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  1. #41
    " You might take it wrong"

    My bad I took it wrong......I was only citing live examples way you have done .

    "
    Ager ap shaadi m 10 lakh karch karna chatey ho kyun na wo direct ladki ke account m dalwa do"

    Sorry again......citing example .....ladkiyan bhi aisee milegi " mere paise hai meri shadi hai meri marzi , mujhe toh karni hai dhol bajakar shadi , designed lehenga , classy jewellery n blah blah blah blah .

    Trust if I would have Xillions I would also like to have fairy tale wedding at some historic palace or at Moon may be .

    I m putting in simple words - make ur daughters /sisters/ female frnds / gal frnds / spouse Financially Independent , then they would not need your Bank Fixed Deposits or any thing . Rather in time of need they would help you with their Savings like families do - they help in time of need .

    Now I would like to rest my case ........I live by my own terms ......let others do same .



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  3. #42
    Quote Originally Posted by rekhasmriti View Post
    " You might take it wrong"

    My bad I took it wrong......I was only citing live examples way you have done .

    "
    Ager ap shaadi m 10 lakh karch karna chatey ho kyun na wo direct ladki ke account m dalwa do"

    Sorry again......citing example .....ladkiyan bhi aisee milegi " mere paise hai meri shadi hai meri marzi , mujhe toh karni hai dhol bajakar shadi , designed lehenga , classy jewellery n blah blah blah blah .

    Trust if I would have Xillions I would also like to have fairy tale wedding at some historic palace or at Moon may be .

    I m putting in simple words - make ur daughters /sisters/ female frnds / gal frnds / spouse Financially Independent , then they would not need your Bank Fixed Deposits or any thing . Rather in time of need they would help you with their Savings like families do - they help in time of need .

    Now I would like to rest my case ........I live by my own terms ......let others do same .


    Just a query...

    How can one make one's 'gal frnds' financially Independent?
    Could a 'gal frnd' also help baayfriend?

    Girls khud se to financially independent kyun nahi hoti, sara thekka maa, babbu, bhaai, boyfriend, bateeu ne hi thaa rakhya se ke.. sari salary fook deti hai....Gharwale inte kuch kehte nahi...akk kimme apne byah khattar bhi bacha ke raakh..bure waqt khattar raakh.

    Jabki chore ne sab kime soch ke chalna pade se...wo na fook sakta tankha... gharke hisab kitab lette reh se, tem tu tem... akk kitne kharch kiye kitne bachaye.....ghara pisse bhej.....tere byah me bhi laaane se..

    chhora ho to aglaa education loan le ke padhe se...
    arr chhori manne aaj tak nahi dekhi arr suni.... jo khud apne paanv pe khada honn ki keh.. ak me aap te education loan le ke padhungi... arr aap te taarungi...salary me te pisse bachaa ke EMI bharungi...gharke nyu soche se kimme na aagli 2-3 saal kuma uda legi...ap ke pisse... fer te byahni thyaani e se.. aagla kisa pave..

    naukari laggya pachche.....jamma toodi si khinda dein se...odd bade bade mobel le le sein...apni 2-3 mahine ki salary ke barabbar.. jo inke haath me na aamte...har 6 mhinne me to mubael badle sein....:-p
    Last edited by ssgoyat; April 17th, 2015 at 12:35 PM.
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  5. #43
    सबके उपर ये बातें लागु नहीं होती.सँस्कारो का भी फर्क होता है आप अपने लेख में यह क्यों नही लिखते कि मैं दहेज नहीं लुगाँ व अपने माता-पिता को भी राजी करुँगा कि दहेज न लें और न दें..
    It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool,
    Than to talk and remove all doubt of it .

    For success, attitude is equally as important as ability .

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  7. #44
    Quote Originally Posted by rakeshdhaka View Post
    सबके उपर ये बातें लागु नहीं होती.सँस्कारो का भी फर्क होता है आप अपने लेख में यह क्यों नही लिखते कि मैं दहेज नहीं लुगाँ व अपने माता-पिता को भी राजी करुँगा कि दहेज न लें और न दें..
    If you're talking about me..

    Kirpya meri pehli hi post padhein..

    uske baad, apke jawab ka me bhi kafi dino se intejaar kar raha hu..

    FYKI: Sanskaar sab par barabar lagu hote hain... chahe wo ladka ho, ya ladki...ya dono ke gharwale..
    kisi ek ne hi thekka nahi thaa rakhya...har cheez ka..

    agar dahej lene wala gunehgaar hai, to dene wala bhi....
    dene wala bhi apne lobh me hi deta hai, ki takdi parti fans gayi... apni bhundi, adi tedhi, nati, moti.. hi chhori ne dhakaan ne..
    arr lene wala bhi lobh dikhata hai...ki chhora IAS, Sarkari naukari ityadi wala hai, itne pisse de ke lagwaya hai.... lena to banta hai...
    aur na dekhar bhi besharam ban ne wale ki to baat hi kya hai....

    Try finding 'Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj' on facebook and follow her posts, write-ups, youtubes etc.

    Internet is flooded with crook examples..
    If someone has to kill you, he has to beat you first.

  8. #45

    दहेज रहित शादियों पर आपके विचार

    भाई य़ा बात खुद आपणे उपर मत ले जावै..दुसरा, उदाहरण खुद बणना सै किसी दुसरे के उदाहरण क्युँ देखणा या पढणा सै अर जब बात पार्टी फसण-फसावण कि आजा सै तो भाई दहेज का अर ब्याह-सगाई तोडण-छोडण कि पहली निशानी आडे तैंहे सरु हो जा सै,भाई बराबर का या तो बहुत 19-21 कुणबा,छौरा या छौरी,पढाई,नौकरी टोहवै, क्याँ खातर मौटी पार्टी नै फसवै,अर पहलै झटकै बता दे ..कि भाई एक रप्पये का वाणा करुँगा या लुगाँ ..हवाई-झाझ अर रेल लेणी या देणी सै तो दुसरा बारणा देख लिए...भाई पाँच ब्याह तो म्हारे भाई-बाहणा के अर तीन म्हारे बड्डाँ के अर भाई बड्डे भाई नैं भी दोनो बालक ब्याह दिए वै भी चारों बडिया नौकरी करैं सैं कोई आई.आई.टी-आई.आई.एम तैं पास सै कोए सी.ए...कोए फौज मै अफसर सै अर कती बिना लेण देण अर भाई कोए किसी टाईप का मामला नहीं, भगवान कि दया तैं सारे सुखी सैं



    Quote Originally Posted by ssgoyat View Post
    If you're talking about me..

    Kirpya meri pehli hi post padhein..

    uske baad, apke jawab ka me bhi kafi dino se intejaar kar raha hu..

    FYKI: Sanskaar sab par barabar lagu hote hain... chahe wo ladka ho, ya ladki...ya dono ke gharwale..
    kisi ek ne hi thekka nahi thaa rakhya...har cheez ka..

    agar dahej lene wala gunehgaar hai, to dene wala bhi....
    dene wala bhi apne lobh me hi deta hai, ki takdi parti fans gayi... apni bhundi, adi tedhi, nati, moti.. hi chhori ne dhakaan ne..
    arr lene wala bhi lobh dikhata hai...ki chhora IAS, Sarkari naukari ityadi wala hai, itne pisse de ke lagwaya hai.... lena to banta hai...
    aur na dekhar bhi besharam ban ne wale ki to baat hi kya hai....

    Try finding 'Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj' on facebook and follow her posts, write-ups, youtubes etc.

    Internet is flooded with crook examples..
    It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool,
    Than to talk and remove all doubt of it .

    For success, attitude is equally as important as ability .

  9. #46
    Quote Originally Posted by rakeshdhaka View Post
    भाई य़ा बात खुद आपणे उपर मत ले जावै..दुसरा, उदाहरण खुद बणना सै किसी दुसरे के उदाहरण क्युँ देखणा या पढणा सै अर जब बात पार्टी फसण-फसावण कि आजा सै तो भाई दहेज का अर ब्याह-सगाई तोडण-छोडण कि पहली निशानी आडे तैंहे सरु हो जा सै,भाई बराबर का या तो बहुत 19-21 कुणबा,छौरा या छौरी,पढाई,नौकरी टोहवै, क्याँ खातर मौटी पार्टी नै फसवै,अर पहलै झटकै बता दे ..कि भाई एक रप्पये का वाणा करुँगा या लुगाँ ..हवाई-झाझ अर रेल लेणी या देणी सै तो दुसरा बारणा देख लिए...भाई पाँच ब्याह तो म्हारे भाई-बाहणा के अर तीन म्हारे बड्डाँ के अर भाई बड्डे भाई नैं भी दोनो बालक ब्याह दिए वै भी चारों बडिया नौकरी करैं सैं कोई आई.आई.टी-आई.आई.एम तैं पास सै कोए सी.ए...कोए फौज मै अफसर सै अर कती बिना लेण देण अर भाई कोए किसी टाईप का मामला नहीं, भगवान कि दया तैं सारे सुखी सैं
    19-21 ale tem na reh re bhai...jattan ki jameen bant bant ke barabbar aa li...koe ginti ke e kille aale reh re se..
    baaki aajkaal padhai likhai ne e dekkhe se..arr naukari ne..

    19-21 dekhhan alyaan ki chhori 31-32 tapp le sein....fer hisab kitab me ghaat baadh karni pad e jaya kare..maskode mar ke ne..madi hi naad tale ne bhi kar jani pad jaya karei...sari haan uppar rakkhan te bhi kimme na milta...
    If someone has to kill you, he has to beat you first.

  10. #47
    Quote Originally Posted by ssgoyat View Post
    19-21 ale tem na reh re bhai...jattan ki jameen bant bant ke barabbar aa li...koe ginti ke e kille aale reh re se..
    baaki aajkaal padhai likhai ne e dekkhe se..arr naukari ne..

    19-21 dekhhan alyaan ki chhori 31-32 tapp le sein....fer hisab kitab me ghaat baadh karni pad e jaya kare..maskode mar ke ne..madi hi naad tale ne bhi kar jani pad jaya karei...sari haan uppar rakkhan te bhi kimme na milta...
    मन्नै दोनुवा खातर लिख्या सै चाहे छोरा ब्याहो चाहे छोरी..पर भाई लागै सै कि करडी डिमान्ड कर रहया सै दहेज कि...एकली छोरियाँ के बारे मैं भी..एक तो छोरी कम सैं..दुसरा पढाई छोराँ तै ज्यादा करैं सैं...माँगणया के छोरे पार करैं सैं 31-32 अर फेर झोली फैलावैं सैं...मेरे बड्डे भाई नै जिम्मेदारी मेरे तांई दी थी क्योंकि वो फौज मैं कर्नल सै अर मन्नै जाट लैंड मैटरीमोनियल कै उपर कई प्रोफाईल देखी थी जडै मेल सा होता दिख्या उडै फौन भी करया जिन मैं तैं कईया कि प्रोफाईल आज भी सैं कईसालाँ तैं रिन्यु करण लागरे सैं क्योंकि एक रुपय्ये का वाणा सुणकैं दुबारा फोन नही आवै था तो समझ मैं बात आजा थी कि ये परजीवी जन्तु सैं.. हाँ पर उन्है मैतैं एक प्रोफाईल पसन्द आई छोरा एन.आई.टी तैं बी.टैक अर आई.आई.एम. तैं एम.बी.ए था 15 किल्ले नैहरी जमीन अर 27 लाख का पैकेज... म्हारै छोरी रेलवे मैं थी ब्याह कर दिया बालक भी हो लिये ठाठ तैं रह रहे सैं
    It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool,
    Than to talk and remove all doubt of it .

    For success, attitude is equally as important as ability .

  11. #48
    Quote Originally Posted by rakeshdhaka View Post
    मन्नै दोनुवा खातर लिख्या सै चाहे छोरा ब्याहो चाहे छोरी..पर भाई लागै सै कि करडी डिमान्ड कर रहया सै दहेज कि...एकली छोरियाँ के बारे मैं भी..एक तो छोरी कम सैं..दुसरा पढाई छोराँ तै ज्यादा करैं सैं...माँगणया के छोरे पार करैं सैं 31-32 अर फेर झोली फैलावैं सैं...मेरे बड्डे भाई नै जिम्मेदारी मेरे तांई दी थी क्योंकि वो फौज मैं कर्नल सै अर मन्नै जाट लैंड मैटरीमोनियल कै उपर कई प्रोफाईल देखी थी जडै मेल सा होता दिख्या उडै फौन भी करया जिन मैं तैं कईया कि प्रोफाईल आज भी सैं कईसालाँ तैं रिन्यु करण लागरे सैं क्योंकि एक रुपय्ये का वाणा सुणकैं दुबारा फोन नही आवै था तो समझ मैं बात आजा थी कि ये परजीवी जन्तु सैं.. हाँ पर उन्है मैतैं एक प्रोफाईल पसन्द आई छोरा एन.आई.टी तैं बी.टैक अर आई.आई.एम. तैं एम.बी.ए था 15 किल्ले नैहरी जमीन अर 27 लाख का पैकेज... म्हारै छोरी रेलवे मैं थी ब्याह कर दिया बालक भी हो लिये ठाठ तैं रह रहे सैं
    ye achchi faddu faltu insano wali baat kahi apne mere liye..

    bera na bara mera... unn e...

    balya re tu kaun.... me khaamkha..

    Dekya lobh kar gaye na....15 kille nehri, ar 27L ka package..

    eeb to badaai maaro e ge..

    Nyu to se naa.. akk 27L/15 kille te kaam ale bhi na paaye honge.. hath rapiya lenn ale..

    aaapne lobh ne ke koye mannya kare...
    Last edited by ssgoyat; April 19th, 2015 at 07:05 PM.
    If someone has to kill you, he has to beat you first.

  12. #49
    Quote Originally Posted by ssgoyat View Post
    ye achchi faddu faltu insano wali baat kahi apne mere liye..

    bera na bara mera... unn e...

    balya re tu kaun.... me khaamkha..

    Dekya lobh kar gaye na....15 kille nehri, ar 27L ka package..

    eeb to badaai maaro e ge..

    Nyu to se naa.. akk 27L/15 kille te kaam ale bhi na paaye honge.. hath rapiya lenn ale..

    aaapne lobh ne ke koye mannya kare...
    भाई फालतु-फद्दु जिसी भाषा भी सँस्कार बतावैं सैं मसला दहेज सम्बन्धी है किसी इन्सान का नही...जो लडकी व उसके माता-पिता,लडका व उसके माता-पिता न्यु कहंगे कि एक रप्पये का वाणा उडैये ब्याहे सैं अर उडैये ब्याहणे सैं अपणा हिसाब कति पाधरा सै..लोभ लेण-देण का ना करा बालक पढाए सैं तो बराबर कि जोडी तो चाहिए, अनपढ होतो वैसी ही जोडी होगी इब छोरी सि.ए,सि.एस,एम.बी.ए करकैं 150000 रप्पये महीने कि तनखा लेती होतो पाली कै कौण ब्याहवैगा,जो दहेज मैं देणा हो वो पढाई पै लगावो,दहेज का लेण-देण बन्द करण कि बात सै आर्थिक आजादी देण कि बात सै...
    It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool,
    Than to talk and remove all doubt of it .

    For success, attitude is equally as important as ability .

  13. #50
    Quote Originally Posted by rakeshdhaka View Post
    भाई फालतु-फद्दु जिसी भाषा भी सँस्कार बतावैं सैं मसला दहेज सम्बन्धी है किसी इन्सान का नही...जो लडकी व उसके माता-पिता,लडका व उसके माता-पिता न्यु कहंगे कि एक रप्पये का वाणा उडैये ब्याहे सैं अर उडैये ब्याहणे सैं अपणा हिसाब कति पाधरा सै..लोभ लेण-देण का ना करा बालक पढाए सैं तो बराबर कि जोडी तो चाहिए, अनपढ होतो वैसी ही जोडी होगी इब छोरी सि.ए,सि.एस,एम.बी.ए करकैं 150000 रप्पये महीने कि तनखा लेती होतो पाली कै कौण ब्याहवैगा,जो दहेज मैं देणा हो वो पढाई पै लगावो,दहेज का लेण-देण बन्द करण कि बात सै आर्थिक आजादी देण कि बात सै...
    dusasro ke liye, bina matlab, bina jane pehchane, bina soche, bina samjhe, bina matlab ke.......faddu ghatia baat kehaniye ke sanskaar arr??

    kot pent arr tie pehar ke.. andar ka insaan thode hi badalta hai...
    If someone has to kill you, he has to beat you first.

  14. #51
    Quote Originally Posted by ssgoyat View Post
    dusasro ke liye, bina matlab, bina jane pehchane, bina soche, bina samjhe, bina matlab ke.......faddu ghatia baat kehaniye ke sanskaar arr??

    kot pent arr tie pehar ke.. andar ka insaan thode hi badalta hai...
    Mr Goyat,
    You should check my profile on facebook and Linkedin on below link than use this type of language:-




    Last edited by rakeshdhaka; April 22nd, 2015 at 09:55 PM. Reason: adding something more
    It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool,
    Than to talk and remove all doubt of it .

    For success, attitude is equally as important as ability .

  15. #52
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    I have a fine sense of the ridiculous, but no sense of humor.

  16. #53
    Quote Originally Posted by rakeshdhaka View Post
    Mr Goyat,
    You should check my profile on facebook and Linkedin on below link than use this type of language:-




    Question asked was: Where were your sanskar, to make such an idiotic, lunatic, foolish remark on somebody? Being judgmental, without knowing nothing around it or about the person.

    And yet you replied with a link to your linkedin profile, and facebook settings page. Sill continuing to beat your own drum.

    Here is where you continue your further drum beating... (and not here pls )

    http://www.jatland.com/forums/showth...l=1#post254546

    I stumbled on your above thread also. Seems you tryst with Computer begin in 2010. And you exploited (ripped apart) google to its fullest, during your initial days.
    All that poor google has to search for word 'dhaka' (and not necessarily Dhaka gotra) has been copy pasted by you there. Without any iota of your own inner conscience.

    All the very best for your logics in proving North Dakota, US was once a 'Great Dhaka' kingdom..

    One tip: Don't get high....on your own supply.
    If someone has to kill you, he has to beat you first.

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  18. #54
    Not giving and not taking dowry requires a very confident character. Can't say about others but this is what I did when I got married;

    1. My total expenditure on my wedding was Rs. 2500.00 ( in 1978).
    2. I demanded nothing and gave nothing. Not even a single jewelry.
    3. Only six baraties went in my wedding.
    4. No exotic honeymoon destinations. Honeymoon was like what our elders did...LOL
    5. No reception, no invitation cards.

    My wife was a gynecologist and belonged to the well known family of Haryana. I cared least what others thought. I had a very successful married life and have no regrets what so ever that I wedded that way. My brief advice would be that do what you feel and don't care what others think or prescribe. Its your wedding and not of others. Don't get crushed under the financial burden of a wedding. I know of weddings where 1000s attended reception and marriage did not last even a year. Be the boss in your marriage and don't let others to hijack it. Try to make it a unique experience. Try new unique experiment. Don't fall to the routine rut.

    RK^2
    There are many paths leading to God, politics is certainly not one of them...

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  20. #55
    "You are an idiot and I added you in ignored list."

    Dear Members,
    It does not look nice to interfere in conversation of two learned members; particularly when both are talented and respectful. It hurts the readers to read your unwarranted posts. Kindly try to understand the view point of each other, if unable to do so then both of you should ignore each other and quit the abusive challenges. I hope you shall understand the feelings of JL participants honor my request to avoid every reason of conflict

    Thanks
    Last edited by RKhatkar; April 23rd, 2015 at 08:08 PM.

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  22. #56
    Dear Goyat

    I know you are not only a good boy; but extremely good. kindly maintain it

    Thanks
    Last edited by RKhatkar; April 23rd, 2015 at 09:26 PM.

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