Dismal Record of Lowest national Gender Ratio in Rewari district of Haryana

[DrRajpalSingh]

According to the birth registration record the most dismal gender ratio of 674 females per 1,000 males has been recorded in Rewari district of Haryana, which is the lowest in the country.

As reported in the Tribune dated 6th June, 2014: "Interestingly, the lowest gender ratio has been recorded in those villages where the health authorities have persistently been running awareness programmes to improve the gender ratio.''

What implications are likely to be of this sordid affair of things and how to improve the situation in the future, kindly share your views !

[DrRajpalSingh]

It would not be out of place to mention that in the year 2011 the gender ratio in the district was 797 females to 1,000 males.

The amazing steep fall is an eye opener to all concerned and to come forward to act in the direction to normalise this ratio.

[AbhikRana]

Sir,

Thanks for bringing up this contemporary and burning topic.

There needs to be multi-pronged fight.

1. First, change in the mindset of the people including the so-called educated and well-to-do society. I am amazed and disappointed to see the feeling of guilt on the face of a couple who has been blessed with a female child. On the contrary, the brimming faces of couples blessed with male children is also too evident. It is highly shameful that this is much more prevalent in the so-called educated lot including people in society who might be your friends and family. I for one, hardly get to see or hear anyone these days blessed with a girl child among friends and family. It seems supposedly God is doing wonders/miracles by bringing into the world only male children thanks to the abortion clinics which despite the ban still are doing roaring business.

2. Second, the govt. should not only act VERY strictly and promptly with offenders indulging in molestation and rape, it should also incentivize parents of girl children by giving them handsome monetary and other grants at the birth of girl through till the time they attain higher education, take up jobs and then marriage.

Beyond the govt., the major part of the blame lies with the society. People will have stop offering condolences to parents blessed with girl children and saying 'better luck next time'.

At the risk of antagonizing them, I have no hesitation in saying that I am sure there would be quite a few people even here on JL who cannot keep their hand on their heart and say that they have NOT directly or indirectly indulged in a practice/behaviour which supported female foeticide.


It would not be out of place to mention that in the year 2011 the gender ratio in the district was 797 females to 1,000 males.

The amazing steep fall is an eye opener to all concerned and to come forward to act in the direction to normalise this ratio.

[DrRajpalSingh]

Sir,

Thanks for bringing up this contemporary and burning topic.

There needs to be multi-pronged fight.

1. First, change in the mindset of the people including the so-called educated and well-to-do society. I am amazed and disappointed to see the feeling of guilt on the face of a couple who has been blessed with a female child. On the contrary, the brimming faces of couples blessed with male children is also too evident. It is highly shameful that this is much more prevalent in the so-called educated lot including people in society who might be your friends and family. I for one, hardly get to see or hear these days blessed with a girl child among friends and family. It seems supposedly God is doing wonders/miracles by bringing into the world only male children thanks to the abortion clinics which despite the ban still are doing roaring business.

2. Second, the govt. should not only act VERY strictly and promptly with offenders indulging in molestation and rape, it should also incentivize parents of girl children by giving them handsome monetary and other grants at the birth of girl through till the time they attain higher education, take up jobs and then marriage.

Beyond the govt., the major part of the blame lies with the society. People will have stop offering condolences to parents blessed with girl children and saying 'better luck next time'.

At the risk of antagonizing them, I have no hesitation in saying that I am sure there would be quite a few people even here on JL who cannot keep their hand on their heart and say that they have NOT directly or indirectly indulged in a practice/behaviour which supported female infanticide.

Thanks for your forth right and equally forceful plea to nail the problem in the head.

In fact, most of the people in Indian society are blind-fold in following the traditional mind set to have a son to give them salvation after their death by ' putting Ganges water in their mouth' and lit the 'funeral pyre' !

The 'educated elite group' is more prone to violate the PNDT Act and needs to be educated to avoid committing the criminal act of killing the girl child before they see the light of the day !

Need of a strong conciousness among the people to treat their children both girls and boys on equal terms in their homes would lead a long way to elimination of the evil of foeticide of girl child.

The respected members of the Jatland.com site may set an example by following this act of equal treatment towards their children and take lead in the movement for social awareness in the way they deem fit !

Views of other participants in discussion are welcome !

[dndeswal]

According to the birth registration record the most dismal gender ratio of 674 females per 1,000 males has been recorded in Rewari district of Haryana, which is the lowest in the country.

As reported in the Tribune dated 6th June, 2014: "Interestingly, the lowest gender ratio has been recorded in those villages where the health authorities have persistently been running awareness programmes to improve the gender ratio.''

What implications are likely to be of this sordid affair of things and how to improve the situation in the future, kindly share your views !

These "health authorities" are the sole culprits because they consist of greedy doctors and surgeons who run secret clinics in private homes and charge hefty fee for gender test of pregnant women. This ratio will further go down because of rapid urbanisation which is spreading from Delhi to Gurgaon to Rewari, and because of spread of modern school education (where English is tought from class 1) in villages. Many of you will not agree to this argument but it is true. In Indian context, wherever there is so called "poverty" or "low literacy", the male-female ratio is better compared to areas with high literacy and richness (Kerala state is an exception though).

The ultrasound machine today has become slim and compact and it can be easily kept in a hand bag, thus making it difficult to raid the secret clinics.

And it is also not fit to argue that our male dominated society is solely responsible for this. It is the would-be mother herself who is ready to undergo a "gender test" of foetus and if it is a female foetus, that mother happily agrees to get rid of a baby girl, before she is born. So, our female society is also equally responsible for all this. Our culture terms this barbaric act as a sin but perhaps modern education and newly-rich families consider it their right. They argue that it is their right to choose a female or a male child!

[amankadian]

We are lucky that in Our family 70% girls and 30% boys.




Three big reason

1. Lack of Education
2. Girls are not safe.
3. Dowry, domestic violence



Its very sad that female are more responsible for dowry, Gender test etc.

[maddhan1979]

Thanks for your forth right and equally forceful plea to nail the problem in the head.

In fact, most of the people in Indian society are blind-fold in following the traditional mind set to have a son to give them salvation after their death by ' putting Ganges water in their mouth' and lit the 'funeral pyre' !

The 'educated elite group' is more prone to violate the PNDT Act and needs to be educated to avoid committing the criminal act of killing the girl child before they see the light of the day !

Need of a strong conciousness among the people to treat their children both girls and boys on equal terms in their homes would lead a long way to elimination of the evil of foeticide of girl child.

The respected members of the Jatland.com site may set an example by following this act of equal treatment towards their children and take lead in the movement for social awareness in the way they deem fit !

Views of other participants in discussion are welcome !

Dr. Rajpal, i just wonder, where the world is heading, by looking at your statement " Thanks for your forth right and equally forceful plea to nail the problem in the head."

[Samarkadian]

How does this infer to female foeticide? Any factual reports before believing in The tribune blindly?


According to the birth registration record the most dismal gender ratio of 674 females per 1,000 males has been recorded in Rewari district of Haryana, which is the lowest in the country.

As reported in the Tribune dated 6th June, 2014: "Interestingly, the lowest gender ratio has been recorded in those villages where the health authorities have persistently been running awareness programmes to improve the gender ratio.''

What implications are likely to be of this sordid affair of things and how to improve the situation in the future, kindly share your views !

[DrRajpalSingh]

How does this infer to female foeticide? Any factual reports before believing in The tribune blindly?

Though no separate 'factual report' is there yet the end result of birth rate ration of the children boys and girls born during the period of study, hints in that direction that unborn girls are got killed. If there is any other concrete reason is there, one can share the same to contradict the 'wrong' assumption.

[DrRajpalSingh]

Dr. Rajpal, i just wonder, where the world is heading, by looking at your statement " Thanks for your forth right and equally forceful plea to nail the problem in the head."

The statement under reference may be read in the context of rising disproportion of the ratio of new born girls and boys and its impact on the social fabric in the days ahead. Does this not leading the society to horrible consequences if the trend is not checked before it is too late to do so !!

[DrRajpalSingh]

We are lucky that in Our family 70% girls and 30% boys.

Three big reason

1. Lack of Education
2. Girls are not safe.
3. Dowry, domestic violence

Its very sad that female are more responsible for dowry, Gender test etc.

Good.

But how to reverse the trend mentioned in your last line, is the question which needs to be addressed!

[AbhikRana]

So, you mean to say that God has all of a sudden started doing miracles? He is only sending boys to this world and not girls.

To get deeper into your question, I would like to know why did the govt. pass a law to ban foetal gender testing? This law was passed only in response to the prevailing societal circumstances where female foetus were killed in the womb.

But the sad part is that despite the ban, this testing is still rampant (not just prevalent). Lust for the greenback among doctors,clinics and govt. health officials ensures that the growing demand for foetal gender testing especially among the educated lot and in particular from North India does not go unmet.

Science is a boon for mankind, but we through our lust have made it into a bane. If we still do not recognize the blunder that we as a society have made, we will have to pay a very heavy price.

I am sure that in the two-son families, when the sons grow up, they will curse their parents for indulging in female foeticide because there would hardly be any girls around to start a family with and the balance in society would have been lost because of the mental sickness in such couples.


How does this infer to female foeticide? Any factual reports before believing in The tribune blindly?

[pdhillon]

Based on census data for 2011, gender ratio for children 0-6 age was 787 in Rewari and this district was at third place in worst districts in Haryana. Birth registration record are based on registration data and girl child is less likely to be registered than a boy child. So one reason for 674 ratio could be lower registration among females children. Though I totally agree that there is a strong need to improve this problem of gender discrimination.

[DrRajpalSingh]

Based on census data for 2011, gender ratio for children 0-6 age was 787 in Rewari and this district was at third place in worst districts in Haryana. Birth registration record are based on registration data and girl child is less likely to be registered than a boy child. So one reason for 674 ratio could be lower registration among females children. Though I totally agree that there is a strong need to improve this problem of gender discrimination.

Good that you agree that the problem needs immediate attention but is it really so that there is discrimination in recording the birth of children as you believe: ''Birth registration record are based on registration data and girl child is less likely to be registered than a boy child. So one reason for 674 ratio could be lower registration among females children.''

Hard to believe !

[pdhillon]

[QUOTE=DrRajpalSingh;363518] but is it really so that there is discrimination in recording the birth of children as you believe.
Sir, the ratio '674' in 2013 is eye opening but I think it is based on civil registration system that report data based on what people register for getting birth certificates. This is a believe females children are under reporting in a voluntary registration system. Reasons could be many. Unfortunately 'sample registration system' does not provide district level estimates. Waiting for DLHS-4 results that could also open our eyes.

[Prikshit]

I was in kerela two years back, on thing I noticed there "They prefer a girl child" whereas in North India "We prefer a baby boy". People here pretend that it hardly makes any difference be it a boy or a girl child, but deep inside they have hidden inclination towards a male child. Reasons can be many, may be social customs like dowry, parents are over protective and they feel a girl child needs more attention and is more vunerable, such thinking still previals which is the main reason behind declining female sex ratio.
Also girl education is one thing which can improve the situation, in kerala we have high literacy rate and more females per thousand males, as a result there crimes are very less compared to North India and women are comparatively safe.

[Samarkadian]

According to the birth registration record the most dismal gender ratio of 674 females per 1,000 males has been recorded in Rewari district of Haryana, which is the lowest in the country.

As reported in the Tribune dated 6th June, 2014: "Interestingly, the lowest gender ratio has been recorded in those villages where the health authorities have persistently been running awareness programmes to improve the gender ratio.''

What implications are likely to be of this sordid affair of things and how to improve the situation in the future, kindly share your views !

I am not sure original post news is correct but over all Haryana has witnessed growth in sex ration from 861(2001) to 879 (2011).

http://www.thehindu.com/news/national/other-states/gurgaon-has-lowest-sex-ratio-in-haryana/article4739322.ece

[Samarkadian]

I am not sure whether original post news is correct but over all Haryana has witnessed growth in sex ration from 861(2001) to 879 (2011).

http://www.thehindu.com/news/national/other-states/gurgaon-has-lowest-sex-ratio-in-haryana/article4739322.ece

Coming to boys vs girls child debate, I dont find any wrong about wanting a baby boy. Most women themselves want a baby boy more than a girl.

[Prikshit]

I am not sure original post news is correct but over all Haryana has witnessed growth in sex ration from 861(2001) to 879 (2011).

http://www.thehindu.com/news/national/other-states/gurgaon-has-lowest-sex-ratio-in-haryana/article4739322.ece
The hindu is more credible compared to The tribune, though this is dated 22 May,2013. It is hard to digest such a decline in an year.

[pdhillon]

Sex ratio for all age group has increased form 861 to 879 in 2001-11. However, for children aged 0-6 years it is very low and increased from 819 to 834 in a decade (2001-11). Yes, this shows an improvement in a decade, but still Haryana has the lowest child sex ratio in India.

[RathiJi]

I watched a movie around 8-10 years back named "Matra Bhoomi" on this topic of female foeticide and then upbringing of male child. It was horrifying and heart touching both. There is no problem in expecting a boy like no problem in expecting a girl but at the end it is god's creation and we should not interfere in it. Nature keeps it balance by itself.

I think begging for marriage , bringing Biharan & being Randwa are some intitial consequences of this.

[DrRajpalSingh]

It is good sign that politicians have opened their mouth to say that there is acute shortage of brides in Haryana. But it would be better if they, instead of promising import of brides from other parts of the country, come forward to motivate the people of Haryana to give equal treatment to both boys and girls and avoid killing the unborn girls in the wombs of their mothers.

Would they do so or not is the big question.

[ssgoyat]

http://www.bhaskar.com/article-hf/HAR-AMB-russian-girl-fall-in-love-with-boy-from-india-4682443-PHO.html


कुरुक्षेत्र। कहते हैं प्यार में प्रेमी सात समुद्र भी लांघ कर अपने मुकाम को पाते हैं, तभी तो रूस की इवगिनिया पैट्रोवा अपने प्यार को पाने यहां पहुंच गई। हरियाणा के कुरुक्षेत्र स्थित गांव बेरथली में रहने वाले छोरे विक्रम संग आठ माह पहले फेसबुक पर हुई उसकी दोस्ती कब प्यार में बदल गई, खुद उन्हें भी पता नहीं चला। अब दोनों एक दूसरे के हमसफर बनने जा रहे हैं। पैट्रोवा को देहात का रीति रिवाज भी भा गया है। लिहाजा वह हिंदू रिवाज से ही शादी करेगी। पैट्रोवा आठ जुलाई को यहां पहुंची।

डाॅक्टर के सहायक को हुआ रूसी बाला से इश्क
बेरथली के 26 वर्षीय विक्रम अमृतसर में एक बाल रोग विशेषज्ञ के पास बतौर सहायक कार्य करता है। उसके पिता राम कुमार जगाधरी कोर्ट में वैल्फ का कार्य करते हैं। विक्रम ने बताया कि उसने 2009 में फेसबुक एकाउंट बनाया था। अमृतसर में जाने के बाद उसे दोस्तों की कमी महसूस होती थी। उसने पैट्रोवा काे फ्रैंडशिप रिक्वेस्ट भेजी, जिसे उसने स्वीकार कर लिया। इसके बाद चैटिंग होने लगी। इसी दौरान उन्होंने एक-दूसरे को अपना जीवन साथी बनाने का फैसला कर लिया। विक्रम ने बताया कि उनकी शादी के लिए दोनों परिवारों की रजामंदी है।

भाई-हम तो इशारे में समझ लैंवा
विक्रम के परिजन भी विदेशी बाला को बहू के रूप में देखने को आतुर हैं। विक्रम की मां शिक्षा बताती हैं कि उनकी शादी हिंदू रीति-रिवाज से की जाएगी, लेकिन रूसी रस्मों का भी ध्यान रखेंगे। हालांकि उन्हें पैट्रोवा की भाषा समझ नहीं आती लेकिन उनकी बेटी सुमन अंग्रेजी भाषा समझ लेती हैं। बेटी के घर होते समय कोई दिक्कत नहीं होती।

पैट्रोवा का परिवार भी शादी को राजी
पैट्रोवा बताती हैं कि अभी वह कागजी कार्रवाई पूरी करने के लिए अकेले ही भारत आई हैं। उसने फैसले से परिवार भी राजी है। शादी में उनके पिता सेरगेव पैत्रोव, माता एकेगैरिना, भाई ईलिया व बहन वसिटीसा भी भारत आएंगे। इवगिनिया के पिता का फूड प्रोडक्शन का काम करते हैं और वह चकचक व हावोरस आदि प्रोडक्ट्स बनाते हैं।

संस्कृति अपनाने में लगेगा समय
इवगिनिया पैट्रोवा बताती हैं कि उसने भारत के बारे में सुना था। यहां आई तो इस देश ने उनके दिल को छू लिया। हालांकि रूस व भारत के कल्चर में जमीन आसमान का फर्क है। रचने-बसने में उसे थोड़ा समय लगेगा। पैट्रोवा ने स्कूल स्तर की शिक्षा की है और सैंट पिटरबर्ग में विज्ञापन बिक्री का कार्य करती हैं। यहां उसे आम, लीची, आड़ू, आलू बुखारा, तरबूज व केला काफी पसंद आए हैं। वह शादी को लेकर उत्सुक है। अभी कानूनी प्रक्रिया के तहत एक माह तक नोटिस लगवाया है। इसके बाद शादी की तिथि तय करेंगे। पैट्रोवा ने बताया कि शादी के बाद वह चाहती है कि अपने पति संग रूस में रहे। विक्रम भी इसके लिए राजी है और वीजा का प्रबंध कर रहा है।

[DrRajpalSingh]

http://www.bhaskar.com/article-hf/HAR-AMB-russian-girl-fall-in-love-with-boy-from-india-4682443-PHO.html


कुरुक्षेत्र। कहते हैं प्यार में प्रेमी सात समुद्र भी लांघ कर अपने मुकाम को पाते हैं, तभी तो रूस की इवगिनिया पैट्रोवा अपने प्यार को पाने यहां पहुंच गई। हरियाणा के कुरुक्षेत्र स्थित गांव बेरथली में रहने वाले छोरे विक्रम संग आठ माह पहले फेसबुक पर हुई उसकी दोस्ती कब प्यार में बदल गई, खुद उन्हें भी पता नहीं चला। अब दोनों एक दूसरे के हमसफर बनने जा रहे हैं। पैट्रोवा को देहात का रीति रिवाज भी भा गया है। लिहाजा वह हिंदू रिवाज से ही शादी करेगी। पैट्रोवा आठ जुलाई को यहां पहुंची।

डाॅक्टर के सहायक को हुआ रूसी बाला से इश्क
बेरथली के 26 वर्षीय विक्रम अमृतसर में एक बाल रोग विशेषज्ञ के पास बतौर सहायक कार्य करता है। उसके पिता राम कुमार जगाधरी कोर्ट में वैल्फ का कार्य करते हैं। विक्रम ने बताया कि उसने 2009 में फेसबुक एकाउंट बनाया था। अमृतसर में जाने के बाद उसे दोस्तों की कमी महसूस होती थी। उसने पैट्रोवा काे फ्रैंडशिप रिक्वेस्ट भेजी, जिसे उसने स्वीकार कर लिया। इसके बाद चैटिंग होने लगी। इसी दौरान उन्होंने एक-दूसरे को अपना जीवन साथी बनाने का फैसला कर लिया। विक्रम ने बताया कि उनकी शादी के लिए दोनों परिवारों की रजामंदी है।

भाई-हम तो इशारे में समझ लैंवा
विक्रम के परिजन भी विदेशी बाला को बहू के रूप में देखने को आतुर हैं। विक्रम की मां शिक्षा बताती हैं कि उनकी शादी हिंदू रीति-रिवाज से की जाएगी, लेकिन रूसी रस्मों का भी ध्यान रखेंगे। हालांकि उन्हें पैट्रोवा की भाषा समझ नहीं आती लेकिन उनकी बेटी सुमन अंग्रेजी भाषा समझ लेती हैं। बेटी के घर होते समय कोई दिक्कत नहीं होती।

पैट्रोवा का परिवार भी शादी को राजी
पैट्रोवा बताती हैं कि अभी वह कागजी कार्रवाई पूरी करने के लिए अकेले ही भारत आई हैं। उसने फैसले से परिवार भी राजी है। शादी में उनके पिता सेरगेव पैत्रोव, माता एकेगैरिना, भाई ईलिया व बहन वसिटीसा भी भारत आएंगे। इवगिनिया के पिता का फूड प्रोडक्शन का काम करते हैं और वह चकचक व हावोरस आदि प्रोडक्ट्स बनाते हैं।

संस्कृति अपनाने में लगेगा समय
इवगिनिया पैट्रोवा बताती हैं कि उसने भारत के बारे में सुना था। यहां आई तो इस देश ने उनके दिल को छू लिया। हालांकि रूस व भारत के कल्चर में जमीन आसमान का फर्क है। रचने-बसने में उसे थोड़ा समय लगेगा। पैट्रोवा ने स्कूल स्तर की शिक्षा की है और सैंट पिटरबर्ग में विज्ञापन बिक्री का कार्य करती हैं। यहां उसे आम, लीची, आड़ू, आलू बुखारा, तरबूज व केला काफी पसंद आए हैं। वह शादी को लेकर उत्सुक है। अभी कानूनी प्रक्रिया के तहत एक माह तक नोटिस लगवाया है। इसके बाद शादी की तिथि तय करेंगे। पैट्रोवा ने बताया कि शादी के बाद वह चाहती है कि अपने पति संग रूस में रहे। विक्रम भी इसके लिए राजी है और वीजा का प्रबंध कर रहा है।

Wish the couple all success in their life !!!!

[Samarkadian]

No main stream media will appreciate and highlights such news.

हमारी बेटियां, बेटों के बराबर पहुंचने वाली हैं। प्रतिभा में तो साबित कर ही रही हैं। बात संख्या बल की थी, सो यहां भी लड़कियों ने एक साल में सुखद छलांग लगाई है। पानीपत में 1000 लड़कों पर लड़कियों की संख्या 926 पहुंच गई है, जो हरियाणा के औसत लिंगानुपात 878 से कहीं ज्यादा है। बीते साल यहां का लिंगानुपात 832 था। शहर से बाहर के गांव में लड़कियों की संख्या बढ़ी है।

ऊझा का लिंगानुपात सबसे बेहतर है। यहां 1000 लड़कों पर लड़कियों की संख्या 1200 है। वहीं, यमुना नदी से सटे राक्सेड़ा व सनौली खुर्द के लिंगानुपात में जबरदस्त सुधार हुआ है। ये गांव पिछड़ों में गिने जाते हैं। लिंगानुपात में बेहतर प्रदर्शन के लिए स्वास्थ्य विभाग की ओर से ऊझा गांव को 1 लाख और राक्सेड़ा को 25 हजार रुपए का पुरस्कार दिया जा चुका है।

लिंगानुपात की बढ़ती संख्या को और गति देने के लिए सिविल सर्जन डॉ. इंद्रजीत धनखड़ ने पीएनडीटी कमेटी से जुड़े अधिकारियों व सदस्यों के साथ बैठक की। सीएमओ ने कहा कि भ्रूण हत्या- ईश्वर, इंसान और इंसानियत के प्रति विश्वासघात है। इस पर रोक लगाने के लिए हम कुछ भी करने को तैयार हैं। जिले में जागरूकता कार्यक्रमों को बढ़ाया जाएगा। साथ ही, सख्ती की मुहिम भी जारी रहेगी।

चार खास कारण, जिसने लिंगानुपात बढ़ाया

पीएनडीटी
पीएनडीटी एक्ट को सख्ती से लागू किया गया। तहसील कैंप की एक महिला डॉक्टर को जेल भी काटनी पड़ी थी। लिंग जांच या गर्भपात में शामिल पाए जाने पर इस कानून के तहत 3 से 5 साल की कैद का प्रावधान है।

सोच में आया बदलाव
एक साल में देश-प्रदेश की लड़कियों ने माता-पिता का सिर ऊंचा किया है। इससे लोगों की सोच में भी बहुत फर्क पड़ा है।

जागरूकता कार्यक्रम चलाए
सरकारी व गैर-सरकारी संस्थाओं की ओर से कन्या भ्रूण हत्या के खिलाफ लगातार जागरूकता कार्यक्रम चलाए जा रहे हैं। इसका भी लोगों पर असर पड़ा है।

कमेटी के संपर्क का अहम रोल
इंडियन मेडिकल एसोसिएशन (आईएमए), पानीपत के प्रधान डॉ. मधुसूदन गुप्ता ने बताया कि यहां के लोग पड़ोसी राज्य में लिंग की जांच कराने के बाद गर्भपात कराते हैं। पीएनडीटी कमेटी के सदस्यों ने शामली सहित हरियाणा से सटे जिलों का दौरा किया। इसके बाद भ्रूण हत्या पर रोक लगी है।


http://www.bhaskar.com/news/HAR-PAN-enhanced-sex-ratio-in-haryana-4790118-NOR.html

[rekhasmriti]

I guess instead of using equal " Treatment " ----- we should say equal " opportunities " .

If I take my example I have seen my cousin brothers getting severe beating over some collective mischief of childhood and I being gal always get spared . I always used this as my advantage and used to threaten them over same ( please do not judge me I was a kid ......smart one though )

Please can we really treat 2 different gender equal .....no .....we must not even treat 2 individuals equal .