singhvp (December 15th, 2010)
Prashant,
You are welcome to state your thoughts...
My post was just an extension of what Sunita ji was saying herself that she cannot switch from a member to a moderator. For most of us, it is irrelevant if Sunita ji is neutral or biased. Most of us know where to draw a line ourselves.
Regards
bishanleo2001 (December 15th, 2010), ritu (December 15th, 2010), sunildabas (December 15th, 2010)
Deepika, our stand off here should not have any bearing on our social/personal relations. Any forum is just like a Panchayat and a Panch should behave without any prejudice. That is why there is a common saying "Panch is Parmeshwar". I hope our discussion will not have any negative impact on the sense of mutual respect.
पिछले ख़राब अनुभवों को छोड़कर आगे से क्या अच्छा करना हैं जाटलैंड पर यह मिलकर सोचें सभी मेम्बर और मोडरेटर तो अच्छा hoga. और एक दुसरे की कमियां निकलना और गलतियाँ दिखाना बंद हो तो अच्छा हैं. vpsingji भी एक बहुत ही अच्छे माननीय व्यक्ति हैं उनसे भी सलाह लेनी चाहिए. और उनके विचारों की क़द्र करनी चाहिए. ऐसा ही चलता रहा तो नए मेम्बर को भी यही लगेगा की यह सामाजिक वेबसाइट न होकर एक राजनितिक वेबसाइट हैं!!!!!!!! सब अपनी राजनितिक चाल की तरह जवाब दे रहे हैं.! pls इस मसले को यहीं पे बंद करके यह सोचने का शुरू करिए की हमें हमारी वेबसाइट को और कैसे पोपुलर बनाया जा सकेगा हमारी जाट समाज के अन्दर......................................
जय भारत
annch (December 15th, 2010), premsukhdidel (December 15th, 2010), ritu (December 14th, 2010), Shibani (December 15th, 2010), singhvp (December 14th, 2010), sjakhars (December 15th, 2010), sunildabas (December 15th, 2010), sunitahooda (December 17th, 2010), vikasJAT (December 14th, 2010)
bhai aatish ye sab log jo ek dusrre ke sarr ho rahe hai unme se tum bhi ek ho aur me bhi.aur agar kisi galat baat ka ab tak virodh na hua ho to kya kabhi bhi nahi hoga.jab jaago tabhi savera.bhai english or haryanvi dono me hi galat hai jo galat shabad hai .baat number of threads ki nahi ho rahi .bhondapaan point out karne k liye ek quote hi bahut hai.....i know you are one of the descent members on jatland and you would never like to use this kind of language yourself reason you know very well and for that reason only ppl are objecting it.
" If the loser keeps his smile........
Then the winner will loose the thrill of the victory.......
Attitude make the difference......"
annch (December 15th, 2010), bishanleo2001 (December 15th, 2010), Malikpriya (December 15th, 2010), sunildabas (December 15th, 2010)
सालूराम जी ने बहुत ही समझदारी की बात की है जबकि वो उम्र में कईयों से छोटे हैं. उन्होंने सही कहा की जो हुआ उसे भूल जाएँ और आगे बढ़ें. आपस में छोटी छोटी बातों को लेकर तनाव बढाने से माहौल और खराब होगा.
कोई अच्छा सा धागा शुरू करें किसी रचनात्मक काम यानि समुदाय के सांस्कृतिक, शैक्षणिक एवं आर्थिक विकास के बारे में. सालूराम जी राजस्थानी में शायद कहते हैं के आज तक की रोल-गदोल
prashantacmet (December 15th, 2010), vicky84 (December 15th, 2010)
One thing that one can notice on this thread after it was started,(Haryana mein ek kahawat hai 'takkar aal unt pahle karwaye' n ye yahan pe sahi sabit horahi hai)some thoughtfull and open people are having issues after it was raised now? There is always a first time for everything and bishen did it so now why to point what has happend or written in past, I read it somewhere one should talk about past only if it was glorious so its futile to talk about what was written in past.
What i think from my personnel point is something that you can say in presence of your family members of adults that you should not say here also and that will automatically draws the line. N As Saluram said let see the future not past.
Khudi ko kar buland itna ke har taqder se pehle
Khuda bande se ye poche bata teri raza kia hai
bishanleo2001 (December 15th, 2010)
Ritu Didi,
सबसे पहले तो धन्यवाद् मेरी पोस्ट को समघ्ने के लिए. और धन्यवाद् इसके लिए भी की आपने ये तो माना अंग्रेजी में गलत लिखा हुआ भी गलत है. मैंने अपनी उस पोस्ट में ये नहीं कहा की जाटलैंड के ऊपर भोंडापन चलते रहना चाहिए क्योंकि ये पहले से भी चलता आ रहा है. ये सवाल पहले भी कई सदस्यों ने उठाये हैं और पता नहीं क्यों वो मेरी पोस्ट को धयान से नहीं पढ़ रहे या फिर पढना नहीं चाहते. लेकिन मैं फिर से उन्ही बात को दोहराना चाहता हूँ की मैं बिलकुल विरोध में हूँ की यहाँ पर कोई भी अभद्र भाषा का प्रयोग करे. मेरे दो सवाल थे उस पोस्ट में:
१. ओ.प ने ये लिखा की जाटलैंड के ऊपर पिछले कुछ समय से अभद्रता का नाच हो रहा है. अंजू ने मुघे एक लिंक भी दिखाया के ऐसा पहले होता था और अब ऐसा हो रहा है. तो मैंने उन्ही बातों को धयान में रखते हुए ये लिखा :
ऐसी अभद्रता सालों से चली आ रही है जाटलैंड के ऊपर. ये अभी पिछले कुछ दिनों से नहीं चली है. सभी ने देखि हुई हैं वो पोस्ट.
२. फिर मैंने उसका एक उदहारण ये दिया की, ऐसी अभद्र भाषा यही कोई अंग्रेजी में लिखे तो वो क्यों अभद्र नहीं मानी जाती. ये उदहारण उन्ही थ्रेअड्स में से लिया गया है जहाँ पर हम सभी लोगों ने अपने विचार रखे थे. और ऐसे बहुत से थरेअद हैं जहाँ पर लोगों ने ऐसे अंग्रेजी में अभद्र लिखी हुई भाषा को नकारते हुए अपने विचार व्यक्त किये. वो शायद इतनी बुरी हैं की मैं शायद उसे यहाँ लिखना भी नहीं चाहूँगा. ये सब कहते हुए मैं यहीं कहूँगा की चाहे भाषा अंग्रेजी हो या हिंदी या कोई बोली (हरयाणवी). अभद्र तो अभद्र ही है.
Last edited by vicky84; December 16th, 2010 at 08:14 AM.
prashantacmet (December 15th, 2010), singhvp (December 15th, 2010)
Atish,
With due respect to your thoughts, what is the purpose of all your posts in this thread? Regarding your questions, has anybody denied that people have been using objectionable language all this while on JL?
Did anybody say that posts written in HINDI are more objectionable than those written in ENGLISH? Correct me if I am wrong, wasn't it you who started that thought process? Did Bishan or anyone else say anything on these lines?
Either we can continue to have discussion on which objectionable post is 'better" than the other, whether an isolated objectionable post is more/less offensive than a series of objectionable posts in a thread, a single objectionable thread is better/worse than several threads of the same nature going on at the same time, OR, we can endeavor to live with our differences hopefully without shutting our eyes and sensibilities. What do you say?
Regards,
Last edited by sunitahooda; December 16th, 2010 at 10:15 AM. Reason: Requested by writer
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prashantacmet (December 15th, 2010), singhvp (December 15th, 2010), sunitahooda (December 15th, 2010), vivekdh (December 15th, 2010)
Anjoo....I had thought to post two replies-one as a member other as an Editor but thought It'll go on and on to discuss what type of member I am or I was and what type of Editor I'm or I'll be.This role has been given to me after a good consideration of all aspects( I hope). Its the responsibilty of much much senior people of the portal, I completeyly trust they have made a right choice by selecting me and I would never ever let them or members down. I'll appreciate if you could also value their decision, nothing much to say on this I'm sure your doubts will be cleared in due course of time
I AM WHAT I AM....JAT.... 16X2=8
prashantacmet (December 15th, 2010), singhvp (December 15th, 2010), upendersingh (December 16th, 2010), vicky84 (December 15th, 2010), vikasJAT (December 15th, 2010)
I AM WHAT I AM....JAT.... 16X2=8
narendra81 (December 15th, 2010)
sahi kahi Vivek ya baat....
koi kitna e badiya ho per koi na koi muh fer k chaleniya mile e se.
apne aas padose me e dekhan ne mil ja se ya baat ki.padosi chugli jarur karenge aur dur ka badayi karega......
vo kise ne sahi kahi hai ki aajkal log apne dukh te dukhi na hote balki sath aale ki sukh ne dekh k ghane dukhi ho ja se......hahahaahhahaa
Regards
VIKAS DHANKHAR
THE MOST DANGEROUS THING IN THE WORLD IS AN IDEA.:rolleyes:
THE MOST DANGEROUS PERSON IN THE WORLD IS ONE WITH AN IDEA....!!!!!!:rolleyes:
sunitahooda (December 15th, 2010)
Sachi Hey?
Manney te eebe bera pattya tun Panchani bangi ... Mubarak ho!
I request all the members not to wait and start a thread altogether by collecting so many instances, Instead be bold like jats are and indicate the person then and there itself if somewhat wrong is written. People learn this way also, once you point fingures at the language you will find a change instantly.
Also we could discuss variety of topics without using questionable language. Being so much lenient is not the solution. Slang is not the real face of Haryanvi like Deepshi said somewhere in her posts slang used in other threads is used by ganvar people in haryana and not learned or wiser/sober people. Please dont polute our haryanvi by emphasising on slangs pahele hi media jahan gandagi dikhani ho wahan haryanvi ka paryog karti hai.
ritu (December 16th, 2010), singhvp (December 16th, 2010), sunildabas (December 16th, 2010), sunillathwal (December 15th, 2010), sunitahooda (December 15th, 2010), vikasJAT (December 15th, 2010), vivekdh (December 16th, 2010)
Atish that post in the quoted thread has been deleted along with another member's reply. Member's should always report such posts.
Manne note karya hai ke kise-kise baat ke to ghane paachhey padd jangey arr kayi issi-issi ek dum ignore kar dengey.
Please come forward to bring such posts to our notice. I'll post one such link here
I AM WHAT I AM....JAT.... 16X2=8
singhvp (December 15th, 2010)
" If the loser keeps his smile........
Then the winner will loose the thrill of the victory.......
Attitude make the difference......"
Sunita ji,
It is least of my concerns who made you an editor, why you were made an editor and how you would perform as an editor. My post was only an extension of your own thought that you cannot stop being a Member now that you are an Editor.
Still, good luck with your new role.........
Regards
bishanleo2001 (December 16th, 2010), rinkusheoran (December 16th, 2010), ritu (December 16th, 2010)