Dear fellow JAT READERS. Recently, when I was in the process of selection of girl for my son located in Australia who is MS IT, some of the proposals initially received from Haryana ( exact location not to be disclosed ). It is pertinent to mention that our forefather were dislodged from Rohtak in 1873, and settled in Ghaziabad. My daughter has married to Haryanavi JAT . The vary question was asked almost from all the FATHER, where do u belong. when I mentioned it as UP ; the reply was " Naa jee ham na karte UP me"/ or " UP me rista to katee naa karee " or to utter surprise , seen as written " UP wale pl execuse us ". Will any JAT through some light on the reason so that I could enhance my general knowledge about HARYANA, for such a great social behavior, which identify UP Jats as out of cast members. There is no problem in getting a JAT GIRL from UP/Bihar/Uttrakhand/Punjab or MP but why this narrow vision amongst JATS for not accepting their own community.