it's in context to a thread fathered by BLS
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showth...811#post145811
d moot concern abut soaring 'same gotra marriage' is a timely issue mindful of all latest heinous diktats floated by panchayats in haryana...
d phenomenon is on rise since mor n mor youngsters r defying dis system of gotra matching. it mayb social conditioning tht i hav been accepting it a holy creed. on personal front, i believe there is no harm if leave mum n dad's gotras...since we r mor related 2 dese two's kiths n kins...dadi's of course is outdated...bt thn dadi's cn b since tht's 2 distant...bt if dadi's cn b defied y nt mum n dad's. bt i personnaly think tht marriage in same gotra will adulterate d sanctity of bro-sis n other realtions...i alwaz amazed at mohomaddans tht hw cud they call a fellow hubby whom they hav been calling bhaijaan... wat abut tht 'feel'. i dnt feel any vibes if i m sitting wid my bro, i dnt evn realise tht we r boy n girl...i mean tht differnce of gender dsnt crop up which is very holy n sanctitious. hw cn u feel tht sensual thing abut a guy whm u hav been considering bhai...i just cnt understand n in our territories we hav been calling all guys of same gotra bhai or sum other kin...
nw wat torments me is i personally cnt accept dis culture...bt thn being a democratic citizen, i just want 2 brain strom on dis timely issue wid all of u...wats ur views on same gotra marriage.
(PS: thou i dnt accept it a gud culture. bt yt i dnt mind if others do it. it's ok if a neighbor does so as long as it dosnt happen in my family. i m partially (nt in my family) against it).