I read 2 threads here basically saying in 3 words "beware of NRIs"
To me both are presenting 1 sided viewpoints. There are 2 sides to a coin.
here are 2 real happenings where NRI men can be considered "victims"
1. Girl comes To America on temporary Visa- relatives show her to prospective grooms, while at the same time the girl is going out with numerous boyfriends.
Girl has good social skills. She "pattos" a good American citizen guy from a good family, an NRI. The guy's mother is against marriage. But Girls relatives are rich and manage to convince the family. marriage is finalized but the girl is still dating...
Girls has an expensive marriage paid for by her relatives
After marriage girl gets into fights with mother in law. Bickering continues.
Girl gets Green card on back of her NRI husband.
Girl gives birth to children.
Girl has her mother in law and father in law "send" back to India
Girl gets education paid for by her husband
Girl get s a job..
then girl makes "more male friends"
Girl brings boyfriends home in front of her children
husband line of toleration is crossed
divorce
Girl gets half of property
Husband is screwed
The NRI man is the victim here.
2. Another one - Girl comes on temporary visa, Girl pattoos an American citizen. Girl waits till she gets her green card. Unknown to NRI, before marriage, girl had a "boyfriend" whom still she meets in secret. Girl files for divorce. Girl and boyfriend get together. NRI comes to know about her boyfriend. NRI is distraught.
I can continue with more of these real life happenings..