@@ Battle of the genders ....

[shweta123]

Many of the threads have been plagued with the idea that men are better performers.

May be this is just another gender battle, but I would wish to have people’s opinion about this common statement that men are better.

Often people start comparing both the sexes and pass statements like: “Jo kam ladke karte hain woh kam ladkiyon ko shobha nahin dete aur jo kam ladkiyan karti hain wo ladko ko.
I think one should not copy each other aur han this is male dominated society and it should be, coz male can control the things better.”

AND “maanana to padega, ek kaam karo aap ek survey karva ke dekh lyo ya phir khud kar ke dekh lo, How many (male/femal) Chairman, MD, CEO, CFO, HODs in India as well as abroad. Apne aap doodh ke doodh aur paani ka paani ho jyaga.”

I have no doubts about the fact that both these sexes are different in various aspects, viz physical strength, mental frame of mind, outlook towards things & events etc. But does this behavioral difference make women second-rated as compared to men?

Since ages, notions do talk of supremacy of men – is it just because they are physically strong and can easily catch up a dictating role?

Just imagine the cases & situations where a woman prefers to stay quite and let the men do the talking and take command of the situation (which people label as taking command of the lady !) – your mind can float with sights like :

- ‘is dar se ki log kya kahenge ki iski wife/behen/maa aisa kar rahi hai jo ki koi aur aurat ya ladki nahi karti hai’

- ‘agar maine is aadmi ki ye ghatiya baat nahi maani to bina wajah samaj me mere saath sath mere gharwaalo ki bhi badnaami hogi aur sab log mil ke hamara jeena mushkil kar denge’

- ‘ye kabhi nahi samajh sakta ki mai bhi ek insaan hu jisme sapne ye dekh ke nahi aate ki mai ek ladki hu …’

- ‘mujhe bhi ye sab karma padega kyonki issi me sabki khushi hai aur kisi ko mere aisa karne se khushi milti hai to kyo na mai aisa karu’

Expectations – a women carries the burden of lots of expectations from her for lifetime, just the nature & magnitude of expectations changes with passage of time. Don’t you think that a lot is expected from a female on the domestic front which demands a lot of cerebral strength and is a strenuous task?

It is often seen that women are great suppressors of women too – but what makes them so?

We can’t let a girl go out all alone at midnight – but is it because of fear from animals or is it the men who are the fear factor?

Let it not just be a discussion ! Let us not undervalue the things that lie at the rear and go unobserved but are very crucial !

[anilsangwan]

Shweta ji... good topic..!!

Btw..title tein e bera paattt gya ki kya honey waala hai iss thread mein

[ajayverma1973]

Madam battle main to Male hi jeetenge but don't take it seriously, I've sent you a pm, just see and forget about battle.

Many of the threads have been plagued with the idea that men are better performers.

May be this is just another gender battle, but I would wish to have people’s opinion about this common statement that men are better.

Often people start comparing both the sexes and pass statements like: “Jo kam ladke karte hain woh kam ladkiyon ko shobha nahin dete aur jo kam ladkiyan karti hain wo ladko ko.
I think one should not copy each other aur han this is male dominated society and it should be, coz male can control the things better.”

AND “maanana to padega, ek kaam karo aap ek survey karva ke dekh lyo ya phir khud kar ke dekh lo, How many (male/femal) Chairman, MD, CEO, CFO, HODs in India as well as abroad. Apne aap doodh ke doodh aur paani ka paani ho jyaga.”

I have no doubts about the fact that both these sexes are different in various aspects, viz physical strength, mental frame of mind, outlook towards things & events etc. But does this behavioral difference make women second-rated as compared to men?

Since ages, notions do talk of supremacy of men – is it just because they are physically strong and can easily catch up a dictating role?

Just imagine the cases & situations where a woman prefers to stay quite and let the men do the talking and take command of the situation (which people label as taking command of the lady !) – your mind can float with sights like :

- ‘is dar se ki log kya kahenge ki iski wife/behen/maa aisa kar rahi hai jo ki koi aur aurat ya ladki nahi karti hai’

- ‘agar maine is aadmi ki ye ghatiya baat nahi maani to bina wajah samaj me mere saath sath mere gharwaalo ki bhi badnaami hogi aur sab log mil ke hamara jeena mushkil kar denge’

- ‘ye kabhi nahi samajh sakta ki mai bhi ek insaan hu jisme sapne ye dekh ke nahi aate ki mai ek ladki hu …’

- ‘mujhe bhi ye sab karma padega kyonki issi me sabki khushi hai aur kisi ko mere aisa karne se khushi milti hai to kyo na mai aisa karu’

Expectations – a women carries the burden of lots of expectations from her for lifetime, just the nature & magnitude of expectations changes with passage of time. Don’t you think that a lot is expected from a female on the domestic front which demands a lot of cerebral strength and is a strenuous task?

It is often seen that women are great suppressors of women too – but what makes them so?

We can’t let a girl go out all alone at midnight – but is it because of fear from animals or is it the men who are the fear factor?

Let it not just be a discussion ! Let us not undervalue the things that lie at the rear and go unobserved but are very crucial !

[shweta123]

Madam battle main to Male hi jeetenge but don't take is seriously, I've sent you a pm, just see and forget about battle.

Isme koi nahi jeetega aur jeetna bhi nahi chahiye !

It has nothing to do with you - give me a break I am just talking generally & such statements are very common !

[ajayverma1973]

I no one is going to win then why such battle is going on, aur haan u said "it is nothing to do with you" you have quoted all my points which are some how true but difficult to digest and trying to show that you are talking in general.

See, I've clear my point and I know you are very smart but please don't play with words.

Isme koi nahi jeetega aur jeetna bhi nahi chahiye !

It has nothing to do with you - give me a break I am just talking generally & such statements are very common !

[shweta123]

I no one is going to win then why such battle is going on, aur haan u said "it is nothing to do with you" you have quoted all my points which are some how true but difficult to digest and trying to show that you are talking in general.

See, I've clear my point and I know you are very smart but please don't play with words.

bhains badi ya akal - iska faisla hua aaj tak?
murgi pehle aayi ya anda - iska hua ?
kayi cheezo ke faisle nahi kewal mukadme hote hain :D

& I am trying to show :rolleyes: ? I am not 'trying' rather m talking in general, aur agar aap chahte ho ki hum aapke upar hi baat kare to mujhe kya issue hoga, mai to chah rahi thi ki aap lapete me aane se bach jaaye par shayad aap bachna nahi chahte :D

And you seem to be jealous of me - you first pass gender based statements, then you pm me and say that you didnt meant it and now when I am not responding to you, you are saying that dont play with words - mai karu kya ???? :rock

Aap rehne do na, auro ko bol lene do pleaseeeeeeee

[kapdal]

Madam battle main to Male hi jeetenge but don't take it seriously, I've sent you a pm, just see and forget about battle.

Bina battle kiye apne aap ko vijeta ghoshit karna na sirf bewkoofi, par kamzori ki bhi nishani hai..

[anjusin]

i don't find it ..if there is any battle going on..........male n female r two diffrent individuals.....both with negative n positive traits.....so all the more wat is being done here is trying to create a battle.....illogical !!:rock

[satyenderdeswal]

Bhaio.
kadey thamney issa suna se ke din ke bina raat ki koi value hai ya pher raat ke bina din ki...
Jaise cycle ke dono tyro main ladai ho jaye ki kis ke saharey cycle chal rahi hai......

baki aap log samajhdaar ho

[sachinb]

Deshwal Bhai We is in agreement with you, but still we all should keep fighting endlessly on this topic:D

Bhaio.
kadey thamney issa suna se ke din ke bina raat ki koi value hai ya pher raat ke bina din ki...
Jaise cycle ke dono tyro main ladai ho jaye ki kis ke saharey cycle chal rahi hai......

baki aap log samajhdaar ho

[ajayverma1973]

Jiski bajuon main dam hota hai use apne oopar poora bharosa hota hai ki wo hi jeetega, aur apne oppar bharosa hona kamjori ya bewkoofi nahi kehlata Mr. DALAL

Bina battle kiye apne aap ko vijeta ghoshit karna na sirf bewkoofi, par kamzori ki bhi nishani hai..

[shweta123]

Jiski bajuon main dam hota hai use apne oopar poora bharosa hota hai ki wo hi jeetega, aur apne oppar bharosa hona kamjori ya bewkoofi nahi kehlata Mr. DALAL

aur bina battle kiye khud ko vijeta ghoshit karna duniya ki sabse badi kamjori hoti hai :rockaur khaas taur pe jab koi battle chal hi na raha ho kewal board pe likha ho 'battle' bevkoof banane ke liye - aur koi ban jaaye aur jeetne haarne ki baat karne lage :D

[kapdal]

Jiski bajuon main dam hota hai use apne oopar poora bharosa hota hai ki wo hi jeetega, aur apne oppar bharosa hona kamjori ya bewkoofi nahi kehlata Mr. DALAL

Hahaha...are you trying to be funny? If you didn't get it, let me explain. I don't think Shweta was inviting you for a fist-fight (Shweta, if you were, please clarify). Her topic was more about fighting a cerebral battle. Usmain aapki bulging biceps ki aawashykta nahin hai. Showing machoism at the wrong place at the wrong time is not my (and I hope no one's)definition of confidence.

[ajayverma1973]

Dear Mr. Dalal

Battle chahe virtual ho ya actual one should have confidence, its my personal opinion. I didn't mean over confidence.

Hahaha...are you trying to be funny? If you didn't get it, let me explain. I don't think Shweta was inviting you for a fist-fight (Shweta, if you were, please clarify). Her topic was more about fighting a cerebral battle. Usmain aapki bulging biceps ki aawashykta nahin hai. Showing machoism at the wrong place at the wrong time is not my (and I hope no one's)definition of confidence.

[sumitsehrawat]

uffffffff!! Baajuon me damm...!! Bhaisahab... aap yaha baaju me damm kyu dikha rahe ho... Akhaade me jao na pleeeeejjj... try to win there!!
meri VMbook me ek faaltu aali 'volcano ki heat' dekh ke aur ek aapka confidence dekh ke meko to darr lag raha hai... aap pleeej mera gala na ghont dena shikanje me leke...

Jiski bajuon main dam hota hai use apne oopar poora bharosa hota hai ki wo hi jeetega,

[ajayverma1973]

Dear Sumit,

u r taking it otherwise, just see the heading of topic again, no one is showing bajuon ka damm, its just a quote dear, hope u got it.

uffffffff!! Baajuon me damm...!! Bhaisahab... aap yaha baaju me damm kyu dikha rahe ho... Akhaade me jao na pleeeeejjj... try to win there!!
meri VMbook me ek faaltu aali 'volcano ki heat' dekh ke aur ek aapka confidence dekh ke meko to darr lag raha hai... aap pleeej mera gala na ghont dena shikanje me leke...

[bagamalik]

thats good,
some point you have defined in that statement good but many of point are wrong so.

thats point show by you,

can’t let a girl go out all alone at midnight – but is it because of fear from animals or is it the men who are the fear factor?

man and women are both made for each other so that if one are not available no value of other.

try to understand the realty and no comant for eact other.

women do thing but don't try to be a man

Many of the threads have been plagued with the idea that men are better performers.

May be this is just another gender battle, but I would wish to have people’s opinion about this common statement that men are better.

Often people start comparing both the sexes and pass statements like: “Jo kam ladke karte hain woh kam ladkiyon ko shobha nahin dete aur jo kam ladkiyan karti hain wo ladko ko.
I think one should not copy each other aur han this is male dominated society and it should be, coz male can control the things better.”

AND “maanana to padega, ek kaam karo aap ek survey karva ke dekh lyo ya phir khud kar ke dekh lo, How many (male/femal) Chairman, MD, CEO, CFO, HODs in India as well as abroad. Apne aap doodh ke doodh aur paani ka paani ho jyaga.”

I have no doubts about the fact that both these sexes are different in various aspects, viz physical strength, mental frame of mind, outlook towards things & events etc. But does this behavioral difference make women second-rated as compared to men?

Since ages, notions do talk of supremacy of men – is it just because they are physically strong and can easily catch up a dictating role?

Just imagine the cases & situations where a woman prefers to stay quite and let the men do the talking and take command of the situation (which people label as taking command of the lady !) – your mind can float with sights like :

- ‘is dar se ki log kya kahenge ki iski wife/behen/maa aisa kar rahi hai jo ki koi aur aurat ya ladki nahi karti hai’

- ‘agar maine is aadmi ki ye ghatiya baat nahi maani to bina wajah samaj me mere saath sath mere gharwaalo ki bhi badnaami hogi aur sab log mil ke hamara jeena mushkil kar denge’

- ‘ye kabhi nahi samajh sakta ki mai bhi ek insaan hu jisme sapne ye dekh ke nahi aate ki mai ek ladki hu …’

- ‘mujhe bhi ye sab karma padega kyonki issi me sabki khushi hai aur kisi ko mere aisa karne se khushi milti hai to kyo na mai aisa karu’

Expectations – a women carries the burden of lots of expectations from her for lifetime, just the nature & magnitude of expectations changes with passage of time. Don’t you think that a lot is expected from a female on the domestic front which demands a lot of cerebral strength and is a strenuous task?

It is often seen that women are great suppressors of women too – but what makes them so?

We can’t let a girl go out all alone at midnight – but is it because of fear from animals or is it the men who are the fear factor?

Let it not just be a discussion ! Let us not undervalue the things that lie at the rear and go unobserved but are very crucial !

[shweta123]

thats good,
some point you have defined in that statement good but many of point are wrong so.

thats point show by you,

can’t let a girl go out all alone at midnight – but is it because of fear from animals or is it the men who are the fear factor?

man and women are both made for each other so that if one are not available no value of other.

try to understand the realty and no comant for eact other.

women do thing but don't try to be a man

English nahi aaati to hindi me bol lo :o par hame kuch samajh nahi aaya :rock

[bagamalik]

English nahi aaati to hindi me bol lo :o par hame kuch samajh nahi aaya :rock

HAhAhAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
:p :p :p :p
no problem madam,

je thare samajh me aa jati to, pher thame upper ho jaati na

try to understand

[sachinb]

No battle among both the sexes. Both are unique creation of GOD. And each contain certain traits which are typical to that sex only.

No question of any fight as both are complimentary to eachother.

Rather i will say fighting is a human beings tendency, they have to fight for supermacy, interests, security, survival etc etc. Males fight with males and females fight with females examples are numerous. Same way males fight with females and vice-versa.

Wherever there is a clash of interests/personality, the fight is imminent irrespective of the sexes.

Also extreme bonding is seen among males as well as females wherever the person finds of similar interests or similar temprament depending up on likings/dislikings.