Again no personal hatred / venom and related feelings from my side ( Calrification is necessiated in wake of reactions i draw sometimes) ,
but the first quoted post dwells only around problems and the second quoted one gives u way to move ahead on the solution path.
DND ji said right , charity begins at home , it begins from self!
And a humble request from my side to stop spreading the word that its our KAUM/caste/ jaat who needs social upliftment / respect or watever.
In today's global world , things are person specific , things are moving towards being more individualistic and people have to make efforts to being counted. I dont feel that many of the individuals ( which in all probabilities happen to be jat ) need others to apprecaite what their forefathers has done for society at large or the nation.
I firmly believe that we are able to assert oursleves as individuals and maintain ourselves on all levels.
I have never been confronted with a situation in which i have been termed as rude , arrogant , impolite. ( and i am prudent about it ).
Lets focus on Solutions if at all one need them.