First of all pardon me if anybody from the Samaj does not like it , but yet I have seen in lot of ads that members tell more about their family members than the boy or the girl about whom the add is placed.In many posters we see that a lot is told about the married daughters of the family or about Bua or Fufas and about Chachas and Taus and there sons and Daughters. I think this has nothing to do with boys or girls. Many members tell about others than the girl or the boy.Adds should tell more about the girl/boy , and about the parants and the grand parants and a few should be told about Chachas and taus, and the informations about Buas Fufas or about Jijas ,Salas, should be avoided, becoz it looks funny, Kori Badai type things.there is no use that girls/boys fufa was a Major in army or boys Tau is a Tehsildar or the Elder sister is married to a NRI. These things has nothing to do in the matter, the main concern should be on Education,age, carear and the properties held by mother father, brothers and profession of brothers or unmarried sisters. There is no need to tell about cousins, Jijas,salas,Buas,Fufas or about the family of married daughters in depth. I think some members of the Samaj would like this and off course lot of the will deny and critcise me .... but ...I welcome both and whould like that JAT SAMAJ should explain it and give their valuable advices on the matter.