Most easy way to earn respect is give respect. The way you treat other's same treatment u will get from them. Respect is not country or region specific its every where. Respect doesn't mean touching the feet or Namastey, i have seen many people who touch someone's feet and behind his back they just use to abuse them.
When i was in Australia i have seen even senior persons in a company are used to say few abusive words(atleast we consider those words abusive) in daily common conversation but that doesn't mean that they don't know how to respect of other, they are very good and behave respectfully to other's they are very well mannered better than many of us. So we can't compare the respect between western and indian countries the environment is totally different.
Respect should be in heart which will automatically comes in words and acts.
Plant one tree atleast
and pls save water and electricity
And then there are some..who wish unka husband aaj marr jaa..no attachment/passion or even compassion..
they live with them,,but fake it to the max.
height of pretence
May engage in adultery, cribbing, cursing and what not..but they remain ATTACHED and married.
bacchon ki life kharaab..issey aacha to jii leney do us becharey ko
Same applies to men
IMO,its this way or that..ur IN ot OUT..
could never understand..do naav ki sawaari lolz
-There are no bad people in this world..they are either good or amusing.
...La Vida es Bella....
Universal Saying :
Without Control of Groom's Mother over Bride after marriage is a passport to Groom's DISASTER.
Specially if girl is BAGDAN , Same -or- Over Age than Guy.
Respect and disrespect is not specific to any culture or country. But the ways of showing respect differs from country to country, culture to culture, and even social class/financial status and education.
One thing I find funny in India is that some poeple think i'm trying to be an englishman when i say thank you, it's become a reflex action for me, but saying 'shukariya' or dhanaywaad all the time just sounds stupid. I wish they had less royal sounding names in hindi.
But when it comes to respecting people I found America in general to be very respectful. I was there for 2 weeks with my father about a week ago, and man, people were so helpful and so polite, every time i said thank you they said 'you're welcome' with a warm smile, and not once was it just because they were trying to be polite, they enjoyed making you feel home and respecting you.
Respect's closely linked to love, I think and if you love people and are caring you will respect them. Plain and simple!
Re 1) Anyone will recognise a gesture of respect, irrespective of country. Can one guarantee the authenticity/ value of that gesture?? However, the polite societies are definitely better at face values.
Re 2) Rightly said, applies to any society, not just to India, in a small inconsequential way.
Thanks
Precisely...Look i am not saying that you cannot get something better out of the available options..But i am obsessed with the comparison here between West and India. I have my own personal experience with that..Some of things do not work when it comes to applying..A good behavior or bad behavior...or what else..etiquettes or manners..they all persist in every culture..You would have been taught from parents as well..But following someone does not mean that you are inheriting right things..and sometimes they do not work..I remember when one of my friend got offended when i used the word "Lucky Ba$tard"..And he was right at his place..Same if you use "Smart A$$"...and so on...Coming to the point..Manners persist in every culture..In fact Indian culture is the richest in manners and etiquettes than anyone else in the world..I am not criticizing that West is bad ..They have their own ways to show a respect..and good and bad people are everywhere..Now it depends upon you what do you follow..But yes one cannot compare apple and oranges..Sorry i am in between some work..will get back to this later on.
Sahi Kaha bhai..... bado/doosroon ke liye respect boli(accent) se nahi... ghar waloon ne jo achaar vichaar.... parwarish ..de hai us par depend karta hai ......
yeh bhi bilkul sahi kaha .... haryana main jydatar jab hain hi ganwaar to kahan se layenge respect - vespect.... yeh unka ka nahi jo unke bado ne sikhaya us ka doosh hai....:rock:rock
Koi nahi bhai time ke saath sab badal raha hai... haryana main bhi literacy rate dheere dheere badhegi... log bahar jayenge...doosro se milenge to apne jungli pan ko bhi bhool jayenge..... hope for the best BRO..All the best...
shailender bhai maine jo uper likha hai that is specifically for a particular type of person.........so no offence........i respect all NRI's who respect INDIANS, love INDIA and feel proud to be an INDIAN......
again if i hurt ur feelings,then i m extremely sorry......
[QUOTE=daivischahal;231959]seems that u r having a good time there.....congrats........at least somebody is following u....
u know if its a fact dat if u like someone then u will appreciate his/her every deed.. .....same is the case with u.......u like americans so much.......
n its not only u, there r many people in india who think that americans are much superior than indians.......so they just try to ape americans...their culture,their lifestyle....
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Ye America to hamarey Aas-Pass bi nahi lagta..
n mate..its not aping..its assimilating,,not by force but naturally..
of course..those who dont...( I think its those who come just for MONEY) they have a perpetually divided mindset
Dhobi ka kutta na ghar ka na ghaat ka!
I think u said u've never been to these countries..so dont write something on heresay..or that u dont know about!
And if someone tries to explain...LISTEN TO THEM..
Last edited by deepshi; November 18th, 2009 at 09:13 AM.
-There are no bad people in this world..they are either good or amusing.
...La Vida es Bella....