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devdahiya
January 8th, 2005, 10:12 AM
WE all want our children to do well in academics but rarely think about giving them right kind of atmosphere and quality time.Most of us say," HUUM TO BHAI PAISA KHARACH KAR SAKTE HEIN,PADHNA TE INHE-NE PADDEGA." That is the problem.Lets see what can we do for them so that they do better in life.

1] Moniter them with concern: We all must know as to what the child is up to? Is he/she focussed on his studies or wasting his/her time in idle gossips/bad company and mind you,for that you have to spare time as it is easier said than done.At this tender age a child has a tendency to sway and hence a need for strict monitoring.

2] TALK TO HIM/HER: Channels of communication should always be kept open and a patient hearing must be given first and after doing so,an advise/guidance which is in best overall interest of the child be put forward.The idea/ advise should not imposed on the child,else it will be counter-productive.This should be a regular feature on day to day basis.

3]SIT DOWN WITH THE CHILD WITH A BOOK WHICH INTEREST YOU,WHENEVER CHILD DOES SELF-STUDY: This is a wonderful motivater to the child and is time tested but question is that we have to cut out on our other interests.The parents who do it will know the difference it makes to the performance of the child.

4]DON'T NAG BUT APPRICIATE: Most of us are perfact naggers.We pass comments blindly,without realising the impact it has on the tender mind.So,We ought to listen to him/her more than to shout at him as he/she needs our advise,support and understanding and not the BULLSHIT.

5] BOLESTER HIS/HER SELF-ESTEEM : We all love our children and are ready to do any thing for them financially but have we ever paused and thought that if that is the input of success then all the children from business families could have been IAS/IFS,but they are not. Parents who pay due attention to the quality growing up of a child are able to develope confidence of a child,thereby pushing his/her SELF-ESTEEM on a higher level which ultimately makes a difference and makes them a more usefull member of the society.

6]GIVE THEM YOUR MORAL SUPPORT: Most important thing from a child's point of view is your whole hearted MORAL SUPPORT and thats what he seeks most.When a child finds his/her parents standing with him/her in thick and thin,he will perform excellent because he starts respecting parents and wants to excel in any thing he/she does.

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devdahiya
January 29th, 2006, 09:14 AM
This was aimed at putting some words of wisdom for those starting a family . Have a look please.

anildabas1701
January 29th, 2006, 10:10 AM
This was aimed at putting some words of wisdom for those starting a family . Have a look please.

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