" You might take it wrong"
My bad I took it wrong......I was only citing live examples way you have done .
" Ager ap shaadi m 10 lakh karch karna chatey ho kyun na wo direct ladki ke account m dalwa do"
Sorry again......citing example .....ladkiyan bhi aisee milegi " mere paise hai meri shadi hai meri marzi , mujhe toh karni hai dhol bajakar shadi , designed lehenga , classy jewellery n blah blah blah blah .
Trust if I would have Xillions I would also like to have fairy tale wedding at some historic palace or at Moon may be .
I m putting in simple words - make ur daughters /sisters/ female frnds / gal frnds / spouse Financially Independent , then they would not need your Bank Fixed Deposits or any thing . Rather in time of need they would help you with their Savings like families do - they help in time of need .
Now I would like to rest my case ........I live by my own terms ......let others do same .