hi everyone, i just wanna convey my views and also raise a point that what is the status of jats in society. like i express my views in many posts, jats are really loosing themselves in society. our culture is fading n if some efforts like (jatland.com n many other sites) done to put some breath in then it is not appreciated as a whole. atleast among females.<br> nowadays, jats tries to reform themselves. taught their children to speak in hindi and not to use haryanvi as society will call them "Gamru" or "molad". now tell me if a sardar can speaks in punjabi in the prestigious royal albort hall at london, south indian uses his local lang. in media then where is jat?????????????? is there no way for being a jat. aisa kyu???????????<br>its all bcoz of our inferiority complex.<br>why is it tht makes us so narrow mind. jats r usually famous for their talks. jo bol diya so bol diya. whr r those talk now. influences of other communities or what. our festivals which our ancestors used to celebrate r gone now n we indulge ourselves in dramatic and hollow festivities like karva chauth, bhai duj etc. jats had never celebrate such occasions. admittedly, we should improve ourselves but not so much tht we get influences from other communitites and adopt their customs n rituals. jat must remain jat. free from all illusions n stupid things. <br>as a criminal lawyer i saw several punjabans who did a fast for LONG LIFE of their husband nd in a year or two same women shouts in court that their husband r impotent, cruel n product of a beast. really!!!!! kya rakha hai in drama like festivals me. <br>there is a famous quotation for that that Mota khana mota dimag. i admit that it happens. in ayurveda it is proved that jaisa ann waisa mann n waisa hi tann. so what's wrong if our ancestor hv some really solid and healthy food. auro ke bus ka nahi tha so they made a myth that jat to mote dimag ka hai. at present jats r being selected in judiciary, civil services n other services. sabko pata hai jat ko rasta diya to unke upar beth jaiga. jat ek hi kafi hai. if observe naturally lion always prefer to remain alone rather that being gathered by wolves. every jat had face some sort of discrimination in his life. i personally face so much discrimination. although being succeed in several interviews during my job seeking days i was accustomed of hearing jat hai panga karega from punjabi seniors. jst leave it yaar.<br>one of my neighbor's 13 years old son asked me chacha wheat ka kaun sa ped hota hai. i just got scared after i thought of our future. at least net pe, books me ya kabhi tv me kuch aisa dikha do yaaro bacho ko jisse apne jat hone ka sabab mile unko.<br>look at sardars. jatt sardar. truly devoted to their culture. child beshak canada me peda ho gurudwara n khet dono dikhate hai n this is the reason for their success. hum na to idhar ke na udhar ke. kahan hai hum. <br>i m not a preacher or a social reformer. i m a simple jat who wants to secure my community. a community who always helps others, feed others, defend others and ofcourse reform others if got a chance. just recall ur past n comply on simple rites n rules made in past. prepare your children to compete but also tell them who they are. speaking in haryanvi is not shameful, not a sin. i know a boy who run after girls while taking his school belt in his hand and shouting in haryanvi. teachers used to scold him for speaking in haryanvi. at present he is in scotland n hv worked with top companies of the world. truly deserves to be a role mode. there r many like him, we only need to find them.