I just noticed that earlier thread was closed and satyeshwar mentioned that she herself asked for ban with name change..
well I got the exact mail she wrote to the admin/mods after she was given infraction because she replied to one of the other member who was just making nonsense comments...
I thought to share this mail with each one of you so that you could decide who is on fault ? She just asked for the 1 year ban with name change as per the policy declared by Satyeshwar himself on the drama over Sumit's controversy that anyone can ask for the name change with one year ban..
>> Mail wrote by Shweta to Admins
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Dear Moderators/Admins,
After a long association with your online portal, I wish to seek a name change, with a 1 year BAN or for any period as may be applicable.
I was given an infraction, which I highly object. I dropped in a mail regarding the same, but result was the same – no reply !
Moderators need to be strict, but how can it be taken if the wrath of their decisions fall on people unjustly & inconsistently?
I don't justify my behaviour, owing to which I received that infraction, but I cant figure it out to be justifiable by any means when there are plenty examples of utter bullshits spread across the length & breath of the site.
What do you think the threads 'Ban hona SUKH hai ya DUKH hai?', 'Bhoori Bhoori Peendi' etc etc are doing to the site, or don't you think about them at all? What good the numerous threads started by the same 2 or 3 individuals daily in humour section does to the site?
Leg pulling & personal comments are not bad words in themselves. What make them bad are their timing, extent & what for they are made. I never derailed any discussion, nor did I hurt any genuine person. Worst is the leg pulling & personal comments which have become the backbone of each & every thread of Jatland nowadays. People have learnt a simple funda – Play around the rules - Hit the person below the belt, but use sweet words so as not to come into the claws of infractions & ban!
Arent you people aware of it? You are – and this is the irony !
I am sure you must be aware of the word 'THEY' being used here abundantly? This is the live example of how a set of people are indulging in cheap activities by using sugary words. Recently all threads, visitor messages books of those people & even chaupal was highly plagued by stupid jokes being played using this word on that same person.
And this didn't ended there. 'Volcanic Heat', 'Camel ride' & 'Cool' – u must be aware of these terms ! But what you did? I don't need an answer ! Why you let few handful of people play cheap tantrums and attck the same person indirectly? It seems that you people see nothing bad in murdering someone indirectly.
The thread on 'Fitness' was focused on Camel Ride fully – and 'How to deal with Pakistan' brought forward ideas of 'khooni bheet' & 'ASBP Zindabad' – quite practical must say!
And I know it will go on and a person like me, who just gave answers to a person passing shallow direct comments on the woman race, was awarded with a serious infraction.
How hard I tried to retain Samar as a moderator inspite of me having various differences with him & some of his ways, but you people couldn't make a tough decision and bowed in favour of wrong decision. He was all the way willing to keep going as a moderator inspite of the fury of people he faced. And once again the evil won over the good as usual.
And now I find it useless that you can be able to distinguish between 'being against the moderators' & 'being not convinced with the ways & means of voluntary application of irrational policies'.
It isn't so difficult to apply some rational policies, but it's a sad fact that more than half of the moderators are mere spectators/sleeping beauties !
Finally, I quit.
I no longer wish to be part of this portal, even it would fill me with agony to see my name appear in the list of members at such a place.
Kindly change my name on my profile to 'Shailja Singh' and accord me a Ban or whatever and absolve me of the sin I did & kept on believing that you people will evolve & come out of the shell of redundant policies.
Regards,
Shweta123
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