A Thought

[alkesh]

It is fashionable to use humour in a caustic way and to subtly criticize. More often than not, this is hurtful and makes others wary of us. To avoid any kind of bitter tinge to our interactions we need to let go of mistakes - both our own and those of other people - completely. When we have learned to love in a pure way and know how to create positive attitudes at will, we develop the quality of sweetness in our personality. Let our nature become so sweet that we never again disempower anyone or draw attention to their weakness.

Thanks

[ajaygahlawat]

Quiet a fine thought, I'd say. Some people practice it naturally, and some could benefit from learning it. It is such a shame though that I fall in the latter, and so does a lot of our community.

[devdahiya]

Good thought Alkesh ji...............Thanks

[stokas]

It is fashionable to use humour in a caustic way and to subtly criticize. More often than not, this is hurtful and makes others wary of us. To avoid any kind of bitter tinge to our interactions we need to let go of mistakes - both our own and those of other people - completely. When we have learned to love in a pure way and know how to create positive attitudes at will, we develop the quality of sweetness in our personality. Let our nature become so sweet that we never again disempower anyone or draw attention to their weakness.

Thanks

Good thought Alkesh Ji,

Actually, there's no harm in criticism, but it should be done fairly and honestly. And without honest criticism, how one could know, where he/she is wrong.
But again I say, it should be done from pure heart, and not just to bitter the circumstances or a time pass!!!!!!
Honestly, I never criticise anybody, and if someone ask themselves; I tell them about their mistakes, softly and politely, only if the other person is ready to understand what I mean to say.

In today's HT CITY, Delhi edition:
"Any fool can complain, criticise and complain - and most fools do".
Dale Carnegie

Dear members, please don't take it personally. This is just a general talking.

Thanks!

Shailendra Tokas

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-Say not always what you know, but always know what you say.

[kulwant]

Alkesh Ji,

Very well said.. this is the way to create harmony in the society.


It is fashionable to use humour in a caustic way and to subtly criticize. More often than not, this is hurtful and makes others wary of us. To avoid any kind of bitter tinge to our interactions we need to let go of mistakes - both our own and those of other people - completely. When we have learned to love in a pure way and know how to create positive attitudes at will, we develop the quality of sweetness in our personality. Let our nature become so sweet that we never again disempower anyone or draw attention to their weakness.

Thanks