आजकल तो जाटलैंड पर इतना ज्ञान बाँट रहा है कि संभालना मुश्किल हो रहा है
नए मेम्बर के आने से लगता है कि या जाटलैंड तो खाम्ह्खा बंजर थी इतने साल ते
आँख सी तो इभी खुली पुराने मेम्बर की
बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद्
आजकल तो जाटलैंड पर इतना ज्ञान बाँट रहा है कि संभालना मुश्किल हो रहा है
नए मेम्बर के आने से लगता है कि या जाटलैंड तो खाम्ह्खा बंजर थी इतने साल ते
आँख सी तो इभी खुली पुराने मेम्बर की
बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद्
The never-ending task : Self Improvement
anilsangwan (November 4th, 2011), cooljat (November 4th, 2011), rohittewatia (November 26th, 2011), sjakhars (November 6th, 2011), vicky84 (November 6th, 2011), VPannu (November 3rd, 2011)
most of the setor of developing drugs and vaccines has shifted to private pharma componies because of rapid and very effetive way of production...
govt only offers contract to these comp...nd there is no harm in it because govt is getting very effective drugs at reasonable cost(bcoz of copmetition in pharma comp)...
our main defence is our immunity krishan ji....wt drugs do?..they never act directly ..these drugs modify our immunity for in a specific way for specific diseaes..so, ultimately its our immunity that fights not drug..
so ,i just want to say krishan ji..dont depend on drugs even for minor illness..
improve nd strenthen ur immunity in a natural way like..improve ur life style ,improve ur food habits,improve ur environment,exercise daily, nd be up to date in health nd fitness updates...
i think this much effort only can make u immune to many common diseases that u were mentioning..
Last edited by drkarminder; November 2nd, 2011 at 11:15 PM.
We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done
@Krishan Ji....your point make sense, but what would we do if the victim is someone from our herd? All we can do is put efforts.Correct me if I am wrong.
Rajni, try to convince the person that it is harmful and encourage him/her to quit. If he/she is determined to do so, it won’t be so difficult. There will be cravings and withdrawal symptoms depending on the level of addiction. Going cold turkey is not good if symptoms are severe. Discuss with your family physician who can prescribe some medication therapy, if needed.
singhvp (November 4th, 2011)
Deshi, Rajni,
A full addict is very hard to convince. I had tried my wit to the maximum with one of my relative who was a scene in all rave partys in and around NCR and then Himachal. His car used to be full with Corex cartons.He had wanted to quit but less than the parents and relatives. He deceieved every emotional and supportive advice.No family physician or other psychology worked. Addiction's psychology is far stronger than supportive and emotional psychology. Finally we had to book him in de-addiction centre. They came in disguise of paintors and took him. There he was de-toxicated top to bottom. When I had used to visit him, he would scream and cry his soul out for these codience based cough syrups.When I hadn't listened to his pleas he cut himself in face and head which cuased more than 40 stictes all over. But at the end we didnt take him out unless he was on knees and call it a day for drugs. There is no way one can escape from these de-addiction centers. Like nightclubs they ve bouncers. Nothing works except quitting. He ulitmately got rid of all the addictions in that center and now is leaving normal life but still he drinks which is okay I think.
Main point I learned from his story is that his mother was too protective that she never saw it coming this big way unless police came one day and took him for various cases. He became a Khalifa at 16. Celebrated his 16th Birthday in Juvenile home. It is such an irony that his mother learnt it a bit late but I guess at the right time for her younger son who because of strict parenting is now studying for Aeronautical engieneering. So its parenthood which must be utternly rational for their teenagers children. It is rightesous parenting which matters more than just parenting in this corrupt time of age.
"All I am trying to do is bridge the gap between Jats and Rest of World"
As I shall imagine, so shall I become.
Pleasure is all mine Aman Ji. Please do contribute your valuable suggestions..
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@Krishan Ji...that would be in vain even if you try to convince the addict . He/she would say yes to everything then but later would not apply even a bit of it. Though if it's an addiction of 2-3 years people can quit with strong determination, but those who are slaves to these drugs can't even if they are willing to quit, I have observed. What I believe sending addicts to Rehabilitation centers can be a solution.Don't you think so
Samar Ji, a full addict is actually very hard to convince. Even in my opinion rehabilitation centers can only help.
Though no parent would want to see their kids in this hell, but when these addicts are questioned by psychiatrist, they held families responsible for their conditions someway or the other.
What you suggest parents should treat teenagers like?
Clove seems safe for most people when taken in food amounts, but not enough is known about the safety of taking clove by mouth in larger medicinal amounts.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/d...tural/251.html
Attention seekers and attention getters are two different class of people.
deshi-jat (November 5th, 2011)
deshi-jat (November 6th, 2011)
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Treating children as their children not friends. In my opinion treating them as friend hardly works. For that matter they already ve friends. They need and want parents not friends in form of parents. A strong masculine inspirational ideal is very much necessary in every home irrespective of education/societal status of family.
If Psychiatrist is holding a family responsible for teenager's addiction then its true and let it hurt if it so. At last parents need to know their parenting's flaws.Nothing wrong with it.
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Urmila Ji,
Although I am not a father but whatever little I understood is because of observation around. Starting a thread on parenthood is a nice idea. But since you are the superstar of Jatland and whatever idea/topic you touches it becomes immensely acknowledged and popular. My most threads wither on first page. It would be better if you start it and put your own observation and questions and let this on-air benefit for fellow readers.
Last edited by Samarkadian; November 6th, 2011 at 02:38 PM.
"All I am trying to do is bridge the gap between Jats and Rest of World"
As I shall imagine, so shall I become.
I am the so called "superstar" because I am the punching bag of JL!
O.K, I have experience with children, and I think, on that basis, I can start a thread on parenting.
Samarjee, in my experience, one need not be a parent to be an effective parent. For example, in a joint family system, that many Jats follow, young children are parented by the entire family - not necessarily by the biological parents.
Last edited by urmiladuhan; November 6th, 2011 at 02:49 PM.
Attention seekers and attention getters are two different class of people.
deshi-jat (November 6th, 2011)
cooljat (November 29th, 2011)