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    wHOM DO YOU CONSIDER BROTHER

    A person who without any reason insults you, deceive you, harm you, does not help you, does not share your sorrow/happiness, always remains ready/active to let you down, always pull your legs, always find faults in you, always work against you, can he be called/considered a brother. My view is--not at all. how about your views please
    on jatland are we behaving/working like brothers.
    Last edited by Fateh; November 13th, 2013 at 10:03 AM.

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    Absolutely No. Such person cannot be called a brother. One should stop indulging with such person ( to avoid further insult and dhokha) and must try to find a good person who doesnt do all this and can be called a brother.

    And, if one sees that everyone else seems similar and insults you like to previous one - then the problem can be with one self as well. Thus, one should look at that angle too.

    One joke to make the discussion lighter:
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    एक बार santa डॉक्टर के पास गया और बोला - " डॉक्टर साब - पूरा शरीर, जहाँ पे भी ऊंगली रखु - दुख रहा है !
    Doctor ने चेक किया और बोला - santa जी, चोट तो आपकी ऊंगली में लगी है, जिस से दबा दबा कर बाकी अंगो का दर्द नाप रहे हो!
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    PS: Reply is purely based on the question, with no bad intentions and I have tried to be as brotherly as I can.


    Quote Originally Posted by Fateh View Post
    A person who without any reason insults you, deceive you, harm you, does not help you, does not share your sorrow/happiness, always remains ready/active to let you down, always pull your legs, always find faults in you, always work against you, can he be called/considered a brother. My view is--not at all. how about your views please
    on jatland are we behaving/working like brothers.
    Last edited by anilsangwan; November 13th, 2013 at 01:06 PM.

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    जहां २ बासन होंगे खडका तो होगा ही, कल को आपका भाई आप के खिलाफ हो जाये तो आप उसे भाई कहना बंद तो नहीं कर देंगे?

    सभी भाई ही है, एक दूसरे के मतभेदों को साथ ले कर चलना ही तो भाईचारा है वरना भेड़ो कि तरह एक झुण्ड मैं चल के किसे क्या मिलेगा?

    वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम्
    सच्चे शब्दों में सच के अहसास लिखेंगे ...
    वक्त पढे जिसको कुछ इतना खास लिखेंगे...
    गीत गजल हम पर लिखेंगे लिखने वाले...
    हमने कलम उठाइ, तो इतिहास लिखेंगे...!!

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    Such behavior may be due to some misunderstanding by such person or the other one, would better to sort out if so amicably and keep suitable distance from such person, and try to avoid if possible. below proverb shall be suitable in such relationship-

    "ना काहु से दोस्ती, न काहू से बैर".

    Having enmity with such person is also dangerous .
    Last edited by sanjaymalik; November 13th, 2013 at 01:01 PM.

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    brothers.............




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    'Baasan' is also a type of 'kaasan' / 'bartan'. Isnt it?

    Quote Originally Posted by neetusheoran View Post
    Baasan ya kaasan?

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    I know. but khudka baasan se nahi, kaasan se hota he.

    Quote Originally Posted by anilsangwan View Post
    'Baasan' is also a type of 'kaasan' / 'bartan'. Isnt it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fateh View Post
    A person who without any reason insults you, deceive you, harm you, does not help you, does not share your sorrow/happiness, always remains ready/active to let you down, always pull your legs, always find faults in you, always work against you, can he be called/considered a brother. My view is--not at all. how about your views please
    on jatland are we behaving/working like brothers.
    If few people behave that way, then problem might be with them, but if all behave likewise than problem may with the person.
    Cheers!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by neetusheoran View Post
    Baasan ya kaasan?
    good find
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    -- When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.

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    UP main kadde suna nahi Kaasan word, what does it mean?
    Quote Originally Posted by neetusheoran View Post
    I know. but khudka baasan se nahi, kaasan se hota he.
    सच्चे शब्दों में सच के अहसास लिखेंगे ...
    वक्त पढे जिसको कुछ इतना खास लिखेंगे...
    गीत गजल हम पर लिखेंगे लिखने वाले...
    हमने कलम उठाइ, तो इतिहास लिखेंगे...!!

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    Kaasan -> Metallic pot

    Baasan -> Earthen pot


    Quote Originally Posted by desijat View Post
    UP main kadde suna nahi Kaasan word, what does it mean?

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    Quote Originally Posted by deshi-jat View Post
    Kaasan -> Metallic pot

    Baasan -> Earthen pot
    arey! lets explain it more easily: Baasan - ghada/matka, Kaasan - bartan/bhande.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fateh View Post
    A person who without any reason insults you, deceive you, harm you, does not help you, does not share your sorrow/happiness, always remains ready/active to let you down, always pull your legs, always find faults in you, always work against you, can he be called/considered a brother. My view is--not at all. how about your views please
    on jatland are we behaving/working like brothers.

    आदरणीय कर्नल साहेब

    आपकी कुछ ही लाइनो में छुपे दर्द और व्यथा को पढ़ मन आत्मग्लानि से भर गया !
    इसके लिए में कुछ हद तक अपने आप को भी दोषी मानता हूँ! मैंने अपने और आपके उत्तर और प्रतिउत्तर को कई बार पढ़ा और इस निष्कर्ष पर पहुंचा कि मैंने जाने अनजाने में शालीनता कि शीमा पार कर आपका मन दुखाया ! अत: मुझे अपने लिखे पर खेद है! जिसके लिए आपसे अनुरोध और अपेक्षा करता हूँ कि आप मुझे क्षमा करदेंगे !

    सादर

    सत्यपाल

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    Quote Originally Posted by spdeshwal View Post
    आदरणीय कर्नल साहेब

    आपकी कुछ ही लाइनो में छुपे दर्द और व्यथा को पढ़ मन आत्मग्लानि से भर गया !
    इसके लिए में कुछ हद तक अपने आप को भी दोषी मानता हूँ! मैंने अपने और आपके उत्तर और प्रतिउत्तर को कई बार पढ़ा और इस निष्कर्ष पर पहुंचा कि मैंने जाने अनजाने में शालीनता कि शीमा पार कर आपका मन दुखाया ! अत: मुझे अपने लिखे पर खेद है! जिसके लिए आपसे अनुरोध और अपेक्षा करता हूँ कि आप मुझे क्षमा करदेंगे !

    सादर

    सत्यपाल
    Really great, heart touching confession !

    One must have guts to write such post as Deshwalji has done !
    History is best when created, better when re-constructed and worst when invented.

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    [QUOTE=DrRajpalSingh;352539]Really great, heart touching confession !

    One must have guts to write such post as Deshwalji has done ![/Q
    Dr. Rajpal ji

    We all make mistakes of but our larger than life ego doesn't allow us to realize and accept our mistakes!
    I am no saint and do behave in his fashion all the times! This time it was different! " Hamne apne ek bujurg ke dil ko is kadar thes pahunchai ki uneh vo sabh likhna pada!
    Otherwise Mein koi kam dheeth aadmi nahi hun! Jiska udhahran aap mere paanch saal purani ek sachchi ghatna jo maine is thread par post ki thi se jan payenge!

    http://www.jatland.com/forums/showth...-like-an-idiot!!


    This time again I felt like an idiot! I have posted this link because that also had some very interesting incidents!

    Cheers!

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