Anil i think i'm close to your concern this time. For anything to happen in a positive way everything should be started at a right time, by a right person, with right(positive) thoughts in mind and for a right person. Here in no way i mean to state that anyone is wrong when i myself, have too many flaws being human but before starting any movement the negativity or positivity should be weighed.
I can bet same will happen to me too but i will be happy with that as i know people make an image of a person which they don't want to see CHANGED and same is the case with me as i have made image of some people which i wont ever want to see changed as they are formed in years and are firm now due my forced preconceived notions.
Even i was confused and despite certain negativity and dislike for most of others i had made up my mind to walk in a common direction as was yours and others too. But how things started and moved on that you know. There is no harm in getting bothered for someone we really like but the other one has also think the same way. How long can you ignore that someone is throwing mud on you and you're just avoiding and ignoring? To a certain point we all ignore then things JUST GET WORSE believe me i've given it a try.
We tend to get misconceptions that we don't need anyone BUT IN REALITY WE ALL NEED and its nothing Anil JUST WORDS by which we MAKE OR LOOSE FRIENDS
Now your last line- Not every time we don't do something just because we don't want to do it.... this feeling comes somewhere from deep within that tells something we are doing is not right otherwise a persona with exceptional mindset and thoughts will never think of NOT DOING SOMETHING THAT IS RIGHT