Beautiful words (... first mail of thread).
No doubt woman are special.....and so are man as well. Its all about co-existence as rightly said by R.K. None of the achievments of anyone of them have existence without the other.
Beauty of woman find its meaning in the eyes of man. Strength of man find its meaning in the smile of his beloved.....Both together makes this world.
And as far as pain is concerned I am sure its existence itself speaks about the associated joy.
Unfortunate are the people and society where people are forced to speak themself about their own goodness.