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maddhan1979
February 6th, 2014, 08:58 PM
Times are changing but traditions have been there as long as history was written and remembered. It is sad and bad for the community when girls marry out of community, and all of this is happening when there are so many well educated boys from village, small city levels and well educated boys from poor economic background. There is a need that well educated girls from well to do families support such boys one way of support is through marriages.
Recently there has been lot of marriages of Jat girls in south of India and out of community marriages, which is not a good sign for the community as such. It will take already striving community back. Many girls fall easy victim to outside community boys, these are often those girls who leave home to work out of secure family atmosphere, therefore it is necessary to make sure that girls working out of home environment remain emotionally and financially secure.


We must not forget our ancestors gave the greatest sacrifice by fighting wars after wars for hundreds of years, in such adverse situations they and their families were the victims of wars, lot of ills in village mentality and social evils in the community is due to these kinds of hardships faced by our ancestors and now if well educated girls marry out of community rather then marrying well educated boys from village, small towns or well educated boys from weak economic background then it is a shame to our ancestors who fought to save our families for hundreds of years.

maddhan1979
February 7th, 2014, 05:12 AM
How and why the above stated fact is important?

maddhan1979
February 7th, 2014, 05:20 AM
Simple as that, most of the community people come out of villages or their ancestors moved out of villages at certain point of time and find/found themselves facing same kind of adverse situations, therefore it is important that if such people are supported that will lead to improvement in the community. Then there are less girls then boys in the community, because of whatever reasons.