank you so much :)


:livid: ................................

nainsunil007
August 6th, 2012, 05:52 PM
:livid: ................................

कयूं ईसा मुंह बणा री सै, काल घणा Friendship Day बणा लिया के, थनथनी आ गी लागै सै

ashe
August 6th, 2012, 06:10 PM
कयूं ईसा मुंह बणा री सै, काल घणा Friendship Day बणा लिया के, थनथनी आ गी लागै सै


Hindi or english please... :)

or.. marwari ...:singing:

nainsunil007
August 6th, 2012, 06:21 PM
Hindi or english please... :)

or.. marwari ...:singing:

Haryanvi only.....................

dhayal
August 6th, 2012, 07:42 PM
hmmm yeh huie na baat :)

Bisky
August 6th, 2012, 10:37 PM
"वाइजा तेरी क़िस्मत में हैं खास मौके रहमत के
हमारे मयकदे में तो हर रात रहमत बरसती है"

We should enjoy friendship every time. :suspicion:

SumitJattan
August 7th, 2012, 03:09 AM
The real irony is true friends become rarest of rare …since we have started celebrating these friendship days ….. Social sites and these designated days have become way to prove your friend ships ......BPO culture has really over casted our true selves ....these days are biggest gift of this fake modern society

sunillore
August 8th, 2012, 11:32 PM
होली धुलंडी और बैसाखी को ख़तम करने के लिए valentine चला दिया. रक्षा बंधन जैसे पवित्र त्यौहार को ख़तम करने के लिए यो फ्रेंडशिप डे चला दिया. धीरे धीरे सारे भारतीय त्योहारों के दो चार दिन आगे या पीछे एक कोए विदेशी DAY लाग ज्यागा . भारतीय culture भी ख़तम और बिज़नस भी खूब. आज के छोरे दुकान पै जा कै राखी कि जगहा फ्रेंडशिप बैंड मांगे सै.

आर या तागे वाली मैडम तै इसा लागे सै के जाटलैंड ने FACEBOOK बना कै मानेगी.

मुस्किल तै एक साफ़ सुथरी वेबसाइट मिली थी.

rekhasmriti
August 9th, 2012, 06:30 AM
" आज के छोरे दुकान पै जा कै राखी कि जगहा"

No offence-----Rakhi behne kharidti hai bhai nahi

Nyways folks---friendship is over as per calendar 2012 ( however we can celebrate same ny day with our friends )

ashe
August 9th, 2012, 10:36 AM
"मुस्किल तै एक साफ़ सुथरी वेबसाइट मिली थी."


lol...........................

sunillore
August 9th, 2012, 08:19 PM
गामा मैं तो इब बी जो घर आले ल्या कै दे दें वाहे मंजूर हो सै . म्हारे तो जो हम ल्या दयां वाहे म्हारे हाथ पर बंधे सै. शहर की अलग बात सै.

urmiladuhan
August 16th, 2013, 07:36 AM
Happy Friendship day!

16786




Happy Friendship Day to All :)

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.”

― Henri J.M. Nouwen (http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4837.Henri_J_M_Nouwen)